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Need help for Absent mindeness disorders

Hi I am 36 Male. I am suffering with absent mindness disorders. Below are symptomps -

Absent mindedness , Anxiety , Apprehensions, e.g. communication apprehension , Bitter and resentful with surrounding situations , Chronic lateness and poor time perception , Complete exhaustion of body and mind , Conflicting mind , Dawdling tendencies , Day-dreaminess , Difficulties with regulation of emotions, motivation and arousal , Difficulty getting started on tasks , Difficulty completing tasks , Dissatisfaction with factors around , Easily bored , Employment difficulties , Excessive diverting moods , Excessive impulsivity; saying or doing things without thinking , Frequently losing things , Frustration , Greater than normal variability in task or work performance , Guilt-complex , Hastiness , Hopelessness , Impatienceness , Indecisiveness and uncertainty of mind , Lack of concentration, instable mind , Lack of faith , Lack of observation , Lack of self-confidence , Lack of will power , Low self-esteem , Mental weariness , Mind occupied with thoughts of past life, current and future imaginations, sex imaginations, Mood swings , Persistent unwanted thoughts , Pessimism towards life activities , Physical restlessness or impatience , Poor organization, planning, and time management skills , Poor persistence of efforts toward tasks , Poor time management , Poor working memory , Problems with self-control and regulating behavior , Relationship problems , Risk-taking behaviors , Substance abuse , Sudden depression , Swinging moods , Tendency towards avoiding responsibility , Unhappiness

Please suggest me good homeopathic treaement / medicine to come out from this.
 
  Neelarc on 2011-11-03
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
If you want a prescription, you will have to expand on each and every one of those symptoms. Just listing them is not enough.

For every symptom you need to give the following details as a minimum (and more would be best):

What exactly happens?

When does it happen?

What makes it worse?

What makes it better?

When did it start (what was happening in your life at the time)?

Does anything trigger it?

What symptoms occur just before it, at the same time, or immediatly after?


These are known as 'modalities' - things that modify and characterise the symptom, and are necessary to be able to choose a medicine.

David Kempson
Professional Classical Homoeopath
Dip.Hom.Med.1994
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Hello Sir,

Thanks for your reply.

Below is my answers for all your questions -

What exactly happens?
- I am very absent minded- Day dreamer personality.
- My mind has to struggle to keep it in presence.
- Very negative emotions and sensitivities.
- Lot of laziness and chronic lateness
- If I am trying to keep my mind in presence and think about the current things then will start to feel headache on back side and both sides above ears.

When does it happen?
- If I need to think about some complex tasks of then my mind to struggle and try to avoid to think. It’s like I am always feeling very lazzy to think about anything and instead of that my mind start to dream about it or other imagination.
- If I am attending ant meeting then my mind will fall in other dream and imaginations.
- If I am doing any work in office and if have to give extra efforts with my mind to complete some complex tasks.
- If I am in any social gathering then will keep myself isolated and my mind will be engaged in unwanted thoughts or sexual thoughts.


What makes it worse?
- If I want to start or think about particular tasks socially or professionally.
- If I have to do some communications professionally or socially.
- If I am going to engage in some social gathering.
- If any small argument happening and if I got anything negative comments then my mind will easily distract and I will become anger or sad easily.
- Any small things make me frustrate easily and also give me lot of fear.

What makes it better?
- If my mind starting dreaming, imagination about tasks…
- If I will start to imagination about sex and sex talk with anyone.
- If someone is taking my task or helping me to the complete tasks.

When did it start (what was happening in your life at the time)?
- Since long I am suffering with these disorders from my study level. We can say it is genetic behavior. MY father was also suffering with same disorders which I am realizing now.

Does anything trigger it?
- I am very sensitive and anything making me very negative and instantly in dreaming the things.
- In any conversation I am becoming negative easily and sometime even very abusing and high temper with others.
- Any little difficult or complex tasks.
- If I want to go for any conversation in meeting or socially or with senior persons.
- If any social gathering happenings then I will try to keep distance and my mind will be engaged in some kind of dreaming.
- I always feel easy in dreaming the things instead of achieve it physically or personally.

What symptoms occur just before it, at the same time, or immediately after? - These are known as 'modalities' - things that modify and characterize the symptom, and are necessary to be able to choose a medicine.
- I simply say my mind is always engaged in sum kind of thoughts and imagination of new achievements, current situations or sexual.
- If I am doing some work or tasks then I have to struggle to keep myself in presence, IF I will force my mind then will suffer from headache.
- A lot of pressure is required to keep myself in presence and complete or organizing things. I am very unorganized personas as saying by my colleagues and family members.
- If many times in very small mater I am easily becoming very angry and start to shout without thinking about what I am speaking or where I am standing. Even these things happenings when I am dealing with my kids too. Then later on after some times or days I will realize that I did wrong.

Above with all at my this age I can say below is my strong psyche negative emotions and I want to come out from those – ( These points I have complied after getting lot comments from socially and professionally, I have also gone through with some mind surveys).
frustration, uncontrolled anger, bitterness, excessive shame, guilt, envy, jealousy, fear, suspicious nature, inferiority complex, persistent agony or melancholy, mental instability, escapism or shilly-shallying tendencies, communication apprehension, poor will power, low grasping, absentmindedness, laziness, dawdling, dodging etc.)


Hope this will help you to dignose my menal health and give your prescriptions.

Thanks and regards,
Neelarc.
 
Neelarc last decade
You still need to do each problem separately. You have listed a very large number of problems, each one has to be detailed, although clearly many of them may actually be a description of the same problem.

Anxiety
Apprehension (communication)
Bitter and resentful
Poor time perception
Complete exhaustion
Difficulties regulating emotions
Difficulty with motivation
Dificulty with arousal
Difficulty completing/starting tasks
Dissatisfaction
Easily bored
Employment difficulties
Diverting moods
Impulsivity
Saying or doing things without thinking
Losing things
Frustration

and so on. I don't really want to rewrite the whole list but if you mention something as an issue, you need to talk about it.

Explain what happens, what the word means when you use it, what aggravates the problem, what makes the problem better, and how it is connected to the rest of your problems.

You have done a few of them, but not all of them. A complete picture will form from these explanations.
[message edited by brisbanehomoeopath on Fri, 04 Nov 2011 21:30:50 GMT]
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Just take Kali Phos 12x homeopathic biochemical tablet medicine 4tablets at a time 3 times a day 30min after meal and take that for at least 1-2 months, try to collect original Germany made medicines for better and quick result.

Dr. Showrav
Homeopathic medicine researcher and consultant
Dhaka, Bangladesh
 
Dr. Showrav last decade
Hello Dr. David Kempson and Dr. Showrav,

Thanks for your reply.

Below are my answers for all your questions -

What exactly happens?
Absent Mindness and Day dreamer:-
- I am very absent minded- Day dreamer personality.
- My mind has to struggle to keep it in presence.
- Very negative emotions and sensitivities.
- If I am trying to keep my mind in presence and think about the current things then will start to feel headache on back side and both sides above ears.
- Many times my mind is keep struggling in different thoughts and those are mainly with full of some frustrations. And that time suddenly I small whistle sound will start in my ears.
Uncontrolled anger: - In many cases its happening to me that I am becoming vey sensitive and start to show my anger emotions and arguments without thinking and finally people are starting to keep distance from me.
- In my angriness, I am forgetting where I am standing and who is watching me. Many times it’s happening that I can shout like anything and also start to use abuse words.
- I am not able to control my anger on my child too. On his small mistakes I will shout on him instead of guiding him in proper way.
Guilty and fear:-
- Most of cases I start to feel guilty in me and also a lot of fear. I will be not able to do any more arguments even I am right or I know the truth. Many times I can easily accept blames on me.
- I can not say “No” easily even if the work is difficult for me or I am not able to complete it.
Excessive shame and inferiority complex:-
- Many of my friends and family members are saying this that I am very shy person.
- Few are saying that you are shying like a girl.
Mental instability and escapism:-
- My mind is always in wavering condition to start or initiate any work.
- If I want to do some work or meet some important work then I always struggling how to start to what to say condition. Its true my mind will force me to avoid the work.
Laziness and dawdling:-
- Lot of thinking laziness for any work or things in which I need to occupy my mind.
- Will take a lot of time to complete any tasks from mind. Even my reading is also very slow.
- Lot of laziness and chronic lateness


When does it happen?
- If I need to think about some complex tasks of then my mind to struggle and try to avoid thinking. It’s like I am always feeling very lazy to think about anything and instead of that my mind start to dream about it or other imagination.
- If I am attending ant meeting then my mind will fall in other dream and imaginations.
- If I am doing any work in office and if have to give extra efforts with my mind to complete some complex tasks.
- If I am in any social gathering then will keep myself isolated and my mind will be engaged in unwanted thoughts or sexual thoughts.
- Due to my mind laziness I have poor academic records even my teachers were saying I am able to score good. While I was doing my study then many times its happened that I passed whole night in lot of other imaginations and without reading single page in my book.
- While from my age 0f 17 or 18 I have seen that when on exam day I was trying hard to remember things and my mind forcing me for other sexual thoughts. I keep to do masturbating for more than 6-7 times before go for exam.
- It’s always happening to me that people can convince me for anything. My impression in my family is that I am not able to take any leadership or not able to say my words in proper way. I don’t have nay guts to say anything or to do anything.
- When I have to do or start preparation for any important exam or test or interview then my mind start to imagine the success and other sexual thoughts.
- When anything happening which is not in my mind then it will frustrate me easily and also makes me very sad or anger.
- Many times it will happen to me that I will start to speak and will start to stammering too.

What makes it worse?
- If I want to start or think about particular tasks socially or professionally.
- If I have to do some communications professionally or socially.
- If I am going to engage in some social gathering.
- If any small argument happening and if I got anything negative comments then my mind will easily distract and I will become anger or sad easily.
- Any small things make me frustrate easily and also give me lot of fear.


What makes it better?
- If my mind starting dreaming, imagination about tasks…
- If I will start to imagination about sex and sex talk with anyone.
- If someone is taking my task or helping me to the complete tasks.

When did it start (what was happening in your life at the time)?
- Since long I am suffering with these disorders from my study level. We can say it is genetic behavior. MY father was also suffering with same disorders which I am realizing now.

Does anything trigger it?
- I am very sensitive and anything making me very negative and instantly in dreaming the things.
- In any conversation I am becoming negative easily and sometime even very abusing and high temper with others.
- Any little difficult or complex tasks.
- If I want to go for any conversation in meeting or socially or with senior persons.
- If any social gathering happenings then I will try to keep distance and my mind will be engaged in some kind of dreaming.
- I always feel easy in dreaming the things instead of achieve it physically or personally.

What symptoms occur just before it, at the same time, or immediately after? - These are known as 'modalities' - things that modify and characterize the symptom, and are necessary to be able to choose a medicine.
- I simply say my mind is always engaged in sum kind of thoughts and imagination of new achievements, current situations or sexual.
- If I am doing some work or tasks then I have to struggle to keep myself in presence, IF I will force my mind then will suffer from headache.
- A lot of pressure is required to keep myself in presence and complete or organizing things. I am very unorganized personas as saying by my colleagues and family members.
- If many times in very small mater I am easily becoming very angry and start to shout without thinking about what I am speaking or where I am standing. Even these things happenings when I am dealing with my kids too. Then later on after some times or days I will realize that I did wrong.


Hope this will help you to diagnose my mental health and give your best solutions for me.
Also, hope any medicine will not make me addictive with it and not even any side effects.

Thanks and regards,
Neelarc.
 
Neelarc last decade
at my last reply to u i suggested u a medicine, and still now i will suggest that medicine ensuring u that has no side effects and if there is memorizing problem of urs u can take
Anacardium 200c pills 5 before meal daily morning and night, according with
Kali phos 12X 4tabs thrice daily after 20min of taking meals.

If u follow the advise I hope u will start feeling results within a week but continue that at least a month.

regular hard physical exercise as weight lifting or climbing mountains or push ups or swimming will improve ur result rapidly.

Follow the advises and report me after 10 days pls.
 
Dr. Showrav last decade
It is not advisable to take so many doses of a 200c potency. As per the advice given this would be around 60 doses. This is too much.

It is also completely untrue to say there would be no side effects. Firstly using dry pillules will almost certainly create aggravation if the remedy is even partially similar, and it would quite likely create a proving (side effects) if it is not so well matched to the symptoms.

Until it is clear how a patient will react to a medicine, only small amounts of any medicine should be used. Preferably, as per Hahnemann's advice in the Organon of Medicine, Split Dosing should be used to avoid such unnecessary aggravations and side effects. This involves diluting the dry doses into water rather than taking them directly, and it also requires a liquid form of the remedy (ie. dissolved into water in a small bottle) so that each dose can be succussed. Succussion is vital to increase the strength of each dose over the last, not only to avoid aggravation but also to match the natural strength of the disease.

Law of the minimum dose is also clear - give only the smallest amount of any medicine to create the change that will result in improvement. The safest method is to give single dose and wait for a reasonable amount of time, both to be able to assess the suitability of the medicine to the disease, and to observe the patient's reaction to the remedy. Any over-reaction needs to be managed and of course avoided in the future.

It is also not appropriate to give no instructions to a patient - to tell them to just continue with a remedy for weeks on end without warning them of aggravation, old symptoms returning, or the possibility of proving symptoms. This gets people into trouble, and they often blame homoeopathy for it.

We have guidelines and principles in homoeopathy for good reasons. We do not wish to cause more suffering for the patient, and so careful use of our powerful medicines should be one of the practitioners primary goals.
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Hello Doctors,

Thank you so much for all your advices.

Yes, here I am seeking for innocent treatment for me. Also, the symptoms are very clear as I am facing them from my childhood and now a little mature to think about them. Also, those are genetic even as in my siblings and parent I have seen many nearest symptoms.

Here, I don’t have any memorizing problem but yes due to my absent minded I am very careless to know the about things or to remember them.

So, I think Kali Phos 12x is good for me ? Also, like to know it is pure homeopathic medicine and as innocent as other homeopathic medicine?

Also, from one more site I got suggestion to take Mag. Phos and Ferr phos. Below is a paragraph I have read from website - http://www.lightparty.com/Health/SaltOfEarth.html

“6. Potassium Phosphate (abbrev. Kali Phos.) This salt is mostly found as a component of the brain, nerve cells, spinal cord, and blood. Since it is found so much in the nervous system, Kali Phos. is indicated for all emotional problems such as depression, sadness, apathy, stress, irritability, poor memory, and irrational fears. Along with Ferr. Phos., Kali Phos. helps to carry oxygen in the body. It is therefore good for all infective or septic conditions. Some of the old homeopathic repertories recommend this cell salt when tumors are present. Along with Mag Phos., this salt helps to restore the nervous system to rightful functioning. Remember it for cases of shingles and neuralgia!”

Once again, I want to come out from this absent mindness, laziness and other disorders with very innocent treatment and which can not put me in any other trouble.
So, request you to guide me accordingly.

Thanks & Regards,
Neelarc.
 
Neelarc last decade
Tissue salt therapy is not homoeopathy, but it may still be helpful for you. It is not the sort of treatment I use so I will not be able to guide you in its use if that is the way you wish to go.
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Hello Dr. David Kempson,

Then please guide me on homeopathy way.

I need proper solutions of my mental disorders with innocent treatment.

The details I have provided here I think will help you to know my symptoms in better way. Then also if you required any more clarification from myside then pls let me know.


Thanks & regards,
Neelarc.
 
Neelarc last decade
I still need to analyse the information you have given but I will do that.

Can I ask what you mean when you say 'innocent treatment'? Why do you keep saying this?
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Hello sir,

Thanks a lot for all your supports.

I really thankful to you.

Regarding your question that why I keep writing 'innocent treatment' is that I have fear of side effects of any medicine. That's why the reason I don't want to go for any allopathic treatment. I know that homeopathic is good for its long lasting solution for your disease and that is without any side effects. And in your post you also shown you’re worried about side effects of any medicine.

So, I keep asking for innocent treatment.

I am waiting for your reply.

Thanks & regards,
Neelarc.
 
Neelarc last decade
I do indeed worry about side effects of medicines, and try to ensure the least amount of suffering comes out of treatment.

However nothing is completely safe, and even homoeopathy can produce unwanted symptoms. The important thing is to be very cautious, giving single doses, small doses, and constantly assessing what happens to the patient.
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
What do you day dream about when it happens? What exactly? Give me examples of the imaginations and fantasies?

What is it like when you enter this waking dreaming state? Can you describe what it is like?
[message edited by brisbanehomoeopath on Wed, 09 Nov 2011 04:36:19 GMT]
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Hello sir,

Yes, I do have a lot of day dreaming. Here, I am explaining it with my other disorders and my dreams based on situations.

I am very moody person and keep isolating myself from other.
→ my mind keep imagination about my current social and professional achievements. If I want to achieve some tasks i.e. promotion in office, or buying a car or participating in big game show or passing some exams to get desire qualification or certificate then my mind start to imagine that achievements and that I am getting a lot of benefits from it. This kind of dreaming is infinite for me and I keep thinking and thinking and that will also turn into sexual fantasy.

My mind is very lazy to complete any complex tasks -
→ If I want to engage myself for any logical tasks or to solve some complex issue then my mind will go more to imagine other achievements and then will also go on sexual fantasy. I keep feel fantasy about a girls in my office, about my family ladies. About a girl I like to talk to her or about my online social female friends.

My fear -
→ If something happened wrong with me or by someone... I keep imagine that I am fighting with the person or situations and winning the game instead of solving the issue in person or in real.

My interests-
→ I have interests in games, sports and traveling and adventures. But, instead of enjoying things physically I keep dreaming that I am enjoying traveling, I am playing the big sports.

While in social gathering-
→ In family or office parties my mind keep dreaming some sexual fantasy or other achievements. While we are talking in group I will be in the other world and when people ask some my opinion then I will be totally blank. I am very isolated in such gathering.

Whatever I am watching my mind start to imagine-
→ Anything I am watching of my interests in TV or Movie, I start to imagine myself in that condition and that will give me great inner pleasure. I will like totally blank while watching TV. I will be totally unaware what people around me are talking.
 
Neelarc last decade
Ok I would suggest China officinalis 1M.

Absent-minded
Absorbed, buried in thought
Abusive, insulting
Anger at trifles
Anger inclined to vex others
Chaotic state of mind
Confidence, want of self
Confusion of mind, as if in a dream
Day-dreaming
Dreams amorous, fantastic, many, pleasant, vivid.
Fancies, exaltation of
Fancies, lascivious
Indolence, aversion to work
Irresolution
Moods changeable, variable
Plans, makes many
Plans, reflects upon their execution
Quarrelsome, scolding
Rage, fury
Reproaching others
Restless, anxious, excitable, sensitive
Rudeness
Theorizing
Thoughts, persistant, sexual
Timid, bashful
Work, aversion to mental

China patients have strong imaginative power, and spend much of their time daydreaming. They think about all kinds of postive and wonderful things, are full of plans, build AIR CASTLES, become lost in this inner world.

The outside world on the other hand fills them with contempt, disappointment, seems unattractive and unworthy. They are highly negative and critical, and are disposed to hurt the feelings of others despite being very sensitive themselves.

INSTRUCTONS FOR SPLIT DOSING

Firstly, you need to create a separate dosing bottle. Get a bottle with a dropper, 15-30mls in size, and fill it with a mixture of water and alcohol (5 parts to 1 part). Dissolve 2 granules or 2 drops of the medicine you bought from the pharmacy into this mixture. Your doses will be made from this bottle.

Hit the bottle firmly against the palm of your hand, or another elastic surface like a book. It should be a firm hit not a tap. 2 hits is enough to begin with, and should not be increased unless it is clear that it is needed. The water in this bottle will 'remember' the number of times you have hit it, so that subsequent doses will be stronger (necessary to overcoming the resistance of your disease).

Place 1 drop into an amount of water - start with 1/2 a cup (125mls). Stir thoroughly and take 1 teaspoon into the mouth. Throw the rest of the cup away.

This is one dose. Repeat doses would be started from the 2 hits on the bottle.

Each step of this process can be adjusted to reduced aggravation or to increase the effect of the medicine. In order to be able to do this, it is important to measure each step (count the hits, the drops, measure the water etc).

Take one dose only and report after 3-4 days the initial reaction.
[message edited by brisbanehomoeopath on Wed, 09 Nov 2011 21:58:47 GMT]
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
For the patient Neelarc,

Dear,
There is not such an element on earth that has no side effects
on a body. Even excessive drinking of water also have major side effects on human body whether about 80% of human body is made by water.

when u r sick a patient should follow Dr. 's rules and advises and nothing else bcs when u r sick in physically thn u r also have a bit sickness in mentally which is medically proven.So if u try to find out something for u to be cured would not be appropriate for u most of the time BCs nervousness and confusion is the most common symptoms of mental disorders and u should know that whether a specialist can make wrong in that situation. So my last advises for u that go for ur chosen Dr. 's advise.
 
Dr. Showrav last decade

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