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hello i am currently on staphysagria 10m since october working wonderfully,but looks like hubby might be moving out do i need a different remedy to get me through or should i stay as i am,thanks.
 
  sunnyj on 2009-12-31
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have been through this before and want the experience to be easier,advice greatly welcomed.
 
sunnyj last decade
if its break up of relationship you may want to look up at ignatia or nat. mur.
 
maheeru last decade
thanks for reply maheeru,relationship not good same problems as before ,infidelity,verbal abuse,running me down to family behind my back, we split before,took him back as he promised things would be different,am really torn as got young children but want to be free of worry and stress,what strength remedy do you recommend please.
 
sunnyj last decade
sunnyj

I don't know much of the back ground details in your case. Seems you're taking staphy. for your emotional issues.

Ignatia is a good complementary remedy for staphy. So the key word of grief from breaking or broken relationship is spiralling you down, you can take Ignatia 200c in wet dose. Prepare it in a 500 ml mineral bottle by putting in 3 pills or drops of the remedy. Take 5 drops from the bottle(a dose) twice or thrice weekly till you feel better, probably 6 to 9 doses would be suffice to have a handle on your break up blues. Just before taking every subsequent dose, shake the bottle vigorously for 7 times up and down such that bubbles go up and down in the bottle. During this, please hold on the staphy. After you get a grasp, based on your symptoms you may go for staphy. or some other remedy.
 
maheeru last decade
The other homeo restrictions hold. And in between if you feel bad while you're taking the remedy, stop the remedy and report.
 
maheeru last decade
thankyou maheeru will try that ,we still living together,but i am up and down,i think staphy opened my eyes to reality of relationship,but have feelings of one minute i want it over ,next i dont,staphy has made me a much stronger person,i never want to go back to the person i was before.
 
sunnyj last decade
If it's not a break up and just ongoing issues then you may want to put the suggestion of Ignatia on hold for now.
 
maheeru last decade
thankyou shall i just stay as i am please
 
sunnyj last decade
Hi sunnyj

You say staphy. has been doing good for you. So yes stay with that till symptoms change. Either it's time for another dose if a long time has elapsed from the last time or it's time for upping the potency of staphy. Please talk to the homeopath who suggested you staphy. about this.

BTW how many doses of staphy. 10M have you taken till now and in what intervals?
 
maheeru last decade
thanks for reply maheeru,i had one dose staphy 10m october first,have not had anything since,my husband is being horrible,demanding, etc but i keep feeing sorry for him,i dont want this as i know he dont love me i wish i could see what he is and dislike him,do you suggest i take another staphy 10m thankyou
 
sunnyj last decade
is it okay to repeat same strength again,it wont spoil my progress will it,thanks advice appreciated.
 
sunnyj last decade
is repeat of same strength dose okay
 
sunnyj last decade
Hi sunnyj

You didn't tell how many doses have you taken from this staphy. 10M thus far??

My suggestion would be to prepare a wet dose solution of staphy. 10M in a 500 ml mineral water bottle.(To prepare this, put 4 pills or drops from the remedy into the water bottle and just add a drop of apple cider vinegar or a drop of vegetable glycerin to preserve it for a longer period. Just before every dose, you will have to shake the bottle vigorously up and down for 7/8 times...this shaking is very essential). You can take a dose from this bottle every 10 days till you feel the symptoms have changed or you feel aggravation or any new symptoms. Report after a couple of doses.

But may i know who suggested staphy. in the first place and if you have talked to that person about your current problem?

Remedy won't make you dislike your husband(would it make your life any better to hate somebody with whom you live under the same roof?), but it'd make you more balanced, peaceful so that you can react to a particular situation better.
 
maheeru last decade
Hi i have only ever took one dose staphy 10m early october,helios reccomended and gave remedy,my problem our relationship has been bad for years,its affecting me and childrenhe repeats same patterns other women bad mouthing me,trying to turn family against me,he ended relationship,and is looking for somewhere else,its just one day i want him gone ,next i donti have history of parent abandonment and neglect.
 
sunnyj last decade
sunnyj

Only one dose means its time to repeat another dose of staphy. 10M. For this dose you may take it dry or you may follow my earlier suggestion to repeat it frequently in water doses.

When your emotional state is put in order by the remedy/series of remedies, you will have less contradictions and will be confident enough to make decisions without guilty feelings. You would be more poised, balanced, and objective which is the objective of remedy in the first place.

Ok when you get time, please add your past history, more details including likes, dislikes, factors that worsen you or make you better, your physical profile, emotional profile and other details relevant from homeopathic point of view. Please refer rishimba's questionnaire or my earlier posts.
 
maheeru last decade
Thanks for reply,history is lived with gran first 5 years of life,went back to live with parents till eleven when mum had affair and deserted us for thirty years,went back to gran very stifled treated like slave,developed anorexia,was underdog,went to live with dad,had to do everything in house and go to school,drank heavily,dad a womaniser,both parents never showed me love,dad never did anything with us,developed bad ocd for several years,health underactive thyroid,hate the cold,dark hair,overweight,red face,gum disease,lumpy painfull joits in fingers and toes,get offended easily,quiet voice,poor speech,hope this helps
 
sunnyj last decade
I took one staphy 10m yesterday,initially felt wonderfull,and happy.today feel tearfull,and a bit sad and self conscious is this normal.
 
sunnyj last decade
feel better today,stronger,hope it lasts
 
sunnyj last decade
Hi Sunnyj

That's good. It's possible that suppressed emotions may come out while taking staphy. don't bother much about it, you would do fine.
 
maheeru last decade

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