please suggest a remedy

dear doctors,

i am a 27 year old female. i have some symptoms. instead of taking a different medicine for each complaint, i am hoping to find a solution through homoeopathy.

1. firstly i have an itchy, scaly and dry patch of skin on both my elbows. it started first on the right elbow and then on the left. i became conscious of it about 1 1/2 years back.. about the time i got married. i feel the itching more when i wake up in the morning.. possibly because i am unaware of it in my sleep.

2. i am very irritable and moody with my family members other than my parents. i believe that the irritability is due to boredom and i try to occupy myself as much as possible. i have always dreamt of a career but i have not been able to work since i got married due to unavoidable circumstances. i feel inadequate without a job, as if my intellect and skills are being wasted. i have applied to some jobs now and i hope things will work out.

3. i had been diagnosed with posterior anal fissure and external piles one year back. actually i have been suffering pain during and after defecation since 3 years on and off. i was not taking any medicine but tried to prevent pain with diet. but the pain has increased since last one year, on and off. i am taking a combination of aesculus hipp 3x, fucus vesiculosus 3x, aloes 8x, collinsonia 3x, cardus mar 3x, hamamelis 10x, urtica urens 12x, plantago 3x... 5-6 drops thrice daily since 1 month, with good results.

4. i do not take coffee or tea.. they make me extremely restless, talkative and insomniac. i also do not take pickles which are a staple food in south indian diet. i have low energy and need to sleep a lot.. minimum 8 hrs and if possible 10 hrs which is hardly ever possible.

5. i cry very easily and am extremely sensitive to any criticism from my husband or in-laws. last week i had gone into depression and felt better only after i went out-of-station for a day.

6. i generally dont fear anything, other than criticism from my husband. my husband is very loving but i'm sure he's fed up of my moods. my brother passed away in a road accident 2 yrs back, and since then i feel very lonely even though my cousins keep in constant touch with me. i was very close to my brother.

7.i used to have a 'don't care' attitude to criticism but i don't know why i have become so sensitive. i am using cyproterone acetate and ethinyloestradiol tablets as oral contraceptive since last one year. i wonder if that has any effect on my emotions.

8.i had had jaundice 9 years back. treated homeopathically with mother tinctures. i also had ringworm on thighs treated with Urtica urens 8 years back. i am not allergic to anything.

9.i feel heat in my body and head every 2-3 days. i sweat a lot on my palms and soles since my childhood..and they become cold. but my head feels like it is bursting with heat.

10. i feel thirsty often and take water half a glass every 2 hours. i try to keep my urine and bowels clear by drinking enough water.

11. i weigh 45 kgs for my height 5 feet 1 inch. my weight has remained constant since last 3 years. i am conscious of what i eat but i do not diet. i have more fat depositing in my thighs and hips and my arms are very thin.

i would be glad to give any more details if required. but i do not want to make the first post itself very long.. so i will stop here.

thank you