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Sexual fear,..Looking for sincier help
I am danial form Lahore Pakistan. I had a bad habbit of masturbation since my childhood. I am very happy now that i completely left this habbit after fighting it very much. I am a GOD fearing person and avoid anything bad except tension(i have no control). I offer my prayers regularly as well and i feel this thing only has me for more masturbation and related bad acts. Now i am at age 27 and soon i am going to get married. I am bit confused about my sexual health and mantel situation due to this. Looking for sincier advise from a doct form Pakista and India and specially from the persons who have samilar problems.One more thing is that once i have taken selinum 30 for 10-15 days 2-3 times a day with consulation last year. Then i couldnot stop masturbation but i feel it was effecting me in good way a little bit like in erriction only.
Looking forward to hear sincier advise soon.
danial on 2008-04-08
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Dear danial,AOA
Please take Acid Phos-30 (3 drops morning and night) for 2 weeks and report.
dr.mahfooz
Please take Acid Phos-30 (3 drops morning and night) for 2 weeks and report.
dr.mahfooz
♡ Mahfoozurrehman last decade
i am majid from gujranwala I had a bad habbit of masturbation since my childhood i am try lots medicen like tibb hikmat but we cannot recover completly so please help me
majid1 last decade
Thanks Dr Tahira, And Dr. Mahfooz.
I would like to explain my problems now.
1- I feel my self very week, I cannot hold weight, I feel my head moving when do some physical hardwork.
2- These days i feel my feets are burrning(very stron feeling when i remove my shoes and socks after comming back from office. Also pain in lower part of my legs near feet.
3- Urin problem, I feel burnning whing urining. Whein stooling when i put some stress, Whitesh drops come out earlier these drops were very thick and whitesh like thread, now a days it is whitesh but not thick.
4- Also as i have left masturbation completey for more than 4 months now. I dont know how is my eriction and ejeculation time now. and i dont know weather to be worried about it or not.
5- I normally avoid seeing hot scens on television but whenever i do, I feel liqued is going to flow out from my penies and going to make my cloth dirty. So i normally avoid seeing these kind of things now.
6- Also apearntly the my Pe is looking bit week now. Thin and fulthy.(And i also dont know weather to be worried about it or not).
7- I feel lot of tension of different things. like social issues, work issue job issue etc.These problems look me like gaints now.
8- I feel my memory is becoming week now. I dont remember important works to do also i dont remember names and phone numbers of newly met people.
9- My hair have removed very much (not compleltely) during last few years. Now they are not falling but they are bcoming gray.
10- Last but not the least. I have read some litrature that these are all sicalogical problems not physicall and all these symtoms and other due to masturbation removed after marraige and no medication is required. I personally dont feel it is correct. Please guide me in this respect.
Looking forward to hear from you.
I would like to explain my problems now.
1- I feel my self very week, I cannot hold weight, I feel my head moving when do some physical hardwork.
2- These days i feel my feets are burrning(very stron feeling when i remove my shoes and socks after comming back from office. Also pain in lower part of my legs near feet.
3- Urin problem, I feel burnning whing urining. Whein stooling when i put some stress, Whitesh drops come out earlier these drops were very thick and whitesh like thread, now a days it is whitesh but not thick.
4- Also as i have left masturbation completey for more than 4 months now. I dont know how is my eriction and ejeculation time now. and i dont know weather to be worried about it or not.
5- I normally avoid seeing hot scens on television but whenever i do, I feel liqued is going to flow out from my penies and going to make my cloth dirty. So i normally avoid seeing these kind of things now.
6- Also apearntly the my Pe is looking bit week now. Thin and fulthy.(And i also dont know weather to be worried about it or not).
7- I feel lot of tension of different things. like social issues, work issue job issue etc.These problems look me like gaints now.
8- I feel my memory is becoming week now. I dont remember important works to do also i dont remember names and phone numbers of newly met people.
9- My hair have removed very much (not compleltely) during last few years. Now they are not falling but they are bcoming gray.
10- Last but not the least. I have read some litrature that these are all sicalogical problems not physicall and all these symtoms and other due to masturbation removed after marraige and no medication is required. I personally dont feel it is correct. Please guide me in this respect.
Looking forward to hear from you.
danial last decade
Dear Danial,
After reading ur post i feel that u need proper treatment to cure the root.If u will seek for short cuts or trials on medicines,u will lost even the rest of ur energies.Now this is upto u.
Dr.Tahira
After reading ur post i feel that u need proper treatment to cure the root.If u will seek for short cuts or trials on medicines,u will lost even the rest of ur energies.Now this is upto u.
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
Dr. Tahira,
Thanks for your reply.
Should i come to see you. One . I am not a rich guy and cannot afford expensive treatmenet. But i am serious about my hearlth.
Can you please explain your words i am affraid of what you are saying. Is there any thing serious and how should i proceed.
Thanks for your reply.
Should i come to see you. One . I am not a rich guy and cannot afford expensive treatmenet. But i am serious about my hearlth.
Can you please explain your words i am affraid of what you are saying. Is there any thing serious and how should i proceed.
danial last decade
This is not necessary to come to me u can stick with any physician who satisfy u.I to want make u clear one thing,usually people consider sexual health problems as a different issue,here i disagree with this common thought.Infact genital organs and their functions are as important and considerable as other organs of body and their dysfunctioning disturbs the whole metabolic systom most likely other organs.For example in my clinical practice i observed that masterbation and liver problems are very much associated,Aur rahi sahi qasar hamaray hukma aur atba poori kar daite hein.Human body is a unit,each and every organ with its paticular function maintains the whole systom.
Dr.Tahira
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
Dr.Tahir,
Thanks for your reply. And i feel what you are saying is right. One thing i want to ask that, In normal practice specially in our contry there are lots of people with the problmes like mine. do you see homoeopathy is realy curing their problems or not. I mean how much effecitve homepathy will be in my case.
Thanks for your reply. And i feel what you are saying is right. One thing i want to ask that, In normal practice specially in our contry there are lots of people with the problmes like mine. do you see homoeopathy is realy curing their problems or not. I mean how much effecitve homepathy will be in my case.
danial last decade
Danial,
homeopathy never disappoints its real followers,those people who love homeopathy and understand its spirit.as far as ur problem is concerned,no doubt it is curable but only in case if it is treated on individuality basis.
Dr.Tahira
homeopathy never disappoints its real followers,those people who love homeopathy and understand its spirit.as far as ur problem is concerned,no doubt it is curable but only in case if it is treated on individuality basis.
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
Dr. Tahira,
Can you please start my treatment i will be realy greatful to you. As i have written in my earlier msgs that i am now a GOD fearing person and trying to avoid anything bad. So naturally i hope i can find cure of my problems from a good person. They way you are adressing my questions seriousely and not directly asking me for medicine i feel you can realy help me to pull me up from this difficult situation. As you said homeopath can be effcetive in my case. Then i would request you to give me some time. Or if you dont have time then can you refer me to some other doctor please.
Thanks in advance.
Danial.
Can you please start my treatment i will be realy greatful to you. As i have written in my earlier msgs that i am now a GOD fearing person and trying to avoid anything bad. So naturally i hope i can find cure of my problems from a good person. They way you are adressing my questions seriousely and not directly asking me for medicine i feel you can realy help me to pull me up from this difficult situation. As you said homeopath can be effcetive in my case. Then i would request you to give me some time. Or if you dont have time then can you refer me to some other doctor please.
Thanks in advance.
Danial.
danial last decade
Dear patients,
Generally people think homeopathic treatment is so easy and limited,just to find a remedy and thats all.There is no critaria to judge the credibility of remedies.Moreover prescribed medicines are misused and patients come back with complaints of aggrevation.Why all this?Just because lack of homeopathic knowledge and awareness.How many people are there who know that finding a single remedy is a difficult task but case managment is comparatively a very difficult and timetaking procedure.I strongly recommend to all who come for forum treatment,plz get atleast basic knowledge of homeopathy to clear ur concepts and ofcourse for ur own sake.(Net has made it possible)
Dear Danial,
There are many questionnare available at this forum,select a shorter one and reply.
Dr.Tahira
Generally people think homeopathic treatment is so easy and limited,just to find a remedy and thats all.There is no critaria to judge the credibility of remedies.Moreover prescribed medicines are misused and patients come back with complaints of aggrevation.Why all this?Just because lack of homeopathic knowledge and awareness.How many people are there who know that finding a single remedy is a difficult task but case managment is comparatively a very difficult and timetaking procedure.I strongly recommend to all who come for forum treatment,plz get atleast basic knowledge of homeopathy to clear ur concepts and ofcourse for ur own sake.(Net has made it possible)
Dear Danial,
There are many questionnare available at this forum,select a shorter one and reply.
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
Here what i have suggested on a forum run by a sycatrist.
[i]app bilkul theek hain. kuch negative mat sochain. mein nain 15-16 saal taak masterbation ki hai aur takreeban daily. abhi pichlai week meri shaddi hoi hai aur mein bhi bohut peraisahan that apni physican and sexyal health kai barai mein laikin phir meinanin is per kaboo pana shuru kia aur shaadi sai ab tak mein rooz 1-2 dafa intercourse karta hoon aur sab kuch theek thak hai. koi problem nahin hain. meri bhi takreeban app hi ki jasi problems theen. keh sahid shaadi wali raat khara naho ya kuch aur ghalat ho jai laikin ALLAH ka shukar hai sab normal hai. meri wife 100% satisfied hai.[i]
Sory it is in urdu i couldnot translate it but i hope it is understandable.
Please tell me is it seems to be true or not. I m very much confused.
[i]app bilkul theek hain. kuch negative mat sochain. mein nain 15-16 saal taak masterbation ki hai aur takreeban daily. abhi pichlai week meri shaddi hoi hai aur mein bhi bohut peraisahan that apni physican and sexyal health kai barai mein laikin phir meinanin is per kaboo pana shuru kia aur shaadi sai ab tak mein rooz 1-2 dafa intercourse karta hoon aur sab kuch theek thak hai. koi problem nahin hain. meri bhi takreeban app hi ki jasi problems theen. keh sahid shaadi wali raat khara naho ya kuch aur ghalat ho jai laikin ALLAH ka shukar hai sab normal hai. meri wife 100% satisfied hai.[i]
Sory it is in urdu i couldnot translate it but i hope it is understandable.
Please tell me is it seems to be true or not. I m very much confused.
danial last decade
Dear doctor Tahira this is my condition.
Patient ID: Danial
Sex: Male
Age: 27
Nature of work: Electronics,computer
Habits: Internet surfing, watching tv news.
Describe your main suffering and from how long?
I have copy this questinare from this site.
Q:Do u think or fantasize a lot on sexual matters and how often.?
A:I donot often think but i do fantiasize a bit on sexual matters.Presently I m trying to avoid such things,thoughts or metters which can fantiasize me more and this is becuase i m trying to avoid mastubration. Becuase these things leads to come out white fluid which teas me and compell me towards mastubration.
Q:does jel like fluid comes out unintentionaly withput any sexual thoughts or sex scenes ?
A: No it doesnot come without any sexual thoughts or sex sceens. But when i see or though about sex First I got erriction some time less some time more then it comes out and stop when i stop thinking or watching things about sex.
Q: how is ur stomach, stools and constipation etc?
A: My stomach is normally upset as so I normally dont take lunch in afternoon. I take normal breakfast take my dinner late in night.I dont have time for exersice and games but i like to see and participate in games and exercise.
Normally my consitipation is daily but waist is not in large quanitiy.
Q: how is urination , color and how much or how often ?
A: Urination is not frequent normally i goto washroom time 2 times in 24 hours. In morning and in late evenning.
Most often the color is yellowish. Very few time white.And as i dont go for urin very often in a day so it normally in large quanitity.
Q: does white fluid comes out before or after urination?
A: The white jel like fluid comes out after urination. But this liquid is different then i told you come out when i see or though about sex because the thing jel liquied come out after urin is bit thick and it does feel my feets are burning . But the other when i see or thought about sex is bit thin and I feel sensation.
Q: how is physical state and shape of penis, is it more loose and flabby than normal? and its color (darkened or not) ?
A: Yess it is more loose and flabby than i have in past days. It color is darker than before . One more thing, from last 4 or 5 years there is Thick Vain visible which was not so thick earlier. Also my pennis became bit thin then earlier age. Its size is almsot 6', but it has little bend towards left. Which is becuase i think due to my mastubration.
Q: any wet dreams, sexual dreams etc ?
A: NOT AT ALL, I never seen such dreams . I used to had night fall earlier almost 2-3 years back regualary but now I am not having night fall even from 4-5 months.
Q:do hairs fall from eyebrows, eye lashes, whiskers and bosy hairs ?
A:I have never paid attention on eyebrows and eylashes hairs they do fell but not as noticeable as hair from front part of my head.From my chest If i pick hair through my hand some of them always came out from root but hair are health soon thay come again to fill my chest again , amost same is the case with me legs also.
Q: how are pubic hairs ?
A: They are realy storng and healthy and in good quanity. Some time i feel anger on this thing that Y my head is loosing and this part of body is getting more and more healthy hairs.
Q: And do u feel physical weakness too?
A: Yess I feel phsical weakness a lot. Some times I feel darkness beforemy eyes and feel my head moving with weakness. Especailly wehenever if mastubrate I feel tired and asleep, then i can sleep easily. But in normal days i cannt sleep early in night. My normal timings are 1-2PM even more then that. same is the case with aweakness. I cannt get up early in the morrning even i getup lat almost 9:30 or 10 in morning with great difficulty.
I havenot been doing exersice from long time so I m sure i cannt even run good. Whenever i try to run I feel little pain right below my stomoach. I cannt lift much weight simply becuase i dont have much power i feel so. I am not gaining weight at normal speed. my weight is about 64Kg and im almost 27 years old. My height is good almost 5feet 11' but i m not as healthy as my height. Also i m getting my waist bigger day by day. Although i havenot gain much weight in recent years but i do gain waist from 29 to 33.
I m bit shy and angry person also i like to be alone most of the time. I dont like people care for me so normally i m bit silent person and dont talk to other people too much. But i do talk to my self more.
This is detailed about me.. Hope you can awnser my questions and start my treatment in better way now.
But do awnser to my question that how much homeopathy can be helpfull and suitable for a person like me....
Danial
regards
Patient ID: Danial
Sex: Male
Age: 27
Nature of work: Electronics,computer
Habits: Internet surfing, watching tv news.
Describe your main suffering and from how long?
I have copy this questinare from this site.
Q:Do u think or fantasize a lot on sexual matters and how often.?
A:I donot often think but i do fantiasize a bit on sexual matters.Presently I m trying to avoid such things,thoughts or metters which can fantiasize me more and this is becuase i m trying to avoid mastubration. Becuase these things leads to come out white fluid which teas me and compell me towards mastubration.
Q:does jel like fluid comes out unintentionaly withput any sexual thoughts or sex scenes ?
A: No it doesnot come without any sexual thoughts or sex sceens. But when i see or though about sex First I got erriction some time less some time more then it comes out and stop when i stop thinking or watching things about sex.
Q: how is ur stomach, stools and constipation etc?
A: My stomach is normally upset as so I normally dont take lunch in afternoon. I take normal breakfast take my dinner late in night.I dont have time for exersice and games but i like to see and participate in games and exercise.
Normally my consitipation is daily but waist is not in large quanitiy.
Q: how is urination , color and how much or how often ?
A: Urination is not frequent normally i goto washroom time 2 times in 24 hours. In morning and in late evenning.
Most often the color is yellowish. Very few time white.And as i dont go for urin very often in a day so it normally in large quanitity.
Q: does white fluid comes out before or after urination?
A: The white jel like fluid comes out after urination. But this liquid is different then i told you come out when i see or though about sex because the thing jel liquied come out after urin is bit thick and it does feel my feets are burning . But the other when i see or thought about sex is bit thin and I feel sensation.
Q: how is physical state and shape of penis, is it more loose and flabby than normal? and its color (darkened or not) ?
A: Yess it is more loose and flabby than i have in past days. It color is darker than before . One more thing, from last 4 or 5 years there is Thick Vain visible which was not so thick earlier. Also my pennis became bit thin then earlier age. Its size is almsot 6', but it has little bend towards left. Which is becuase i think due to my mastubration.
Q: any wet dreams, sexual dreams etc ?
A: NOT AT ALL, I never seen such dreams . I used to had night fall earlier almost 2-3 years back regualary but now I am not having night fall even from 4-5 months.
Q:do hairs fall from eyebrows, eye lashes, whiskers and bosy hairs ?
A:I have never paid attention on eyebrows and eylashes hairs they do fell but not as noticeable as hair from front part of my head.From my chest If i pick hair through my hand some of them always came out from root but hair are health soon thay come again to fill my chest again , amost same is the case with me legs also.
Q: how are pubic hairs ?
A: They are realy storng and healthy and in good quanity. Some time i feel anger on this thing that Y my head is loosing and this part of body is getting more and more healthy hairs.
Q: And do u feel physical weakness too?
A: Yess I feel phsical weakness a lot. Some times I feel darkness beforemy eyes and feel my head moving with weakness. Especailly wehenever if mastubrate I feel tired and asleep, then i can sleep easily. But in normal days i cannt sleep early in night. My normal timings are 1-2PM even more then that. same is the case with aweakness. I cannt get up early in the morrning even i getup lat almost 9:30 or 10 in morning with great difficulty.
I havenot been doing exersice from long time so I m sure i cannt even run good. Whenever i try to run I feel little pain right below my stomoach. I cannt lift much weight simply becuase i dont have much power i feel so. I am not gaining weight at normal speed. my weight is about 64Kg and im almost 27 years old. My height is good almost 5feet 11' but i m not as healthy as my height. Also i m getting my waist bigger day by day. Although i havenot gain much weight in recent years but i do gain waist from 29 to 33.
I m bit shy and angry person also i like to be alone most of the time. I dont like people care for me so normally i m bit silent person and dont talk to other people too much. But i do talk to my self more.
This is detailed about me.. Hope you can awnser my questions and start my treatment in better way now.
But do awnser to my question that how much homeopathy can be helpfull and suitable for a person like me....
Danial
regards
danial last decade
Danial,
Answer to ur last question:Homeopathy is definitely helpful in such cases.But i don't believe to treat patient on the name of a peculiar problem'Male Problems'.Human system is a unit and should be considerd as a whole.There are two noticable symptoms in ur history,one is about ur stomach+stomach pain on running,second is associated with lesser quantity of urine+colour.
Do u want me to treat the system or just temporary relief for ur male problem?
Dr.Tahira
Answer to ur last question:Homeopathy is definitely helpful in such cases.But i don't believe to treat patient on the name of a peculiar problem'Male Problems'.Human system is a unit and should be considerd as a whole.There are two noticable symptoms in ur history,one is about ur stomach+stomach pain on running,second is associated with lesser quantity of urine+colour.
Do u want me to treat the system or just temporary relief for ur male problem?
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
My main conerencs are my sexual health , for which i am worried too much and taking stress. Yes you have said very right that human body is a system and we should treat it as system and i feel the other problems sycalogical as well as physical are due to these 'Male problems'.
If you ask me then i would say that I am worried about the 'Male Problems' rether then the Stomach or urin as I dont feel that thay are creating any trouble. Through controlling diet i have seen recovery in stomach and if i take lots of driniking water then urin problem also seems to be ok.
But these are my views and after all you are a doctor and i m a poor petient. so i want to trust and want leave the meter on you.
Looking forward for your sincier guidance.
Best Regards
Danial
If you ask me then i would say that I am worried about the 'Male Problems' rether then the Stomach or urin as I dont feel that thay are creating any trouble. Through controlling diet i have seen recovery in stomach and if i take lots of driniking water then urin problem also seems to be ok.
But these are my views and after all you are a doctor and i m a poor petient. so i want to trust and want leave the meter on you.
Looking forward for your sincier guidance.
Best Regards
Danial
danial last decade
Danial,
As u said ur main concern is 'male problem' so i will recommend u Avena Sativa Q 10 drops morning and evening.To avoid Masterbation take Calc phos occasionaly 4 tabs as per dose.Take healthy food not starchy.
Dr.Tahira
As u said ur main concern is 'male problem' so i will recommend u Avena Sativa Q 10 drops morning and evening.To avoid Masterbation take Calc phos occasionaly 4 tabs as per dose.Take healthy food not starchy.
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
acid phos 200 lupulin 3x
drpksinha last decade
Thank you doctor Tahira and Doc PKSinha,
Dr, Tahira
Please tell me for how long i should take Avena Sativa Q, and when to report.
Regards
Dr, Tahira
Please tell me for how long i should take Avena Sativa Q, and when to report.
Regards
danial last decade
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
Dr. Tahira,
I have started taking 10 drops of Avena Sativa Q after breakfast and 10 after dinner. Now please tell me the dose of Calc phos . Should i take 4tab at a time.
I have started taking 10 drops of Avena Sativa Q after breakfast and 10 after dinner. Now please tell me the dose of Calc phos . Should i take 4tab at a time.
danial last decade
Dear Dr.Tahira,
Its now 2 weeks i am taking the madicine you told. But i am unable to observe any affects of it.
What should i do know?
These days i am feeling very sad and dejected. Social life is not normal and i normally unable to interect with other people. Now interest in work also and uable to work like i worked in past.
Even some time i feel i should be killed or should go for sucide.
I feel i am stuck and it is also in my mind that it is due to the bad habbit.
Its now 2 weeks i am taking the madicine you told. But i am unable to observe any affects of it.
What should i do know?
These days i am feeling very sad and dejected. Social life is not normal and i normally unable to interect with other people. Now interest in work also and uable to work like i worked in past.
Even some time i feel i should be killed or should go for sucide.
I feel i am stuck and it is also in my mind that it is due to the bad habbit.
danial last decade
Danial,
Do not let negative thinking to come to ur mind.
Take a few doses of Aurum Met 3oc i.e for 4 days once daily.
Keep posting.
Have trust in Allah.
Dr.Tahira
Do not let negative thinking to come to ur mind.
Take a few doses of Aurum Met 3oc i.e for 4 days once daily.
Keep posting.
Have trust in Allah.
Dr.Tahira
♡ Dr Tahira last decade
danial last decade
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