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Dr Maheeru please help, Urgent

Hello doctor,
Could you please help me urgently ?
I am too much tensed and overwhelmed with so many responsibilities all of a sudden. My husband is in the hospital for 10 days now. He had a stroke and is paralyzed right hand and right leg. I was already going through so much and this incident is making me too much stressed out. I am feeling handicapped, lonely, and too much worried. I am not worried about my husband but I am worried about my own health, about my daughter. I am feeling like, my husband is an additional burden for me now. He has never given me any happiness in life when he could use his hands and legs, now he has become more dependent on me. Which is making my life more miserable.

I am too much tensed. I have a huge head congestion, headache. And I am kind of lost too. I can’t decide what to do, what not to. I am so much irritated and furious. I am yelling at almost everybody. I hate to go to the hospital every day every night. I am not able to go my work because nobody is there to take care of him. This has happened all because of his fault. He is very careless and drinks alcohol often which is very harmful for him. He has a history of high blood pressure and high blood sugar. Still he didn’t take any precautions, never took medications for those conditions. And now he is in bed and giving me trouble. I need some financial help at this moment butnone of my inlaws are ready to help me out as they don’t trust my husband that he would ever return their money.

Please help me getting rid of this stress and depression.
I took 3 doses of Calc Carb 200 few days ago. Which helped me just 20%. And then I have been taking Kali Phos 6X every 2-3 hours. Kali phos is helping me about 30%. Please suggest if I am doing correct. Please suggest any remedies
  depression1 on 2019-06-12
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I do not think I can help with this right away. Due to the schedule, I'm not taking new cases for a few days but will continue to advise on other aspects.

On the other thread addressed to Anuj, you were taking Ignatia, now you are taking calc carb and K phos. If you are taking them under any advice you can continue else try to get professional advice because during such desperate times, one can go wrong with self medication. Or see if anuj can help you!
maheeru 2 months ago
Dr Anuj is not responding at all. It was a long time ago, I was taking Ignatia. I was taking Ignatia for the grief of my uncle’s death. I was okay after I took some doses of Ignatia. ( I never knew I had a prescription from you for more of Ignatia dosage until I logged in back to my post two days ago, I logged in late because nobody had responded to my very first post immediately and I needed help immediately) So I took Ignatia on my own.
When My husband got admitted about 10 days ago. Since nobody responded to my post immediately, I thought of taking some remedies by my own and I did not check the post for long time. so I took Calc Carb 200 by my own but that didn’t help me much. So I took Kali Phos 6x after that and I am still taking Kali Phos 6x by my own every 4 hours as written on the bottle. I wanted to know if I am taking the correct remedy. Kali Phos 6X is still not helping me much. If you could advise me anything in this situation, I would appreciate it.
My head is congested and burning. I am so much irritated. I feel overwhelmed even with a small thing.

Please suggest
depression1 2 months ago
You probably should have used Ignatia here as well. Try Nat. Mur 30 or 200 and see.

If N. Mur does not work, do not go on taking medicine on own. Calc. seems to be a so-so choice and some symptoms could be from the medicine. Try to get professional advice.
maheeru 2 months ago
Thank you Dr Maheeru,
I will take Nat Mur 200 c. I usually take 3 pills each day for 3 days. I hope that is a correct dosing I am doing. ( my former homeopaths used to give me such dosing pattern)

About taking professional help, I am not financially stable for that and the homeopaths here charges a lot. I don’t believe in conventional medicines for mental conditions. I have been benefited by homeopathy earlier as well. It’s just that I have nobody to guide me this time.
I would highly appreciate if I can get advice from you regarding my condition.

Thank you so much once again for the remedy suggestion.
depression1 2 months ago
Use one or two pills at a time for a dose. Don't do it 3x3 for 200c esp. for deep acting medicines. Do it either twice a week or once a week.
maheeru 2 months ago
Thank you so much for the information, Dr Maheeru. I will do the same. But for how long do I have to take the medicine, if I take it twice a week ?

Appreciate your help.
depression1 2 months ago
You can take till it works and helps without any negative effects. If you need a number, you can go upto 8 doses and review how you are doing.
maheeru 2 months ago
Hello Dr Maheeru,
Please help me.

I have had 4 doses of Nat Mur 200 so far. The first 2 doses 12-13 days ago seemed working 50-60 %.
I took another 2 doses this week and it is working only about 20-30 %. My head congestion is not going away. I still have overwhelmed feeling of responsibilities.

I feel like my mind/brain is WOUNDED.

I feel bit suffocated. I am feeling stressed out eventhough there is not much to do at the moment.
My husband is in his sister’s house for right now but I don’t want to hear anything from him or I am not asking him anything about his condition which may not sound nice but I am avoiding any kind of stressful situation or I don’t want to hear such things which give me added stress. I am keeping myself in a Shell. I avoid talking to people even my mom.
I couldn’t sleep well last night. I was thinking about how to manage my expenses.

This incident took my confidence away. Made me sick and weak.

Please help me cope this stress. I don’t want to give up on Homeopathy. I know I will be better only by homeopathy.

Thanking you.
depression1 last month
You could try one dose of Sulphur 200c.

For your husband, arnica 200 in wet dose may help for his post stroke management.

It seems a vicious cycle for you. Medicines can do only so much. Need to look ways to eliminate or minimise the maintaining cause. Also need to change the way one looks at adversities or the way one reacts to adversities once it's known that one's life is not going to be a smooth ride. Remember--- what you are going to focus on, is going to grow and grow and what you are going to ignore and neglect is going to shrink and wither away.

So try to ignore your weaknesses, your problems and focus on your strengths and your happy moments/relationships.
maheeru last month
Thank you, Dr Maheeru.

I will try my best to focus on good things as you said.

This headache and head congestion is keeping me from doing anything.

I was so brave and confident before, even I had managed everything by myself for 5 years without my husband or anybody else. This tension is an added one on my life, which pulled me down and taking all my confidence and energy. I don’t know why my mind is not under my control. It’s hard.
But I will try my best to get back on the track again. Thank you for your support and encouragement. I really needed them.

I appreciate your help.
[Edited by depression1 on 2019-06-29 17:18:22]
depression1 last month
Thank you Dr Maheeru,

As per your advice, I took a dose of Sulphur 200 yesterday morning.
I am so relieved now. I am feeling like I am about 70% okay than before. I am not suffocated anymore. My headache and head tightness have been improved by 70-80%. I am not irritated and frustrated as before. I am taking good care of my husband now. I am not thinking negative about him. I am not restless like before. I am less stressed out now.

Thank you so much for the remedy suggestion. You and homeopathy are life savers.

Should I take more doses in near future or not ? Please suggest.

I really appreciate your help.
depression1 last month
Thank God! Desirable and great response.

When a dose of a medicine works like this, there is no need to repeat soon.

After two to three weeks, if there is a NEED(it should feel like the improvement has come to stand still and still you think you need medicine to clear out the remaining problem) you can repeat one more dose.

Glad to be of help.
maheeru last month

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