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kadwa sir:

Hello Sir,

I am helping a friend out. His consitiutiional remedy is Arsenic to a T. Very anal about things and wants things to be perfect, he said he can't stand water spots so he cleans it. He said he had blood in stool, so
I have given him Arsenic 200c before
when I did he felt better.

on his surgery dates, I tell him to take Arnica 30c before& after Surgery. I only had it in 30c to share.
he had some surgery done on his leg to remove cancer from the rigth left bone, tumors were taken out from top foot , shin, calf and thight. he was bleeding still even after three days. He said he has not been sleeping for awhile.

I asked what is irritating him?
He said his ex-wife (he cheated on him)wants to buy a house and is not letting him see his son until he gives her money.
He is craving ice-cream now.
listening to him describe all this, I thought he needed Phos. So, I gave him Phos. 200c

that was this Friday.
Saturday I gave him my three tissues salts to share and told him to take calc phos 6x, Kali phos 6x, and nat mur 6x, in hoping to help with his anger and mood.

HE TELLS ME THAT HE IS NOT SLEEPING STILL.& HAVE MORE PAIN THEN EVER. FROM FOOT ALL THRU LEG INTO BACK. HE SAID THE PAIN IS AT TIMES.
UNBEARABLE NOW.

I don't understand the pain he is experiencing.




I believe he needs codium soon.
(I gave him these remedies to have on hand. Arsenic 200c, phos 200c, Lycodium 200c, Codium 30c, Nat Mur 200c, Ignatia 200c, and the three tissue salts. and the Arnic 30c.)


Thank You again for helping me.
 
  dragonfly1976 on 2010-08-22
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
He likes to sleep on a recliner as well. It is hard to climb up and down the stairs since he is on crutches. His rt. leg is in bandages. I often see him with a sports hat on. he works out in the gym faithfully. He has been in the muscle bodybuilding competition. and then radiations done, He has lost some teeth here and there. His sister is a dentist so he had them done. He is not much of a talker. He doesn't tell me what is wrong to see if I can help him. He waits until I am the one who asks him questions like are you sleeping and things like that.
before I gave him Arsenic, He said he kept having nightmares of a man with a large sword like trying to kill him on his upper chest, pushing hard with this sword. He said he had this dream since young kid, around when he was fourteen.

after Arsenic he said, it took two days but he slept so well.

but now after the phos, and the tissue salts I don't know what is going on with him.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
Generally it is better to avoid remedies like Phos during acute conditions unless they are clearly indicated. You may give him Arnica 30c thrice a day until his pain is relieved. Hypericum 30 or Staphysagria 30 would also have worked better if you could give any of these in addition to Arnica 30c.
 
kadwa last decade
Hello sir, I'm having trouble finding the difference between staphsagria and hypercium.
Please help me help this poor soul. I'm begging you. He has so many layers, I am confused.

Haven't slept in a while, this friend does not look foward to nights knowing he won't sleep.
He is having many issues with his two ladies. One he was married to and the other ex girlfriend. From both he had a child with. Currently is ill. Has pancreas cancer & bone cancer. Not working. These two ladies want child support like in the same amount when he was well and working. He tells me that it is hard for him to receive but easy to give. Still craves ice cream but does not give into it. Still sleeping on the recliner, with leggs up. Right now he has no eyebrows on him from chemotherapy. Once a week go for chemotherapy.
He complained about a pain that sounds like its coming from his kidneys. He says lower back rt side hurts, the pain comes down to the toes. Pain is too great!
Having trouble going to the bathroom, last time he went was four days ago and very hard, had to push. Had to take warm bath first then he could push. First he showers in hot then change it to warm water. Have been drinking a lot of water more then ever. Right now his right leg has been operated on. Tumor removed, 9 has been removed. Next weeki is the other leg. He stared tearing up telling me this, saying he doesn't want to do it. Been favoring his left shoulder down, not straight like the rt one is. 4 days of not sleeping well. He said two days of on and off, and two days of not at all. He had to deal with one of his mother of his child. (ex girlfriend)
This issue that he is dealing with is eating at him.
He is currently married, the lady is very suportive and understanding. He said he can't tell everything is his current wife. Because he is afraid to hurt her feelings. Knows everything about his treatment and is supportive.
As child he was afraid, always afraid. He sad he had bad acne as teenager. And was given meds, it hurt his teeth. He said his teeth hurts now, he says he sees a lot of dots, lime green in color. Can't wear shoe on his rt foot since the operation.
Beck area hurts may have been from holding tension.

Oh, before I forget. He says he sits to urinate holding onto something because it hurts. He seems to holding something all the time and is very tense.


Craves cold things right now. Don't want anything hot. Moody, somewhat.

He says, he loves his family.

He says he can't stand himself, he can't stand to look at himself. Feels ugly.feels that he is fat.

Brings great joy is his kids, and likes to do family functions.
Is a body builder. He said in 1999. He started body building he said he was always picked on at school for being the smallest guy and wanted to prove to others.
Litely, he says listing to music is bothering his head, but likes to watch movies. Like thriller movies.
Likes to watch news and tv shows like dateline. He is right now about what he saw in our local news about four people died from gun shooting, and the witnesses are not coming foward.
Shin, elbow, feet toes and heal, shin are always dry. They are like ichy. The more he try to sleep he says he gets ichyer.

He is tired but can't sleep.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
My friend also says that when he urinates his testicles hurt as well.



Sorry, I am being a pain.

Without your help, I can not touch these people's lives as well.

I am ever more greatful.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
Staphysagria seems to be more useful in this case. Please give him Arnica 30c and Staphysagria 30c thrice a day for few days and see how that affects. There should be a gap of 1 hr between Staphy and Arn.
 
kadwa last decade
thank you!!!! thank you!!
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
Sir, I forgot.

I have Staphsagaria in 200c. May I just give hime a dose of that then?

Arnica 30c he has already.



Thank You so much again!
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
He did very well on Staphsagria 200c. I gave him last friday just one dose.

He said he felt calmer.
He is having very difficult sleeping. he said he noticed He slepted well after two days he took the dose.

He talked about this nightmare again.

He had it bad, bad enough that he broke his headboard. He said when this nightmare happened, he was trying to protect himself from someone coming with a knife that he hit the headboard so bad with his hand. He said he is sleeping in the other bedroom from his wife. He is afraid, he will hit her in his sleep.

I noticed his eyes are like watery.
He is pushing himself down maybe out of guilt for not brining a paycheck home like he would like to. He is not able to work due to his chemo.

He was in good spirit today. I told him My husband and I are going to take him and his wife out to dinner this Friday, and I told him I will bring him a meal to try out my cooking.
He was happy after that.

I also reassured him that a good provider does not always means that he brings home a paycheck, there are others ways to do so when needed. He can not at this time, so he can be a provider by being emotional provider etc.
Has great anxiety about money or not having it.
He does talk about the times when he did have money, then he could pay child support.

He talks about he and his wife is going to start a business teaching gym classes and him gym personal trainer. and looking forward to doing so.

He also has 'this' tension on his eyebrows. When he looks at you, as if he is angry at you.
He also says he has this metallic taste in his mouth.

He also says he notice this phlegm in both sides of his mouth.

He still craves ice and wants to chew it, want ice cream as well but do not give into it. His ankle is very thin,thin as I ever seen from others.
He said he had bad case of acne, he tells me about. got stuck in locker as a
teen and got picked on a lot.

He is having trouble with his bowels still.

(he said he always had trouble with his bowels)
When he does go to the restroom, he has to always take a bath to relax and it is very hard, clumpy,and dark. Don't go for at least four to five days.

He told me, he was a twin. His twin died. and his father died when he was 27 years old, then thats when he went to college to work at the funeral home. He did not like how his father was taken care of at the funeral home, so he wanted to do it better.

He had many accidents. He did get run over a car-had surgery after one year after he healed from the hit and run.
He also told me as a young child he had this fever that made him unable to walk, he said he remembered being carried around everywhere.

he is having the pain (from the pelvic area after being on the remedies) he still has this pain.

His leg healed up very nicely from Arnica 30c, twice a day.

This summer, he entered three body building contests, and he wonderfully on all of them. Couple times, in his class he came first winner and first winner in the whole body building contest in others as well.
Does it with no steriods like some have done.

Thank You!
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
When he is on the recliner to rest, he said around 10 pm, his legs feels like a restless. I had him show me what his legs does. It looks like he is pushing something away from him. He said it drives him nuts. He does it every night.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I also asked him, do you NOT like to bathe and he says with some correction in his voice, 'saying OH NO, I love to shower, I shower three times a day if I need to' he says.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I also learned he is one of thirteen kids, in the middle of them all.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
he also tells me that his teeth still hurts.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
See...for a Chemeo patient...homeopathy will take time to work. Coz..Chemeo does so much to the body.

Keep trying.

Medicines for feeling of poverty are:

Bryonia >>> Surely indicated if he does not like to get up from bed. Even the slightest movement causes distress.

Magnesium Carb. >>> for mental tension arising out of financial and other worries. Also cures tooth ache and many more problems. Dizziness in the head etc.

Punkaj Varma
 
PANKAJ VARMA last decade
Oh, I had trouble understanding the problem.


Thank You, it clicks now!


I will study the two remedies and give to him.

Thank You!!!!
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
Since I had Bryonia 30c, I shared with the friend. I also ordered Magnesium Carb 200c to be delivered to his home.

I gave Bryonia 30c twice, within half an hour apart for one day.

all I heard was that he went into the ER, the next morning. The Dr's there told him he no longer can body build at this current time.

Which I had told him time after time, but did not accept it.

He cancelled our dinner appointment together via text. and said didn't feel good.

He is going into a depressed state of mind. very sensitive and tearful. Just ball of emotions.

since he does not communicate well on how he feels or don't. I do not understand if this was the correct remedy or not.

I remembered, it helped with my bowel issues. so I thought it wouldn't hurt to see if that helps with his bowel issues and sleep issues as well.

I texted him tonight since that is his only form of communication, checking on how the Bryonia is doing for him.

...no response.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
the last time I saw him, He said he had testing done on his arms, and the next day, the spine will be checked for tumors.
He didn't tell me the results of these tests. I don't know if the cancer has spread.

all I know that the cancer was in his long bones and next was the shorter bones. I did not hear if it has spread to this point.

My question is..is it too late for homeopathy. What can I do for him still?
and is there hope still to cure of this cancer to prove homeopathy works?
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
before Byonia. he was limping, and complained about his right hip hurting.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
also still been taking Arnica 30c from doing the bone test. I think it's bone grafts?
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I gave him Bryonia Alba 30c, then thirty minutes later another dose.

I'm told he noticed no changes.

He told me something, now I can't remember what or why but I gave him Nat Mur 200c, one dose.

He is tired, still in pain,depressed, took a bath from 1to630am to relax since the pain was too great.

Still on chemo. I told him, Nat mur is working. since he is so tired, and depressed. still having bowel issues, and sleep issues as well. I told him to take Magnesium for now.

I hope I am going in the right direction.

I believe he needs another dose of Nat mur in fifteen days since the chemo.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I think now learning more, his consitutional remedy is Nat mur. They too are 'perfect' in everything they try to do.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I'm told magnesium carb came in the mail.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I asked him to explain his pain.

he says..

It's a deep pain, sharp at times. radiates down rt leg. he says he can take the back pain but his leg is hurts the worst. His leg feels like it's on fire. warm to touch.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I don't Know now. I wished I knew about homeopathy more, I wish I was trained, I wish for many things.


I don't think I can do too much for him, I think the cancer is spreading and I do not know what remedy to give or how I can help.
I just feel sad for the kids, they are not even teenagers yet.

I may have done more harm with the Nat Mur. since I know nothing about bone cancer.

but it seems that I am only one who is remaining positive for him to able to recover from this.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I referred him a Homeopathy Dr. hope he takes that route before it is too late.



thank you.
 
dragonfly1976 last decade
I would like to say my gratitudes of my many Thanks to you.

You have helped time after time with me and the people around me. or even just letting me post and vent here.

Thank You. I appreciate everything!
 
dragonfly1976 last decade

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