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Feeling depressed mentally
Hello, I am 32 yr old woman, I have 3 kids.I am going through some severe mental issues for the past few months. Basically its the ill treatment of relatives(in laws). When I try to tell them they do not agree with what I tell them or just plain lie. Esp one lady in the family kept mistreating my kids, and I never told he that her behaviour is hurtful to me. i kept thinking that she will see my good wishes for her, there're no need to be overly protective. But when I blew up, I just CANT seem to tolerate her compnay. I dont trust her. That has made me to stop confiding in anyone, I dont trust anyone anymore. I feel that I cant take critisism from anyone.
It really frustrates me and makes me very very angry. Lately, my subconscious stops me from meeting the same for a long time, I feel they will say something mean to me. And I wont be able to answer them or they wont listen to what I am saying. I feel very very insulted at this behaviour of theirs. I feel insulted that I did all when I could, I mean I literally drained myself... and this is how they treat me!!
Cant get the thoughts out of my head, I have lost interest in doing things that would be good for me. My husband is a little supportive, but I yell at him alot when I get angry. Small everyday upsetting things make me really mad.
He is also of a angry temprament, and before I blew up he used to be at me for small things, and since he is not a 100% healthwise, I toletated him, but I cant seem to do that anymore...
I send the kids to school, do their chores, take care of them, and the house but mentally I'm not with them when I am in this state of mind. my kids are normal and fine, but my behaviour effects them greatly.
My husband is chronically ill. Although he takes care of himself and is not handicapped in any way but when i see other women with healthy families, I feel bad for myself.
In the past 5-6 months I have tried taking Sepia 200C. Then I tried Staphysagria 30C.
Also tried Ignata 30C, and Natrum Mur 30C...
These days I am taking Ambra Gresia 30C. Maybe I am not using the right potency?? I hate myself for becoming a monster in my own house. I dont want to show this side of me to anyone. I am over preotective of my privacy.
If someone saw me outside at the store or park or some public place, they will not be able to judge thats something's going on with me.
There's just despondency. I am not suicidal.. just over whelmed with things. like i said things seem fine on the outside but I cant seem to control my inner thougts...
I am very worried about myself please help me ...If only these thoughts would stop recurring,...I want to forget everything and move on. please help me..
nefertiti on 2012-10-03
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Please can you kindly please consider my case also. I need some assistance.
I want to get in control of my anger and sad feelings. I was in contol of myself before all this happened... please help me.
[message edited by nefertiti on Thu, 04 Oct 2012 06:33:42 BST]
I want to get in control of my anger and sad feelings. I was in contol of myself before all this happened... please help me.
[message edited by nefertiti on Thu, 04 Oct 2012 06:33:42 BST]
nefertiti last decade
Please take a single dose of Lachesis 200. Please don't take any other remedies. See how that affects in next 15 days.
♡ kadwa last decade
ok. thank you kadwa.. I want to ask do you think if I take Lachesis there's a chance of some skin erruptions??
I'm a little scared to take Lachesis.
I dont want to be in the company of ppl who hurt me,... but there;s no way I can avoid them because thats how the social setup is where I live and belong...plus they are family I have always beleived in strong family ties. ..
do you really think Lachesis would be right remedy for me...? I'm undecisive.
I'm a little scared to take Lachesis.
I dont want to be in the company of ppl who hurt me,... but there;s no way I can avoid them because thats how the social setup is where I live and belong...plus they are family I have always beleived in strong family ties. ..
do you really think Lachesis would be right remedy for me...? I'm undecisive.
nefertiti last decade
ok... I am reading about Lachesis. It makes alot of sense. Thanks Kadwa... I will get back to you if I have questions Is that ok??
nefertiti last decade
is there a chance of skin erruptions ... or has it ever been observed.
i want to become my old self that i was. i knew ppl were using me or taking advantage of me... but i used to let go.. that it doesnt matter. its THEIR doing and what goes around comes around.... then what happened to me? where is that myself, who was content with whatever she had. at peace with myself... why am i not at peace with myself?????
i want to become my old self that i was. i knew ppl were using me or taking advantage of me... but i used to let go.. that it doesnt matter. its THEIR doing and what goes around comes around.... then what happened to me? where is that myself, who was content with whatever she had. at peace with myself... why am i not at peace with myself?????
nefertiti last decade
You just need to take the remedy. It will start putting you
back into 'balance'. If you had skin problems in past the
remedy might start activating your vital force to clear out
what that was, so you can have things from the past
show up and then Leave- after a few hours or days.
You are not at peace bc you are out of balance-when the
remedy works you will return to another emotional state
where your reaction to things will be different.
If you had to talk to someone who was up most nights taking
care of sick people, that person might be very quick to
anger about little things. then if they had good sleep they
would be relaxed the next day about what they were
yelling about the day before.
You are in state of the person who has not slept and asking
questions from that state. Just take the remedy and watch
how your state changes.
back into 'balance'. If you had skin problems in past the
remedy might start activating your vital force to clear out
what that was, so you can have things from the past
show up and then Leave- after a few hours or days.
You are not at peace bc you are out of balance-when the
remedy works you will return to another emotional state
where your reaction to things will be different.
If you had to talk to someone who was up most nights taking
care of sick people, that person might be very quick to
anger about little things. then if they had good sleep they
would be relaxed the next day about what they were
yelling about the day before.
You are in state of the person who has not slept and asking
questions from that state. Just take the remedy and watch
how your state changes.
♡ simone717 last decade
Thank you simone717.
Your words are very comforting. The fact is that I AM a person who is taking care of sick ppl, not literally but very much so psychologically and emotionally... like I said earlier that I am doing the responsibilities of my husband also.. since he's not of good health. I do it out of love and affection that I have for him, because he's nice to me... but I cant take this crappy behaviour from his family. And my daughter is also going thru some health issues these days...
But your explanation is very soothing I will take this remedy.
Yes I had severe skin issues on my hands about 10 years ago. they were cured 100% by a homeopth..At that time also I was under alot of stress, a different kind of stress. thats why i was asking, but I'm not scared of it.
Thanks for you kind words. I will revert back after I have taken the medicine. takes some time to get it.
Your words are very comforting. The fact is that I AM a person who is taking care of sick ppl, not literally but very much so psychologically and emotionally... like I said earlier that I am doing the responsibilities of my husband also.. since he's not of good health. I do it out of love and affection that I have for him, because he's nice to me... but I cant take this crappy behaviour from his family. And my daughter is also going thru some health issues these days...
But your explanation is very soothing I will take this remedy.
Yes I had severe skin issues on my hands about 10 years ago. they were cured 100% by a homeopth..At that time also I was under alot of stress, a different kind of stress. thats why i was asking, but I'm not scared of it.
Thanks for you kind words. I will revert back after I have taken the medicine. takes some time to get it.
nefertiti last decade
Yes, see what happens.Over where I am usa, they call
it 'burnout' especially for those caretaking relatives,
and those who work in hospitals, firefighters and so on.
Your anger is the normal response to abuse or boundary
violations. I understand bc I went thru similar taking care
of relatives and then having to deal with the other family
members.
Don't know if this situation was always this way or it just
degraded into a slow grinding down of you. You have to
figure out how to take breaks for just yourself, forgive
the other people but stand your ground on bad behaviour,
and pray for all of them and keep asking for healthy
resolution of this situation.It may come in ways you never
thought were possible.
Most of this is burn out- and you just become stressed
and robotic is what happens.
it 'burnout' especially for those caretaking relatives,
and those who work in hospitals, firefighters and so on.
Your anger is the normal response to abuse or boundary
violations. I understand bc I went thru similar taking care
of relatives and then having to deal with the other family
members.
Don't know if this situation was always this way or it just
degraded into a slow grinding down of you. You have to
figure out how to take breaks for just yourself, forgive
the other people but stand your ground on bad behaviour,
and pray for all of them and keep asking for healthy
resolution of this situation.It may come in ways you never
thought were possible.
Most of this is burn out- and you just become stressed
and robotic is what happens.
♡ simone717 last decade
Thanks Simone717. Yes, what you are saying is very true.I will focus more now on outlets for my own well-being also, to prevent myself from being slowly grinding down.
But I am so glad that someone understands.. Thanks for the sound advice!
But I am so glad that someone understands.. Thanks for the sound advice!
nefertiti last decade
Kadwa,
I took Lachesis 200C last night as prescribed. Over the past week or so I was feeling a little better thoughts-wise.
But this morning when I woke up I felt like I was again in the same thought-process of depressing thoughts, and lack of interest in things. I dont know if it's because I know I took Lachesis, but its definitely different from the previous few days. I feel like I want to stay lost in my thoughts. I know you said to wait for 15 days... but I just wanted to ask that is it normal?
I feel like I want be extremely mean to people who're not nice to me. Thats not me... I hope this will fade away.
I took Lachesis 200C last night as prescribed. Over the past week or so I was feeling a little better thoughts-wise.
But this morning when I woke up I felt like I was again in the same thought-process of depressing thoughts, and lack of interest in things. I dont know if it's because I know I took Lachesis, but its definitely different from the previous few days. I feel like I want to stay lost in my thoughts. I know you said to wait for 15 days... but I just wanted to ask that is it normal?
I feel like I want be extremely mean to people who're not nice to me. Thats not me... I hope this will fade away.
nefertiti last decade
I cant tell whats bothering me to the persons that I have problems with me. They just lie to my face! that it didnt happen this way, i didnt say that, i didnt do that... all that kind of rubbish. which makes a person(me) look like the greatest fool in the world, for coming up with such things. but its true that they're not being truthful. and I sooooo HATE that fact. they're just being crappy. i dont want to be around them, i dont want to talk to them, i want to stay away from them. but i cant because they're family and i just feel like i'm stuck in the quagmire...
maybe i should also become like them and start lying and start being deceitful. i sont know if its ok for me to feel like this afte taking Lachesis?
maybe i should also become like them and start lying and start being deceitful. i sont know if its ok for me to feel like this afte taking Lachesis?
nefertiti last decade
Please wait for few days and see whether things change for better. If they don't, please take a single dose of Lycopodium 200 and see how that affects in next 15 days.
♡ kadwa last decade
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