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sagittarious on 2011-04-03
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Hello sagittarious,
I would recommend to try Lycopodium. Start with 30C potency. Dissolve 4 pellets in 60ml of water, shake 5 times and give your husband 1 tsp of it.
Regards,
Nainy
I would recommend to try Lycopodium. Start with 30C potency. Dissolve 4 pellets in 60ml of water, shake 5 times and give your husband 1 tsp of it.
Regards,
Nainy
Dr. Nainy last decade
I need to say that this is not an appropriate way to deal with this problem.
The patient themselves has not contacted us. We do not have any information provided by the patient, only by the wife and the problems SHE has with the lack of sex. This tells us nothing about what is going on for the man here. Does he feel the same way? What does he feel about it? How does he perceive the problem?
A second person being directly affected by the problem cannot be objective about it - all we are hearing here is the case of the wife. Shall we give her remedy to him? Would you expect it to work?
What should happen here is the husband (who's permission should be gained to post all his details) should write up his case for us, so that we can treat him based on his on perceptions, experiences, symptoms, feelings.
Has the husband even agreed to seek homoeopathic treatment for this problem? Is he willing to take the remedies? Is he willing to accept the probability of his symptoms worsening before they improve?
There are so many reasons for loss of sexual desire - we have hundreds of remedies for it. Which one suits him? Only he can tell us.
David Kempson
Professional Homoeopath
The patient themselves has not contacted us. We do not have any information provided by the patient, only by the wife and the problems SHE has with the lack of sex. This tells us nothing about what is going on for the man here. Does he feel the same way? What does he feel about it? How does he perceive the problem?
A second person being directly affected by the problem cannot be objective about it - all we are hearing here is the case of the wife. Shall we give her remedy to him? Would you expect it to work?
What should happen here is the husband (who's permission should be gained to post all his details) should write up his case for us, so that we can treat him based on his on perceptions, experiences, symptoms, feelings.
Has the husband even agreed to seek homoeopathic treatment for this problem? Is he willing to take the remedies? Is he willing to accept the probability of his symptoms worsening before they improve?
There are so many reasons for loss of sexual desire - we have hundreds of remedies for it. Which one suits him? Only he can tell us.
David Kempson
Professional Homoeopath
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
I understand your position. What I have said actually came out far harsher than I intended it. I hear your pain.
This doesn't alter the fact that this is not his case, but your perception of it, and most likely alot of it is actually your case. We cannot successfully prescribe on your perceptions, only on his. Only his matter.
The fact that you want to change him without understanding what is wrong with him, shows how much you are hurting, but it does not respect whatever hurt he has. That must be uncovered, and healed.
Your desperate situation, sad as it is, won't change how homoeopathy works. We NEED the case in the words of the patient, the thoughts of the patient, the peculiar feelings of the patient. Getting the observations of a family member, when we already have a case taken from the patient, actually helps us. But those observations cannot take the place of the case.
Children are a different matter altogether. Children do not keep all their feelings and thoughts on the inside - they express themselves openly and freely almost right up until when they become teenagers. They tend to act on their feelings in an instinctive and impulsive way, making observation by the parents fairly simple.
When a child is approaching puberty, and they are indeed beginning to have more private and complex thoughts and feelings - then the parent can no longer be a good observer. Only the child-teenager can reveal the truth then.
A child also must have many decisions made for it, but their guardians. But an adult - he has a right to refuse treatment, however foolish that might be. I will never treat an adult without their permission, because if someone did that to me I would be outraged!
What if he does aggravate, what if he gets side effects or proving symptoms? How would you explain that to him, how would you stop him from going to a doctor to suppress those reactions (therefore ruining treatment)? There are many pitfalls to treating people without their knowledge, some practical, some ethical.
This doesn't alter the fact that this is not his case, but your perception of it, and most likely alot of it is actually your case. We cannot successfully prescribe on your perceptions, only on his. Only his matter.
The fact that you want to change him without understanding what is wrong with him, shows how much you are hurting, but it does not respect whatever hurt he has. That must be uncovered, and healed.
Your desperate situation, sad as it is, won't change how homoeopathy works. We NEED the case in the words of the patient, the thoughts of the patient, the peculiar feelings of the patient. Getting the observations of a family member, when we already have a case taken from the patient, actually helps us. But those observations cannot take the place of the case.
Children are a different matter altogether. Children do not keep all their feelings and thoughts on the inside - they express themselves openly and freely almost right up until when they become teenagers. They tend to act on their feelings in an instinctive and impulsive way, making observation by the parents fairly simple.
When a child is approaching puberty, and they are indeed beginning to have more private and complex thoughts and feelings - then the parent can no longer be a good observer. Only the child-teenager can reveal the truth then.
A child also must have many decisions made for it, but their guardians. But an adult - he has a right to refuse treatment, however foolish that might be. I will never treat an adult without their permission, because if someone did that to me I would be outraged!
What if he does aggravate, what if he gets side effects or proving symptoms? How would you explain that to him, how would you stop him from going to a doctor to suppress those reactions (therefore ruining treatment)? There are many pitfalls to treating people without their knowledge, some practical, some ethical.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
I remember on a homoeopathic internet forum, a case where a wife of an alcoholic husband asked for someone to treat her husband without his knowledge. A remedy was given, on the basis of the case as she saw it (who knows what the husband felt), and the remedy was slipped into his bedside glass of water.
Within a few days he had a huge aggravation, the police had to be called, and he ended up in prison. He never even knew that he was likely just aggravating on a remedy. He had assaulted not only his wife but the police officers. This should NEVER have happened, and I remember giving the same warning then, which was ignored. This man's life could very well have been ruined by it - obviously the woman stopped posting after she reported this so we may never know what happened in the end.
Within a few days he had a huge aggravation, the police had to be called, and he ended up in prison. He never even knew that he was likely just aggravating on a remedy. He had assaulted not only his wife but the police officers. This should NEVER have happened, and I remember giving the same warning then, which was ignored. This man's life could very well have been ruined by it - obviously the woman stopped posting after she reported this so we may never know what happened in the end.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Homoeopathy can be harmful I am afraid, the wrong remedy or too much of the right remedy can have very dire consequences. There are often cases presented on this very forum from people who are suffering side effects from homoeopathy. Anything that has the power to heal, also has the power to harm. The law of similars is based upon this - 'what a substance can cause it can cure'.
Anyway I have given my opinion, which you have heard and acknowledged, so I will say no more.
Anyway I have given my opinion, which you have heard and acknowledged, so I will say no more.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
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