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Possessive husband

I am sorry to say this possessive husband is me. I was always a little possessive of my lovely wife, who was also a little bit possessive of me. However, of late this has become a problem between us.

Let me explain.It started with a bad experience in which I lost a nice job and became veree depressed. I started having lot of negative thoughts. When my wife talked to other men, I objected. There were lots of argument, and I suspected she was interested in them but I also knew deep inside she is not. Now, when she does not call me often, or talks to other men, I am filled with anger and rage and use bad language. It has become a problem now. How do I deal with the problem. Please help me. I am around 38, have been married for 12 years, and am a healthy handsome man but am also greatly complexed by my partial balding.
Pl help.
 
  Ignatius Gallagher on 2010-05-31
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day 1
Please take Nux Vomica 200c thrice a day at a gap of 4 hours.

day 2 to day 15
Please take the following bach flower remedies thrice a day at a gap of 4 hours.
Holly
Beech

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 4 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 3-4 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa last decade
Ignatius,
Hyoscyamus 200 C single dose in sac lac once a day on empty stomach in the morning for three consecutive days then wait for 15 days report back with what changes you observe.

Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
Many thanks to Dr Kadwa and Dr Yogesh, but I am highly confused. -- what should I take? Anything to stop the negative emotions in my mind. I think I am also sexually very charged up too. God!
 
Ignatius Gallagher last decade
Ignatius,
No need to confuse it is up to you either take Kadwa's treatment or mine
dont use both of them together
decision is your but do respond with feedback of how u felt with medicine
i still insist Hyoscyamus 200c is indicated in your case.

Dr.Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
Thanks Dr. Yogesh. I will take yours. Ihope it calms me down, stops my suspicious behaviour, and makes me forget my bad disappointments. I was told to take Ruta 200 once in 3 days by a doctor in my locality for back pain which is now better. So I hope I can take both, if I can't pl say so.

I hope it is normal for men to also look at other women since I tend to do that sometimes but I love my wife a lot. I also ask her sometimes why she was looking at someone, if she was interested in them, etc. I have been doing all this more since this stupid job loss but I want to be safe from all that and keep work and life separate.
 
Ignatius Gallagher last decade
Hey Dr Yoogesh, what is Hyoscyamus 200c sac lac? I don't know sac lac.
 
Ignatius Gallagher last decade
Ignatius,
Better stop Ruta
Only hyoscyams thats all
relax all ur problems'll go & would feel fresh
Try some job to keep u busy even if it pays less
An empty mind is a devils workshop

Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
Ignatius,
If you get Hyoscyamus 200 in (dilution) liquid form then you can even take 2-3drops in 10 - 20 ml of plain drinking water.
If you look at other females it is nothing wrong it is but nature, every spicies in the world has this instinct to keep its species alive and not becoming extinct
See you tomorrow

Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
Thanks. When I said I look at other women, I meant I just 'look' at them as they are in my line of view but when my wife sees men I feel jealous. I of course do not mean that I am attracted to other women. No way, Sir.
 
Ignatius Gallagher last decade
Greetings Dr. Yogesh.
I took a few drops of the medicine Hyoscyamus 200 (which I heard for the first time) this morning. Half an hour later, I was asking my silly questions. I keeped asking and she explaining. The morning was bad. Hope it improves.
Question: Can I start Ruta 200 (which I had been taking earlier) after Hyoscyamus or should I take nothing for 15 days?
 
Ignatius Gallagher last decade
Wait let Hyos work
Dont put Ruta in between then both of us may get confused
RELAX ur thinking will improve.

Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade
Dear Yogesh,
I must say possessiveness is a little less but there are other issues emerging on the forefront:
1. What should I do with my life?
2. I feel bored very easily and am almost always confused.
3. All this strated with a career setback as I wrote earlier.
 
Ignatius Gallagher last decade
ignatius
if you could describe your setback?
How & why it happened you think?
How was your reaction or how did you take it OR what did you think about it?
you are confused but between what? what goes on in your mind now?
Pls be open and answer with a thought I will surely help you!

Dr. Yogesh
 
yogeshrajurkar last decade

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