Sleeping problem and deafness

I have a friend who has trouble sleeping since a broken relationship should I give her Ignatia?
She also has deafness in right ear, is rather indifferent to her children, likes to find a new boyfriend more that spend time with her kids, has brownish blotchiness on her right cheek, also has a sinus problem. She exercises excessively is very concerned about the way she looks, must be tanned and have pretty clothes on, is small build and dark features and hair. She is 50 ish but looks 30ish until you look closer, also likes to drive a sportscar. She is not sure when the deafness started, she is not very in tune with herself. Her sleeping problem consists of either cannot get to sleep or wakes half way through the night and cannot get back to sleep. She is also deeply unhappy and depressed.
I have observed her strike her child just because she was in a bad mood, though the child does talk to her in a bad attitude most of the time because she resents her mother for not being there for her most of her life. I thought she may have been sepia but it did nothing. I cannot seem to get a find on the right ear deafness, possibly a Kali remedy?
please help,
salty