depression, premature ejaculationWILL SOMEONE PLEASE HELP???!!!
I am 41 married with 4 children I am 5 10 , 95kg and suffering from the following:
I am forever in a depressive state and find it difficult to motivate myself for even the most remedial tasks.
I am suffering from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, the premature ejaculation has always been a problem. I have incontinence and an over active bladder the incontinence has been a problem for about 8 years and the over active bladder has been a problem since childhood as was bedwetting which I grew out off at the start of my teens. I suffer from the occasional migraine which used to be much worse in the past when I was getting migraines 5-6 times a month. Stools are generally ok but will get constipation occasionally.
I have always found it difficult to express my feelings especially to those close to me at times I find it difficult to talk I know what I want to say but I cant get the words out.
I believe that I have always had a low self esteem and stayed in the background even when I know I could do better than others.
I feel that I have always under achieved and not reached my potential. I had a difficult childhood as my mother died when I was 10 from renal failure so most of my memories of my mother are of her going in and out of hospital.
As a child I recall being the victim of a bully, it occurred when I was 5 while walking home from school I was hit on the back of the legs and buttocks by an elder boy with a stick. There was no one around and I told the lolly-pop man but he didnt believe me! There are many unpleasant incidents but none of a sexual nature.
The bed wetting was an issue when I was in junior school as other children would mock me for the obvious odour as I mentioned earlier my mother was always ill so she couldnt always ensure that I was bathed and have clean change of clothes.
When I am feeling down I tend to listen to sad music which touches tender parts of my heart but though it hurts I want to listen more.
I had my first grey hair at 15 and now would say have about 80% grey now, my hair is now much thinner than it used to be and hair loss is now becoming a problem to such an extent that the scalp can be seen through the hair.
My feet are always hot and cause me great discomfort the joints on my right hand have started to stiffen and hurt.
I am now unable to motivate myself to work and just dont know what to do
I have in the past taken anti-depressants but found them only to work for a few months and then things would be worse so I made the decision to stay clear of them.
I am always day dreaming and procrastinate all the time.
I almost forgot I had my migraines treated by a homeopath three years ago I recall taking pills over a few weeks and given some brown solution to mix 100 drops in 500ml water and take sips throughout the day which worked wonders. I dont know the name of solution and wonder if anyone has any ideas
jimbo7016 on 2010-08-11
1 there is point when u feel ur going to ejaculate at that point u must squeeze the lower part of the penis imagine penis like a pipe u find the deep lower part of the pipe fingers wrap around the pipe squeeze hard . u must do this just before ejaculation happen
2 at the same time ur other hand fingers squeezing the top part of the penis
3 u must continue breath in and breath out
4 u have to apply this technique very quickly just before ejaculation happen
when u do this the sperm can not come out when sperm dont come out for 3 months u will start to recover
5 u have to practice many time to get this technique right
When ur about ejaculate testicals will come very near to the lower part of the penis u must gently push them down with one of ur finger while squeezing
Cut ur fingers nails so they wont cut ur skin while squeezing
u can also practice this technique when ur not having erection imagine penis is like a pipe try find the very lower part of the pipe squeeze fingers around the lower part of the penis then squeeze the top of the penis with other hand fingers around top part of the penis breath in and out continually
u will recover but it can take some time be patient
when u start to recover plz let me know thanks
vishnu5 9 years ago
Dr Zaair Husain Rizvi
Dr Zaair Husain 8 years ago
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