ear ache in left er

Hi,

I was wondering if anyone could help me with a new symptom? I can tell I'm getting better, because in the last few years, my symptoms have gone mostly from the mental sphere to the physical sphere.

Thanks to all the homeopaths on here who have helped me in the past!!

I'm now down to the old symptom I had as a child....ear aches. I remember having terrible ear aches when I was a kid!! Always tugging on my ears, and now I'm doing it again.

Here are my symptom that have developed in the past few days.
-pain in the left ear.
-Pain alternating with feeling of cold, and sometimes heat.
- Sometimes it feels like there is something wet in my ear, although there isn't. (I've checked!)


Also, this is the strangest thing...before I developed the pain/cold/wet/heat sensations, I had pain, but only if I pulled on my earlobe. Now that symptom is gone, but the pain/cold/wet feeling is there.

I've looked up in the repertory and I see lachesis, veratrum, and merc could work, but i'm not sure which. I'm leaning towards lachesis.

Menal symptoms - I've been feeling a bit vindictive today. (Another indication for lachesis?)
Also feeling spacey and not focused. I'm a writer, and I got a new writing job today, but I can't make myself write! I'm just off in the ethers!

In the past few weeks, I've been feeling of being kind of lazy. Don't really want to work out. Feel fat and unattractive, but don't feel like doing anything about it. Lol.

I had a hysterectomy this past year, due to humongous fibroids, but other than that, my health is fine.

In the past, I had manic-depression, but that went away with homeopathic remedies. (I had mystical experiences when I was manic...another indication for lachesis, but it was psylocybin that treated that.)

I've tried lachesis in the past for various things, and it's helped somewhat here and there, but definitely not my constitutional
remedy.

I've been feeling kind of hot lately, which is rare. I used to always feel cold. I even turned on the air conditioning today, which is very rare for me, because usually I like it really hot in my apartment.

I can't think of any other symptoms.

Oh, except I've been getting very angry with men again recently. I recently tried to start dating again (why????), but I push them away when they don't behave exactly as I think they should. I told a guy I wouldn't go out with him anymore, because he e-mailed me instead of calling me. I didn't tell him why, I just assumed he should have known.

I'm not a perfectionist in any other area of my life, but I have a very particular idea of how dating should go and if a guy doesn't treat me in a particular way in the beginning of a dating relationship, I get angry and refuse to have anything to do with them.

It's almost animalistic -like a man must must go through a specific mating ritual with me, or they don't pass the gauntlet! It has nothing to do with money or materialistic things - it's just about their behavior. I have a low tolerance for that kind of stuff with men, although I wish I could be more easy going in that area.

Do you think it's lachesis? Other ideas?

Thanks!
[message edited by nature_girl on Wed, 27 Mar 2013 02:32:19 GMT]