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I am being so mean!

Hello
I have been very suspicious and mistrusting of my partner lately.

I also have problems with water retention and post nasal drip/ sinus congestion, cough, runny nose very often.

I am in general very unhappy lately and I am hoping I can find a homeopathic remedy to help improve my situation.

Thank you!
[Edited by pclin on 2019-08-23 21:39:49]
 
  pclin on 2019-05-13
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Dear Pclin
Are you married? Where do you live? Are you working?
Please elucidate I know he is lying but being irrational why (what triggers you to do so) when (do you start off moment you wake up or/else which time and activity of the day)
What sort of cruel things you say
Do you regret in solitude or say sorry to him?
Since when are you having these feelings and behaviour?
What medicines are you taking for water retention and nose sinus and cough? since when are you suffering from these ailments?
If you are not married hope you are not Done with this guy ? Sorry it’s too direct and personal, please do not get offended.
 
Kapsdquack 6 months ago
Removed some personal info
[Edited by pclin on 2019-08-23 21:39:17]
 
pclin 5 months ago
It takes courage to write whatever You have written and your symptoms are definitely curable.
You seem to be extremely possessive and at the same time equally doubtful about your partner that too being sure that he is not involved physically with any other woman?

One incident has shaken you badly I m sure he also must have been shaken equally and must be regretting the same, you have to forgive him completely, since there are three children now, it is not worth crying over spilled milk.
Try to FORGIVE him

Lies

If you are sure that the lies are insignificant why ask or inquire about those things?
To be contd...

Please pardon me
 
Kapsdquack 5 months ago
Thank you so much,

I will wait for the rest of your reply.
[Edited by pclin on 2019-08-23 21:40:22]
 
pclin 5 months ago
I ll reply your last post first , about re establishing trust you have to grant him trust and not re establish trust.
I m sure you have forgiven him for the act but you must be telling him about the incident every time you get irritated or annoyed or wanting to win an argument. This must be playing on your mind too, being a very unhappy memory
Past cannot be undone please do let it go if you have forgiven him, let it (the forgiveness) be whole hearted.
I m busy and will reply tomorrow so please bear with me for a day.
You didn’t tell me where do you live for time zones
 
Kapsdquack 5 months ago
Talking to other women
It’s your possessiveness ans jealousy also I m sure you must be starting early morning and he must be leaving for work in a foul mood, I m sure you must not be letting him talk when in arguments,so, whatever he has to talk to you he must sharing it outside ask yourself who is responsible for this.
There is a genuine need to interact with other sex professionally so take it easy on this issue.
Both of you have to play the role in marriage you making that house into home and he providing the resources for the same, it not easy to do a job there are pressures and then there are problems at home the man has to suffer both I agree it is his mistake but what is the ultimate punishment you want to render and re establish trust if the trust is only the problem.
Also learn to forgive yourself too.
Nobody owes you anything it’s a social fabric either you are part of it or not.
Start calling your mom and dad and brothers and sisters it will definitely help my prescriptions too.
 
Kapsdquack 5 months ago

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