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low female libido
I am 27 years old and a mother of two kids.i gave birth to a baby boy 5 months back.I have been facing this low libido problem since after my fist baby but it has increased after the second baby.Please help me.simkhan06 on 2010-11-27
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Simkhan, Seems like you're getting treatment for post chick'nia pain. Once the issue is over, give the details following the questionnaire.
Sex: Age: Nature of work: Habits:
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
Sex: Age: Nature of work: Habits:
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
♡ maheeru last decade
Sex: Female
Age: 27 (DOB: 9th February 1983)
Nature of work: I am a housewife and a full time mother
Habits:
1. Describe your main suffering?
My main suffering is low libido.Before I hjad my first baby my sexual life was very good. But after my first baby the desire for sex decreased. (infact I was the active partner when making love.).And now after second baby the desire has totally diminished.The moment he tries to come near I feel irritated and do not enjoy or have any orgasm.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Right knew pain when I sit crossed legged for like 30 minutes constantly.I started having this problem when my first baby fall sick at the age of 6 months.so had to sit with her in my lap for hours.
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
I have been very active all my life till all this started.So mental suffering I am going through is I get irritated very fast.I have gained weight (5 kgs )
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
I feel I will never be able to do things so actively. Irritated they way I look thoigh before having the second baby I was perfect and had been on yoga continuosly.but after the second baby and yes the chickunguniya things have become worse.I feel not so refreshed in the morning and get up late(this makes me feel very sad. Because I have been a very punctual person all my life since childhood.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
It all started when I had my second baby .
The only problem I had before I got married was spondyltiis and I got this problem when I started working as teacher .I had to do lot of work on computer so had sit for hours.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
My whole day is worst.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
Everything aggravate my sufferings.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
I think the change of place too also has relation to my suffering because I have been broght up in jeddah,Saudi Arabi.I am married and settled in New Delhi,India.
Internally ,I feel the the biological changes in the body.my menstrual cycle is good.after my second baby my cycle started this month on December 6th.I gave birth to my baby on 14th june 2010.
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Weathers dont affect me much.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am moody, irritating and have also become very lazy.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
I feel fine in both the weathers.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
About my friends they all are abroad so talk to them sometimes. Have no friends where I live all relatives live nearby but I feel I am trapped I wanna go out in the world and have lots of friends Because before marriage I have been a very social person.
My husband is very loving and supportive but after our second baby I had so many changes in myself especially the low libido have made matters worst but still I am the bad one and he is ver patient with me but for everything there is a limit.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
No fears and repeated dreams.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Sweets are my craving .no aversions
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
normal
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal but I feel in excessive sometimes due to breastfeeding.
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
No I am not allergic to any kind of food.
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
My sweat is normal.i usually sweat on head.
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
My bowels are normal but at times I constipate and feel my tummy has become flabby.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
With baby my sleep is less because in night have to wake for feedings.but I sleep for 4 hours countinuosly befor waking up for night feedings. Do not go for a nap in afternoons.
No particular posture now but befor having babie ai used sleep on my stomach.
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
No I am not.
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
This strange feeling comes when I look at my flabby and overweight body.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
took 1 dose of sepia 15 day back low libido but no help
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
There is no major disease in my family.
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
My height is 158 cms.Wheatish color. Overweight ,flabby only at abdominal area.
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
My cycles are normal.only problem I face is too much pain in legs during the 7 day period. Though the pain decreases by the end of 7 day.
p.s some information about my first baby:
I already lost a 1.5 year old daughter 2 years back.
She had 3 recurrent episodes of pneumonia at age of 5.5 months and after the third episode she was diagnosed with trachea malacia and zenkers diverticulum.I took up homeopathy to treat thes ailments and touchwood they all worked good within 4 months of the treatment the doctors removed her feeding tube and she was able to eat orally but her all the previous episodes had made her immune system very weak so at the age of 9 months she had a fever and then till she died she had constant fever every day only nimesulide could bring her fever down.Doctors at AIIMS did all the test but every test came out good ,so in the end they clinically declared her immune system is weak and at age of 1 year she passed away due to refractory sepsis.
She was sick for total 8 months.And had to be hospitalised very often.
Age: 27 (DOB: 9th February 1983)
Nature of work: I am a housewife and a full time mother
Habits:
1. Describe your main suffering?
My main suffering is low libido.Before I hjad my first baby my sexual life was very good. But after my first baby the desire for sex decreased. (infact I was the active partner when making love.).And now after second baby the desire has totally diminished.The moment he tries to come near I feel irritated and do not enjoy or have any orgasm.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Right knew pain when I sit crossed legged for like 30 minutes constantly.I started having this problem when my first baby fall sick at the age of 6 months.so had to sit with her in my lap for hours.
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
I have been very active all my life till all this started.So mental suffering I am going through is I get irritated very fast.I have gained weight (5 kgs )
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
I feel I will never be able to do things so actively. Irritated they way I look thoigh before having the second baby I was perfect and had been on yoga continuosly.but after the second baby and yes the chickunguniya things have become worse.I feel not so refreshed in the morning and get up late(this makes me feel very sad. Because I have been a very punctual person all my life since childhood.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
It all started when I had my second baby .
The only problem I had before I got married was spondyltiis and I got this problem when I started working as teacher .I had to do lot of work on computer so had sit for hours.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
My whole day is worst.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
Everything aggravate my sufferings.
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
I think the change of place too also has relation to my suffering because I have been broght up in jeddah,Saudi Arabi.I am married and settled in New Delhi,India.
Internally ,I feel the the biological changes in the body.my menstrual cycle is good.after my second baby my cycle started this month on December 6th.I gave birth to my baby on 14th june 2010.
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Weathers dont affect me much.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am moody, irritating and have also become very lazy.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
I feel fine in both the weathers.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
About my friends they all are abroad so talk to them sometimes. Have no friends where I live all relatives live nearby but I feel I am trapped I wanna go out in the world and have lots of friends Because before marriage I have been a very social person.
My husband is very loving and supportive but after our second baby I had so many changes in myself especially the low libido have made matters worst but still I am the bad one and he is ver patient with me but for everything there is a limit.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
No fears and repeated dreams.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Sweets are my craving .no aversions
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
normal
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal but I feel in excessive sometimes due to breastfeeding.
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
No I am not allergic to any kind of food.
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
My sweat is normal.i usually sweat on head.
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
My bowels are normal but at times I constipate and feel my tummy has become flabby.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
With baby my sleep is less because in night have to wake for feedings.but I sleep for 4 hours countinuosly befor waking up for night feedings. Do not go for a nap in afternoons.
No particular posture now but befor having babie ai used sleep on my stomach.
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
No I am not.
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
This strange feeling comes when I look at my flabby and overweight body.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
took 1 dose of sepia 15 day back low libido but no help
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
There is no major disease in my family.
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
My height is 158 cms.Wheatish color. Overweight ,flabby only at abdominal area.
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
My cycles are normal.only problem I face is too much pain in legs during the 7 day period. Though the pain decreases by the end of 7 day.
p.s some information about my first baby:
I already lost a 1.5 year old daughter 2 years back.
She had 3 recurrent episodes of pneumonia at age of 5.5 months and after the third episode she was diagnosed with trachea malacia and zenkers diverticulum.I took up homeopathy to treat thes ailments and touchwood they all worked good within 4 months of the treatment the doctors removed her feeding tube and she was able to eat orally but her all the previous episodes had made her immune system very weak so at the age of 9 months she had a fever and then till she died she had constant fever every day only nimesulide could bring her fever down.Doctors at AIIMS did all the test but every test came out good ,so in the end they clinically declared her immune system is weak and at age of 1 year she passed away due to refractory sepsis.
She was sick for total 8 months.And had to be hospitalised very often.
simkhan06 last decade
one more thing there is too mcu fo hair fall after chilbirth.while bathing,towel drying and combing bunches come out.
simkhan06 last decade
Sepia seems like the correct remedy for you. How much did you take before? Perhaps you did not get enough.
I would recommend Sepia 30c, one pellet into 5oz of water, and drink 2 tablespoons. Then if you don't get any effect, you can increase the dose.
I would recommend Sepia 30c, one pellet into 5oz of water, and drink 2 tablespoons. Then if you don't get any effect, you can increase the dose.
♡ Homeopathy International 1 last decade
I have Sepia 200 in liquid dilution.Can you tell me the dosage for it?
simkhan06 last decade
Put 5 drops in a 5 oz container of water. Drink 2 tablespoons and pour out the rest.
Wait a day and then tell us how you feell. Did you use the 200c before?
Wait a day and then tell us how you feell. Did you use the 200c before?
♡ Homeopathy International 1 last decade
All of your symptoms are sepia. How much did you use last time?was there any effect? Did you feel anything?
♡ Homeopathy International 1 last decade
i took sepia 200 in 100 ml water with 3 drops thrice for a day.no help.i did ot see ny change yet.
simkhan06 last decade
♡ Homeopathy International 1 last decade
My 15 year old has irregular menstrual cycle; it every other month and very light.
She is very skinny, does not eat much and very sensitive, stubburn, hard headed and has very much her own opinion. Hard working,gets good grade. in general has good health, no other complains, sleeps well and very punctual.
Doctors please help!
She is very skinny, does not eat much and very sensitive, stubburn, hard headed and has very much her own opinion. Hard working,gets good grade. in general has good health, no other complains, sleeps well and very punctual.
Doctors please help!
Starlight1 last decade
can you describe her bleeding?Like is it dark or light,is it painful
when does she feel better or worst?
when does she feel better or worst?
simkhan06 last decade
Try to take some Femstim Female Libido Enhancement it has proven to be an effective libido enhnacer.
showthebrightside last decade
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