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i was looking the other day in the net about Lycopudium 200c for my husband, he is very agrresive, get angry easily, he very egoist and he have for sure low self esstim,(i havent sow him naked) and we are 2 years together 1.2 married, i was wondering what else can you recomend me and how can i make him take it with him to know, he doesnt accept any of his bad beheivor, he doesnt accept when he is wrong, he's allways right and im wrong... please help me, i still love him, even tho he is like that with me, and i dont want to get divorce, even tho he started talk about it
 
  Paola on 2011-08-09
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Hi there,

The following additional information is required to help your husband. Therefore, please do the best you can in providing a detailed and accurate data.

1. ID
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Single/Married
5. weight
6. Height ….
7. country
8. climate
9. List of your complaints

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Thirst
14. Tongue and Taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)

16. What exactly is happening?

17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?

19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?

22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?

25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

26. Family Background
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food

30. Name of foods which increase your problem

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.

Regards
Nawaz
 
nawazkhan last decade
1. ID : lets say M,S
2. Age :30 going on 31 next month
3. Sex : male
4. Single/Married : married
5. weight : something around 65 kilos
6. Height …. :1.77 meters
7. country : Germany
8. climate : most of the time cold
9. List of your complaints : get esly Angry, complains, not accept critic, blames everything on me (the wife), he is everytime right, try to make himself better than me, say that he is better, he have bad childhood, havent sow him naked in the 2 years we are living together, cover himself up when we are private together, he is controling, and i need to do everything depends on his moods.

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint : sence we are 2 months together...

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic : not that i know about. he is prety atretic body.
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt :dont know about...
13. Thirst : not really.
14. Tongue and Taste : his tonge is white alot, becouse he cant wash it, makes him vomit.
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
no me medicine

16. What exactly is happening? violent talking, agressiv behaiver

17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?

19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind? that he needs to take some kiind of medicine but he doesnt accept that nothing is wrong with him...
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you? No ability to talk, repeat the same sences, avoid talking, and looking for a solition

22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?

25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

26. Family Background : 2bigger brother, 2 samaller sister, he is the midle one, always alone, sence he was a kid, father never around until he was 9 years, then he wasnt a good example, always gone, relacionship with other womans, mother needed to take care of all the kids without help, working and taking care of the house in the same time

27. Educational Qualifications of the patient : didnt finished high school.

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living? Painter walls.

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
eats everything, not into soups

30. Name of foods which increase your problem

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
dont talk in public, he doesnt like been around with wife in public, care alot what people say about him, even if he doesnt know him, outside the house, try not to talk, if in bus, he talks really quiet, also when doing shopping, dont like attencion, and think everything negative.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)
it changes all the time, on the weekends gets worse, just want to escape, he walks with no destination, and from time to time like to talk with people that he doesnt know.


33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
 
Paola last decade
Hi,

Please give your husband Colosynthis 200C, 4 drops nicely mixed in 1/4 glass of mineral water, 1 time a day, for 3 days.

Report progress after 3 days.

Many many prayers for your happy life.

Regards
Nawaz
 
nawazkhan last decade
Oh wow,,, thank you very much!!!!
and by the way,there is any chance i can do it with tee? or cofee? so he dont notice, the only way ican do it, is when he come from work, he always drink a cofee or a tee...
[message edited by Paola on Tue, 09 Aug 2011 22:28:52 BST]
 
Paola last decade
whays is does it mean globuli??? can i give him also?!
 
Paola last decade
whays is does it mean globuli??? can i give him also?!
 
Paola last decade
Hi,

You can not give him in tea or coffee. Sorry.

Let's do this, put 4 drops/pills in 1/2 glass of mineral water, dissolve/mix nicely with a spoon. This will be his drinking glass of water. If you need to add more water, then, it is also OK, but, stir nicely?

Globule is a small round pill. But, please get the remedy in drops (liquid form).

Good Luck.

Regards
Nawaz
 
nawazkhan last decade
You probably should not be sneaking medicines into your husband's drink. Because our medicines can have side effects or aggravations, he needs to be informed of the risks. Would you be ok with him sneaking medication into your food?

It has happened before on this forum, that medicines have been given by spouses in secret to their partners. They can end up in doctor's surgeries, in hospital emergency wards,one case I remembered the police were called because the violence was made worse by the remedy. They may experience symptoms that they think mean something serious happening, when it is only a reaction to a remedy. At the very least they may start using other kinds of medications to suppress what the homoeopathy does, and this can create new issues for them.

On top of the ethical and case management issues, the case-taking itself is problematic. You have not presented his case, you have presented your problem with him. Your problem requires a remedy for you. What is his problem though? That can only come from him.

I see a lot of husbands and wives come into clinic. In no situation have I ever seen one spouse correctly interpret or even understand what their partner was feeling or going through. This means that any remedy prescribed on the spouse's description will be unlikely to help. In fact, it can often make things much worse especially because our medicines' side effects can be mental and emotional.

I know you are probably desperate, looking for any help you can get. But this is probably going to lead to more problems, especially if he finds out what you are doing. Tackle the problem head on, get him involved in his healing, that is the only way to really do this. If he gets side effects, if he aggravates, you are going to have a real problem dealing with that.

David Kempson
Professional Homoeopath
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Brisbanehomoeopath,

I can not argue with you as I am fasting.

Please do not confuse the patients as usual and post whatever you want in the ABC - Room.
 
nawazkhan last decade
thank you very much doctor nawazkhan, and i do understand what the other man says, but my husband dont want to take care of his problem even tho, our marriage is falling apart, and even tho he's family told him he should get help, because he cant deal with nothing that give him stress, and everything strees him up... i understand the etics that you mean, and i know that i woulnt like to be druged, but again, he is pretty much making his situacion worse, and pretty much killing me slowly and painfully,,, maybe you should read again what i wrote, and then you can maybe give me another advice,
 
Paola last decade
Please completely ignore his post. The remedy is very safe with no anticipated aggravation at all. We are responsible people that solve the problems not create more problems.
 
nawazkhan last decade
Well I have warned you so whatever happens next is your responsibility, so I hope it does not go badly for you.

Nawaz is not a homoeopath so he or she has no experience with this situation, and he or she is certainly not a doctor. He or she is also greatly mistaken about there being no aggravation or side effects - perhaps his or her lack of clinical experience is showing there. I will leave it up to you if you wish to take the advice of someone like that.

Nawaz if you are going to continue with this attitude towards myself I will continue to advise posters of your real life situation as a unqualified non-homoeopath with no practitioner experience with real life patients. Your choice.
[message edited by brisbanehomoeopath on Wed, 10 Aug 2011 07:53:26 BST]
 
brisbanehomoeopath last decade

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