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Hi Sameer,
I was away for a long time. Was onsite on project and busy with work, so I just could not continue with a consistency needed for treatment.My apologies for that.
I kept on taking Lachesis during the first few weeks, but after a point of time, it stopped working. The last time I took Lachesis was from a NEW bottle of Lachesis LM6 and it had no effect. I could not come to you as the Project environment I was part of was monitored (websense and all).
Right now, my condition is much better than what it used to be when I started the treatment with you but I soon run out of energy and restlessness takes over with an overpowering effect.
My main complaints at present are:
(1) Restlessness
(2) Nervousness (Start sweating easily when I come under pressure)
(3) Unable to work in office. However I recently took Stress Vitamins (from Puritan's Pride) and I found I had good energy and motivation but it quickly tapered off after a few days of usage, and restlessness took over.
(4) Will procrastinate to the hilt (as I am unable to work due to inner restlessness) until I find that my neck is on the line, and finally when I do the work, I do it quite well (in most cases).
(5) I can tolerate a little more around my neck but not much (Lachesis).
(6) The other Lachesis symptoms like
jealousy - Within limits,
and jumping from topic to topic - absent.
(7)As I mentioned in my earlier posts: I have a history of suffering insults during teenage.
(8) Lack of sufficient motivation and drive
(9) Lazy
I would be very very grateful if you advise the next course of action, and this time I intend to stick on till the end.
[message edited by Delhinut on Tue, 08 Mar 2011 17:26:45 GMT]
I was away for a long time. Was onsite on project and busy with work, so I just could not continue with a consistency needed for treatment.My apologies for that.
I kept on taking Lachesis during the first few weeks, but after a point of time, it stopped working. The last time I took Lachesis was from a NEW bottle of Lachesis LM6 and it had no effect. I could not come to you as the Project environment I was part of was monitored (websense and all).
Right now, my condition is much better than what it used to be when I started the treatment with you but I soon run out of energy and restlessness takes over with an overpowering effect.
My main complaints at present are:
(1) Restlessness
(2) Nervousness (Start sweating easily when I come under pressure)
(3) Unable to work in office. However I recently took Stress Vitamins (from Puritan's Pride) and I found I had good energy and motivation but it quickly tapered off after a few days of usage, and restlessness took over.
(4) Will procrastinate to the hilt (as I am unable to work due to inner restlessness) until I find that my neck is on the line, and finally when I do the work, I do it quite well (in most cases).
(5) I can tolerate a little more around my neck but not much (Lachesis).
(6) The other Lachesis symptoms like
jealousy - Within limits,
and jumping from topic to topic - absent.
(7)As I mentioned in my earlier posts: I have a history of suffering insults during teenage.
(8) Lack of sufficient motivation and drive
(9) Lazy
I would be very very grateful if you advise the next course of action, and this time I intend to stick on till the end.
[message edited by Delhinut on Tue, 08 Mar 2011 17:26:45 GMT]
Delhinut last decade
Expand more on the following (how does it feel like, if possible give examples):
Restless
Nervous
Jealousy
Insults
Lazy
Restless
Nervous
Jealousy
Insults
Lazy
sameervermani last decade
Restless
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This is central to my problem. I feel inner restlessness that stops me from working. For example, when I come to office in the morning, I find it difficult to start any work, I feel restless
and in spite of trying several times, I am unable to start any assignment. I keep dragging my feet as morning turns to afternoon, and by the time it is 5 or 6 PM, it is time to leave, I pack my
stuff and leave and on the way back I am a little more joyful.
2 years back when I used to get up in the morning, I would sulk and be in a very bad mood. Now I am okay when I get up and head to office,
in fact I am joyous (only slightly) while heading to office but once I reach my place of work, restlessness takes over and I find it difficult to manage things. So as the deadline approaches,
I continue dragging my feet, trying to do it but can't; there is so much of inertia. And finally when I find that my neck is on the chopping block, I get my act together and do what I was supposed to
do, and do it fairly well but by then damage is already done, and what I do just qualifies as damage control, and thats what I have been doing all my life: Completing assigments at the 11th hour
to escape the penalty and I have suffered professionally a lot. And it is all because of RESTLESSNESS
I also suffer from forgetting things a lot. I only remember very important things while I forget rest of the stuff.
On the whole, I am an impressive looking guy with good communication skills, and I impress my potential employers a lot during interviews. They only find out the truth after they recruit me.
Nervous
--------
Well this is also central to my problem, but the intensity of Nervousness is much lesser than what it used to be, lets say, 2-3 or 4 years back when I found it difficult to talk to people.
For example, in a team meeting when my turn comes and I have to speak, I would come under pressure by then and start sweating. People
would notice it and I would sweat even more. This is nervousness.
It doesn happen even now, every now and then but with lesser frequency.
Jealousy
--------
I feel jealous of relatives who poke their nose in my business. Pre-Lachesis this was quite a problem because I would indulge in abuses but I don't do that any more.
And I am able to manage my jealous instincts well.
Insults
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Well this is what happened when I was growing up. Well to put it succinctly, it was:
--> Lack of love and criticism from one parent
--> Humiliation
--> Some of the relatives tried to suppress me (emotionally) and my father played into their hands...
Lazy
----
Well I am very lazy. I come back home and prefer to watch TV. I am grossly overweight and I have tried to reduce weight, but can't. I even brought a treadmill to do it at home but simply couldn't. There is an INITIAL resolve to do things but then I find myself wanting in motivation to continue doing it.
Moral of the story: I start things with much fanfare and then find it very difficult to complete them. Here I am not talking about Office Assignments which I find difficult to even START...
Homeopathic Medicines taken so far (in the same Order):
-----------------------------------
1--> Lycopodium 30, 200, 1M, LM1, LM2
2--> Lachesis 30, 200, 1M, LM1 to LM2
3--> Medorrhinum 200, 1M
4--> Lachesis LM3 to LM6
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[message edited by Delhinut on Wed, 09 Mar 2011 08:55:01 GMT]
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This is central to my problem. I feel inner restlessness that stops me from working. For example, when I come to office in the morning, I find it difficult to start any work, I feel restless
and in spite of trying several times, I am unable to start any assignment. I keep dragging my feet as morning turns to afternoon, and by the time it is 5 or 6 PM, it is time to leave, I pack my
stuff and leave and on the way back I am a little more joyful.
2 years back when I used to get up in the morning, I would sulk and be in a very bad mood. Now I am okay when I get up and head to office,
in fact I am joyous (only slightly) while heading to office but once I reach my place of work, restlessness takes over and I find it difficult to manage things. So as the deadline approaches,
I continue dragging my feet, trying to do it but can't; there is so much of inertia. And finally when I find that my neck is on the chopping block, I get my act together and do what I was supposed to
do, and do it fairly well but by then damage is already done, and what I do just qualifies as damage control, and thats what I have been doing all my life: Completing assigments at the 11th hour
to escape the penalty and I have suffered professionally a lot. And it is all because of RESTLESSNESS
I also suffer from forgetting things a lot. I only remember very important things while I forget rest of the stuff.
On the whole, I am an impressive looking guy with good communication skills, and I impress my potential employers a lot during interviews. They only find out the truth after they recruit me.
Nervous
--------
Well this is also central to my problem, but the intensity of Nervousness is much lesser than what it used to be, lets say, 2-3 or 4 years back when I found it difficult to talk to people.
For example, in a team meeting when my turn comes and I have to speak, I would come under pressure by then and start sweating. People
would notice it and I would sweat even more. This is nervousness.
It doesn happen even now, every now and then but with lesser frequency.
Jealousy
--------
I feel jealous of relatives who poke their nose in my business. Pre-Lachesis this was quite a problem because I would indulge in abuses but I don't do that any more.
And I am able to manage my jealous instincts well.
Insults
-------
Well this is what happened when I was growing up. Well to put it succinctly, it was:
--> Lack of love and criticism from one parent
--> Humiliation
--> Some of the relatives tried to suppress me (emotionally) and my father played into their hands...
Lazy
----
Well I am very lazy. I come back home and prefer to watch TV. I am grossly overweight and I have tried to reduce weight, but can't. I even brought a treadmill to do it at home but simply couldn't. There is an INITIAL resolve to do things but then I find myself wanting in motivation to continue doing it.
Moral of the story: I start things with much fanfare and then find it very difficult to complete them. Here I am not talking about Office Assignments which I find difficult to even START...
Homeopathic Medicines taken so far (in the same Order):
-----------------------------------
1--> Lycopodium 30, 200, 1M, LM1, LM2
2--> Lachesis 30, 200, 1M, LM1 to LM2
3--> Medorrhinum 200, 1M
4--> Lachesis LM3 to LM6
---------------------------------------------------------
[message edited by Delhinut on Wed, 09 Mar 2011 08:55:01 GMT]
Delhinut last decade
Hi Delhinut
Perhaps a little more elaboration on 'inner restlessness' may help sameer.
you say morning becomes afternoon without you having even started.
What exactly goes on physically and mentally that prevents you from working?
Perhaps a little more elaboration on 'inner restlessness' may help sameer.
you say morning becomes afternoon without you having even started.
What exactly goes on physically and mentally that prevents you from working?
faustian last decade
It is a combination of restlessness, lack of motivation and energy, Fear of starting something, avoidance,etc.
Physically I am taking breaths, or rather catching my breath slowly.
Physically I am taking breaths, or rather catching my breath slowly.
Delhinut last decade
Everytime I wish to start I am unable to make the effort, there is restlessness and inertia. I am slowly taking breaths...
Delhinut last decade
One more to add to my above two posts: I think restlessness is there during day time only, nights are enjoyable, and I have much more energy in nights compared to a day.
Delhinut last decade
hmm... well I dont want you to feel this is some sort of a Spanish Inquisition but...
1. are you at your desk ? what are you doing with your hands and feet ?
2. what are your thoughts ? does your mind wander away ? are you thinking of something past ? daydreaming ?
your evenings are better and so are your nights, thats why sameer rightly feels there is an element of the sycotic miasm in you.
1. are you at your desk ? what are you doing with your hands and feet ?
2. what are your thoughts ? does your mind wander away ? are you thinking of something past ? daydreaming ?
your evenings are better and so are your nights, thats why sameer rightly feels there is an element of the sycotic miasm in you.
faustian last decade
1. My hands and feet are stable. Physically I do not fidget. But there is a lot of agitation inside.
2. There are distractions galore. Everytime I want to work, something stops me and I get distracted to do an easier job like browsing internet, chatting up on phone, all to while away time. I just can't bring myself to start work, even though the resolve to work is there.
3. I sleep very late in the night, sometimes at 1:00 AM.
But when I lie down, I sleep within 20 minutes. It is very late also.
2. There are distractions galore. Everytime I want to work, something stops me and I get distracted to do an easier job like browsing internet, chatting up on phone, all to while away time. I just can't bring myself to start work, even though the resolve to work is there.
3. I sleep very late in the night, sometimes at 1:00 AM.
But when I lie down, I sleep within 20 minutes. It is very late also.
Delhinut last decade
Have you ever taken Calcarea Carb ?
sameervermani last decade
No. Never.
Could there still be a sycotic taint, which Medorrhinum could not remove.
I see a Medorrhinum picture. Constitutionally, I am Lycopodium.
[message edited by Delhinut on Fri, 11 Mar 2011 23:21:20 GMT]
Could there still be a sycotic taint, which Medorrhinum could not remove.
I see a Medorrhinum picture. Constitutionally, I am Lycopodium.
[message edited by Delhinut on Fri, 11 Mar 2011 23:21:20 GMT]
Delhinut last decade
Please take 3 doses of Calcarea Carb 30c, report after 10 days please.
sameervermani last decade
Update:
Took the remedy on 10th March, 2011.
11/Mar/2011: Diarrhea is on.
An extremely bitter taste in mouth with tongue and mouth joined together on waking up.
12/Mar/2011. Diarrhea stops.
Bitter taste in mouth on waking.
13/Mar/2011: Restlessness is 'somewhat' under control. Able to concentrate in office to an extent, and feel 'some' determination inside to finish long pending work. But I can also feel simmering restlessness just under the surface.
Nervousness is still there. It's more like reflective thinking or becoming too concious of oneself.
Feel good inside.
14-19 th March: Felt well. Could work with concentration and motivation in office. Had the required energy to my tasks. Restlessness appeared to be simmering just below the surface but was in control.Continued to have bad taste in mouth but somewhat lessened.
20 March Onwards: Motivation is gone and energy has dropped. Can't work in office much although I still can do some basic work. Restlessness is under control till today albeit barely.
What do you advise Sameer?
[message edited by Delhinut on Mon, 21 Mar 2011 09:40:01 GMT]
Took the remedy on 10th March, 2011.
11/Mar/2011: Diarrhea is on.
An extremely bitter taste in mouth with tongue and mouth joined together on waking up.
12/Mar/2011. Diarrhea stops.
Bitter taste in mouth on waking.
13/Mar/2011: Restlessness is 'somewhat' under control. Able to concentrate in office to an extent, and feel 'some' determination inside to finish long pending work. But I can also feel simmering restlessness just under the surface.
Nervousness is still there. It's more like reflective thinking or becoming too concious of oneself.
Feel good inside.
14-19 th March: Felt well. Could work with concentration and motivation in office. Had the required energy to my tasks. Restlessness appeared to be simmering just below the surface but was in control.Continued to have bad taste in mouth but somewhat lessened.
20 March Onwards: Motivation is gone and energy has dropped. Can't work in office much although I still can do some basic work. Restlessness is under control till today albeit barely.
What do you advise Sameer?
[message edited by Delhinut on Mon, 21 Mar 2011 09:40:01 GMT]
Delhinut last decade
My state is so very similar to Delhinut w.r.to the office state and problems.
Two things are different. I may not be a nervous person initially and I am not sure of jealousy.
But you see, the office thing seems to dominate all other activities.
I have an immediate problem. I am posting in my case.
Two things are different. I may not be a nervous person initially and I am not sure of jealousy.
But you see, the office thing seems to dominate all other activities.
I have an immediate problem. I am posting in my case.
sci_spi last decade
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,
After 200 my condition improved for a day only. Right now the motivation is at a very low ebb, restlessness is a 'fraction less'.
The 3 doses of 30C work better on me than a single dose of 200.
There is no perceivable effect on nervousness.
What do u advise Sameer?
After 200 my condition improved for a day only. Right now the motivation is at a very low ebb, restlessness is a 'fraction less'.
The 3 doses of 30C work better on me than a single dose of 200.
There is no perceivable effect on nervousness.
What do u advise Sameer?
Delhinut last decade
Please let me know about any physical symptoms as well that are bothering you.
Focus for each symptom on:
What makes them better/worse ? Location, sensation ? Any symptom which happens with this symptom in another body part ?
How does it feel like when you get this 'nervousness'
Focus for each symptom on:
What makes them better/worse ? Location, sensation ? Any symptom which happens with this symptom in another body part ?
How does it feel like when you get this 'nervousness'
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,
I did not post earlier because I suddenly I realized I was feeling better and more motivated. Restlessness was also somewhat less. This started happening on its own after good effects from the medicine tapered off. May be the body had swung into action after the obstacle was removed by the medicine.
At present however I request you to prescribe for my acute condition: I can hardly breath, I have to open my mouth to take breaths. My nose is completely blocked. Sometimes I feel pain in my ears and I am not able to tolerate when somebody pumps up the volume inside the car. I mean I can't tolerate any loud noise as it hurts me in the ears. There are traces of blood in the white and yellow colored mucous discharged from throat and nose.
Otherwise the condition has become better, and I have recently purchased Cal Carb 1M on the basis of this improvement. However the acute condition is bothering me. I would be grateful for your help.
[message edited by Delhinut on Wed, 06 Apr 2011 18:39:57 BST]
I did not post earlier because I suddenly I realized I was feeling better and more motivated. Restlessness was also somewhat less. This started happening on its own after good effects from the medicine tapered off. May be the body had swung into action after the obstacle was removed by the medicine.
At present however I request you to prescribe for my acute condition: I can hardly breath, I have to open my mouth to take breaths. My nose is completely blocked. Sometimes I feel pain in my ears and I am not able to tolerate when somebody pumps up the volume inside the car. I mean I can't tolerate any loud noise as it hurts me in the ears. There are traces of blood in the white and yellow colored mucous discharged from throat and nose.
Otherwise the condition has become better, and I have recently purchased Cal Carb 1M on the basis of this improvement. However the acute condition is bothering me. I would be grateful for your help.
[message edited by Delhinut on Wed, 06 Apr 2011 18:39:57 BST]
Delhinut last decade
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
The acute condition described in the above post has eased to large extent. Although my nose is still blocked and I have to open my mouth to take deep breaths but I feel that could perhaps be because of sinus, etc.
The pain in the ears is 'almost' gone, and I am able to tolerate music even when somebody pumps the volume
Now let me tell you about the real change, if it could qualify as a real change and does not prove to be just a blip on the progress radar.
I will explain it with some background.
As a a 17-18 years old, I was extremely fond of writing and wanted to become a writer in life but as fate willed, I could not follow my dreams and came under tremendous family pressure and one thing led to another, and soon i found myself at the receiving end of criticisms, suppression, etc. I used to have this fire in my belly then, a strange kind of motivation which would propel me to move forward with great enthusiasm. Writing gave me immense satisfaction.
By the time I was 25, due to difficult circumstances, I no more felt this urge to write and motivation levels also came down significantly and first restlessness and then nervousness started taking over. I felt I did not have energy, vigor and the vitality to take on a new task and complete it.
Now this has returned but in a limited way. I have felt the same urge to write and the motivation to do that. I wrote a couple of notes on Facebook, and this has taken my friends by surprise. Even those who knew me had not seen me write for 10-15 years, and i hardly wrote in that period. Not only that, I have also been reaching out to people by sending 'friend requests'. I have relaxed the privacy settings on Facebook and now people can openly see my wall.
While in office, restlessness was there but somewhat under control. Motivation and enthusiasm were there; also, I had limited energy to do things.
Don't know whether this is here to stay and I would be able to carry the new found motivation and energy to fulfilling my office duties, or its just a blip on the progress radar.
12/mar/2011: As I sit in office and update this post, the restlessness has increased to the extent that I am unable to work. It becomes better as day wears on.
What do u advise Sameer?
[message edited by Delhinut on Mon, 11 Apr 2011 20:12:32 BST]
[message edited by Delhinut on Tue, 12 Apr 2011 09:57:49 BST]
The acute condition described in the above post has eased to large extent. Although my nose is still blocked and I have to open my mouth to take deep breaths but I feel that could perhaps be because of sinus, etc.
The pain in the ears is 'almost' gone, and I am able to tolerate music even when somebody pumps the volume
Now let me tell you about the real change, if it could qualify as a real change and does not prove to be just a blip on the progress radar.
I will explain it with some background.
As a a 17-18 years old, I was extremely fond of writing and wanted to become a writer in life but as fate willed, I could not follow my dreams and came under tremendous family pressure and one thing led to another, and soon i found myself at the receiving end of criticisms, suppression, etc. I used to have this fire in my belly then, a strange kind of motivation which would propel me to move forward with great enthusiasm. Writing gave me immense satisfaction.
By the time I was 25, due to difficult circumstances, I no more felt this urge to write and motivation levels also came down significantly and first restlessness and then nervousness started taking over. I felt I did not have energy, vigor and the vitality to take on a new task and complete it.
Now this has returned but in a limited way. I have felt the same urge to write and the motivation to do that. I wrote a couple of notes on Facebook, and this has taken my friends by surprise. Even those who knew me had not seen me write for 10-15 years, and i hardly wrote in that period. Not only that, I have also been reaching out to people by sending 'friend requests'. I have relaxed the privacy settings on Facebook and now people can openly see my wall.
While in office, restlessness was there but somewhat under control. Motivation and enthusiasm were there; also, I had limited energy to do things.
Don't know whether this is here to stay and I would be able to carry the new found motivation and energy to fulfilling my office duties, or its just a blip on the progress radar.
12/mar/2011: As I sit in office and update this post, the restlessness has increased to the extent that I am unable to work. It becomes better as day wears on.
What do u advise Sameer?
[message edited by Delhinut on Mon, 11 Apr 2011 20:12:32 BST]
[message edited by Delhinut on Tue, 12 Apr 2011 09:57:49 BST]
Delhinut last decade
sameervermani last decade
I Sameer I waited 1 week and then took Calc Carb 1M on 20-Apr-2011. After that I left on a long vacation to India. The effect that I saw was more in the physical sphere - the remedy cleared my nose and throat bringing a substantial mucous out. But I can't say whether it worked on RESTLESSNESS as in vacation I don't feel it. I only feel a combination of RESTLESSNESS + Lack of motivation + Inability to concentrate while working in Office. So when I rejoined Office yesterday, I immediately felt inner restlessness and Inability to concentrate but the restlessness appears to be a shade better than before, but only a shade. There is overall despondency, lack of self belief to an extent.
The physical issues that you asked for in one of last posts are as below:
(1) Eczema on chin (I have one observation here, I feel the appearance of eczema on the chin relieved me of the bouts of nervousness, although I still have it but less).
(2) Eczema near scrotum (old one, I am contend to live with it).
(3) Right sided sciatic pain (much improved since last year and almost appeared to be gone before I started lifting weights and it came back to a certain extent).
(4) Few drops of Urine or Semen always come later. For example, I need to revisit washroom after 2-3 minutes to 'Squeeze' out the last remaining drop(s).
Since last 2 years I am grossly overweight and pretty much look like fat and flabby picture of Calcarea Carb. I am 100 Kgs now, an increase of 26 kgs in 3 years.
But I am actually the under-confident, 11th hour job finisher LYCOPODIUM.
What do you advise Sameer?
The physical issues that you asked for in one of last posts are as below:
(1) Eczema on chin (I have one observation here, I feel the appearance of eczema on the chin relieved me of the bouts of nervousness, although I still have it but less).
(2) Eczema near scrotum (old one, I am contend to live with it).
(3) Right sided sciatic pain (much improved since last year and almost appeared to be gone before I started lifting weights and it came back to a certain extent).
(4) Few drops of Urine or Semen always come later. For example, I need to revisit washroom after 2-3 minutes to 'Squeeze' out the last remaining drop(s).
Since last 2 years I am grossly overweight and pretty much look like fat and flabby picture of Calcarea Carb. I am 100 Kgs now, an increase of 26 kgs in 3 years.
But I am actually the under-confident, 11th hour job finisher LYCOPODIUM.
What do you advise Sameer?
Delhinut last decade
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