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I am a 29 year old female with herpes virus systemic, intersticial cystitis reoccuring, heavy menses, impure and lack of blood, poor circulation esp on left side, liver and bladder issue numby sensation in hands esp left. sleep disturbed and tossy turny, sensitive to cold and dryness

can be nervous over talkative clumsy and much too many dreams sometimes even night terrors. over analyze often emotional mind. Insecure, sometimes lack confidence yet can be opinionated demanding too. many mental arguments

Trust issues, over sensitive easily jealous, sensitive to cold, impatient and anxious, reactionary anger and frustration, tantrum hypercritical
 
  honeybeesong on 2010-09-23
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Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?

3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?

6. Which time of the day you are worst?

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.


8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?


12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?

20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?

22. What major diseases are running in your family?

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.

25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
 
Homeopathy International 1 last decade
1. Describe your main suffering?

Numbness and tingling coldness pain in left arm poor circulation, constant bladder and pain that accompanies upper back pain around kidney area sometimes deposits in urine and even blood comes from there and white or yellow discharge ongoing. And herpes virus that is systemic but mainly at ear and neck under skin flares up and get more tinging and itching burning in nerve and tiredness, numbness and pain with it it is mostly under skin the neuralgia that disturbs and sometimes fever and headache that ensues with it trouble some and now and then random blister on hand or foot, around ear it constant sensation and creates shingly rash behind ear and on the neck. It somehow though not STD one also affects bladder and vaginal area and get sensation their too and often it and bladder issues occur sinultaneously. Painful heavy menstration with mood swings.


2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?

Heavy painful menses that are long lasting, sore muscles around shoulder and neck and around kidney area,, and also low back, tiredness, yellowish color of skin, smelly sweat, hair falling, nerve twitching, coldness of extremities, numbness in hands and feet esp left side, sleeplessness or disturbed sleep toss and turn and sometimes night terror, sensitive skin, eyes soreness, headache though I usually just ignore, exept sometime sharp one on left side, pelvic pains esp lower when bladder flare up it really hurt sometime accompanied by bleeding, general coldness, sore hip joints and ankle area, hips crack much and pain. Underweight especially in upper body and arms collarbone and chest and lower ankle calf area, yeast infections every month esp around and after period. Painful low circulation, and anemia at times, thyroid low at times. Heart palipitations and chest pains off and on. hair less grow and fall, clumsiness also at times feel spacey and clumsy. trouble gaining weight except in tummy. flashing in eyes sometimes and see like if you stare at a light long time and then look away the trace of the image or blotch see that always around and with objects even when its not bright out. Sometimes ringing in ears but when not always a subtle high pitch fequency can't really eplain. Cold arms hands and feet.

3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings? fear, frustration, guilt, impatience, giving up, also pushing through to ignore and get things done, exhaustion, and anxiety and agitation am indecisive and cautious inecure and lack trust, controlling and can be manipulative, over analytical... obsessie or too fixed, hard time to just let things go. Need to get to the bottom or root of something. Can't stand to have an unanswered question, low tolerance for dishonesty. Hate being ignored or treated like silly not heard or understood by those I love. have a build up chatter in head when angry that builds and goes around it cirlcles then comes out like a slowly building fire or volcano.
Can't handle if I feel something is someway and then someone says opposite trying to cover or purposely lying or unintentionally, because I can feel that it not clear or is different I can feel the truth but can't quite pinpoint it or have the evidence yet, It messes with me its like someone has something blue in a box and says its pink and I can feel its different. and then when I find out it really was pink I get really upset they weren't up front with me and say like it is because I can't trust I have to choose between my feeling and what they say I have no reference point to trust myself or them. still refining what is my feeling giving me feedback and what is my emotion so it helps when those around me honest. Also same when people judging me or doubt me I can't stand it because I can see and feel it and I either have to oversee and ignore them or feel the uncomfort of their thoughts and not take it on, so constantly put up a wall or buffer to not pick it up or take it in and keep it filtered out.


4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.

Like a crazy grumpy complaintive old man who is all alone and suffering and afraid sometimes, unloved sometimes

Pain in the urethra area, tired, feverish, complaintve, agitated, overwhelmed, numbness extreme, itching, left side really affect stiff almost paralyzed, painful tingle in feet, Feel like an old woman.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?

When I baby, feelings of isolation abandonment upset, aloness, fear, blankness, weakness

When adopted
then also anger when not get attention
fear of rejection not being loved or being abandoned or someone mad at


When wake up morning upset to face the day anxiety fill me
loved mom coming to see but also when hear sounds of other kids upstair not want to be around others and face the day just want to be held comforted in quiet.

When angry no one paying attention to me I would hide in toy box and get mad. But overall everyone say I happy baby who was chubby.

When adopted, felt abandoned and yet eager to please and make mom happy but she a very grumpy critical drill sergent style parent needing love and obedience and take everything personally and could be mean.

Morning anxiety became so intense and continued daily. trauma, weight loss, nightmares, tantrums, and often flus or some sickness like fever vomitting aches and pains insued

Bowels became irritable, I became argumentative and upset cry all night sometimes feel not loved and also wanting more physical affection.

Started the upset looping in my head and living more in my head and gaining cunningness and having to lie or hide or be one step ahead to avoid mothers wrath and also cope.

At school insecurity and anxiety and social disfunction began and more upsets victimization weepiness over sensitivity which made me a candidate to be picked on.

clumsiness psychosymatic in relation to insecurity. fear also

I started to when 3-5 suddenly get a day terror and start screaming at the top of my lungs and feel frozen like couldn't move.

Also felt isolated loner, trapped from mom, unaccepted.

A really interesting mental issue is that always resort to my head and internal dialogue

and also whatever I fear would come true like I would create it. When I was afraid of tripping that is what would happen, when afraid I would mess up speech that would happen, afraid I would be made fun of it would happen. Or that not being understood. every action and speaking just conveyed insecurity and awkwardness so that is what people would hear and perceive.

became moody

sometimes could be erratic or do things against my conscious or that were'bad' not many things but some things. Just wanting some excitement or pleasure. then later regret or victimize

When I was around 7 with the herpes after chicken pox happened it changed into herpes. Mom didn't take seriosly until really bad in ear

Discharge and painful menses when I was 9, had some sexual things and guilt before from around 6 till 8 and maybe before that, maybe connected

Bladder from around 9 too and then off and on until now

Yeast infections every month really bad around 9

Nightmares from when almost three. I had been taken into foster care with a good family till that point but after adopted and allot of stress occured around that. But before I was fostered also there were emotions there that already had. Loneliness, anger, sadness, guilt, fear of getting in trouble or someone scolding or mad at...strange for a 2 year old. My memory go back to before 1

Cracking of hips scince I can ever remember

IBS when little, constipate then diarrea and pain

Poor circulation scince very little lips used to go blue when I was cold or get into water to swim

Clumsy: always better than when small accompanied with anxiety and nervousness or insecurity

chest pain from when I was 10

Hair fall from 15 Hair stop growing much and thin and dry from when 17

All got worse at 18 when not eating well and then I changed diets lots and then did an extreme water fast

and then got a kidney infection and had liver spleen issues noted

Then I eat better and done treatments now much improved but still there.

6. Which time of the day you are worst?

First thing Morning always and also late at night.

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.

Cold, staying up late, extreme heat, season change, lack of food, stress, anger, excitement, fear, distress, excess physical excercise, lifting,
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?

When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

Like humid and very warm weather, edging on hot but not too hot.

Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

easily offended, over sensitive,

In love relation:

positive side: sweet loving generous, sensual, giving, forgiving, patient, compassionate, tolerant
focus only the good, loyal, serving, dramatic in good way, fun, enthusiastic, pleasing, supportive
,encouraging, doormat though don’t mind, open, sweet, innocent, laughing and make laugh,
witty, soft and feminine

Negative side: suspicious, angry, jealous, upset, nagging or hampering on something, reactionary
proving, punnishing mind, manipulative, insecure, guilting, fault finding, intolerant, indecisive, changable
dramatic, passive aggressive, volcano anger, frustrated communication, or hysteria when upset.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?

a low one good, comforted and like snuggling up and sleeping

A loud big one when shakes the whole house reccurently afraid and like going to die. small and like out of control of something greater than me



- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?

I do but I hate pity! I love just someone there understands what is going on supportive loving nonjudgemental.

If its too much then rather be alone because don't want to bring other down as they can't handle the compplaint I feel negative and most people don't know how to be with that or understand it esp because I young and sometimes look fine they can't believe or relate to it.

And i just need to go into the pain and really bring awareness which can't do when I am taking to other, entertaining they need suppport or sharing something.

If other person just there and has that understanding and just is there as a presence I love that, just to hold and comfort



- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?

Yes to all especially noise

and always squint in the sunlight keep things dimly lit


- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?

Humming, rytheming

swaying back and forth or side to side

fiddle with hands and roll up a paper tightly or scrunch something up or fold sometimes.

jiggling of legs and limbs

biting or clenching mouth or lip

spin necklace or hold or play with it or rub chest area between throught and lower chest

analyzing


incessent talking

Used to be causeless weeping, now sometimes talk to self if need to get something done like ok 'now I need to do this... then etc' or when upset sometimes I would say things like 'stupid' or I am so mad' by myself in a room to get out my frustration but that is rare.


play with hair or earing




- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

I feel I love my friends have few but quality friends, often similar to me in that we don't see each other often but the love for each other is known

don’t trust any one person 100% feel people are human, variable changeable and can turn or
have their own agenda ultimately. Not that I can’t love them but should not become too
dependent on them.

People who love me love me. some don’t necessarily get me. Some do and they love every part.

And others feel I am too intense, opinionated or argumentative.

People look to me for advice and often open up their deepest darkest secrets easily to me trusting
me fully and love that I there for them. Many feel and have said I am very intuitive and generous.

Some of my friends have acted in ways they have had to apologize for me later it happens alot I have
a best friend or lover and they took me for granted or treated me mean for some reason. Its easy because
in some ways I know that people sense a weakness and feel it brings out their pack mentality. I got this alot
in school

but interestingly the same people who picked on me also wanted to be my friends and vice versa and sometimes
I would have a friend or family apologize days months or years later.

People know my buttons and how sensitive I am so they work it sometimes. With my mom she did that alot through
guilt, sometimes it was through also my sense of feeling not good enough and looking for approval that people
picked on and knew get away with treating badly

Family well on my dads side have been not close too because mom had issues with them when we younger she also not a family family type.

On my moms side it is a very small family: My grama I love! and we close,

My dad I love he not really a dad dad because my mom very controlling and wore the pants sort to speak. Our relationship is he more like a friend and comes to me for advice we have good conversations too and usually he is supportive more financially if in a bind. he loves me too.

Mom and have history still working through anger over. But relationship good now.

Brother there is deep old stuff together we have not addressed yet but on surface things are good and deep down we love each other deep down

Family not that connected they pretty much do their own thing have their own lives

Close Friends really love me and feel I am so supportive and sometimes that I saved their life or really great to listen to them. feel that they can always turn to me for support or guidance or advice which is always right or helpful. They love talking to me. Some are really similar to me love India and to be at home eat dinners fairly low key and introspective, working and family type and simple or spiritual.

Others but few now I don't see much because they more interested to go out and drink or to club place.

Some of my less close friends I know are not 100 percent with me like could talk about me in negative ways or gossip about me when not around but those are few. and self centered and materialistic but I love them anyways

Lover is usually a huge part of my life

always seem to be in a unconventional or challenging relationship either
circumstantially or some other way.

How good my relationship is doing has a big impact on my moods and how I feel in the rest of my connections
and life. Love is really important to me

I always like to be with the person, to talk to them about everything to be heard, to do things, to share lots of
eye contact and touch. feel like a pet and very close or connected always.Feel have that now

However they they person I most sensitive to and who can and usually does play on that the most. They can
say the meanest word or use put downs and it crushes me to peices or some criticisms and I feel paralyzed.
I just want to run and hide and also show how hurt it makes me or that they know it so they’ll stop.

That my main issue I don't want them to be aggressive and hurtful but still to be stable and strong and grounded.

Love lover but have trust issues and insecurities, am needy and lack having their full attention feel the need to be understood and heard,

negative side: Lover can be one sided unreasonable to me about things but rules change when applies to him. Also often attract Lover that is a critical one, trying to help of 'fix' me, who is also arrogant and can get very angry or reactionary. and then becomes hurtful verbally and occasionally physically.
who gets frustrated at my emotions and feel I go too negative or make too much drama. or feels I go crazy especially around cycle time. Feels upset now I am becoming more independant and not as obedient. when emotions escalated relationships have at times become a little volatile/abusive even hitting happen... though not now person care seem to draw that out sometimes in partners.

I am really sensitive to when they are getting too playful or encouraging another girl to connect too emotionally to them or being flirty it drives me crazy I can't handle it I am really sensitive to this. And often they the type that are too playful don't have enough boundaries and girls do fall in love with easily because so lovable or charming. loved by his peers and community.


Feel judged sometimes esp family and some friends, sometimes people used to say to me I am too emotional or when I do something like have my own place or not upset or overtalk that I am really actually a together stable person or that they are so happy I am really seems like I am doing well and focused and stabe.

Sometimes feel over criticized by moms and also by lover.

Used to be like the one people sort of take advantage of or treat like a pushover or doormat
expected to be very obedient.

Or put up with alot and take everything in and on like a sponge

sometimes people don't take me seriously or that I am just silly

sometimes don't believe I sick for example because I can talk much and laugh and have great bursts of energy like detach from my body and be as if not sick but then when go into body really there allot going on and go opposite.

But I same person that like when I had a kidney infection the doctor said how can you even be standing or doing things and laughing this is a really bad one so much pain most people would be in their beds.

So yes I spend allot more time in upper areas of my being rather than in my body so come accross that way and sometimes make me more flighty or spacey an impact my relations, Though can be grounded and more focused when want to be some like and for others like lovers it can be too intense because I become very direct and focused and strong and strong willed, fixed, rigid, disciplined and less light and bubbly.

Others like it feel I am more together and driven responsible and on their level.

Which is like another thing that affects my relations is sometimes I can be in personality and more talking and expressive and outwards which some people love it is like a comfortable buffer and others don't like it and rather I be more direct and not and more together and pulled more inwards. I adapt where I function from depending on person. and sometimes find it hard to find the balance between the two.

when in my worst people treat me worst and when I in my best are people are shocked and become like my best friend.

so feel I always have to take time to come back to my best always otherwise its like I create my own inner feelings outwardly the world reflects it back instantly

Overall I love everyone but wrote the negative parts because those are the parts that affect me most and working most to overcome and transform

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?

Afraid of losing one I closest to, lover grandatmother.

Afraid of not being accepted sometimes or loved approved of
affraid of being made fun of

Afraid of doing something bad or hurtful to something else

Afraid of being crazy or losing it

being misunderstood

fear of being in some sleep state that are terrifying and not coming out or waking up

being attacked and then not being able to defend myself

being hurt physically, or emotionally

the dark or whats in the dark sometimes

unknown creatures attacking or overpowering somehow

being out of control of body, mind

swimming in deep water from whats below

or water being consumed by wave and not catching breath

Fear of heights and falling


What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions? Aversions are bland foods, rice cakes, tomatoes,
hot spicy foods, meat, some breads, old food, dead food, packaged food, artificially flavored food, over sweet foods, turnips or certain root vegetables not like some love, aversion to mushroom and radishes, too sour of foods, sometimes corn products or chemicals

Crave, Naturally sweet foods, salty, all warm foods soupy foods, creamy foods, cheese, milk, berries,
noodles, bean dahls, steamed veggies, almonds, sprouted breads, protein dense foods, tempeh,
spices except hot ones, like I like corriander, and cumin, turmeric, ginger... Crave corriander leaves lots.
and sometimes certain greens,


13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive? Less and then excessive it goes back and forth comes on sudden

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive? same less then excessive comes suddenly and strong

Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand? some meats (though vegetarian now), dry foods, some cheeses though love flavor, sugar, tomatoes, hot peppers, mushrooms, beef (though used to crave when young and bad eating habits) dosa (though used to be ok) some fried foods, some breads

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs? more and under armpits

How is your bowel movement and stool type? sometimes too dry sometimes too loose but in general urge comes fast and I go right away and go very fast too. sometimes it burns. much undigested food particles often. Not so smelly
definitely affected by emotions, and food take. it is medium sof generally sometimes liquidy sometimes very hard and constipated. medium brownish

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping? for last few years have to sleep on tummy, I cannot sleep well other way sometimes I can sleep on side used to always be right but never on back on left side if sleep my whole arm and sometimes left side falls asleep and hurts. sometimes on back as well it scares me alot and can be painful. I always wake up from bladder at least 2x a night sometimes 5x I have many elaborate dreams which often remember, sometimes night terrors or astral state occurances. toss and turn

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general? sometimes yes, sometimes no

20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others? extra sensitive to people their behaviors and emotions, allot of dreamtime stuff from when young sometimes have a dream and it happens next minute after or split second wake up anticipate noise and happens. other things too but would be too long to write. sometimes see through things to the core of it or people and get frustrated esp when someone acting unconsciously want them to be conscious, real or fair...

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication? no pescription ones and too many other ones to list.

22. What major diseases are running in your family? don’t know, was adopted

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females) why not for males too? Medium build but lean and long brown short curly/wavy dryish hair
yellowish pale complexion, sunken eyes,

If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
sometimes very dark, clotting, mood swingy, can get agitated or else weepy or complaintive like an old man. heavy heavy heavy flow, generally 7 days, at least 4-5 heavy days. crampy, mostly back but sometimes cramping goes back and forth
to front then back then front etc... esp in pelvis.

What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.

Nightmares, terrors wake up screaning, sometimes sleep walking or hallucinating right after wake at 3

At 7 chicken pox which turned to herpes in the ear then later systemic, whitlow kind, shingle kind
Warts until 12
Before 12 had bronchitis twice and strep throat once or twice
flus and other fevers and throw ups?

bladder infections yeast infections reoccurant for many years

Leuccoria at 9

asthma 13 until 16

eating disorder symptoms but never went to doctor for it, that continued till was early 20's would obsess about tummy and cellulite and over excercize, fast beat self up when went extreme and over indulged. It a type of bullemia not the throwing up kind

chest pains

Kidney infection at 19

B12 and protein defficient liver spleen pancreas and thyroid issue

Recurrent herpes that became bad shingles episode when 23 and then blistery on hands and feet at 28

some poly cysts and endometriosis don’t remember starting age

Interstycial cystitis at 27

anemia and thyroid issues again but low grade

numbness and panful circulation like and early reynauds

anxiety and sometimes hysteria and in past had depression and I have been told maybe bipolar or ocd tendencies but never diagnosed

pms but never diagnosed.

Told by an Ayurvedic Doctor that main issue is my blood: impurity, lack of, and poor circulation.

Also told liver main issue by ayurvedic and TCM and Japanese practitioners and Natropathic... sometimes spleen
also kidney but mostly liver

hope this enough info and not too much detail
 
honeybeesong last decade
also forgot to include dizziness, forgetfulness and sometimes confusion,

and last year big herpes onset as well as when 23 and

also would get sudden onset of vomiting that would happen on and off for several months. Told have allot of acidity at time and not to skip breakfast which often do.
 
honeybeesong last decade

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