Lots of General Health problems - Advice appreciated

I've read that it's important to post all my symptoms, so in the hopes of full recovery I'm posting my sympotoms. Please let me know if there is anything else you need.

Genitals: After urination is complete, sometimes a few drops drip out. It usually feels like some need to get out even after I'm done. This has been ongoing for over a year. I avoid tea b/c it exacerbates this symptom. Also, I have this horrible smell coming from my penis that i want to get rid of. some background: It's not a UTI b/c I've recently tested for that, and not an STD.I have very good hygeine and wash under the foreskin with plain unscented soap every day, and make sure that i rinse thoroughly.
This is not my natural smell as I did not smell like this for my entire life before. But in the past few months, if I masturbate a few times in a week (2-3), than this horrible sexual smell comes out of my penis and remains for over a week.So Far I have abstained for 3 weeks (and will forever from now on) and the smell still has not gone. Also, it seems like I'm operating on a hairtrigger when it comes to sexual thoughts. If I just begin thinking them my penis begins emitting a tiny bit of lubricant. However, the smell is still there even if dry. The smell is my main complaint.

mucous
-cloudy in water like spider webs
-some sedimentation after time. (first spit)
-milk increases amount, but always there even with few months off milk

allergy
-extreme sensitivity to gasoline/diesel smell
-hard to breathe sometimes b/c of extreme nasal congestion. This happens when indoors a lot. Outdoors it is usually easier to breathe but the nasal passages still often feel as if they are not fully open.

chest congestion, feeling of tightness around heart that sometimes occurs when stressed. Lots of stress, anxiety. Faster than normal heartbeat. Am meditating and trying to avoid rumination on possible negative future events to try to deal with stress

mind: very absentminded; often begin to do something and then forget what I was doing. Difficulty concentrating. Low motivation to do my schoolwork.

IBS: have received diagnosis of irritable bowel syndrome. Some foods, such as roti, especially whole wheat, causes a lot of terrible smelling gas. Gas is the worst and most frequent problem with the IBS. Occasional bowel cramping and peristalsis; cramps and sharp pains in intestine, sometimes sharp pain in stomach, pain feels like stabbing knife. Gurgling in intestine. Constipation - I go to the washroom twice a day usually, but almost always feel like there's still some left, so my bowels don't feel clean. Additionally, I'll have occassional terrible gas that is relieved only with a bowel movement, but the movement is very small. Stress makes these symptoms worse. Without stress they are more manageable.

I would appreciate any help with this. Also, there is another thread that I'm continuing this post from, that thread was about one issue, this thread gives all Symptoms b/c homeopathy faq's teach that knowing all Symptoms is important for the Dr.