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Hate being shy!
I am 23 year old male. And I have social anxiety disorder. I rarely go out. I worry about what people think of me & that I will look like a fool etc...I am soft-spoken and quiet. I want to be more outgoing but there is something inside stopping me. I try to avoid people. Basically I have all the symptoms associated with shyness.tonyromo on 2007-05-19
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I have same problem. I can't make friends I don't invite people to my house. So feel left out. I know how it feels. i talk too little and basically don't know what to talk about. I feel jealous for people who talk much and makes friends easily. I am also looking for some medicine . If something works out for you please let me know.
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anon99 last decade
Patient ID: Sex: Age: Nature of work: Habits:
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
♡ rishimba last decade
1. I am very shy
2. none
3. N/A
4. I feel nervous. I worry. Basically the symptoms of social anxiety.
5. I was born shy. My parents told me when I was a baby I never cried, I was quiet. Which they loved of course.
6. It doesn't matter what time of day.
7. People
8. I don't think so.
9. I feel the same all year round.
10. I am quiet, calm, soft-spoken, dependable, loyal, and basically I am a nice guy.
I sometimes enjoy a thunderstorm. So sometimes I look forward to one, in awe of the power of nature.
I've never really been consoled I guess because I haven't been through any tought times yet.
No I am not sensitive to external stimuli,
I bite my nails sometimes, and at times I may mumble or talk to myself.
I love my family. Friends? I have friends like at work and such. But I really don't hang out with anyone.
11. I fear that I will still be like this when I'm older. Wasting my life.
12. I have no aversions I eat almost everything.
13. Normal
14. Normal
15. none
16. Normal, head maybe.
17. good, looks normal
18. I usually sleep well. I guess I tend to sleep on my side.
19. No
20. No
21. None
22. None
23. I'm about 6 foot. I weigh about 145lbs. I have brown hair and eyes. I guess I'm average looking.
25. None
2. none
3. N/A
4. I feel nervous. I worry. Basically the symptoms of social anxiety.
5. I was born shy. My parents told me when I was a baby I never cried, I was quiet. Which they loved of course.
6. It doesn't matter what time of day.
7. People
8. I don't think so.
9. I feel the same all year round.
10. I am quiet, calm, soft-spoken, dependable, loyal, and basically I am a nice guy.
I sometimes enjoy a thunderstorm. So sometimes I look forward to one, in awe of the power of nature.
I've never really been consoled I guess because I haven't been through any tought times yet.
No I am not sensitive to external stimuli,
I bite my nails sometimes, and at times I may mumble or talk to myself.
I love my family. Friends? I have friends like at work and such. But I really don't hang out with anyone.
11. I fear that I will still be like this when I'm older. Wasting my life.
12. I have no aversions I eat almost everything.
13. Normal
14. Normal
15. none
16. Normal, head maybe.
17. good, looks normal
18. I usually sleep well. I guess I tend to sleep on my side.
19. No
20. No
21. None
22. None
23. I'm about 6 foot. I weigh about 145lbs. I have brown hair and eyes. I guess I'm average looking.
25. None
tonyromo last decade
i am not able to come up with any specific remedy because of lack of symptoms.
however, SULPHUR, GELSIMIUM, BARYTA CARB and PULSATILLA are close to your personality.
please start with a dose of SULPHUR 1M and note if there is any change.
next, after 2 weeks or so, if there is no improvement, you may go for PULSATILLA 1M one dose everyday for a week.
however, SULPHUR, GELSIMIUM, BARYTA CARB and PULSATILLA are close to your personality.
please start with a dose of SULPHUR 1M and note if there is any change.
next, after 2 weeks or so, if there is no improvement, you may go for PULSATILLA 1M one dose everyday for a week.
♡ rishimba last decade
13 year old boy....student...sits on computer mostly to play games.
very shy
cannot make friends
he is a loner
school is a torture and prison(his words)
he is very intelligent
he gets headaches everyday in his forehead
at his worst...he becomes very quiet...anxious ..quick heartbeat..cannot talk...cries easily....refuses to go to school or out with family
like this since birth...always crying. had to nurse him every half hour to keep him quiet....
he is worse when he has to do some thing where interaction with people is required like school or guests etc
warmth.(not in bed though)..fresh air... make him better
we have moved a lot which has also caused him to not be able to adjust..
better in warm weather..hated water in childhood...
moody..mild ..anger erupts without warning..easily offended..arguing...lazy...
no particular feeling associated with thunder storm
likes consolation...which make him cry harder..but feels better after a long cry...he can cry anywhere
sometimes while concentrating he starts sucking his fingures....not causeless weeping to him but its for little things
he likes his siblings (wants his separate time though from everyone)where no one talks to him...does not eat with family as it disgusts him to see people eat.
dreams of tornadoes lately
craves pickles...aversion eggs and milk
thirsty a lot for sodas icy cold...he has a drink in his hand most of the time....but for soda only
15..no food allergy..but eats very selective foods
16..sweats on top body..head neck and trunk
17..stool tends towards constipation...takes a long time in toilet
18..sleep position is not particular
19..not applicable
20...he feels he is different bcz he cannot or does not want to make friends..they give him headache. he like to sit alone in class .
arg nit gave him some help as did gelsemium but i do not know the potency..sulphur was tried too which was baaad
this shyness,, social phobia..runs in family..heart disease ..diabetes and tb has shown up in some ppl too
he is healthy looking fair comlexion (for south asian)..average height..neat appearence
very shy
cannot make friends
he is a loner
school is a torture and prison(his words)
he is very intelligent
he gets headaches everyday in his forehead
at his worst...he becomes very quiet...anxious ..quick heartbeat..cannot talk...cries easily....refuses to go to school or out with family
like this since birth...always crying. had to nurse him every half hour to keep him quiet....
he is worse when he has to do some thing where interaction with people is required like school or guests etc
warmth.(not in bed though)..fresh air... make him better
we have moved a lot which has also caused him to not be able to adjust..
better in warm weather..hated water in childhood...
moody..mild ..anger erupts without warning..easily offended..arguing...lazy...
no particular feeling associated with thunder storm
likes consolation...which make him cry harder..but feels better after a long cry...he can cry anywhere
sometimes while concentrating he starts sucking his fingures....not causeless weeping to him but its for little things
he likes his siblings (wants his separate time though from everyone)where no one talks to him...does not eat with family as it disgusts him to see people eat.
dreams of tornadoes lately
craves pickles...aversion eggs and milk
thirsty a lot for sodas icy cold...he has a drink in his hand most of the time....but for soda only
15..no food allergy..but eats very selective foods
16..sweats on top body..head neck and trunk
17..stool tends towards constipation...takes a long time in toilet
18..sleep position is not particular
19..not applicable
20...he feels he is different bcz he cannot or does not want to make friends..they give him headache. he like to sit alone in class .
arg nit gave him some help as did gelsemium but i do not know the potency..sulphur was tried too which was baaad
this shyness,, social phobia..runs in family..heart disease ..diabetes and tb has shown up in some ppl too
he is healthy looking fair comlexion (for south asian)..average height..neat appearence
dani11 last decade
the boy is very close to SILICEA.
please give him a daily dose of SILICEA 200C for a week and note if there are any changes in the next 2 weeks.
if some changes are noticed, wait till the improvements stabilize. later, a dose of SILICEA 1M every week for several weeks.
this may take some 2 to 3 months before you can see an appreciable change in his personality.
please give him a daily dose of SILICEA 200C for a week and note if there are any changes in the next 2 weeks.
if some changes are noticed, wait till the improvements stabilize. later, a dose of SILICEA 1M every week for several weeks.
this may take some 2 to 3 months before you can see an appreciable change in his personality.
♡ rishimba last decade
okay...i do not have 200c but i do have 30c and 1m....
i can get 200c in one months time and then i will start the medicine.
i will get back with you after that
thankyou for your attention.
i can get 200c in one months time and then i will start the medicine.
i will get back with you after that
thankyou for your attention.
dani11 last decade
in that case, please give a dose of SILICEA 1M one dose every week and note response in three weeks.
♡ rishimba last decade
dr rishimba....i have given him 3 weekly doses of silicea 1 m....as advised......3rd week is not over yet. but i wanted to report that in 1st and 2nd week there was some positive response.. he was happier smiling and talking and not stressed out . his headache was better. i did not mention this but he ususally complains of sore gums when eating that also was much better.
but after 3rd dose he seems to have backtracked to where we started. he is weeping again and tense specially after 5 in theevening ...thinking about school just makes him anxious and upset........
what would you advise.
but after 3rd dose he seems to have backtracked to where we started. he is weeping again and tense specially after 5 in theevening ...thinking about school just makes him anxious and upset........
what would you advise.
dani11 last decade
Dr Rishimba....please repy. even though i wrote that my son is back to square one but now after about 9 days after 3rd dose i would say there is slight improvement in his overall attitude towards things he dislikes..he is more accepting.its just a small change but noticeable. he still cries and weeps. and gets angry throws things. is there anything to do with needles!!! strangely he notices needles now (never before) and tells me someone will get hurt with these.....
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dani11 last decade
please wait for some days. he is going through some proving symptoms. this will some subside.
after two or three weeks you would notice some more positive changes in him.
report to me after 3 weeks.
after two or three weeks you would notice some more positive changes in him.
report to me after 3 weeks.
♡ rishimba last decade
YOU REPLIED !!!!!!! I had given up on you :) ok i will write after 3 weeks....i understand that i DO NOT give him any more dose of silicea!!!!!right??
dani11 last decade
dear sir my son is complaining of sore gums and so even if he is hungry he does not eat....specially in mornings as day goes by he gets better slowly ....its summer vacation so he now refuses to get out of house even to play..sits in front of computer and says he is miserable and upset atnothing specific but that he is feeling cranky..it is very hot and humid also.
he is finding it difficult to fall asleep. once he is asleep then he sleeps ok.
.......please reply soon
he is finding it difficult to fall asleep. once he is asleep then he sleeps ok.
.......please reply soon
dani11 last decade
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