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plz help me in getting rid of my mental illness

I am 30 years old male, UNMARRIED

· Height 5’9

· Weight 63kg.

· Due to my physic I look as if only a teenager – very slim, thin face (looks as if I am ill).

Get tired easily by doing tiny amount of physical work.

· Always leave things to the last minute due to this get stressed.

· Easily get bored of things or any work.

· Can't concentrate long on any work.

· Don’t like changes in my life like things to stay as it is or at least to my comfort.

· Constipation.

· Get annoyed easily.

· Take things to heart easily and keep thinking about it and get stressed.

· If something goes against my will then I feel that everyone is against me (although deep down I know that it’s only me)

· But also very helpful too – people do come to me for an advice.
· Like giving advice.

· Always criticising or nagging on something.

· Always look back and think that if I had done that I would have been better off but still don’t learn from my mistakes.

· Indecisive

· Very impatient.

· Very confused.

· Wants to be loved or likes to be depended on someone but on other hand don’t like trusting anyone feels as if they will misuse me or take an advantage of my trust.

· Most of the times feel very sad.

· Normally I don’t think before I talk – although I know I that I need to overcome this weakness.

· I feel that I am very bad in decision making

· Feels that that I am living 2 personalities.SOMETIMES easily spend thousands ruppess for helping anyone and sometimes i cant spend even ten ruppees

· Very introvert person - however once get to know fully start feeling conformable.

* I constantly have a fear that something will happen to me or my family.

* Moreover I sometime even actually imagine that something has (will) happen to me or my family with an extreme scenario.

* I also sometime end up imagining indecent things.




my past history:-
my name is akmal khan from pakistan,i m 30 years old graduate as electrical engineer.we are 8 brothers and sisters and i m the youngest child being youngest i got all attention of parents and other family members i belong to a wealty landlord family.i got admitted in cadet college when i was 11 years old.environment at there was very tough.we had to wake up very early in bed we had to do everything on time and also had to face punishments of military sort .as i was not habbitual of that treatment and started weeping alot there and couldnt enjoy there .i was also shy of talking to other boys when they used to mock me i couldnt reply anybody.i was also afraid of sleeping alone because at home i used to sleep with my mother and was afraid of ghosts and many times couldnt sleep in nights and this also happend that i silently went and slept with any of my roomates when they were sleeping.being there a guy kissed me when other roomates sleeping i after somedays talked to one of roomates about this and he said that he raped u and i saw that bt in actual that was not the cased he just gave me kisses without my accent.other roomates started propagating this about me to other guys that i was raped and they used to talk about this in bad manner and i couldnt say to them that i was not raped and it didnt happen and i even couldnt request them as it hurt my ego to stop and dont talk like this.my elder brother died 16 years ago in an accident he used to compel me to take interest in studies and participate in co corricular and extra co cocurricular activities .i m facing severe depression and anxiety ,fear of being insulted,fear of falilure before i start any work

i started masturbating when i was there at college and became very mch addicted to it.i used to it 2 3 times daily basis.i used to get very hard erections just thinking about sexual things most of the time even in classroom.i started fantasizing sexual things.now i m facing sexual thoughts about my family members even religious personalites which i can not stop.respect for the people i should i respect is vanished.my mind is contaminated with sexual thoughts and i can not concentrate on anything else.this taboo thoughts are driving me more n more into depression and anxiety.i still masturbate even i m facing severe sexual dysfuctiion and ejaculate in a minute or even less bt without enjoyment.
 
  gossip_khan on 2014-01-03
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
duplicate post
post answered on http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/412802
 
simone717 6 years ago
yes but its because fitness told me to change the subject thats why had to write a new post
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
It is not a problem-duplicate post is put on so that
others do not start studying and prescribing, not knowing
someone has taken the case and also so they can follow
your progress if they are googling mental illness and
this thread shows up, they know where to look.
 
simone717 6 years ago
Please reply to the questionnaire here.
 
fitness 6 years ago
ok i preparing a reply sir.will soon post.
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
but the answers are getting too lengthy as u instructed me to answer every bit of detail.
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
1. Your age & sex
30 years male

2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc)
63 kg weight,low facial mass,muscle mass,lot of fat on belly,small frame body.Due to my physic I look as if only a teenager – very slim, thin face (looks as if I am ill).


3. Your profession

jobless

4. Describe your personality (stubborn, easy going, always in a hurry etc.)


.Get tired easily by doing tiny amount of physical work.

· Always leave things to the last minute due to this get stressed.

· Easily get bored of things or any work.

· Can't concentrate long on any work.

· Don’t like changes in my life like things to stay as it is or at least to my comfort.

· Get annoyed easily.

· Take things to heart easily and keep thinking about it and get stressed.

· If something goes against my will then I feel that everyone is against me (although deep down I know that it’s only me)

· But also very helpful too – people do come to me for an advice.
· Like giving advice.

· Always criticising or nagging on something.

· Always look back and think that if I had done that I would have been better off but still don’t learn from my mistakes.

· Indecisive

· Very impatient.

· Very confused.

.lacks trust in others even someone whom i benefited from a lot

· Most of the times feel very sad.

· Normally I don’t think before I talk – although I know I that I need to overcome this weakness.

· I feel that I am very bad in decision making

· Feels that that I am living 2 personalities.SOMETIMES easily spend thousands ruppess for helping anyone and sometimes i cant spend even ten ruppees

· Very introvert person - however once get to know fully start feeling conformable.

* I constantly have a fear that something will happen to me or my family.

* Moreover I sometime even actually imagine that something has (will) happen to me or my family with an extreme scenario.

* I also sometime end up imagining indecent things



5. What is your main health problem & its symptoms

depression,anxeity,lack of confidence,shy,fear of being insulted,fear of failure before starting any work,
have sexual thoughts most of the time in my mind even sometimes about children,my family members,religious personalities
thinking of this fault in my personality i get more and more depressed and anxious,feel tired all the times,dont like to
stand and like to sit,feel lethargic all the time,cant concentrate on any positive work like studying about my subject,
pessimist,always feel tiny problem as very big problem and get anxious about it,


6. When did this main problem begin

i have combined this question's answer with the answer of question number 7.


7. Can you relate any event or events which triggered this problem


we are 8 brothers and sisters and i m the youngest child
being youngest i got all attention of parents and other family members i belong to a wealty landlord family.
i got admitted in cadet college when i was 11 years old.environment at there was very tough.
we had to wake up very early in bed we had to do everything on time and also had to face punishments of military sort
.as i was not habbitual of that treatment and started weeping alot there and couldnt enjoy there .
i was also shy of talking to other boys when they used to mock me i couldnt reply anybody.
i was also afraid of sleeping alone because at home i used to sleep with my mother and was afraid of ghosts and many times
couldnt sleep in nights and this also happend that i silently went and slept with any of my roomates when they were
sleeping.when i was 14 a senoir student came in my room in night and tried kissing me which i resisted and didnt allow him
at that time other roomates were sleeping .i after somedays talked to one of roomates about this and told him that guy
tried to kiss me but i never allowed him but he didnt beleive me and said that u r talking about just kisses but actually
raped u and i saw him doing sex with u.i dont know why he said this because sex didnt happen but i kept quite and didnt
reject whatever he said.this discussion was being heared by one of other roomates which he discussed with other
roomates also and they started telling to other colleagues who after hearing this started talking about this
i couldnt defend my self so i started hiding from them and started loosing self confidence and interest in life
i also faced inferiority complex for this reason and also because of my thin physique due to which my juniors didnt obey my order
and insulted me .during these happenings my elder brother died in an accident,he was the one who used to compel me to take
interest in studies and participate in co corricular and extra co cocurricular activities which was a very big setback
for me.lack of confidence,inferiority complex compelled me to fantasize as if i m super human and powerfull and and in those fantasies i used to beat my
enemies which hurt me in my life.i remember a fantasy in which i was an expert hockey player and in actual i wasnt.
fantasizing about my bravery,being handsome and many other qualities became my tool of excitement and i started relying
upon fantasizing.i had lost interest in studies and couldnt concentrate on studies which got worse when i joined an
engineering university.i got failed so many times in my papers and the papers i passed i got ordinary marks.university
friends ganged together to make joke of me which irritated me alot but i couldnt tell them to stop making fun of me
because it was equal to begging for me.after passingout
from cadet college and before going to university when i was 17 years old i told a cousin about my love for her .i started loving her since i was a
child.she accepted it .she was very modern and bold i never trusted her.always thought that she has relation with other
guys as i m not good looking and she was very beautiful and because of my attitude of not trusting her she had to get
rid of me within a year of our relationship.i was very very shocked and got very very depressed and it took years to
come out of this trauma.
i started masturbating when i was there at college and became very mch addicted to it.i used to it 2 3 times daily basis.
i used to get very hard erections just thinking about sexual things most of the time even in classroom.i started
fantasizing sexual things.but now i m facing sexual thoughts about my family members even religious personalites which i can
not stop.respect for the people i should i respect is vanished.my mind is contaminated with sexual thoughts and i can not
concentrate on anything else.this taboo thoughts are driving me more n more into depression and anxiety.i still
masturbate even i m facing severe sexual dysfuctiion and ejaculate in a minute or even less but without enjoyment.

.


8. What makes the main problem better


when i start offering prayers,when i get attention of people(usually who ignore me),when i am able to cut jokes in a
gathering,when i find some positive thought in me,watching movies,reading news papers and stories,travelling



9. What makes it worse

offering prayers releives me a bit but not for long time because sexual thoughts about religious personalties
and family members bring back the problem with more intesity and than i masturbate specially at nite time watching porn
because i start thinking that i m worst and bad person and very unpious and then this thinking start developing in me want
for watching porn which ultimately leads me to masturbation twice and even thrice but after masturbating when its morning
i start cursing myself about why i watched porn and masturbated and then i ask for forgiveness and again start offering
prayers but problem is never solved thats why masturbation and watching porn continues.when i pray i take much time and
keep on praying but when i stop praying it takes months even years to come back to praying


10. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.)

completely pessimist,thoughts of suicide but not that intense,irritable,sad,hopeless,sometime fear of death,quiet,want to
sit lonely,thoughts of past events start coming into mind and making the situation worse,feel angry when some one insult me
or contradicts me or can not understand what i am explaining to him

11. What other health problems do you have

when go to toilet passing stool take 15 minutes,feel lethargic,lack of energy,feel tired,feel weakness in legs,loss of
memory,hairfall problems,lack of concentration,sometimes insomania,mild acidity,feet sweating,bad dour from mouth


12. What makes these other health problems better or worse (explain each problem)



13. How do you relax

watching movies,offering prayers



14. Do you normally fight or avoid confrontation

i always avoid confronation because i m coward in nature and think that my confronting will result in my beating and insult
by other person.

15. What animals or insects are you afraid of

snakes,

16. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc)

fear of hights,public gathering,when i am given some work to do which involves taking help from other people.asking them
makes me nervous

17. What occupies your mind mostly

i m unpious and worst kind of person on earth who is useless because cant do good deeds,just can envy and become jealous
about other people achievements,and think bad things about other people,that i m a failed person in every aspect of life

18. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy

i like people talking to me specially those who usually dont bother about me.but when someone talks about my failures
and shows me that i m weak i feel quite bad

19. Do you want to stay alone or with people

i usually love to stay alone in a room.i mostly avoid going and talking to people.even in home i try to remain alone


20. How is your sleep

distrubed

21. Do you have any recurring dreams

none


22. What type of weather do you like and how it affects your complaints

i like winter mostly but i dont think that it helps in releiving my complaints because i feel anxious and depressed
literally all the time.

23. Do you normally feel hot or cold

none of the above


24. What type of clothes you wear (tight, loose, around neck etc)

usually wear round neck clothes and cloths are not so loose not so tight

25. What foods you love

beef,chinese rice,potatoes,fried egg,burgers,pizza,roasted chicken,roasted mutton,roasted beef,chocolate
,curd,sweet dishes,biscuits

26. What foods you hate

i dont hate but i like vegatables less than i like meat and chicken



27. What taste you love (sweet, salty, sour, bitter)

i love sweets,custard,pudding.and also spicy foods,sour tasting foods like curd,yougurt,sour fruits like oranges lemon
sour drinks like lemon squash,orange flavoured biscuits

28. What taste you hate

i like all tastes but special craving for sweet foods other tastes i like less than that

29. Do you like warm or cold food

i like warm food

30. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, mud….)

no i dont

31. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive)

i feel thirst but drink less water when i get up in the morning i usually find my mouth completely dried so much so that
i have diffculty speaking


32. Do you have dry lips or mouth or both

lips and mouth both.mouth more drier than lips

33. Any coating on tongue first thing in the morning

dont think so

34. Any taste or smell from your mouth first thing in the morning

mouth feel very dry,usually bad odour comes from mouth which is very annoying for others but not just in morning it
happens all the day.

35. How is your skin

oily skin

36. Details about your sweat (where mostly, how much, smell, stain color)


37. Any problems with ears, nose, chest, throat

ears gather dust,nose bone deviated,throat sour causes coughing sometimes in a day

38. How is your stool (details of how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.)

usually 3 times a day.first when i getup and than after 2 3 hours of first stool and than in the evening or night.
it takes 15 minutes to stool.i cant recognize what type of smell comes from it.

39. How is your urine (details of color, smell, any blood etc.)

color white,cant tell how does it smell but i think same smell that comes from ships wool,i have frequent urinations
when i drink a glass of water i will have to go time and again to toilet for urination

40. How is your sexual life & desire

erectile dysfunction but masturbate alot as it has become my habbit since last 18 years of my life.think a lot about sex
get aroused by any gals pictures who has visible breast cleavage or even wearing some tight dress.when i masturbate i
ejeculate in a minute or less with very less enjoyment and dont get satisfied.my mind is always going through sexual thought
so mch so that i m sick of this now.

41. Males genitals (erection, pain, itching etc.)


sometimes tip burning from inside due to excess masturbation



42. Females menses details for regularity, flow, clots, discharge other than menses (reply to all these points)

43. What illnesses are running in your family, mother’s side & father’s side & brothers/sisters

pilesis family problem my mother and brother got operated,father has sugar

44. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic, homeopathic, supplements, acupuncture etc.)

no i m not taking any

45. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details

none

46. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological)

yes pyschological allopathic treatment

47. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dose, approx. time frame)


dont remember
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
i have tried my level best to mention everything i feel and go through.
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
Your remedy is: Staphysagria 200c.

HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take two doses 12 hrs apart. Just two doses. Not daily.
Report back with changes observed.
First dose: At night before sleeping.
Second dose: 12 hrs after the first dose.
Don’t take any more dose or any other remedy unless I tell you!

If your remedy is in the form of pills:
One dose is one pill.
Dissolve the pill under the tongue.

If your remedy is in liquid form:
Put one drop of the remedy in half glass of water, stir and take one tea spoon from it.
That’s one dose.
Use the same mixture for subsequent doses, if required.
Don’t refrigerate the mixture. Put it anywhere covered, away from direct sunlight.

PRECAUTIONS:
If there is significant worsening of symptoms (called homeopathic aggravation) after the first dose, then don’t take the second dose.
Don’t take any other homeopathic remedy during this treatment.
Give a break of at least 10 minutes before eating/drinking anything before or after taking the remedy.

HOW TO GIVE FEEDBACK:
A good example of how to report your progress is by giving %age improvement for all your health problems e.g.
Headache: 30% better
Low energy level: 50% better
Anxiety: 40% better
Sadness: No change
Depression: Worse
And so on list all your complaints.

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fitness 6 years ago
thx so mch sir
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
stapysagria 200 is only availble in form of granules.they have given me granules equal to two dose
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
Ok, take the doses as I have advised.
 
fitness 6 years ago
takn one dose last nite 11:30 pm feelng no aggravation symptoms
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
takn one dose last nite and 2nd dose today in noon.feelng no diffrnce
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
Report back in one week.
 
fitness 6 years ago
ok sir.
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
since two days and nights i am feeling that my urge for masturbation has lessened.sexual thoughts float through my mind but they r not able to compel me to masturbate
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
Good.
 
fitness 6 years ago
consider these symtoms of mine 2


1-i bite nails
2-pluck my hair and then cut them with my teeth
3-saliva drops out of my mouth when sleeping
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
i talk hurriedly,walk hurriedly
can not have eye to eye contact if someone staring at me,i like buttering people.
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
Let this remedy work first. Report back with progress on Jan 15.
 
fitness 6 years ago
no no these are my old symptoms i had forgot to share with u at the when i had presented my case.u had told me to report back after a week that makes 11th jan the reporting date but now u changed the date to 15th jan.i am confused.
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
Don't be confused, report back on 15th.
 
fitness 6 years ago
can homeopathic aggravation symptoms occur after a week of the last administered dosage?
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago
my anger on the rise!
 
gossip_khan 6 years ago

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