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Nat mur type peson turned bad

Hi my mother is a very clear Nat Mur type whose behaviour has got worse as she has got older. I know she is not going to change but I still find her insults and negative behaviour deeply upsetting. I am sulphur type but abit like Lycopodium or China too I think. Should I take Ignatia or what?
 
  pangolin on 2009-02-02
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you are right;

also rare doses of acid phos 30 when feel mentally tired.
 
sorahamsha last decade
that was ' rare dose of Ignatia 1M'

and acid phos 30;
 
sorahamsha last decade
staphsagriya 30 c thrice daily (this is the first choice)
 
sorahamsha last decade
are you saying that because I feel mentally abused by my own mother that is what makes Staphysagaria the first choice? Have to wait to buy this online as it is not available here.

Already feel better just for talking through this with my husband. He is very supportive and has a high intuition so he can see what my mother is like by himself.
 
pangolin last decade
Lucky to have such a great husband;; If he is doing the staphsagriya work, you need not take any medicine;

But if you still insist to take medication then staphsagriya must be the first choice;
 
sorahamsha last decade
I was not pointing any thing towards you or towards your mother; I was just pointing towards one of the solutions;
 
sorahamsha last decade
it's mums way express her ill..take her case in full--not just stereotype her as thisor that--physical symptoms--sensations-modalities-locations-coicidng factors--leave the mind/mental/emotional aspect fordeciding factor--if comes to that--most like u just getting caught in ur own probelm--using mum as scape goat---be that as it may--this is ur inner ill expressing--so ill treating il--crazy isnt it---focus on physicals--safer when prescribing---too much bias goes into the unseen--as with judging emotions--what they mean--physicals dont lie..
 
John Stanton last decade
Hi John
I don't know if I understood your message at all.

You are advising me to take my mother's case with all details instead of categorising her as Nat Mur. She says she is fine although has multiple long term health problems and does not want to give any details or get better. Says she is too old to change and does not want to REVEAL anything at all about herself or the past, but is bitter and curses people who did something to her more than 30 years ago.

I do not have any physical problem myself, just feel upset by my own mother intentionally hurting my feelings. That is not a way how to treat your own child and I would not do it to my own child.

So how can I focus in physicals? I thought that in homeopathy behaviour and feelings are more valuable symptomps than physicals? Based on what you say I must have misunderstood!
 
pangolin last decade
dont get caught in that sort of thinking--2 forms of physical symptoms OBJECTIVE (as viewedexperienced by other than patient) SUBJECTIVE (as viewed/experienced by patient themselves)

(A true PHYSICIian is TO BE AN UNBIASED OBSERVOR)--

most like ur clarity is lost in this--take other docs advice treat urself--staphysagria may do the trick--but u will need sulphur in ur treatment somewhere...
 
John Stanton last decade
Hi again. I have had further negative experiences for example she says I want her to die although (needless to say perhaps) I have never said anything to that direction. I have also discovered that she has twisted my words and said false things about me to other family members.

After these two incidents initially I was very angry but then it disappeared quickly and now I just feel a loss and sad that the person I used to know is not there any more as she has become so spiteful.

I am considering cutting ties with her as I still have not received any apologies. Somehow I feel at peace with this, I know she is unlikely to change, I know she won't apologise, so I just have to accept this and the best way for me to cope is not to contact her. Is Staphysagaria still the correct remedy for me to take to cope with this, or would it be Ignatia or something else as I feel as if I am in bereavement and this person has died from me? I have spoken about her behaviour in a past to some professionals who advised that there is a limit how much abuse one needs to accept from a parent no matter how dutiful daughter I attempt to be...

John, you said about Sulphur...should it be as a constitutional over a long term?

I have just had a terrible flu and sinus and headache and Gelsemium (that I have never needed before) helped in the recovery.
 
pangolin last decade
Hi-ya can anyone advise? Now I have a pain in my left heel and the Remedy Finder here suggests pulsatilla???
 
pangolin last decade

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