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multi symptom anger
My hubby is having a lot of anger problems lately and he asked for me to help him.. so I'm on here hoping to get some homeopathic suggestions.Symptoms::
anger-yelling, cursing, hitting things
fear of abandonment, rejection, being alone
jealousy and scared that I'm going to be unfaithful (due to past relationships were hes caught an ex cheating)
memory loss- moreso can't recall a sequence of events in the right order or a conversation amd what he has said
feelings that hes unappreciated
he is overworked and doesnt sleep well due to working in the oil field and working weird hours
We got into an argument last night ovrr the silliest thing that led to me crying and him hitting the steering wheel. Basically I asked him why he was moving the truck forward and I asked why bc we were waiting on friends at the gas station. He started talking with an attitude and said 'you..' 'I what?' And it went from there.. I cut him off. I don't fill the gas tank. I need to pack up with our daughter and leave. He said he didnt want to be with someone like me with a bug mouth and started calling me names. Then 5 minutes later, he twisted everything around and started asking why I didnt want to be with him and why I don't love him.. which I never said either of those things.
So I don't know if yall need more info.. I'm happy to answer any questions to help. Recommendations, suggestions, tips?
I know he was sexually and physically assaulted as a young child.. and both parents have never been there as a child, now as an adult they don't care too much about him or seeing him and my hubs is always trying to make that relationship be good.. always trying to call and text them without much of a response. So he has deep rooted anger.. hes told me that before. Plus his dads family has always told him they think hes going to be the one to kill someone.. but hes really not that violent.
duck13 on 2014-03-30
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Does he still talk about the sexual abuse he had undergone in his childhood?
Even if he doesn't talk about it, do you think that incident has affected him in the way he thinks and behaves?
Even if he doesn't talk about it, do you think that incident has affected him in the way he thinks and behaves?
♡ rishimba last decade
No he very rarely talks about it.. and he felt ashamed to even mention it to me the first time he talked about the incidents. Sometimes when we visit the city where everything occured he decided hes on a mission to find the man that hurt him and his brothers and beat him, but thats not all the time.
I can't say that I think the assault is what's causing this anger, maybe it plays a small role. I think the physical abuse may have caused him to be more violent now as an adult when he is angry.
With our sex life, when we first got together we were very active.. now that we have a baby, its decreased. I stay at home all day with the baby tending to her needs and she is teething and having growing pains so I don't sleep much. Hubs works in the oil field and has a strange work/sleep schedule. So when he gets home late at night and wants to have sex I'm usually too exhausted. So us not being as active as he would like seems to bottle up anger for a few days, then he blows up saying the 'why don't you love me?' 'Why don't you want to be with me?' 'Do I make you happy?'
I can't say that I think the assault is what's causing this anger, maybe it plays a small role. I think the physical abuse may have caused him to be more violent now as an adult when he is angry.
With our sex life, when we first got together we were very active.. now that we have a baby, its decreased. I stay at home all day with the baby tending to her needs and she is teething and having growing pains so I don't sleep much. Hubs works in the oil field and has a strange work/sleep schedule. So when he gets home late at night and wants to have sex I'm usually too exhausted. So us not being as active as he would like seems to bottle up anger for a few days, then he blows up saying the 'why don't you love me?' 'Why don't you want to be with me?' 'Do I make you happy?'
duck13 last decade
Give him a dose of STAPHYSAGRIA 1M on a single day morning in empty stomach and watch him for the next 10 days.
Choose the day and time when to give him the dose. He should not have any food or drinks one hour before or after taking the dose.
One dose would be 3 drops of remedy in a tablespoon of water.
Come back here to report your observations after about 10 days.
Choose the day and time when to give him the dose. He should not have any food or drinks one hour before or after taking the dose.
One dose would be 3 drops of remedy in a tablespoon of water.
Come back here to report your observations after about 10 days.
♡ rishimba last decade
I ordered the liquid Staphysagria 1m from canada so it will be here in about 6 days, then I'll get him to take the drops:)
duck13 last decade
Sorry its been a few days past 10. My husband's been better. He still has been snapping but not as much and blowing it out of proportion. When he snaps its mainly been trying tocaxt controlling and talking to me as if he's my parent, like stop talking with a mean look on his face and raising his voice. He's also been gone at work a lot this past week so I haven't seen him much.
How should I continue the remedy?
I did 3 drops in a spoonful of water.. Roughly 1 tablespoon
How should I continue the remedy?
I did 3 drops in a spoonful of water.. Roughly 1 tablespoon
duck13 9 years ago
Yes, you can repeat this potency once in 15 to 20 days if you see his temper shooting up as before.
Three drops in a tablespoon of water in empty stomach is fine.
This potency may exhaust after a couple of doses and you may not see any perceivable change. That is the time to give him one dose of 10M potency. The effect of this potency will be seen for long and he might even get over his pent up emotions and past indignation.
Three drops in a tablespoon of water in empty stomach is fine.
This potency may exhaust after a couple of doses and you may not see any perceivable change. That is the time to give him one dose of 10M potency. The effect of this potency will be seen for long and he might even get over his pent up emotions and past indignation.
♡ rishimba 9 years ago
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