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depreesed and fatigued woman

Sex: Female
Age: 27 (DOB: 9th February 1983)
Nature of work: I am a housewife and a full time mother

1. Describe your main suffering?
My main suffering is low libido.Before I hjad my first baby my sexual life was very good. But after my first baby the desire for sex decreased. (infact I was the active partner when making love.).And now after third baby the desire has totally diminished.though in our intimation I have always been an igniter.The moment he tries to come near I feel irritated and do not enjoy or have any orgasm.

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Legs pain.they hurt a lot even I just go to a market and come back.I mean no too much exertion but still leg pain.
Nape of neck hurts a lot as if stiff,shoulders too hurt a lot.
Constantly ,blocked nose,feel mucous in the throat.its affecting my hearing.I feel something full in my ears.And my right ear seems to be badly affected.cant listen to calls through my right ear,I feel tingling.
Piching noises makes me feel dizzy for seconds

3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
I have been very active all my life till all this started.So mental suffering I am going through is I get irritated very fast.I have gained weight (7 kgs ) though my eating habits are normal but craving for sweets have increased so badly especially after dinner.if I don’t find any sweet to eat I will go eat the sugar.

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
I feel I will never be able to do things so actively. Irritated they way I look though before having the third baby I had come back to my normal weight and had been on yoga continuosly..I feel not so refreshed in the morning and get up late(this makes me feel very sad. Because I have been a very punctual person all my life since childhood.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
It all started when I had my second baby .
The only problem I had before I got married was spondyltiis and I got this problem when I started working as teacher .I had to do lot of work on computer so had sit for hours.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
My whole day is worst.

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.

Everything aggravate my sufferings. Because I am not able to do things on time

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
no I don’t think so the change of place has to do anything with it.
Internally ,my menstrual cycle was good.after my second baby my cycle after this 5 months of his birth.month But after my third baby my periods have not started though I am not exclusively breastfeeding him.

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

Weathers don’t affect me much.

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am moody, irritating and have also become very lazy.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
I feel fine in both the weathers.

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Yes I really love to be consoled.
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
piching sounds makes my head go round for few seconds like dizziness
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
no such habit
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
About my friends they all are abroad so talk to them sometimes. Have no friends where I live all relatives live nearby but I feel I am trapped I wanna go out in the world and have lots of friends Because before marriage I have been a very social person.
My husband is very loving and supportive but after our third baby I had so many changes in myself especially the low libido have made matters worst but still I am the bad one and he is very patient with me but for everything there is a limit.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
No fears and repeated dreams.

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Sweets are my craving .no aversions

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal but I feel in excessive sometimes due to breastfeeding.

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?
No I am not allergic to any kind of food.

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
My sweat is normal.i usually sweat on head.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
My bowels are normal but at times I constipate and feel my tummy has become flabby.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
With baby my sleep is less because in night have to wake for feedings.but I sleep for 4 hours countinuosly befor waking up for night feedings. Do not go for a nap in afternoons.
after the third baby I have started to sleep straight on back…..though it hurts but I feel turning one kid and other has my back makes me feel bad.though I love sleeping on my stomach…gives relaxation my back n tummy muscles.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
No I am not

20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
This strange feeling comes when I look at my flabby and overweight body.

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?

took 1 dose of sepia a month back,only some change in low libido and no change in my fatiguness.

22. What major diseases are running in your family?
There is no major disease in my family.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
My height is 158 cms.Wheatish color. Overweight ,flabby and huge hips

24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
My cycles were normal.only problem I faced was too much pain in legs during the 7 day period. Though the pain decreases by the end of 7 day.
After the third one,My periods have not come back yet.
p.s some information about my first baby:
I already lost a 1.5 year old daughter 6 years back.
She had 3 recurrent episodes of pneumonia at age of 5.5 months and after the third episode she was diagnosed with trachea malacia and zenker’s diverticulum.I took up homeopathy to treat thes ailments and touchwood they all worked good within 4 months of the treatment the doctors removed her feeding tube and she was able to eat orally but her all the previous episodes had made her immune system very weak so at the age of 9 months she had a fever and then till she died she had constant fever every day only nimesulide could bring her fever down.Doctors at AIIMS did all the test but every test came out good ,so in the end they clinically declared her immune system is weak and at age of 1 year she passed away due to refractory sepsis.
She was sick for total 8 months.And had to be hospitalised very often.
  simkhan06 on 2013-12-02
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[message edited by anuj srivastava on Sat, 07 Dec 2013 12:08:38 GMT]
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
thank you anuj for replying,I need sometime to get back for myself.As currently I am very much worried for my 3.5 year old kid asu can see the post on the forum I am working on.

But I need myself to be treated,will get back once his worries settles down

thank u
simkhan06 9 years ago
What is your chief complaint?
All my complaints are related to each other.
1. Fatigue, always feeling tired .At night when I want to go to sleep I cannot go for deep sleep and feel fatigued and sleepy the whole day.
2. Knee pain and the whole body aches as if bruised. My back hurts really bad.
3.Hair loss. I have been losing hair in bunches and its more after child birth un till 1 year and lessens after that but still there.
4. Low libido.Dont feel like intimated for Husband. I feel lethargic eb=ven thinking about it.
5. Hearing loss due to congestion in ears plus I always feel mucous in throat.
6.over weight. Though my diet is very normal. The only thing is that I have strong craving for sweets and especially uring evening and after dinner and its increasing day by day.

When did this complaint start?
All these complaints started after my first childbirth and have increase in intensity after every pregnancy.

What was going on at this time? ( examples: emotional upsets, disappointments, illness of others, accidents, injuries, travel, new foods or
All these complains occurred when I was trying to settle down to new routines and new babies.
What is your opinion of the cause of the complaint?
I feel thay all are related to my child birth.weakness

List other main complaints after this and give the same information.

I never taken any kind of allopathic medicines.I had taken Sepia 200 in past
Please list what medications you have taken for your complaints, Allopathic or homeopathic.
symptoms for the choice you made?
For low libido I had taken sepia200
http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/250634/ The medicine had helped with low libido but not much.
For child birth weakness I had taken Five phos 6x for a month but no help


Sudden, intense ailments from fright. : No
Anxiety and restlessness with complaints. NO
Fears that do not subside. NO
Faintness or dizziness upon waking up. NO
Sudden fever with one cheek red, the other pale NO
Intolerance of pain. NO
Painful urination with anxiety NO
Pains followed by numbness and tingling.YES
Eye pain and injuries NO
Throbbing headache. YES
Unquenchable thirst.YES
Emotional upset YES
Fear NO
Anxiety NO
Extended period of unusual or continued mental exertion YES
Dizziness YES
Diarrhea NO
Craving for sweets and salt. YES ONLY FOR SWEETS
Craving for strong flavors. NO
Enthusiastic and suggestible, with a tendency toward peculiar thoughts and impulses.NO
Anxious NO
Anxiety associated with later stages of head cold, with sneezing NO
Asthma worse after midnight, fears suffocation while lying down NO
Fearful NO
Irritable YES
Restless NO
Sleepiness but insomnia YES
Thirsty for frequent small drinks YES
Weak and exhausted YES
Desires air but sensitive to cold NO
Vomiting with or without diarrhea after eating and drinking NO
Increased perspiration NO
Night sweats NO
Cold hands and feet YES
Dizziness YES
Nausea NO
Ravenous hunger NO
Aversion to fats NO
Craving for eggs YES
Eyes sensitive to light NO
Pale face NO
Large appetite with slow digestion YES
Nervousness NO
Apprehension NO
Anxiety prior to an examination or public performance NO
Fatigue and aching of whole body YES
Limbs, head, eyelids heavy YES
Headache YES
Scalp sore to touch YES
Sore throat NO
Lack of thirst NO
Dizziness, trembling, fatigue, dullness NO
Vomiting NO
Sensation of a lump in the throat YES
Chills with fever YES
Thirst during chills NO
Chills relieved by warmth YES
Cramping pains in the abdomen or back NO
Headaches that feel like a nail driven into the side of the head NO
Skin very sensitive to drafts NO
Introspective NO
Sad NO
Tearful NO
Rejects company NO
Disappointed YES
Grieving NO
Insomnia from emotional distress YES
Nausea relieved by eating NO
Eating intensifies hunger NO

Exhaustion YES
Deep anxiety and inability to cope NO
Headaches NO
Jumpy and oversensitive NO
Startled by ordinary sounds NO
Backaches YES
Nervous digestive upsets NO

Shakes head without any apparent cause NO
Facial contortions NO
Gassy, constipation or diarrhea YES
Sour belching NO
Claustrophobia NO
Irritability YES
Digestive upsets with gas and bloating NO
Craves sweets, warm food and drink YES
Night cough NO
Wants to be alone YES
Cranky on waking NO
Bullying tendency NO
Fear of failure NO
Breaking down under stress YES

Tongue feels dry NO
Mucous membranes dry YES
Nausea NO
Insomnia YES
Claustrophobia NO
Migraine headache YES
Vomiting NO
Pains around eyes YES
Craves salt and dry foods NO
Weepy but won't let others see it. (Wants to be alone to cry.) YES
Consolation aggravates them NO
Angry from isolation YES
Fright, grief, anger NO
Nervous, discouraged, broken down NO
Depressed YES

Anxious NO
Fearful NO
Weak YES
Associated with hoarseness NO
Tight heavy chest NO
Dry rasping cough NO
Burning pains in stomach, abdomen, between shoulder blades NO
Thirst for cold drinks that are vomited NO
Nausea NO
Night sweats NO

Sensitive NO
Weepy NO
Wants attention and sympathy NO
Changeable symptoms and moods NO
Craves open air YES
Sensitive to heat NO
Dry mouth with lack of thirst NO
Rich food upsets stomach NO
Insomnia from recurring thought NO
Head colds NO
Loose cough, worse at night NO
Delayed menstrual period with scanty flow NO

Worry YES
Overwork NO
Headaches YES
Difficulty concentrating YES
Exhaustion, YES
Over sensitivity NO
Overreact and devote attention to tiny details NO
Low stamina YES

do you have a mind which you feel is perverted? NO
are you arrogant? NO
do you over estimate yourself? NO

feeling of being controlled by another NO
out of sorts with your rhythms NO
feeling of living out someone else's expectations YES
feeling as if you are being fed off emotionally or psychologically NO
feeling of losing your will YES
over estimatimation of energy reserves NO
full of self-denial NO
you become a rescuer, addicted to rescuing people NO
drained YES
feeling of becoming a doormat NO
you have forgotten who you are YES
let me know the color of your .
TONGUE –White with grey spots on the sides of the tongue.my tongue seems to be spotty.


feeling of suffocation when wearing a tie. NO

any funny sensation in the body,delusions etc NO


sleeping habits,and any other peculiarity under the sun your body and mind is experiencing which is not normal. NO
simkhan06 9 years ago
Nux Vom 200
15 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HR BEFORE DINNER. dont repeat.

kali mur 6x from day two,5 pills three times a day.

calc carb 200,5 pills on day 2 half an hr before dinner repeat on day 5 and 8.

feed back after 4 days.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
i have cali carb in liquid form/And secondly iHave to nux vomica only on day one,is that correct.
simkhan06 9 years ago
nux only on day one.

Calc Carb 200 liquid be taken,5 drops in an ounce of water.not an issue.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
sorry replying a bit late since my intenet connection were off due to maintenance....
well i took the med as prescribed... i feel a little difference in my fatigues.

So now what is next for me.
simkhan06 9 years ago
repeat calc after 7 days of the first dose and give a feed back after 4 days of having it.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
after 7 days you mean on 24th dec .
simkhan06 9 years ago
after 7 days of the first dose.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
my sugar craving is getting worst...

I got my periods back on 11 dec.I had heavy bleeding for 4 days and it got light on 5 day and on 6th day finish.

my knee pain is still there especially when climbing the stairs.

will take the dose tomorrow.
simkhan06 9 years ago
have it after your periods.

and with reference to all your complaints what is the progress.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
my periods are over,so I will take the dose today.

have little improvement with my fatigue and sleep.

My sugar craving is still there and knee pain too.
simkhan06 9 years ago
how is your depression?

have it today.

will take care of your other issues also.wait for a week or so.

with reference to all your complaints what is the progress.

read the post on child birth,you shld have contd 5 phos for three months at least,any way not an issue.
[message edited by anuj srivastava on Thu, 19 Dec 2013 12:38:27 GMT]
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
my depression is better....but still there.I will take the calcarea dose today .

I am sorry i had no idea i should take 5 phos for 3 months.

my libido is still low.in rest of the complaints i see 40% improvement.
mishal_sk 9 years ago
god willing you will be restred to your original self in due course of time but,pls give regular feed backs.

you did not mention abt chickengunia in this post.i believe your knee pain has developed after that ailment.

pls have rhustox 30 and eupatrium perfoliatum 30 , 5 pills of each three times a day after 5 days of having calc.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago
i had chikinginiea 2 years back and had got it treated it well by rhus tox and calc carb...that is when i discovered that i lost weight after taking calc carb...
the knee pain returned after the child birth.

should i take eupatrium 30
simkhan06 9 years ago
restart rhus tox 30 three times a day.

eupatrium 30 also to be taken.
anuj srivastava 9 years ago

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