Low self confidence and much moreI have been trying to find the right remedy for many years now.
Mind: feel unlovable, never good enough, nobody likes me, outsider, compare myself to others, i am always less. Never know what to say in company, feel frozen with blank mind. I crave solitude, then i feel safe. Very few friends if any. Sensitive to criticism, need a lot of approval but pretend to be aloof. In some ways i am aloof, very independent, fine on my own. Lack of motivation, looking for my passion/purpose in life. Feel like i have no talents or skills but no inclination to learn smth. Indecisiveness, overthinking.
Cravings for food, ofte ncontinue eating although full.
Body: bloating, belly fat, red cheeks (hot flushed sometimes, triggered by sunshine or alcohol or too much food or heated rooms, worse in winter). Strong hirsutism in the face. Very dry hair. Rather puffy swollen face/cheeks.
Regular and pain free periods, cycles slightly too long. Used to have no period and cysts on ovaries but resolved now.
Difficult childhood with a depressed mother and unavailable father. Quite neglected and left alone, often humiliated as a kid (by parents or bullies).
No real relationships in life, mostly sexual relationships.
Remedies tried: Nat mur, Thuja 200C (i think i developed a lipoma afterwards), Lac Hum (up to 1M as i felt some improvements there), Sepia, Pulsatilla, Chocolate (helped with intense chocolate cravings), barytum, folliculinum and probably some more.
Would love some advise. Was considering Staphysagria, Silica, Adrenocorticoides....?
wannabehealthy on 2022-07-19
Married if yes kids
How much do you dwell on the unpleasant past ?
Does eating or overrating temporarily ameliorate the symptoms ?
Any peculiar thoughts which keep on coming back
Do you have craving for sweets or sugar ?
Past is gone there is no delete or undo there the more you dwell the more miserable u ll be
Remedies only help you need to be strong willed to overcome all this
Your lifestyle sedentary or active if u are sedentary u need to be active a number of issues will go away
Post replies for advise
♡ Kaps 4 months ago
Not married, no kids
I do not dwell on the past at all. I had overcome serious depression with suicidal thoughts years ago. I detoxed, eat healthy, exercise. I worked and work on my mindset.
Still some thoughts keep coming back. Especially now that i am together with a man that i really love a lot, and he is very opposite, outgoing, social, everybody loves him, driven...i get scared he gets bored with me or wants to be with smb elsw. I also work with lots of pretty and interesting girls.
Sometimes i am fine, but sometimes the thoughts of not being good enough keep creeping in.
Also i used to have pcos with cysts etc but my heakthy lifestyle now changed everything and i only have the hirautism lef..
I dont overeat too often anymore but when i do it doesnt help. I like sweet and salty. I think some remedies alsi helped a bit in the past but none were THE one
wannabehealthy 4 months ago
It’s mutual you have to strike balance between his nature and yours and you must try that
Two people together means an adjustment has to done by both I am sure you can understand that
Try Anacardium 200 05 drops in water or 04 pills once a day half an hour before breakfast for three four
Post changes as and when those occur
♡ Kaps 4 months ago
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