14 month old girl eczema

1. My 14 month old daughter has:
-very red, inflammed, dry eczema.
sometimes ooze and bleed
-began in April in Los Angeles (dry climate)
-She scratches it a lot and that makes it even worse. It seems the main problem is mostly how much she is scratching
-Location: behind her knees, ankes and feet. Small amount in her wrist and elbow joints and a small patch on her right forarm, but those don't seem to bother her as much as her feet, ankles, and behind her knees.
- heat makes it worse, but a lukewarm /cool oatmeal bath will make it a little better. -I have to keep her in footie pajamas so she won't scratch going to sleep.
-tested positive for dairy, egg white, and peanut allergies and has since then had a reaction to almond butter
- She is very verbal for her age, and very aware of her surroundings.
-easily anxious/nervous. At the same time she is very happy and excitable too.
- She LOVES to eat goat's milk yogurt (since it's the only dairy I've never seen a reaction to) and fruit and turkey.
- I have tried 1% hydrocortizone on her several times which helped for about 24 hours. But I don't want to use the steriods.
- calendula cream (no noticed improvement) and Eucerin Aquaphor (that seems to help the dryness some).
- She has also had major issues with constipation for months, though lately that has improved with prune juice and flaxseed being added to her diet.