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emotional abuse - requesting help


I was hoping somebody could help. I have had issues with anger for years, and have sought help, but nothing worked. I've tried lachesis, crot-c, hecla lava, and lots of other remedies. Lots of homeopaths have prescribed things, but my anger still won't go away.

The snake remedies make me worse...much worse. I can't take those anymore.

My problem is worse than anger, though. I have just admitted this to myself today, but when I get angry, I am emotionally abusive. Very emotionally abusive. I used to yell a lot. I used to scream. But I stopped that. I don't yell (anymore). Instead, I put it all in writing. E-mails and phone texts.

Somehow I justified this to myself that as long as I wasn't yelling, it was ok. Somehow I thought if I wasn't yelling, it wasn't verbal abuse. But once again, I pushed away somebody I cared about very much. Because he was honest with me today, I was able to realize what a horrible, horrible person I am.

I used to blame all my problems and behaviors on others. I would say, well, if they hadn't done this or said that or whatever. I was in total denial about my abusive anger until today. But now I know that the problem is me. Not them.

I don't want to be like this anymore. I have lost so many friends and boyfriends because of my anger and emotional abuse. I don't get like this unless I'm angry, but when I'm angry...I'm horrible. I have no control over what I write. I know I shouldn't and yet in that moment, I can't stop myself from writing all these horrible things.

I have also lately in the last year or two been irrationally jealous. I accused him of flirting with other women, when in the back of my mind, I knew he was only talking to him. But my mind was searching for answers...

I know lachesis should help, but I've tried 30c and even LM potencies, and I get CRAZY and MUCH WORSE when I take lachesis.

So any other suggestions would be appreciated.

  ottergirl on 2012-02-26
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
The following additional information is required to help you. Therefore, please do the best you can in providing a detailed and accurate data.

1) What is your Location/age/sex/height/weight? What is your JOB-WORK?
2) Duration of such behaviour?
3) Chief Complaints? Any incidents to explain your problem?
4) How is your Thyroid functioning?
5) Do you have Diabetes?
6) Do you have Digestion Problem?
7) How is your Bowl movement?
8) Do you feel thirsty? How many glasses of water you drink every day?
9) Do you feel good in warm or cold or humid climate?
10) Are you having any stress other then anger? Describe it.
11) Do you get normal sound sleep?
12) Explain in detail about you mood flucuation ? In which part of the day are you more angry?
13) Any problem with you periods? (For females)
- Are the periods early, regular or late in general? How long do they last?
- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before, during or after the periods?
- Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?
- Is the blood thick bright red or pale watery?
- Do you notice any clots in the flow?
14) Any past medical problem which you would like to share the information?
15) List of medicine in use at present/past?
16) Do you exercise daily? Or any other physical activity.
17) How is your Cholesterol level?
18) What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
19) How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
20) Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
21) Let me know your Blood pressure count?
22) Worse thing you had done when you were angry?
21) What makes you very happy?
22) What is your ambition in life? Was it fullfilled?

Please update.

Nikkie last decade
Please answer set 2 questionaries:

1) How is your memory?
2) Do you have any kind of grief?
3) Do you have dislike for every kind of activity?
4) Are yu in state of confusion when you get up in the morning after your sleep?
5) Is the confusion a temperoray state or it resides thru out?
6) How do you feel when you are treated harshly : retaliate, mental shock or become unconscious?
7) Does your eyes becomes red when you are angry ? any congestion !
8) Are you mre sensitive to cold temperature ?
9) Do you have back problem?
0) Do you get provoked? If provoked do you jump to kill the person or have suicidal thought?
11) Do you harm your self when very angry?
12) DOes bothering by some body gives rise to revenge ful thought?
13) Any aches and pains like rheumatism in any part of the body?
14) Do you have headache?
15) Do you face hairfall ?
16) Are you sensitive to light?
17) Any chronic nasal problem?
18) Does your anger increase with any physical work ?

Please Update.

Prayers & Blessings,
Nikkie last decade

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