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Desperate Crying all the time
Hi, I am at my wits end. My son is addicted to marijuana and won't admit he has a problem. He has been arrested 4 times and now probably faces some jail time. I most likely am a codependent and I have tried joining a support group but have trouble even speaking because I can't get the desperation, fear, anxiety, hopelessness and everything else out without bursting into sobs. My husband can't take the tension and wants to walk out. I am a 10 year breast cancer survivor and feel the stress is going to bring it all back and kill me. Four months ago I spent every waking moment watching my mom die of cancer and I still have not had a chance to grieve for that, since everything else has hit me. My home is for sale and we are living under poor conditions in my mom's home, while we try to figure a way to renovate it. I am feeling extremely depressed and at times really do not even want to go on. I find no joy in life, although I know that it is out there. My eyes are so clouded that I fear I won't make it another day. I am against drugs, alcohol and cigarettes. I don't even drink coffee, and eat a very healthy diet. I need something to take the edge off and need lots of support so that I can go on. If anyone has any suggestions I am willing to listen. Please help me. I just don't know how to keep going, and I know I can't like this. Thanks for listening.miman on 2007-01-15
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please give homoeopathic medicine cannabis stiva 200c weekly one dose of 2 drops and continue for 3-6 month for geting good result
dr.deoshlok sharma
dr.deoshlok sharma
♡ deoshlok last decade
Thank you so much dr. I would like to know if this is found in a regular health food store so that I may get it.
miman last decade
In reading about this cannibis sativa the side effects seem horrible, especially for the mind. I don't think that one can function. Why is this the recomendation you have suggested? Is there anything else that has less side effects. I need to be able to function without doing any more damage to any part of my body. Please explain about this homeopathic medicine. thanks
miman last decade
Dear Miman,
The good doctor has prescribed that remedy for your son to help him get over his addiction to marijuana.It is definitely worth a try.
For you, i suggest that you take three doses of Ignatia 200C on three successive mornings.It will help you to deal with the intense grief that you have witnessed of late.We will take it after you report back a week or so later of having taken Ignatia doses.
Do try the remedy suggested by Doctor Deoshlok for your son too.Who knows, it might help him reform.
Rajiv
The good doctor has prescribed that remedy for your son to help him get over his addiction to marijuana.It is definitely worth a try.
For you, i suggest that you take three doses of Ignatia 200C on three successive mornings.It will help you to deal with the intense grief that you have witnessed of late.We will take it after you report back a week or so later of having taken Ignatia doses.
Do try the remedy suggested by Doctor Deoshlok for your son too.Who knows, it might help him reform.
Rajiv
♡ rajivprasad last decade
Can I ask, and I mean this in a very kind way: Would it be such a bad thing for your son to spend some time jail for his crimes?
Chances are, he will not be locked up with the hard-core crims, but will be put in a minimum-security prison. There he will be able to undergo properly controlled detoxification for his addiction, and also be required to work at a trade or profession that may eventually benefit him later. Which is actually less worry than what is happening to him now.
So you would then have one less thing to worry about so much, and you can concentrate on those things you feel you need to catch up on - resolving issues with your husband, and the loss of your mother, for a start. And condolences too, by the way.
Once these become more settled, however that may be, you will then have more time to spend on your housing and other issues. And so on down to the less important issues.
Generally, I suggest you pick the most important issues facing you, resolve clearly how you will deal with them, make a viable plan, and push forward with courage. Then go on to the next one. One step at a time, going forward.
You can do it - it can work out for the better. Good luck!
Chances are, he will not be locked up with the hard-core crims, but will be put in a minimum-security prison. There he will be able to undergo properly controlled detoxification for his addiction, and also be required to work at a trade or profession that may eventually benefit him later. Which is actually less worry than what is happening to him now.
So you would then have one less thing to worry about so much, and you can concentrate on those things you feel you need to catch up on - resolving issues with your husband, and the loss of your mother, for a start. And condolences too, by the way.
Once these become more settled, however that may be, you will then have more time to spend on your housing and other issues. And so on down to the less important issues.
Generally, I suggest you pick the most important issues facing you, resolve clearly how you will deal with them, make a viable plan, and push forward with courage. Then go on to the next one. One step at a time, going forward.
You can do it - it can work out for the better. Good luck!
ZepOz last decade
Thank you for your kind words and heartfelt sentiment. I know that jail may be the answer, and that is a great fear that I must get over. I know desperately that my son needs counseling for other disabilities as well as the addiction and my hope is that he is sent to a rehab center that does give him the help he needs. He won't consider it on his own and I am powerless to change his behavior. I am learning that in the support group. I am trying to get the emotional help that I need for myself. thatUnfortunately this will be a long process and my feelings of desperation are so strong, and my wishes for a magic wand are obviously unrealistic, so I really don't go there and try to take it one day at a time, but sometimes, especially at night it engulfs me. Words like yours and just having someone else for support to encourage me on is a blessing, and I really want to thank you for taking the time. Believe me it is helpful that you have reached out to me. Your kindness won't go unnoticed. Knowing that someone out there cares will help me get through the hard times.
miman last decade
Good! You are sounding more positive already! So don't let things overwhelm you!
There is an old saying: How does a mouse climb Mt Everest? Answer: One teeny-weeny step at a time... It means that you can make progress on a big task that looks too difficult by breaking it down into little tasks you CAN handle one at a time.
As I said above, you need to concentrate on what is important to you, prioritise things, get a workable and realistic plan in place for each of your problems, and push forward.
You know what your problems are, and I'm sure you can decide which ones are critical right now. And you do seem to have solutions in your mind. So you are well on the way to making some progress.
Don't worry too much if things change, or there are little hiccups on the way, or stuff doesn't work out quite like you expected. Keep your goals in mind, adjust if you need to, and keep on going.
You CAN do it - you will feel lots better as more issues are dealt with. No magic wand required, just your own resolve can do it!
Good luck!
There is an old saying: How does a mouse climb Mt Everest? Answer: One teeny-weeny step at a time... It means that you can make progress on a big task that looks too difficult by breaking it down into little tasks you CAN handle one at a time.
As I said above, you need to concentrate on what is important to you, prioritise things, get a workable and realistic plan in place for each of your problems, and push forward.
You know what your problems are, and I'm sure you can decide which ones are critical right now. And you do seem to have solutions in your mind. So you are well on the way to making some progress.
Don't worry too much if things change, or there are little hiccups on the way, or stuff doesn't work out quite like you expected. Keep your goals in mind, adjust if you need to, and keep on going.
You CAN do it - you will feel lots better as more issues are dealt with. No magic wand required, just your own resolve can do it!
Good luck!
ZepOz last decade
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