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striking/hitting and smile---well this is to be wise in interpretation..so not add ay biased view on---but i have a hunch thisis an attempt of contact-communication--stirring other to respond --may hap she ses other as dormanyt in shell not open --and she sek to stir--open their shell..a new found joy--communication....i dont lean on interprtatins they most part subject to being bull##&%....this is my thinking though
i am bit concerned at your respnse to diet adjustments..
meat diet is for husband -excuse the ubclarity--for not addessing each in own..
as for daughter...well she wont starve that is for certain..you are mom and i need communicate with you and your motherly instinctive fears....this natural --but need some openness---explore the options ...so much food available--never one set way..but domesticatin has sterilized our thinkings into one set patten of required foods and drinks...she would do well with meat..rice..vegs--broccoli/cauliflower/brussel sprout...etc --yet she ha sthe domestic taste bud already--and most like will fight you on this..i can only tell you it is possible...to establish diet around restrictions..we have done this for 1000's years...eat as what is available...adaptation...it is at times the very foods we THINK right are the very foods we need break from--allow new foods to be experienced..so as not ruin our vasility of assimilating nutriants from varied sorts...
well caught me on good nigh for thoughts..rare in deed but may make more common...
questions?
i am bit concerned at your respnse to diet adjustments..
meat diet is for husband -excuse the ubclarity--for not addessing each in own..
as for daughter...well she wont starve that is for certain..you are mom and i need communicate with you and your motherly instinctive fears....this natural --but need some openness---explore the options ...so much food available--never one set way..but domesticatin has sterilized our thinkings into one set patten of required foods and drinks...she would do well with meat..rice..vegs--broccoli/cauliflower/brussel sprout...etc --yet she ha sthe domestic taste bud already--and most like will fight you on this..i can only tell you it is possible...to establish diet around restrictions..we have done this for 1000's years...eat as what is available...adaptation...it is at times the very foods we THINK right are the very foods we need break from--allow new foods to be experienced..so as not ruin our vasility of assimilating nutriants from varied sorts...
well caught me on good nigh for thoughts..rare in deed but may make more common...
questions?
♡ John Stanton last decade
The 'no wheat' was for my daughter as well?
SO her diet is:
no dairy
no wheat (?)
no fruits
no acidic stuff
low sodium
right ?
Boy I need to get creative.
Let me know if I am on track regarding her diet.
about hitting:
before she showed any kind of aggression and also after wards, my daughter thrives on communication, contact and giving love (hugs, touches), mostly for kids, especially babies or kids that look younger than she is. I think her core she is all about giving love a support to others. So maybe that didn't work so she tries striking to achieve the same goal. not sure.
Thanks,
LovingMom
SO her diet is:
no dairy
no wheat (?)
no fruits
no acidic stuff
low sodium
right ?
Boy I need to get creative.
Let me know if I am on track regarding her diet.
about hitting:
before she showed any kind of aggression and also after wards, my daughter thrives on communication, contact and giving love (hugs, touches), mostly for kids, especially babies or kids that look younger than she is. I think her core she is all about giving love a support to others. So maybe that didn't work so she tries striking to achieve the same goal. not sure.
Thanks,
LovingMom
LovingMom last decade
no wheat for husband..we are mixing threads here..
all else is correct for daughter...
hugs/striking--well her inner state is changed --as well is her way to interact with envirement---much depends if this passes or continues---but wise and use discretion when guiding this new approach she is using--no unnecessary disruption is to be..no harshness...she willrespond --perhaps reluctant--reluctant as new foods but she will--both same approach--once you have resolve then all else falls int place...which brings to mind--you (mother) are to stop medhorinum use...no need ingrain those tendencies in self by repetive use...some characteristics is seen in child..due to use during pregnancy...and prior--if i read correctly...this not recommended at all...thios not homoeopathy--i'm not sure what to call it...but best not do such...
all else is correct for daughter...
hugs/striking--well her inner state is changed --as well is her way to interact with envirement---much depends if this passes or continues---but wise and use discretion when guiding this new approach she is using--no unnecessary disruption is to be..no harshness...she willrespond --perhaps reluctant--reluctant as new foods but she will--both same approach--once you have resolve then all else falls int place...which brings to mind--you (mother) are to stop medhorinum use...no need ingrain those tendencies in self by repetive use...some characteristics is seen in child..due to use during pregnancy...and prior--if i read correctly...this not recommended at all...thios not homoeopathy--i'm not sure what to call it...but best not do such...
♡ John Stanton last decade
John,
I stopped my daily Mehdorinum when you gave her nat-m. I was on it for 4 years. kind of a long time...
I was also on Lachesis mutus for at least 3 years (I started it during my pregnancy with her because of horrible vericose veins) until you started her on nat-m I was still on it and reach Lachesis 1M (sorry i forgot to mention).
(((a side note --> My oldest daughter (9 years old) is also on Mehdorinum. she is already on LM14 - she also been on it for about 4 years (she started before me and my husband. ))))
My young baby seems to be back to 'normal' from before nat-m. she was hungry in the morning and kept on demanding her milk, she was hitting her doll this morning and looking at me while she is doing it for response. i just told her its not nice to do. She also hurt the dog several times this morning.
She cried again in the car because she didn't get to put on MY sun glasses.
But at pre-school she was happy and separated from me with no problem.
However, i see a great improvement still happening with her speech - she is now using only 2 or 3 words sentences (mostly un clear what she is saying - but she is definitley constructing sentences). no more one word that repeats itself.
That's all for now.
I stopped my daily Mehdorinum when you gave her nat-m. I was on it for 4 years. kind of a long time...
I was also on Lachesis mutus for at least 3 years (I started it during my pregnancy with her because of horrible vericose veins) until you started her on nat-m I was still on it and reach Lachesis 1M (sorry i forgot to mention).
(((a side note --> My oldest daughter (9 years old) is also on Mehdorinum. she is already on LM14 - she also been on it for about 4 years (she started before me and my husband. ))))
My young baby seems to be back to 'normal' from before nat-m. she was hungry in the morning and kept on demanding her milk, she was hitting her doll this morning and looking at me while she is doing it for response. i just told her its not nice to do. She also hurt the dog several times this morning.
She cried again in the car because she didn't get to put on MY sun glasses.
But at pre-school she was happy and separated from me with no problem.
However, i see a great improvement still happening with her speech - she is now using only 2 or 3 words sentences (mostly un clear what she is saying - but she is definitley constructing sentences). no more one word that repeats itself.
That's all for now.
LovingMom last decade
Last night she slept good. did not cry or woke up. when I looked at her at about 11:00 pm she was on her side - this time on her left side.
The day went over all ok. she does hurt her sister and the dog several times this afternoon. a little whiney too. want to 'go out'.
her lips are dry today. but did not crack, no bleeding.
speech seem to be improving.
still demanding rice milk through out the day.
I made her egg salad for upcoming dinner. we'll see if she eats it.
nose seems dry.
thanks!
The day went over all ok. she does hurt her sister and the dog several times this afternoon. a little whiney too. want to 'go out'.
her lips are dry today. but did not crack, no bleeding.
speech seem to be improving.
still demanding rice milk through out the day.
I made her egg salad for upcoming dinner. we'll see if she eats it.
nose seems dry.
thanks!
LovingMom last decade
she was a mess this evening. lots of crying and was upset when didnt get exactly what she wants. and since she is so active - she constantly wants things.
I think part of it is my fault because today i am very stressed. have no patience for her. I lost it twice this evening and yelled. One time was directed at her constant crying/whining (I yelled at her to stop crying...) and the second i just yelled to the air trying to vent out frustration.
her lips were dry today. better after bath.
She had some incidents of runny nose (clear discharge) but I think it was mostly after crying.
she didnt eat the egg salad. just two hard boiled eggs.
She has lots of 'wants' - of course I cannot agree to even half of those (like holding the car keys when we need to start the car when we leave the house).
She was good at bath time. her sister joined her and they had fun together. Just before bed time she demanded milk. She is still up playing with her sister in her room.
The reason why she is spending lots of time with her sister is because my back is out this evening. I can't pick her up. she thrives on attention from me, and I can't realy give her any tonight. It went out when i tried to pick this 30 pounder. Of course i forgot to bend my knees.
Anything for my back ?(its lower right side and it hurt at certain movements like its a nerve being pintched. but other times it doesnt hurt. but I am afraid to move because the pain comes often. I hope it will be better tomorrow.
Anyways, my back not so important. I just cannot take care of her when my back is out.
Thanks!
Loving mom
I think part of it is my fault because today i am very stressed. have no patience for her. I lost it twice this evening and yelled. One time was directed at her constant crying/whining (I yelled at her to stop crying...) and the second i just yelled to the air trying to vent out frustration.
her lips were dry today. better after bath.
She had some incidents of runny nose (clear discharge) but I think it was mostly after crying.
she didnt eat the egg salad. just two hard boiled eggs.
She has lots of 'wants' - of course I cannot agree to even half of those (like holding the car keys when we need to start the car when we leave the house).
She was good at bath time. her sister joined her and they had fun together. Just before bed time she demanded milk. She is still up playing with her sister in her room.
The reason why she is spending lots of time with her sister is because my back is out this evening. I can't pick her up. she thrives on attention from me, and I can't realy give her any tonight. It went out when i tried to pick this 30 pounder. Of course i forgot to bend my knees.
Anything for my back ?(its lower right side and it hurt at certain movements like its a nerve being pintched. but other times it doesnt hurt. but I am afraid to move because the pain comes often. I hope it will be better tomorrow.
Anyways, my back not so important. I just cannot take care of her when my back is out.
Thanks!
Loving mom
LovingMom last decade
i need start digging into more personal info...as concerning family life and such...i will not do so unless given permission ...
2 ways given permission to continue here---or preferred by emaill...your decision.
2 ways given permission to continue here---or preferred by emaill...your decision.
♡ John Stanton last decade
When evaluating the fact that a 2 year old has delayed speech you also have to factor in the cultural aspect of the family: Her parents and grandparents and the child care situation is of a varied language orientatio? Children who grow up in a home where many or several languages are spoken or the manny speaks a language different from that of the family group,will sometimes retard their speaking age due to the fact that a child is experiencing conflict or dissimilar communication experience and is torn between speaking the nanny's language (after all she is the almost full time nurturer in the child's life)and that of the parents, who are at work during the child's waking hours.wow,tningp
generator last decade
Dear Loving Mom
Be patient. You may be jumping the gun by wanting all children to develope according to statistical expectatins You need to also consider the fact that you may have a home where various languages are spoken daily. The child may be dwelling on the fact that her nurturing adult(child care person)speaks one language and the parents(who are predominatly not home during the nurturing hours of the day,speak another language and the doting nurturing grandparents speak an entirely different language.(this from personal experience)One day the child will have sorted out all three languages and will be conversive in who knows what langauge. Prepare to be surprised My little Tony is quite an orator in threee languages and take a long while before he sprouted into three langauges. What a joy. He speaks wisdom and pure prose. sPrepaegrandparentsingv
Be patient. You may be jumping the gun by wanting all children to develope according to statistical expectatins You need to also consider the fact that you may have a home where various languages are spoken daily. The child may be dwelling on the fact that her nurturing adult(child care person)speaks one language and the parents(who are predominatly not home during the nurturing hours of the day,speak another language and the doting nurturing grandparents speak an entirely different language.(this from personal experience)One day the child will have sorted out all three languages and will be conversive in who knows what langauge. Prepare to be surprised My little Tony is quite an orator in threee languages and take a long while before he sprouted into three langauges. What a joy. He speaks wisdom and pure prose. sPrepaegrandparentsingv
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