Fluid on inner ear

Hi There,
I am 30 year old woman. I have a deviated septum that I am going to have fixed. I have an evaluation in a couple weeks, but I have an issue. The deviation is causing fluid build up in my right ear. No outward discharge. My neck tightens up and I have been told by a cranio sacralist that my entire lymph chain down my collar bone is backed up. The one in my armpit is not swollen. I can get dizzy spells from these. I don't know if I feel better from it, but I seek warmth through compresses. I have a 3 hour flight on Saturday, and I am afraid to fly with fluids in my ear. I had a reaction to Zyrtec-D. I can take the decongestant part with no reaction, but the allergy med part made me dizzy. I usually never take chemical meds part because I work at a holistic vets office, and part because I had a reaction to birth control.

I am tempted, after a little research, to take silicea, but wanted to do a double check with you guys first.

Personality: I am easily stressed and tend to be defensive. But very much a care taker. I have been told I am a mommy without kids. I am artsy and love to sing. In my own little world. Love to learn with my hands (ADD). Scared of change, but love it at the same time. Lacks motivation.

Anything else, please feel free to ask.