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help with my constitution jk

Hi Dr. Sameer,

I'm starting a new thread for myself.

Where can I begin, I don't know. I am by nature fairly calm and work well under pressure...not too much though. I am a procrastinator and I am also a bit of a perfectionist but when my procrastination takes over, I don't always achieve it but I do all right. I get anxious before public speaking or parties. I am most comfortable at home but enjoy a heart to heart with my friends and family. I have been burnt by friends before as they sometimes take advantage of my loyalty. Also my family has not always been there for me and I somehow feel betrayed as I know I would have been there for them. I had a lousy pregnancy, especially with my 1st child, the one we are treating. I had a stressful work environment and stressful home environment. I didn't have the energy to make homemade meals after standing at work for so long and I was also worried about our finances as I was bringing in more money and we were just starting out. At present, my biggest worry is not helping my kids get better and having them live with there allergies. This thought is always in the back of my mind every single day. I am constantly looking up and reading journals. I have tried natural therapy and now homeopathy and I strongly believe it is hope that keeps me going. I am fairly persistent and although I worry about things, I still take risks and do things as I have hope things will be better. So I don't know whether I'm a pessimist or optimist. I don't give up on things too easy especially if its going to be for the benefit of my family. I have a thirst for knowledge. I am very curious and I am quite creative in certain areas and can think on my feet if needed on how to do things but I can never answer to remarks/taunts made by friends. I get all nervous and think of something to say 10 minutes later. My usual reaction is to get defensive and then I sound rude. I can never pass a message along jokingly without thinking about it. I think I am a fairly deep person. It takes me a while to make friends. I like to get to know them before I can trust them. I have a tremendous guilty conscience. I sometimes cannot even look someone in the eye because I think that they think I'm guilty of not doing something or doing something. I have a hard time letting things go especially when someone has wronged me for no apparent reason. I believe in fairness. I am actually quite cool but it seems my coworkers see me like that but not my friends.

I like warmth. I am low in iron and calcium. Growing up my legs use to heart alot. I have scoliosis. I sneeze alot at night and I have hayfever. As a little girl I would get severe sore throats before exams and catch colds easily.

Let me know if you need anything else.

Thank you so much for taking me on.
  j.k.usa on 2009-10-02
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.

And, are you very sensitive to criticism and rudeness ?

Also, do you tend to brood over disagreeable occurrences (like someone acting rudely or insulting you) and find it difficult to forgive ?

How do you respond to consolation and sympathy ?
sameervermani last decade

Thank you so much for taking the time to review my case.

I am fairly sensitive to criticism and rudeness. I don't brood so much over disagreeable occurences like someone acting rudely or insulting you...but I brood over the things I could have said to make them understand my point of view. It always comes to me later after the argument/disagreement.

I can forgive but not without letting the person know and the whole world know what the person has done wrong to me...I usually don't forget...it is very hard for me to forget. I can forgive people very easily if they either understand what they have done wrong and don't keep doing the same thing or surprisingly, I can forgive people that are not fake and the whole world knows they're bad...I can forgive them too. I guess because I think this is the way they are to everyone ie. bad/and they cannot help themselve but behave rudely. It really bothers me when people are phony/fake and they are using me to climb the ladder. I want people to see how they really are, but usually I keep mum. I keep it inside of me until it really bothers me (its usally on my mind constantly) and I have to let it out,

I feel good with some sympathy and consolation...as long as it is sincere and not fake

Thanks kindly
j.k.usa last decade
Please explain this further ---> 'can forgive but not without letting the person know and the whole world know what the person has done wrong to me.'
sameervermani last decade
Well I can't stand it when people get away with things esp. when they don't deserve it or are people that have had it too easy and are proud . I especially can't stand it when the people that have had it so easy and they are the ones that are complaining the most and they get people to feel sorry for them. I want other people to know how easy they have had it and how unfair and disloyal they are at times. I can't stand people who are fake nice. I want people to see them for who they are otherwise I am constantly trying to show others but never really succeeding and that burns me up.
j.k.usa last decade
'I am constantly trying to show others but never really succeeding '

How exactly do you attempt to do this ?
sameervermani last decade
I sometimess try to let them know directly or offer hints but I have such a guilty conscience that I don't like to say bad things about people that my hints sound lame or so subtle. I should in reality say that I keep it inside me until it really burns me up and I have to let it out to someone.
j.k.usa last decade
so you tend to reveal secrets about others if you feel that person is not right ?
sameervermani last decade
I wouldn't call it revealing secrets but I would confront them about what they did wrong. Half the time they are denying, but let me tell you I have a strong sense of what is right and wrong. I am very objective and will be fair almost always. Unless someone has hurt me or my family, I usually don't do or say anything unless they walk around like they are so great, meanwhile they are so low in character.

j.k.usa last decade
know you're busy. but do yo have any thoughts on my remedy?

thanks kindly
j.k.usa last decade
Please any thoughts. Know you're busy. Also any thing to prevent myself and my family from getting H1N1 virus, or anything to keep on hand. I'm going to the city to get meds.

Thanks again for all your time and guidance. How is the H1N1 where you're at.
j.k.usa last decade
bump, please help

j.k.usa last decade
H1N1 is not any more dangerous than a normal viral fever. Do not worry.

I am not able to get a hold of your totality.

Please speak about some odd symptoms or sensations, as well as your general symptoms.
sameervermani last decade

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