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My wife suffers from depression. Suicidal thoughts and talks about dieing. I have stopped her from leaping out of an upstairs window. She thought that her tension will go after death. She has a lot of anger inside her. She feels like arguing.

I have sat her down and told her that she needs treatment and told her to tell me more about her thoughts etc.

When she was 4 years old the left side of her mouth (lips) became paralysed and she couldn’t smile properly. This happened again at the age of 11 because of the cold. She just had a complex after this that she would never get better. Even when she was perfectly fine she had a complex that there was something wrong with her face. She still thinks that she is not beautiful.

When she was older she would pester her mother to take her to the doctors for checkups on one thing or the other. She imagines that she has some illness.

At the age of 7 or 8 she had tonsillitis, which was cured by homeopathy.

Age 9 she was kidnapped from outside the house. The abductor slapped her a few times and told her not to cry. She was terrified. She was taken in a car and driven far away. When the car stopped she saw a police officer and managed to escape. It was 2 hours from when she was abducted and when she returned home. During the incident she was terrified and her thought were of being far from mum and dad and that the abductor will break her hands and feet and force her to beg. She was afraid of leaving house alone for a few years after this.

Age 11, father passed away. She had much love for her father. She was always sad after this. She wanted to weep all the time. After the age of 16 she started to get better.

Fear when she is home alone that somebody will come into the house. Even when I am in the house she is sometimes afraid to go downstairs alone. When she sits idle she has these fears and sees scary faces and looks at the door thinking someone will enter.

She feels like dieing. She thinks she will die early and that what is the point of studying etc. she wants to stay active and has anxiety when the house is not clean so she will clean the house. She is more at peace when the house is clean.

She doesn’t like the wet and cold weather.

She usually has a heavy head and dizziness. Her body is hot but feels cold. Feet feel cold.
 
  eurostar on 2007-10-16
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YOU are advise to take only one dose of arsenic alb 10M of 2 drops is enough for cure of this problem... pls wait at least a month and see the cure.....

dr.deoshlok sharma
 
deoshlok last decade
Thank you Dr Sharma. Will she experience improvement immediately or should we be prepared for any adverse reactions etc.
 
eurostar last decade
there is no any reaction at all... but if there is no reacation then there is no action....

you will not get the cure without reaction...

reaction must be but our homoeopahtic is harmless..

go on continue...

cure is sure....


dr. deoshlok sharma
 
deoshlok last decade
What works best: sugar balls or drops directly onto the tongue?
 
eurostar last decade
best in suger of milk / or liquid 2 drops mixed with 1/2 cup of water .. early in the morning empty stomach....

dr.deoshlok sharma
 
deoshlok last decade
dear patient,

Ars. Alb is good proposition please go ahead with this remedy.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
OK Thanks. I gave her a dose of arsenic alb 10M this morning.
 
eurostar last decade
Dear Dr Sharma,

It has been nearly 4 weeks since my wife took arsenic alb 10M.

There was initial improvement since taking Ars Alb 10M. The sadness went, Tiredness / weakness got better. During the past month she has had many old thoughts, she says that sometimes she feels that she has gone into the past, she sees dreams of people that have passed away, she sees anxious dreams,

She tells me that she felt better after taking Ars Alb but I found that her symptoms started to return, probably after 10 days.

Current symptoms:

Extreme Tiredness / weakness, cannot climb stairs, heavy head, extreme weakness if she doesn’t eat, during the morning 9 – 12 nausea, dizziness,

Dream of people that have passed away, sad dreams, she dreams that I will leave her

Anxieties at night, fear about her grandmothers health, my health, that she will lose everything, lose me, fear of death, thinks she will die soon. She fears that we will become poor,

Sudden anger, wants to scream, swear, takes out anger on me or son,


She likes music, music sooths her

She fears that she will lose me, that something will happen to me, she fears that if I might get fed up of her arguing with me,

She wants almost continuous consolation.

Please advise that what should she do now.
 
eurostar last decade
pls give her one more doses of arsenic alb 10M early morning empty stomach with 2 drops disolving in 1/2 cup of water and report me after 10 days.

dr.deoshlok sharma
 
deoshlok last decade
Dear Dr Sharma,

I have purchased the remedy in tablet form so is it possible to disolve 2 tablets into a 1/2 cup of water and give that? Should she sip the water over a certain length of time?

thanks.
 
eurostar last decade
To support homeopathic treatment, try pranayama exercises. Breath is the link between body and mind. For every emotion there is corresponding rhythm in the breath. By controling the breath, mind can be controlled.

I recommend Art Of Living Part I course to learn and practice Sudarshan Kriya. You may also try Ramdev methods.

ReiKi treatment also will help her.

God bless you!
 
srisri last decade
Dear Dr Sharma,
Please note: I gave my wife arsenic alb 10M (in 1/2 cup of water) on the morning of 13.11.07. During the that whole day she felt absolutely great. She felt well and was happy. Today 14.11.07 she is feeling a lot of stress. There is much tension in the shoulders and neck. Making her short tempered. If there is any significant change over the next 10 days I will report it here.
 
eurostar last decade
please wait for dr. sharma reply.


dr.mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
15.11.2007
Today she is home alone with the child and is having problems coping with the child. She is feeling extreme stress and shouting and crying.
 
eurostar last decade
Dear Dr Sharma

On Friday 15th my wife heard the bad news that one of her nieces passed away aged 3 years. The next day her mental symptoms became more intense. She would easily become stressed and hold her head. She would break down and cry over minor matters. She would not want to speak and be left alone. She would dream up accusations just to be confrontational. I observed these symptoms for the whole day. Then on Sunday morning when I saw that her condition was still the same I gave her Ignitia 200, which cleared things up.

You asked me to report to you after 10 days of taking Arsenic 10M so I will do that when the time comes. But I think that it is worth considering the above. These symptoms I have seen many times. Is it possible that the shock of losing her father when she was 11 is still locked away in her mind? Last year I gave her Ignitia 1M followed by Nat Mur 1M because I thought that this was the cause of her behaviour. I think she improved for a while but symptoms returned.
 
eurostar last decade
Dear Eurostar,

I can really understand your situation as I have been through a similar situation. My wife is schizzophrinic. I also tried homeopathy for her and i am a strong believer of homeopathy. But it could not work so well in wife's case and then I had to switch on to allopathy. It has many side effects and has no comparison to homeopathy. But you cannot risk psychotic patients if they can be dangerous to you, your child or herself. I came under such situation and so had no choice but to forcefully call the emergency to admit her to a hospital. So just be careful and be watchful of her. I have put her on allopathy. there were many side effects in the beginning but they passed away with time
regards

Faisal
 
inneed last decade
Dear Dr Sharma

It has been 10 days since I gave my wife arsenic alb 10M. She felt better after a day and then she went through a slump (The death of her niece may have made things worse – she took a single dose of Ignitia 200 for that).

But I can now report that the signs now look good. For the past few days she has been happy and doesn’t feel depression. She isn’t feeling stress and getting upset with the baby.

I am very grateful for your help and advice and I hope the cure is permanent – God willing. I will report back if there are any changes.

Kind regards.
 
eurostar last decade
She over the past few days has been feeling greater stress, heaviness in the head, dizziness, weepy, confrontational. She had an argument with her mother 4 days ago and I gave her Ignitia 200c after that which calmed her down. I again gave her Ignitia 200 today as she was feeling much stress and weeping. Yesterday she was listening to music and remembered her father and started weeping. She likes to bring up past memories. She also brings up past hurtful memories to be argumentative also.

Ignitia gets her out of the state but soon returns after a couple of days. Will a higher potency of Ignitia work? Will Nat Mur work? Is another remedy required?
 
eurostar last decade
Dear Dr Sharma

It has been about 4 weeks since my wife took the second dose of arsenic alb 10M (the first dose was 4 weeks before that).

Mentally my wife is much better now with regards to depression and anger.

However she now has a lot of stress in he neck and shoulders. This is painful and make her a bit short tempered.

Please can you advise the next step.

thanks
 
eurostar last decade

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