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Fed up with My life! Masturbation

I am 24 years old Male and i have been masturbating since I was 13 years old. During my teenage life I masturbated 2-3 times a day. I didnt stop it and when I was 16 years I masturbated 6-7 times a day. I had isolated myself from everyone. I had tried to stop it alot but i didnt. My parents are very hard working and i am letting them down.

Right Now my hands shiver like 12 hours a day. Mental level all gone. I cant concentrate at all. If I am alone I always think about sex. I am still a virgin. I have no confidence to talk to girls.

I can feel pains in my hands, Legs, a little pain in testicles (sometimes when i focus on it)

If i dont masturbate for 2-3 days then erection is ok (not very hard) I think i still dont have ED but i have wrinkles on my penis head.

I cant sit without a support for more than 5 minutes. Lower back has pain. Also survical has started recently.

My legs pain all the times. I am tired everytime. Recently My knee joints have started paining.

I am also suffering from sinus since 9 years now (though allopathic doctors says its an allergy coz of immuno deficieny and it will never go- I am allergic to some 20+ things even my favorite banana)

I havent eaten pickles since 9 years, not drink or eaten any cold stuff since 9 years. But still i dont want to go more into sinusitis because i want to get rid of masturbation first.

My vision get blurry sometimes. Sudden ejaculation, white hairs on my head since i was 18yrs of age.

My sweat stinks, When i get nervous or even sometimes normally My sweat smell is pathetic and i thus bathe twice to thrice a day.

I eat 2-3 figs daily, 5-6 almonds daily , 5 munakka(raisins) daily with milk,

i also eat ashwagandha churna daily 1 tbspn.

Dont eat onion or garlic, I am pure veg.
 
  harsh15 on 2016-09-10
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bro meri b tumhri trah adat th 5 times daily for 5 years kia aur aj muje bhut body problems ho rahi hai..apna number do bat krege whatsapp pr
 
harry250513 7 years ago
Harsh,

1. Take Acid-phos 1M, (buy 1 drachm) 5 pills Single dose.

2. Avena sativa Q (buy 1 oz) 20 drops in warm water twice daily.

Stop feeling guilty, engage your mind in your work, Yog, reading, etc. Learn something creative / productive. Keep yourself busy.

Report after 2 weeks.

All the best!
 
DrKulkarni 7 years ago
Harsh,

A bit of correction please:

Instead of Acid phos:
First take Opium 1M (buy 1 drahcm) 5 pills, 6hourly, total 3 doses, only one day. Avena sative as already said.

I will let you knnow about acid phos later.
 
DrKulkarni 7 years ago
Thanx I am starting this course now.i will keep you updated now.
 
harsh15 7 years ago
Also i want to tell you that-

I feel burning sensation in my bones all the time, both in hands and legs, this happens more soon after masturbation, and it feels as if someone is taking something out of my bones.
I couldnt remember things, I have lost a lot of memories. I cant hear people (or rather understand them)- If someone says me something, i tell them to repeat it, because i cant fully concentrate on the words.
 
harsh15 7 years ago
All the case details must be written in one go because homeopathy doesn't recommend a medicine for each symptoms but considers them collectively. Please keep this in mind for next communication.

As of now, get going with the prescription.
 
DrKulkarni 7 years ago
harsh muje 5 times. a day masturbation ki adat th 6 sal se...mne roj kia....by rubbbing penis against bed...muje b body m bhutbproblem ho rhi..hath pero m numbness and tingling....whole body bone and muscle pain..penis pain....chest enlargment ...excessive hair growth..penia only 4inch..testis very small 2cm in length
 
harry250513 7 years ago
Hello Dr. Kulkarni,

tHnks for the medicine,
I have taken it for 2 weeks. I have seen some improvement. I now dont like watching porn and also I have a little control on sexual thoughts.
but i still feel pain sometimes in my testicles(lower portion).

moreover i have still zero focus or concentration power, i guess my brain is dead. i cant think at all. i also cant listen and undertstand people.

I have:
1. headache all the time,
2. sleepiness
3. tiredness
4. pain in eyes
5. cough all the times in head, forehead, eyes, throat(alot)
6. i catch up with tonsills like twice a week. Do some gargils to get rid of them.
7. some itching in throat all the time.
8. always out of breath. I feel suffocated all the time.
9.sometimes water from the eyes like 4-7 times a day!
10. low memory
[message edited by harsh15 on Thu, 20 Oct 2016 18:49:33 UTC]
 
harsh15 7 years ago
Write about following:
Age/Gender/Location/Country/Ethnicity. Height / Weight /Hair color/Skin color/Eye color.
Weather tolerance preference (Heat /cold). Thirsty / Thirstless.

Please explain everything in detail. Don't try to cut short.
When & how your present trouble started? Mention location / side (right or left) of each complaint. What is the probable cause of each of your health problem according to you?

All your past and present health conditions in sequence oldest to newest. All details of previous treatments (oldest to newest) and their effects.

For females: Write about your periods / menses.

Write in detail about you – emotions, fears, sentiments, etc. your personality, physical parameters, habits, feelings about life, etc.

Write in detail about your life: social, family, occupational, schooling, childhood, etc. You should mention about incidences that might have influenced or impacted your mind / health / life considerably.

Write about what common opinions most people have about you; what most people comment /say about you frequently; how they react / interact with you & why?

Write something unique about you (how you are different from others or what makes you special).
 
DrKulkarni 7 years ago
Start with liv 52 .you would see definite improvement.

No spices. Eat light fresh food.

Bitter/astringent/sweet taste are for you for now till you get better.

No pungent sour or salty.



Meanwhile confirm that you have low hunger. but thirsty with anger and irritability.

Apologies to Dr kulkarni but above should help.
 
Teupne 7 years ago
Mr. Teupne,
Hi, No I Dont have low hunger infact I want to eat all the time,
i LOVE SWEETS A LOT - might be because it gives me a lot of energy - I visit my kitchen alot and again and again.
 
harsh15 7 years ago
Hello Dr. Kulkarni,

Thanks alot for quick response and sorry That I give such a late reply.

Details you asked:

24/Male/Agra/India
Height-5'7"
Weight - 64KG (I am though very slim but abnormal fat at hips and thigh- sometimes teased by friends to have a girly figure due to this)

Hair Color - Half hairs are white - Using mehandi rather than dyes to color.

Thirsty - Alot! I drink Like 7 liters every day! In the morning drink 1.5 liters soon after i wake up - Drink Warm water all day!

Eye Color - Brown/ Dark Black

Weather Tolerance - Cold is against me- i Cant withstand against cool temperatures - ALL THE TIME(in winters) it feels as if cold is attacking my forehead.

PROBLEM
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1. Low concentration or focus, disability to understand things,
2. Couldn't stop masturbating ( I NEED TO STOP IT PLEASE),
Like if I dont masturbate till 2-3 days, When i suddenly have erection - i got into market to deviate my mind - But it doesnt stops- Moreover I start seeing older women(preferably 25-40) with my sexual thoughts/bad intentions (i know its wrong but I am fed up) and the erection goes on a hard one in public and I have to return home because of it. I then coudnt control and I masturbate - that too not once but like 2-3 continuously because the erection doesnt stop before that. ( Might BE BECAUSE I TAKE FIGS , ALMONDS, everyday)
(i am stil a virgin)

3. Eye sight problems
4. Hands shivering sometimes
5. NERVOUSNESS - lack of confidence to talk
6. Back pain - when sit over 2 hours continuously.
7. Cough and cold and headcahe all times 24 x 7
8. sneezing due to cold or air (fan) and also due to smells when mother cooks food (sort of allergic thing)
I am Allergic too - I grow up with TONSILS Every other day -
I do gargils every second day to reduce it.
Allergic to -
1. Dust(house dust , paper dust etc)
2. Fermented food,
3. eggs (Dont even eat that)
4. banana
5. soya bean
6. Chana Daal
etc. (a few more like 3-4 more things)
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::::-:Let me know if you need the allergy test report! :-::::
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Talking about my present trouble - History
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I started masturbating in class 8 Mid (AGE: 14)
With daily 2 times a day and then in class 9 with daily 5-7 times a day.

My performance became down in class 9 - I was very good in sanskrit and maths and always got 100 marks but in class 9 I saw some changes- Coudnt concentrate on studies. Had cough and cold like twice a week.
In class 10th(age:16) I started seeing White hairs.

I coudn't reply people back what they ask. I started sitting back seat so that teachers dont ask me anything.

I talked to my friends about it and they said it was ok and masturbation is normal and thinking about it with girls is kind of evil thoughts. I didnt stop and never approached a girl also.

I didnt knew back then about the ill effects of masturbation or why this app was happening to me.

In College (age: 18-22) I was totally in dark - Always slept in my classes - Want to do something good or practical but coundt because teachers according to me were pathetic - no knowledge or practical implementation at all.

PREVIOUS MEDICATIONS
----------------------
1.)
In this duration I took homeopathic medicines as well from doctor Alok Pareek. But i didnt tell him about my masturbations Just that I have sinusitis - Because I had cough and cold and headache all (24 x 7) AND CONCENTRATION PROBLEMS etc.
Effects - WHEN I Started this course I had yellow cough and sometimes green cough and then i ended up with white cough - But the problem still persists with cough all the time though its white but all the time. Some improvement in personality in between but then i stopped taking the medicines because it had been 2 years and I wasnt cured totally ( I guess my biggest mistake, lost the patience)

I cant remember things(lack of concentration) so I just missed my doses often - might be why homeopathic course didnt work for me much.

2.) I also did ayurved treatment - baba ramdev medicines and ayurved other medicines as well. Write now also taking some of them (like shatavar churna and ashwagandha)

3.) I also did naturalpathy treatment. Like shirodhara, fasting thing , nasya, to remove the accumulated cough and other

4. Yes, undoubtedly I did Allopathic medicine course as well - but i actually dont believe much in this treatment.

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- Sir please first finish My masturbation problem - root Cause of everything

I try it really hard - to control my self But on 3rd or 4th day of not mastubating I loose all my control - even I see badly on my maid- I feel Like I am an evil person - Really bad person having such a thought

I guess since it has been a long time since i have been masturbating so it has become my nature in the body and it doesnt accept the extra energy added to my body and since i take high nutritious diets so every 2,d 3rd or 4th day it wants to take it out and increases my sexual urges -


I feel discomfortable not masturbating - I feel like masturbating all day - I guess there is a cycle of masturbation which if broken I can get rid of it (jUST MY thought)
What should I do to prevent my sexual urges on 3rd or 4th day of not masturbating so that I miss the cycle.
Or some medicines to suppress my sexual feelings?

Sir waitning your reply thanks
[message edited by harsh15 on Wed, 02 Nov 2016 05:36:28 UTC]
 
harsh15 7 years ago
Check out your prakriti at holisticonline. Com under ayurveda section and post here.


How is your digestion?

Your predominant emotions currently:fear, anxiety, anger, irritability, attachment, greed


What about bitter taste?
 
Teupne 7 years ago
Hi,
Yes i have constipation,
Dried excrete deposits at my anus.

When i have itching there , then i understand that thi dried excreta has come at anus.

Itching ends when this is removed.. happens like 4-5 days a week..
 
harsh15 7 years ago
As your digestion improves so would you.


Check your prakriti and report.
 
Teupne 7 years ago

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