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Need remedy to improve Low height , poor appetite and behavioral problems of over-sensitive kid

My daughter is 9 years old who has Lower height with poor appetite. She is over-sensitive kid with some attitude problem lacking social skills nags at home and is reported to be quiet at school with little social skills.

Pls suggest a remedy

Will be grateful!!!!

Amersown
 
  amersown on 2013-06-19
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Can you please fill this questionnaire for your daughter:

1. ID
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Single/Married
5. weight
6. Height ….
7. country
8. climate
9.What are your complaints
a)....
b)....
c)....
etc

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Thirst
14. Tongue and Taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)

16. What exactly is happening?

17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?

19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?

22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?

25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

26. Family Background
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food

30. Name of foods which increase your problem

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.

32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
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[message edited by Zady101 on Fri, 21 Jun 2013 15:45:33 BST]
 
Zady101 6 years ago
1. ID = amersown
2. Age = 9 years
3. Sex = F
4. Single/Married = Single
5. weight =Slight underweight
6. Height = Below normal….
7. country = Pakistan
8. climate = Tropical
9.What are your complaints

Our complaints

a)Height is not increasing
b)Appetite is poor
c)She has an attitude problem with other kids and elders, poor social skills and lacks confidence


We are suffering from these complaint From her early child hood

Non-Diabetic
Desires sour/salty/spicy food doe not like sweet food

13. Thirst is OK

14. Tongue and Taste is OK

15. Current BP OK

17. We feel she needs improvement in these three areas.


18. This affects us as parents

19.She panics and creates uproar and also starts to be aggressive on elders and kids

It is annoying for us
She feels anger
she starts to raise her hands on elders and kids.

She took Baryta carbs and Kali phos

She belongs to middle class

Still in primary school

She is a Student
Likes spicy and salty food and not sweets

Amongst family members she shows Anger, irritability, hurry, impatience


In public or in other people's presence, She has no confidence to speak in public
 
amersown 6 years ago
This will not be adequate. You need to write more detailed replies.

Please copy the questions first and then write your answer under it and write detailed replies. Details of her growth from childhood till now, and what has affected her. Any events that had a bearing on her.
This will help your cause.
 
Zady101 6 years ago
1. ID
Amersown

2. Age
9 years

3. Sex
female

4. Single/Married
single

5. weight

6. Height ….

7. country
Pakistan

8. climate
Tropical

9.What are your complaints
a)Low Height and height is not increasing

b)She has poor appetite


c)She has an attitude problem and she demands more attention and preference.

etc

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint

Since her birth

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
Non diabetic

12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
Does not like sweets but likes spicy and salty food


13. Thirst
Little greater


14. Tongue and Taste
OK

15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)

OK

16. What exactly is happening?
She is not Growing in height and has anger tampers and has poor appetite

17. How do you feel?
She feels irritated if some one says anything against her wish


18. How does this affect you?



19. How does it feel like?
She feels like she is not given the rightful Preference and she is being left out and she feels insecure most times when she panics


20. What comes to your mind?
She has a anxiety a=problem and poor appetite and poor height

21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?

She got food poisoning from fish twice when she was 2-3 years old

22. How did that feel like?
She was hospitalized as she got diarriah and vomitting


23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?
She cried a lot

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?
She has compulsive and imposing behavior on others.


25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?

She took Kali phos

26. Family Background
She is from a middle class family and has good diet but does not eat much

27. Educational Qualifications of the patient

She is under primary school

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?
She is a student


29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
Likes salty and spicy foods more than sweet ones



30. Name of foods which increase your problem

It is not known

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.



She shows anger in family members and shows no confidence in public. She is irritated easily, she has compulsive disorder as she wants things right away


32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)

She has this more ion summer


33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)

36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
Pale
 
amersown 6 years ago
What kind of anxiety does she exhibit? Mental anxiety, excessive movement of legs, etc, Please describe this in detail

Is her behavior imposing and dominating outside also or only with parents?

When she is angry or crying and you console her, does she listen and calm down?

Does she become violent outside as well or only at home?

What change did you see in her behavior, if any, in the years following food poisoning episode?

What kind of feelings does she have towards parents?

What could be her reasons for resentment and anger?

Although children like Ice creams and candies and sweets, she has never liked them?

Around what time of the day you feel she is worse?

At what time does she normally sleep in the night?

What Kind of fears does she have?

How much does she cry now, and when?

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[message edited by Zady101 on Wed, 19 Jun 2013 21:35:37 BST]
 
Zady101 6 years ago
What kind of anxiety does she exhibit? Mental anxiety, excessive movement of legs, etc, Please describe this in detail

She shows anxiety at the time of study with her mother who teaches her. She tries to impose what she thinks is the right way to learn. If she does not listen to her, She gets upset and is crossed and she says now I will not study at all. She just leaves the room where she was studying. She also shouts at her mother to impose her point of view on the point of dispute. If I intervene to mediate things politely, she listens to me and tries to make things work again but with quiet mood. In private she complains me that she is being mis treated by her mother and she is always shouted at by her mother. She points out that she is not being treated fairly that is why she gets upset. This is not the case as we know it. She wants to impose things. An other dimension is when she asks for something and I tell her we will go and get it for her but wait a bit. She gets stressed up slowly and she can not wait and she says let us go now and leave everything. Meaning when she wants something, she wants it immediately and she can not wait and she says let us go now and if you do not reply positively she becomes upset and starts to cry and starts blaming me that I just lied to her etc etc. She starts to get stressed out and wants things done and gotten immediately if and when she wants something from me. This thing and other imposing and shouting behavior had improved following a three months course of Kindinorm which we gave her two years ago. As soon as we started that medicine she got sick and we continued that medicine for 2-3 months and her behavior improved. But I am noticing that these things are now re appearing in her behavior.

Is her behavior imposing and dominating outside also or only with parents?

We had complaints from neighboring kids that she shouts at them and this is partly why she has no friends. She tries to impose things and also shouts at other kids outside home also. At school she was unable to make friends.

When she is angry or crying and you console her, does she listen and calm down?

Yes she listens and gets calm if you console but she still remains crossed and quiet for some time after that too.

Does she become violent outside as well or only at home?

No she does not become violent at side home but she showed rage in some instances when I was there with her. But normally she does not become violent outside.

What change did you see in her behavior, if any, in the years following food poisoning episode?

She became more compulsive, imposing, prone to be angry quickly, become violent, no compliant at times, lacking in self confidence, isolated socially. Although she is good at school work and is very talented does not need much effort to learn things. She is good at learning and grasping things conceptually. But even her school reports say that she lacks in self confidence, does not speak louder in the class when asked to explain things to the teacher and she does not show much of social interest to intermingle with other kids which means she also lacks social skills.

What kind of feelings does she have towards parents?
She thinks that her mother does not treat her rightly and fairly with other kids. She has a better relationship with me as I try not to confront her on anything.She relies more on me on and shows trust with me as she thinks that I am more dependable.

What could be her reasons for resentment and anger?

She is not compliant and she misunderstands that she is being mistreated.

Although children like Ice creams and candies and sweets, she has never liked them?

She eats and demands ice cream and candies and sweets with other kids but she is not fan of all other sweet things and she wants to eat salty and spicy things which other kids do not demand.

Around what time of the day you feel she is worse?

She is worse during 10am -1pm.

At what time does she normally sleep in the night?
She sleeps at 9 pm.

What Kind of fears does she have?
She fears darkness at night and I think she feels some fears in the presence of other people as she becomes quiet in the presence of new people.

How much does she cry now, and when?
She cries now moderately during the study time at 10am - 12 pm if you do not listen to what she says and wants for her studies.
 
amersown 6 years ago
Does she curse?

Does she take deep breaths?

Does she experience any headaches?

Does she have a dry skin?

Is she warm blooded or feels cold in general?

Does she move her feet too much while studying?

Does she toss around on bed while sleeping?

What were the problems that were there from the birth?
a)...
b)...
c)...

What are the problems you feel only developed after food poisoning? For example, could be loss of appetite, etc?
a)...
b)...
c)...

Is she highly competitive and ambitious?
 
Zady101 6 years ago
Does she curse?

Yes when someone continuously teases her she becomes crossed and upset and then she curses

Does she take deep breaths?

No

Does she experience any headaches?

Sometimes rarely

Does she have a dry skin?

No

Is she warm blooded or feels cold in general?

Yes She is warm blooded

Does she move her feet too much while studying?

No she does not fidget

Does she toss around on bed while sleeping?

No

What were the problems that were there from the birth?

a)Irritability, insecurity and panic attacks
b)Lack of confidence
c)Lack of social skills

What are the problems you feel only developed after food poisoning? For example, could be loss of appetite, etc?
a)Loss of appetite
b)Panic attacks intensified
c)Lack of confidence intensified

Is she highly competitive and ambitious?

She is ambitious and competitive as we do not need to point out that to her and she looks after her results and school stuff by herself so we can say she is ambitious and competitive. But in recent school results she lost marks on social skills, group study participation, confidence and class participation which affected her pure academic grade. School also told us she needs improvement in these areas.
 
amersown 6 years ago
Hello,

Please get Nux Vomica 6C, and let me know once you have it.
 
Zady101 6 years ago
Hi there,

Thanks for your last mail. I checked about Nux Vomica in market. It is not available in 6c potency. It is available in 30 and 200 potencies. Pls advise what we do next ?

Thanks
 
amersown 6 years ago
Hi,
Please give her a single dose of Nux Vomica 30 as per the below method:

Fill a 200 ml cup with water. Dissolve 2 drops of the remedy. Stir several times.

Give her two teaspoons or 1 tablespoon from this.

Please update me after 7 days.
 
Zady101 6 years ago
Hi, I will do that and update you in 7 days. Thanks

amersown
 
amersown 6 years ago

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