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cruel and nasty husband
after ten years of marrige,iam fed up i have relaspes that make me quite ill and larthargic and spend a bit of time in bed
keeps on telling me that im lazy and that it all in head
even the the surgeon that operated me told him that i might not recover properly ,can not face reality, will not lift a finger to put the dishes in the washer or do the washing, help with the animals, even wont take his beer bottles out i think at last count there was 2 big bins full and five boxes in the sitting room , and if i ask him to move things done to the basement do it yourself, if i could i would, anybody else rings up he will be there as quick as lightening , throws things all over the floor,1 time i asked to put his washing way he threw it on they foor and said i work what do you do all day, i can spend up to six weeks at a time in bed , so you can just amagine what the place lookes like
I HAVE GIVEN UP
alangail1 on 2007-01-11
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You haven't probably threatened him with a divorce !!
On some men it can have a remarkable effect towards transformation !!
Pankaj Varma
On some men it can have a remarkable effect towards transformation !!
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
i have done everything i have left. kicked him out,
got a lawyer. Apparrantly the father did the samething to his mother
i havent been able too work full time for five months because i have broken bone in my anle joint caused by a work accident and waitng to get it sorted out and he keeps going how i should pay my way,i havent been cleared for work fulltime work i work 2 days a week, he gets drunk then it really starts
got a lawyer. Apparrantly the father did the samething to his mother
i havent been able too work full time for five months because i have broken bone in my anle joint caused by a work accident and waitng to get it sorted out and he keeps going how i should pay my way,i havent been cleared for work fulltime work i work 2 days a week, he gets drunk then it really starts
alangail1 last decade
I sympathise with you...coz I realise your situation.
A man who spends money on booze and other stuff beyond his means of income causes lot of trouble to everyone around and all relationships breakdown.
Let me first try and help you with your broken ankle. If you are fit...you can go and work more hours...have some more money and also keep away from his arguments.
Just let me know more about your ankle injury.
I know when it hurts...how it hurts ...cause I have been thru great pain in life myself too....of course for an entirely different reason....and that is why I come here and do this work of helping others...try to wipe away some pain from the lives of others.
Best wishes,
Pankaj Varma
A man who spends money on booze and other stuff beyond his means of income causes lot of trouble to everyone around and all relationships breakdown.
Let me first try and help you with your broken ankle. If you are fit...you can go and work more hours...have some more money and also keep away from his arguments.
Just let me know more about your ankle injury.
I know when it hurts...how it hurts ...cause I have been thru great pain in life myself too....of course for an entirely different reason....and that is why I come here and do this work of helping others...try to wipe away some pain from the lives of others.
Best wishes,
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
Have you ever tried Sulphur with your husband?Why don't you give him a dose of Sulphur 1M and see if his attitude improves over a few weeks?
Rajiv
Rajiv
♡ rajivprasad last decade
Your injury is just an excuse for his bad behaviour. Many MANY marriages have survived far worse setbacks than injured ankles. I would not let it become THE issue - his behaviour is the REAL issue.
So the answer lies in sorting out your marriage, not your ankle. I expect there are lots of avenues open to you for marriage counselling - family, local, professional, etc. Find someone you are comfortable with who will listen with fairness and who has enough influence to force any necessary changes.
Good luck!
So the answer lies in sorting out your marriage, not your ankle. I expect there are lots of avenues open to you for marriage counselling - family, local, professional, etc. Find someone you are comfortable with who will listen with fairness and who has enough influence to force any necessary changes.
Good luck!
ZepOz last decade
The correct homeopathic treatment can change him.
Try Sulphur as suggested by Rajiv.
You can mix it in his drink, without his knowledge.
That wll be a beginning.
Murthy
Try Sulphur as suggested by Rajiv.
You can mix it in his drink, without his knowledge.
That wll be a beginning.
Murthy
♡ gavinimurthy last decade
i have given 1m sulpher didnt work i thought he was sulphur too , he get very hot has no blankets on him love the cold only eats one meal wich is bad for him addictive personality gets board very easy with thinss and me needs a buzz like a new toy tv etc game
i have tried some of the recomended one for drink i got one left to try.
hes selfish doesnt know what marrige entails.
i have allways payed my way now im digging my toes in because of the attitude
i wish i could work more hours i am not cleared for for work. my ankle has broken bone right in the joint
when i went to have an opp on my neck he threatened to rebreak it
and a few unmentionables things
part of it the booze some of his father influence they know he has a boose problem will feed it but wont take the consqences for their actions but its also more than that resentment
he used to have lots of money his friends would spend it for him and not give him anything in return.im not like that though now doesnt wanto work for it but have me suply it all
i have tried some of the recomended one for drink i got one left to try.
hes selfish doesnt know what marrige entails.
i have allways payed my way now im digging my toes in because of the attitude
i wish i could work more hours i am not cleared for for work. my ankle has broken bone right in the joint
when i went to have an opp on my neck he threatened to rebreak it
and a few unmentionables things
part of it the booze some of his father influence they know he has a boose problem will feed it but wont take the consqences for their actions but its also more than that resentment
he used to have lots of money his friends would spend it for him and not give him anything in return.im not like that though now doesnt wanto work for it but have me suply it all
alangail1 last decade
his nature looks more like NUX VOM.
you can try NUX 1M one dose every week ( 3 weeks )if you can manage.
you can try NUX 1M one dose every week ( 3 weeks )if you can manage.
♡ rishimba last decade
So people here are suggesting drugging a adult person without their knowledge or approval? Is that correct?
ZepOz last decade
well being of the head of the family and the happiness & unity of the family are the real issues here which are all inter-related.
people here are suggesting CURE FOR THE SICK, not drugging an adult without his knowledge.
when ADULTS dont behave like adults and dont take the responsibility of the family, its not wrong to suggest harmless remedies for his good health.
people here are suggesting CURE FOR THE SICK, not drugging an adult without his knowledge.
when ADULTS dont behave like adults and dont take the responsibility of the family, its not wrong to suggest harmless remedies for his good health.
♡ rishimba last decade
i will try the nux
alangail1 last decade
Hi alangail1
Is your husband worth another ten yrs of your life, i believe in marriage and am married 18 yrs and i'm married since i was 18 and my husband is a lovely person but he was very selfish for a lot of years when i was grieving very lazy and i got to the stage i couldn't take anymore, i didn't want to be his mum i wanted to be his wife but thats what it felt like, then when he started gettin worse living a single mans life i ended up squealing at him and told him to get out and i wanted to end the marriage theres only so much you can take, well if you get help here to fix him well and good but if not, start getting out and working on yourself and do things for you and i mean it your life will change for the better and give him a list of the changes you want made and if he wont meet you half way then dump him, for better or worse only works when yes we all have some crisis in our lives but it takes two to make a marriage work.
get yourself a good friend that will share your problems for now, you need someone to talk to.
hope you need
Elaine
Is your husband worth another ten yrs of your life, i believe in marriage and am married 18 yrs and i'm married since i was 18 and my husband is a lovely person but he was very selfish for a lot of years when i was grieving very lazy and i got to the stage i couldn't take anymore, i didn't want to be his mum i wanted to be his wife but thats what it felt like, then when he started gettin worse living a single mans life i ended up squealing at him and told him to get out and i wanted to end the marriage theres only so much you can take, well if you get help here to fix him well and good but if not, start getting out and working on yourself and do things for you and i mean it your life will change for the better and give him a list of the changes you want made and if he wont meet you half way then dump him, for better or worse only works when yes we all have some crisis in our lives but it takes two to make a marriage work.
get yourself a good friend that will share your problems for now, you need someone to talk to.
hope you need
Elaine
elainesmyth68 last decade
i am going to follow dr Phills advice and try everything i posssibly can i am going to try the homeopathics as that hits the core of your being the genetics so to speak, only then i will terf him out on his ear
i am a very strong willed and stubborn person i taught my mother not be a door mat>
i read somewhere that some men will treat you like a doormat but dont act one
i have taken that advice and it works. theres something there i will get to the bottom of it
i am a very strong willed and stubborn person i taught my mother not be a door mat>
i read somewhere that some men will treat you like a doormat but dont act one
i have taken that advice and it works. theres something there i will get to the bottom of it
alangail1 last decade
Are you trying to solve the problem ....or .....are you part of the problem ???
Stubbournness doesn't get you too far in life !!
Pankaj Varma
Stubbournness doesn't get you too far in life !!
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
what i mean when i say im stubborn i dont give easily up i sort it out and do something about it might take awhile but it gets done one way or another,
are you supposed to give up when it get a bit tough.
if i wrong i say im wrong and say im sorry
are you supposed to give up when it get a bit tough.
if i wrong i say im wrong and say im sorry
alangail1 last decade
I don't know if you will be able to apprecaite this (but this is the essence):
Love ..not just for the good qualities of the mate....love him inspite of his weaknesses....
......that way you are initiating an internal change process in him.
Best wishes,
Pankaj Varma
Love ..not just for the good qualities of the mate....love him inspite of his weaknesses....
......that way you are initiating an internal change process in him.
Best wishes,
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
ok when my husband is not drinking he is not abusive and most of time he pretty good but not that helpfull
and he gets treated really good but when he is really abusive i ask him not to talk to he will go on for hours railling threatening
then he will get worse then go out especially when i have to work i just roll over and go to sleep it doesent matter what i do
what you dont know is that i have had life line traing and i know how to deal with it
i just need help with a remedy for him so will calm him down and make the right choices for himself
and he gets treated really good but when he is really abusive i ask him not to talk to he will go on for hours railling threatening
then he will get worse then go out especially when i have to work i just roll over and go to sleep it doesent matter what i do
what you dont know is that i have had life line traing and i know how to deal with it
i just need help with a remedy for him so will calm him down and make the right choices for himself
alangail1 last decade
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