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need help for social anxiety reply soon mr.kadwa or any other expert there

Hello Sir,
I have a query.Could you please help me out.My name is Ronit.I had mailed you earlier also regarding some different query, which was answered satisfactorily.Thanks to you for that again.I have social anxiety disorder.I would be very grateful if you can name a good remedy for me. Here I am not asking for a prescription. I just want to know the name of the remedy.My doctor gave me one remedy named gelsium which I think is not the correct remedy and also I am not getting much relief.If you can tell me the name of the remedy I can ask my homeopath to give that to me.
Below I am giving you a case history to you:
I think I am suffering from this problem since I was 19.At that time I did not know that it is a disorder,So I did not go for any treatment then.Now I am 25 years of age.Here below are my

I feel severe anxiety at public places like in metro,walking in a road,while purchasing anything at shops,eating and drinking in the public places while people watch me.I calmed it down to some extent by using Cognitive behavioural therapy.But still its not in my full control.Sometimes I feel to some extent fine but sometimes I feel severe anxiety.Also I feel unconfident while looking into the eyes of the passingby peoples in road or in public places at first glance or for first few seconds and also during conversation.when I feel anxiety I sweat even in cold climate.I used to go out only when needed which now I have changed to an extent.I feel very anxious during interviews.
An early medical problem.
I had suffered through depression in my class twelfth when I was 17.That time I was not able to take decision for very petty things and I used to do a lot of negative thinking which I controlled to some extent now. I l have been suffering through mild depression and inferior complexity even till now which I calm through positive and rational thinking.I used to weep a lot then.

Also I feel bad anxiety while making phone calls.I am having phone anxiety.And also I feel anxiety from girls,So I normally ignore them and do not make an eye contact with them.
I feel mild to severe irritation in heat,under sun.I some times not able to speak comfortably while anxious.
Last serious thing which i want to discuss with you is that people say that I my face looks angry while in anxiety, which could be due to the muscle tension so I am doing an exercise called progressive muscle relaxation.They are not allowing me to work.I was fired thrice from my job because they(office people) say that I look angry and in attitude.currently I am not working.they do not select in interviews even if i perform well.If selected they fire me after 3 to 4 days on seeing my facial expression.People misunderstand me,misbehaviour with me.Although In reality i am quite opposite.
Symptoms get worse when I put on tight clothes,from sun,In hot weather,in crowded places
symptoms gets better : when left alone,In cool atmosphere,feels comfortable in closed room,no desire for outside(open)air.

What I am have an aversion to?
What do you have a strong desire for?
coffee,cold milk,butter,cheese,salty and spicy food,ice cream,excessive thirst for water,slightly but not very cold weather.

What or who do you dislike?
music,sun,tight clothe,going out.
Emotional or Psycological Symptoms
emotional instability ,confusion ,depression,poor concentration,anger,anxious,desire for attention,gets upset when did not get attention.
How would you describe your sleep?
Normal but sometimes gets disturbed.
What do you fear most?
being looked in a public place,reptiles,snakes,lizards.

Physical Symptoms
What's your body shape?
medium stature

What is your natural hair color?
Describe your scalp condition
hair loss.
Eye symptoms
improper vision,can not see distant objects properly.
Digestive symptoms:
fullness, flatulence after eating,bloating.
Urological symptoms :
frequent urination.
What's your facial expression?
looks angry in public places.
Where do you feel the cramping?
What's your disposition(nature)?
worse in dry weather,shy,serious,worse in heat,responsible,hard working,emotional,helping,caring and loving for family,not social at all,feels busy all the time(shortage of time).
How do you react to stress and tension?
tend to keep things to myself and think about them.
I think that my that my father also had few medical problems like depression which he once mentioned and perhaps anxiety which appears from rude facial expressions.
Do you dream at all? If you do, do you remember them?
Whats the content?
Not much but whenever somebodt misbehaves or spat I dream bad about that.
How is your bowel habit?
when having anxiety loose motion.

sir have a question :Have you ever encountered a patient of anxiety who got facial expressions like me and he was not allow to work at all? Is it normal to have bad facial expression in social anxiety?
Sir, kindly help me out.kindly give me the name of the remedy suitable to my condition and personality.
Ultimately,I would accept that my mail is very long and you must be very busy,but kindly find some time for me.Its for a good cause.I myself is a very helping and good guy but at the moment suffering badly.Once again please do not ignore it and try to answer my questions,Please reply soon.
Sir in case information provided by me here is incomplete on you need any further information please contact me.
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  tariff on 2012-12-13
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
It seems to me that Lachesis may help you.
kadwa 8 years ago
Dear Mr.Kadwa,
My name is Ronit. You suggested the remedy Lachesis for my condition,but still I am not clear why did you prescribe that remedy for me.Is it for my facial muscle tension(my face looks angry) or is there any other reason.It is not at all matching my symptoms picture or personality.If you can tell the symptom or the reason for which you prescribed this remedy then I can get the prescription from my homeopath.Also I found that natrum muriaticum will be a good bet for me(this i can say on the basis of my research).please reply soon. Thaks for your prompt reply.
tariff 8 years ago
i feel that your condition is well represented by the following rubric...

Mind; delusions, imaginations; watched, that she is being: adam aids amet(2) AQ-MAR(3) ard-h ARS(4) bani-c BAR-C(3) beryl BOS-S(3) cact CALC(3) choc falco-p haem-i-b HYOS(3) kola lach latex lsd med meli musc-d plac(2) ratt-n rhus-t sile-c tax teg-a thul

You said you just needed a remedy name so i didn't save your analysis. Calc also looks better in your case. You may do further analysis.
kadwa 8 years ago

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