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fear of men - question for a homeopath

I was wondering if there are any homeopaths on this site that could describe the difference between different remedies for a certain rubric?

The rubric is 'fear of men.'

Specifically, I am looking for a rubric that would cover the symptom when it looks like this:

Whenever a man looks at me in a certain way, or when he expresses sexual interest, I freak out. A huge wave of fear and panic comes across me, and I feel that I need to escape, and usually need to leave the room.

In the past, I've used alcohol to get over the fear, but getting drunk has also caused problems, obviously, so now I rarely drink that much.

Obviously, this fear of men makes it extremely difficutlt to get into a relationship, even though I desperately want to. (It makes it nearly impossible, actually.) I am only comfortable around men who aren't interested in me, but then, they're not interested in me, which causes problems.

This panic even happens on internet chat rooms or dating websites. If a guy says anything suggestive to me (like hey, sexy), I get freaked out, and panicked, and scared. I shut off the chat room and leave the room. A rush of adrenaline goes through my body. On a scale of 1-10, the fear is about an 8 or a 9.

I've been on many different remedies over the years, and all of them have cured different layers, and now I'm down to this last layer. I've had this symptom since I was a little girl, so I know I'm down to the last layer.

I've never been molested or anything, but I have always been scared when boys or men approach me. I wish I knew why, but I don't.

So, can anybody distinguish between the different remedies in the 'fear of men?' Are there any remedies that cover that symptom, or am I looking in the wrong rubric?

  nature_girl on 2012-11-20
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Mind; thoughts; vanishing, unable to think; sexual excitement, during: arund orig

Mind; excitement, excitable; ailments from, agg.; mental and emotional consequences of; sexual: agar ant-c APIS(4) arund aster bani-c BELL(3) calad calc cann-i CANTH(3) carb-an caust(2) chin con cot falco-p gink HEP(3) HYOS(3) kali-bR(3) kali-p lach LIL-T(4) manc naja NAT-M(3) nux-v ol-an OP(3) ORIG(3) PHOS(3) PLAT(3) psor RAPH(3) staph(2) STRAM(3) VERAT(3)
kadwa 9 years ago
Thank you, Kadwa.

Hmm...I don't think I actually feel any sexual excitement myself. It feels like just pure fear...nothing else.

But it might work. I'll look into it.

Thank you for the other rubrics!
nature_girl 9 years ago
i read your history so used only one dose and a good result.

1- sepia officinalis. 10m

only one dose early in the morning..againe rapeet only one dose...35 drops with a sip of water..after 4th day report me.

dr badar baig
doctorbadar9 9 years ago
Agreed with doctor badar.... Sepia is the right choice.
AsadGhumman 9 years ago
Hi Asad,

can you post how you got to Sepia? I am doing some
work with teenagers, and lately have had a few that
are afraid of men like ( this poster nature girl) and don't
remember why that is. And I have people who have been
raped- so they are also afraid of men, plus having
invasive thoughts about their body and want to self harm.

I am guiding these people to introduce them to homeopathy
in the first place for help- however, it is hard bc I don't want
to send them off to some classical homeopath in their
area, who does not have results and is going to fool
around with one remedy for 6 months, etc.
simone717 9 years ago
Thank you.

I have tried sepia in the past. It did not take away the fear of men, however it did make me clean my apartment. Ha ha!

However, I only tried the 30c, though.

I cannot tolerate anything other than a 30c or LM potencies, because I am extremely sensitive, but I could try a sepia LM potency.

Thank you for your help.
nature_girl 9 years ago
Hi simone,

Good day to you.

I will reply you in detail tomorrow.


30c won't help you in such condition. Selection of right potency is equally important as selection of right remedy.

AsadGhumman 9 years ago
Hi nature girl,
read aggravation zapper- elaine lewis. google it.
My thought is why not try a wet dose-split dose ( google that) of
the Sepia- and then be ready with the aggravation zapper
method if it feels too much. That way you can handle it.
simone717 9 years ago

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