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Keep waiting, update me in 1 week.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Update after a 20 days

After my last update I was feeling very dull and mental weakness and then I searched in internet and for try purpose bought Shalajit (ayurvedic herb) and first day after taking Salajit, I was feeling sexually aroused and mental/physical energy. I did masturbation twice in 4 hours, normally it is not possible for me but after few days I lost my sex feelings and morning erection (that sometimes I get) instead of improvement. Sex side I was better without Shalajit but don’t know how it boosted sexual energy first few days. However, it was helping me in mental weakness side. Now I reduced dose to 1/4 just to get some energy.

I think my main problem is now mental/physical weakness that causes anxiety. Mental/physical weakness is because of low testosterone level. I gone through lab tests and testosterone level is low and upon further tests free testosterone is also came low. Doctor advised me to take Testosterone Enanthate injuctions. All other things are normal. As per Doctor due to some unknown reason my body is not producing enough testosterone.

I used before acid phos for such type of mental weakness, it was helping me but that time anxiety for toilet was the big issue that lyco reduced a lot.
I am thinking to try acid phos...good thing I never got any side effects whenever I used acid phos like I got with other homeopathic remedies. It can help in mental and sexual weakness and anxiety.

Please advised

Should I go with Testosterone Enanthate even for try purpose?
Can I continue using Shalajit?
What do you think about trying acid phos?
How to increase testosterone level?


Thanks
 
preshan last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Please advise, I am waiting for your reply. Let me know if you have questions about current symptoms to prescribe remedy/advise.

Thanks
 
preshan last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

I am confused what to do next...Please give your advise.

Thanks
 
preshan last decade
Please wait till this weekend
 
sameervermani last decade
Thanks Dr Sameer...

weak feeling was very less with Shalajit but i stopped taking after 16th. on 19th morning again i started feeling dull and weak. when i feel mental weakness it is sometime like a ball in mind or pressure at one point. my eyes will be more red . more black area around eyes. face will become dull.

if i have to complete any questionnaire to find suitable remedy please send me, so by the time you are busy i will complete questionnaire.
 
preshan last decade
You can form a list of your current mental and physical symptoms. That will be useful.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Here all history of my problems and current symptoms. Please review and find suitable remedy for me.

Thanks for your help


PHYSICAL
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body type Small frame size
Height 6'
Weight 190 Ibs
Age 38 years

· Lot of fat on stomach and chest like a male breast. Because of male breast I wear lose shirts and T shirts. I had operation also once to remove the breast tissues but it seems it came again. I feel like everyone looking at my breast and sometime triggers anxiety.

· Red eyes. Sunken eyes. Most of time color is red. I feel all the time that people looking towards my red eyes and that triggers anxiety.

· Dull face

· I got lot of grey hair on chest, under nose and pubic area since when I was 30 years old.
· Loosing hair from the front....

· Soft body… no muscles

PERSONALITY
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· cannot make decisions.
I am not comfortable in asking favors but I give favors.
· I don't feel comfortable when someone praise me in front of me however I like to be praised.
· If someone talking good about anyone I feel that maybe he likes him and dislike me.
· If I am emotional then tear will come.
· in anger situation if I suppress my anger then tear will come otherwise I start shouting.
· I fear to do any mistakes.
· I feel that I shouldn't do any mistake or act like a fool otherwise people will think I am incompetent or fool.
· My face expression suddenly gets changed if someone makes a Joke on me.
· I am sensitive person.
· Normally I am little more comfortable in front of people for them i have feeling that they are not superior than me. Superior means in job, money, smart etc. It is very difficult for me to talk with beautiful girls or superior in office.

· I try to hid my weakness from others, every human has some weakness but i feel this is a big thing if it is in me and i try to hid from others. if i find weakness in others then i don't mind and feel that human cannot be perfect.

CURRENT PROBLEMS/SYMPTOMS
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· Anxiety in office, it is difficult to attend meetings and talk in meetings particular if senior management is there.

· Anxiety when i meet with superior people.

· Anxiety when i have to talk with group of people.

· Difficult to pronounce words

· Red eyes, Most of time color is red. I feel all the time that people looking towards my red eyes and that triggers anxiety., particularly in meetings.

· Weakness, I feel mental weakness and it causes overall weakness in body. I feel dull all the time. Weakness is more in morning and if i face any stress situation in office then it will be more by the evening otherwise after office time, normally i feel better.

· Headache. sometime on top of brain like a pressure at one point.

· Cold feeling, I feel very cold, sometimes i am shivering due to cold when others are comfortable.

· Impotence, I have tried so many times with girls and never had successful erecting. Even with Viagra and other medicines. Testosterone/Free TESTORONE Level is low.

· Memory, Memory is very weak; even I forget names of my colleagues. Sometime it is very difficult to manage. I don't forget events, I remember all every thing from my childhood, In these events I can forget names, place name etc. It is very difficult to remember name like movie, person, thing, some number, words spelling, word pronunciation.

· I check shirts (perticularly T shirts) so many times before wearing, whether breast is visible or not. I feel like everyone looking at my breast and triggers anxiety.



HOW THE ANXITY STARTED
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BACKGROUND
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I grew up in restricted environment. I was very shy in my childhood with lack of self confidence. I was not having any idea if I do something how my family members will react. . Every time I had to listen from my family 'if you do this or that...we will not help....... always if. Don’t go there... don't do that.......But in fact if I compare with other boys i was very calm ...I did some mistakes also, once i failed in exam in class 5th but that was not my fault that my family knows but always my family were using those mistakes and exam result as examples......

I live in very bad neighborhood, when i go outside home other kids used to make fun of me and sometime because of that i had to stopped going outside. my two friends also facing same problem but they were getting support from home but in the other hand my family were blaming me only and giving solution not to go outside home.

I had bed wetting problem until age 10. Never gone to doctor

i was very shy to meet with girls.

PHASE 1 (AGE 15-17)
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at this time I was having just a shyness problem. Difficult to meet with unknown people. It takes time to mingle with new people and friends. Normally after one two meetings i used to be comfortable.

I was around 15 years old and during the exam teacher announced that only 10 minutes left to complete question paper. I had to complete one question and suddenly after 7 or 8 minutes one strong anxiety wave came to my body and because of fear my semen came out (ejaculated without erection) and from that day problem started. After that I noticed that my testicles moves all the time.
After that same incident happened again while I was in English language class, teacher gave to complete blanks and one anxiety wave came and I was unable to think answers and when teacher asked to submit blanks, semen came out due to fear/anxiety. After that i stopped going that class and didn't join any language classes.

This second incident put major effect and started keeping tissue papers in my underwear so in case this happened again it won’t be visible but I started feeling anxiety in public places with the fear that semen will came out and people will make fun of me. AT THIS POINT I STARTED THINKING THAT I HAVE A SOME SEXTUAL PROBLEM. I consulted with Doctors and then Homeopath but no improvement.

After sometime I got frustrated and I told myself that nothing will happen even i don't keep tissue papers in my underwear and started going in public places and after sometime i was able to manage this fear/anxiety.
(It happened again after that two times when i was 26 and 31 year old in same test/assignment situation)

I discussed above problem with only one of my friend. After that whatever problems i faced i never discussed with anyone.

PHASE 2 (AGE 17 TO 21)
--------------------------------


I joined University and one teacher used to ask lot of questions and because of that i started feeling anxiety 'if he asks any question and what if I don't know answer what class will think”. After few days i started feeling all the time urge to go res room for pee..........and then after few weeks i started feeling stool also in morning time.
so i started going two three times toilet in morning and then after each class. I started sitting close to door in the class so if i have to go urgently restroom then i can rush to rest room, even in public transport also i used to sit close to door. Due to high anxiety i decided to take necessary Classes/Labs.

I was having too much wet dreams, Even sometimes without any sex dream. i was tired and thinking what to do and how to control it, went to doctor and homeopath but no help.

too much wet dreams and First problem made me think that something wrong with me sexually. I got visible breast tissues and making me more uncomfortable.

i was doing masturbation in every 3 or 4 days.


PHASE 3 (AGE 21 TO 25)
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All the times i was feeling that I had sexual problem and need to test. For this purpose i went to other city and had sex with prostitute but my bad luck that that prostitute told me that this is not like man should do.
Then after one day again i went to another girl and had sex. After one day again i went to new girl and didn't get erection, she tried but ejaculation happened without any erection.

AT THIS POINT I GOT THAT THERE IS SOME SEXUAL PROBLEM WITH ME. I was able to masturbate whenever I want.

I was in University final year and I had to see some unknown people related to my family that made me very anxious and increased the toilet trips. Intensity was too high, so i went to doctor he suggested to go to Psychologist and gave some medicine that helped me a lot.

I went couple of Homeopaths for breast tissues also during this period.

I met with Psychologist and he gave me Anafranil and it helped me a lot. After that i was always on/off Anafranil. As a side effect Anafranil stopped Wet dreams.


PHASE 4 (AGE 25 TO 27)
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I came to U.S. I came with intension that I will change myself here ...no more shyness....good sex life etc. i was less thinking about job that time. I had lot of sex desire and I used to masturbate a lot. Then I noticed that i am unable to masturbate it never happened I went to Psychologist and he told me that it could be because of Anafranil. I stopped Anafranil . Sometime I was able to do masturbation and sometime not . However i noticed that wet dreams were not happening even after stopping Anafranil but Doctor told me that if you have girl then you would be fine. I got one girl friend we went out couple of times and when we were very close to have sex, I got scared about my performance and stopped talking with her and moved to other city.

After that I was too frustrated and was trying to do masturbation all the time just to prove that I am fine..... I went to Homeopath and he tried lot of medicines but no luck. I tried lot of allopathic medicines also.



PHASE 5 (AGE 27 TO NOW 38)
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Until this point I was not feeling weakness but now I started feeling weakness, tired after little work. Anxiety all the time. I couldn't drive long as i started feeling dull, tired and weak.
Later it became mental weakness/ physical weakness and keeps adding anxiety trigger symptoms. Gradually I got problem in talking and pronounce word also.


Anxiety for toilet trips almost controlled after using Lyco.
 
preshan last decade
Dear Preshan,

Please take 3 doses of Silicea 30c equally spaced for ONE single day only, to be taken as described below.

Dissolve 2 pellets of Silicea 30c in a 250 ml spring water bottle. If you leave the pellets in water for 30 mins, they will melt. You can turn the bottle upside down a few times for the pellets to spread after dissolving.

1 teaspoon from here using a disposable spoon is 1 dose.

Let me know in 10 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Sorry I m writing after long time, hope u will understand my situation and continue to help me to get rid of my problems.
I couldn’t take Silicea when you prescribed me, that time I was too scared to take it because of the response of homeopathic medicines I took after lyco 1M. That time office situation was too difficult, so that I decided to take it after few months. After few months when I was feeling too dull, I took grape seed extract, it helped me a lot and then I started taking grape seed extract daily, initially it was difficult to set the right dose but later after analyzing the impact of this medicine I got idea how much I should take. It reduced the problems I was facing, gave increase in energy level and sexual energy, same time it reduced headache, red eyes, restlessness and irritability. Then I decided to take few months if it can help me to get rid of all issues I m facing.
Unfortunately it did help me to reduce the symptoms only. Last week I decided to take Silicea and then I took doses on Saturday 14th Nov as you suggested. It works very well similar to lyco and I m seeing improvement in all areas.
Sunday was very good, Monday was also O.K , I m observing and keep you posted.
Thanks again for your support and help
 
preshan last decade
Okay, good to know.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

Changes that I noticed last week

Sunday: feeling warm, felt confidence level up, improvement is sex drive. Increase in energy level.

Monday: little restless, twitching of eye lids while talking with someone. Difficulty in typing and twitching and irritation of fingers, less concentration level

Tuesday: same like Monday

Wednesday: same like Monday

Thursday: improvement in concentration level, eye lids movement gone. Headache and pressure feeling like medicine is doing some work in top of the head. Less hand fingers movement.

Friday: increase in headache and pressure feeling in top of the head, less difficulty in typing, twitching and irritation of fingers. Increase in restlessness, decrease in energy level.

Saturday: swelling in right side of lips and check.
Overall I can see improvement in sex drive side. Because of headache, irritation and restlessness, I am unable to figure out whether it is helping in anxiety and energy level. Swelling on lips and checks I had earlier also. Sometime when I feel much activity/pressure in brain and next morning when I get up, lips and check swelling happens. It goes away within a day. Any idea why it is happening?

Thanks
 
preshan last decade
Hi ,

Please wait for 1 more week.

Update at that time.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr Sameer,

Swelling that I mentioned last time has gone. After cheeks, got swelling on left feet then left hand ring and middle fingers and then right hand ring and middle fingers.

Last week I went out of town for five days and didn't take the grape seed extract. Next day I started feeling continues headache and pressure. It is gone a when I came back and took the grape seed extract.

Silicea is helped me particularly in sex drive side. How much it helped me in sex drive, anxiety and energy level that still I m unable to figure out but it definitely helped me, might be improvement is very slow.

Sometime I feel symptoms that started after taking remedy like difficulty in typing and twitching and irritation of fingers, It made me feel that remedy effect is still there. Not sure if this is correct observation. I will observe this week if I am getting any further improvement.

In case we have to repeat the remedy, can you give me the next potency I need, so I can order it now.

-Thanks for your help
 
preshan last decade
order 200c.
 
sameervermani last decade
200 CK is available in wholefood. Is this a right potency?

Thanks
 
preshan last decade
200ck is fine.
 
sameervermani last decade
Improvement is not noticeable now. Can I start 200c and how to use it?
 
preshan last decade
2 pellets dissolved in 250 ml, stir gently, and take a spoon.

Report in 2 weeks.
 
sameervermani last decade
it has been 2 weeks since i took 200c dose.

i feel it was not strong dose, it was similar to 3 doses of 30c that i took last time.

i observed few things.

i feel less headache on top my head.
i feel that some improvement in sex side, noticed many days morning erection.
I observe better communication between brain and penis and i observed errection more time then before when i fentisize sextual thought.
too much body pain, feel weak,pain in arms,elbo and shoulder. it feels muscle pain. i observed this
when took 30c but that time i thought that felt that it is because of silisea.
monday i was feeling too weak and pain in arms and elbo, i started feeling something my body needs
and then decided to take vitamin c 500mg.
i took it monday night and night i was feeling warm and lot of erection then in office also i was feeling more energy.
but today now i started feeling back pain from neck to bottom.

I think there is little improvement in anxiety side but i am more weak after taking silicea and becasue of
this unable figure out actual improvement in axiety.
 
preshan last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,
I noticed very few side effects with 200c as compare to 30c, body pain have gone after one week. Silicea is helping me and I hope that I should help me to get recovered from all problems that I face currently like lyco did and toilet trip anxiety gone completely. I don’t know sometime I feel that if Silicea keep working in same way in sex and energy level then I would be almost recovered. If my energy level is good and sex drive is also fine and these two things will give lot of confidence and it will help me in anxiety side automatically.
After taking Silicea I feel much improvement in sex side, I started feeling morning erection. Erection is not hard how it suppose to be but atleast I am noticing it frequently. Definitely it is helping in my erection problem. Headache and pressure at the top of head is also very less, there is improvement in energy level but not much. Office anxiety is there but I guess it will take time as I am facing this anxiety problem since long time and it became part of my life style. I am still observing changes, particularly if there is any improvement in office anxiety and keep you posted. Please let me know what would be the next potency I need to procure, so I can order it online.
I am very thankful to you for your time and efforts, so far the improvement I have after consulting you, I didn’t get earlier even I went to top university hospitals/clinics in U.S and Homeopathic Drs in India and US.
-Thanks
 
preshan last decade
Hi Dr. Sameer,

Now I don’t see any improvement happening. Last week in one meeting I got anxious and I started feeling cold, worried and tense. I noticed more black area around my eyes and tired face all the time. Sex side also I think whatever improvement I felt earlier, it is going downward. Please suggest what would be the next step. Not much improvement in energy level. Not sure why I am feeling weakness and I think weakness is causing anxiety. I think, I will be O.K If I feel mentally and physically energetic.

Earlier I had one known problem that used to trigger anxiety, that problem was urge/thought to go toilet and I used to go toilet again and again. Even if I am in between people and meeting, thought used to come that I have urge to go toilet and I should go immediately even if I went to toilet few minutes back. That problem is not there now after using the lyco.

Dr Sameer, please advise , waiting for your reply
 
preshan last decade
Hi,

Please procure Silicea 1M, and update when you have it.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,
I received Silicea 1M. Thanks
 
preshan last decade
Take the 1M dose as follows:

Dissolve 2 pellets in 120 ml spring water, stir and take a spoon from there.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Dr Sameer,

I have taken Silisea 1M on 29th Jan. after few days I felt that it targeted almost all my symptoms.

Headache:

The headache that I used to have on top of head is almost gone. It was already very much reduced after taking 30 and 200c.

Weakness:

Mental/ physical weakness is still there but it is little bit less.

I feel that whenever i am tired then i feel more anxiety and because of that i don't do much physical workout. I was feeling same even before taking Silisea.

Anxiety:

It reduced office anxiety and fear of public speaking, It is still difficult to figure out how much, it vary on different situation but I would say around 20% improvement.

Impotence:

I am getting erection, however it stay very short time and not full. Ejaculation happened with kissing and touching the girl and semen quantity was also very less.
After one week when I took Silisea almost everyday I was getting erection while sleeping and woke up because of erection but since few days I am observing this.


I did long drive on long weekend and yesterday I was feeling anxiety in office. It could be because of tiredness; I am observing and will update you.

Thanks for helping
 
preshan last decade

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