≡ ▼
ABC Homeopathy Forum

 

The ABC Homeopathy Forum

Premature and sex weekness

Respected Sir,
I am 32 year old guy. I am not active in sports and not a Gym guy at all. I have few health problems.
Constipation: I am suffering from constipation since last 20 years, I have been to some doctors but it was not cured properly. At present I am using psyllium husk and it helps me to get motion.
Weight: I am having proper food (Vegetable, fruits and meat ) but not putting weight. I am 5’9” with 60kg weight only. Would be great help if you can advise on this.
Premature Ejaculation and loose Penis: I was masturbating since last 15-16 years that is effecting my life (this what I feel). I can’t stand more than 1 minute, sometime I am getting discharge after just insertion. I was in a relationship with a girl for 6 months and to get rid of PME I took 'Bectam' which contain Paroxetine 20 mg. It helps me a lot. I had this medicine for 60 days and I was having very good time with my partner. then I left this medicine and we enjoyed sex quite well without any medicine. Now I am out of that relationship since last 8 month and having same issue since last 6 months. My semen is also very thin and after ejaculation It is being difficult for me to get the erection again. It took around an hour to get erection again.
Now I am getting married in 6 month and I don’t want my relationship to be ruined so I am asking for advice. Please help me to get rid of this. You help will be much appreciated.
 
  sunny_ind on 2014-03-11
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I can help you with your health issues but you have to commit to lifestyle changes (diet, exercise etc) also, if you are willing to do that, let me know.
 
fitness 8 years ago
Thanks for your reply.

Yes I will do that as i wanted to change my lifestyle
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
Please have a look at my profile by clicking my username.

In case you are interested, I can try to find a suitable remedy for you if you answer below questions applicable to you.

IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ THIS FIRST BEFORE ANSWERING QUESTIONS
• Please reply to all that is being asked and give details.
• Short answers such as Yes/No/Normal are not helpful.
• I want answers which explain the What, When, Where, Why, Better by & Worse by.
• Example: I have a sore throat (explains what), since 3 days (explains when), on the left side of my throat (explains where), due to eating sour food (explains why), the pain is better when I drink warm tea (explains Better by), the pain is worse when I swallow food (explains worse by)
• I can’t prescribe if these directions are not adhered to.
• Please leave the questions in place and give your answers under each of them.

QUESTIONS:
1. Your age & sex

2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc)

• Weight

• Height

• Body type (Thin, Fat, Medium)

• Any significant feature (e.g. sunken cheeks, stooped shoulders, thin chest etc.)

3. Your profession

4. Describe your personality in at least 20 words (e.g. stubborn, lazy, don’t want to work, always in a hurry etc.)

5. Do you smoke/drink/drugs, if yes, details

6. What is your main health problem & its symptoms

7. When did this main problem begin

8. Can you relate any event which caused this problem

9. What makes the main problem better (e.g. massage, pressure, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.)

10. What makes it worse (e.g. massage, pressure, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.)

11. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (e.g. weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.)

12. What other health problems do you have

13. What makes these other health problems better or worse (explain each problem)

14. What animals or insects are you afraid of

15. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc)

16. What occupies your mind mostly

17. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy

18. Do you want to stay alone or with people

19. How is your sleep

20. Do you have any recurring dreams

21. Is your complaint affected by weather, if so, which weather affect & how

22. Do you normally feel hot or cold

23. What type of clothes you wear (e.g. tight, loose, around neck etc)

24. What foods you crave & love (not what you eat due to health or other reasons, rather what you love)

25. What foods you hate a lot

26. What taste you love a lot (e.g. sweet, salty, sour, bitter)

27. What taste you hate

28. Do you like warm or cold food

29. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, mud….)

30. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive)

31. Do you have dry lips or mouth or both

32. Do you have any coating on tongue first thing in the morning, if yes, details

• Is coating thick

• Color of coating

• Where exactly

33. Any taste in your mouth first thing in the morning (e.g. bitter, sour)

34. How is your skin (dry, oily, rough, acne, pustules, boils, psoriasis etc), send me a picture of the skin problem

35. Please upload here or email me a picture of close up of your hand nails (without nail polish or any treatment done)

36. Details about your sweat (where mostly, how much, smell, does it stain, color)

37. Any problems with eyes/vision

38. Any problems with ears, nose, throat (e.g. nose always blocked, runny, discharge color)

39. How is your stool (details of how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.)

40. How is your urine (details of color, smell, any blood etc.)

41. How is your sex desire (e.g. no desire, low, moderate, high, very high)

42. Are you satisfied with your sex life, if no, why not

43. Males genitals (any problems with erection, any pain, any itching etc.)

44. Females menses details (reply to all these points)

• Regularity (early, late, irregular, duration of cycle)

• Flow (low, moderate, high)

• Clots (none, some, a lot, huge clots, bright color, dark color)

• Any discharge (color, consistency, smell)

45. What illnesses are running in your family

• Mother’s side

• Father’s side

• Siblings (brother/sister)

46. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic, homeopathic, supplements, acupuncture etc.)

47. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details

48. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological), if yes, give details (what, when, where, why, the list of medicines used)

49. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dosage, approx. time frame)
 
fitness 8 years ago
QUESTIONS:
1. Your age & sex - 32 Male

2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc)

• Weight - 60Kg

• Height - 5 feet 6 inch

• Body type (Thin, Fat, Medium) - Average body not much thinner.

• Any significant feature -

3. Your profession - Computer Professional. Spend at least 12 hours on computer

4. Describe your personality in at least 20 words - I always be in hurry. I don’t think much about myself. I skip my lunch due to laziness , I like sleeping but I am not lazy. I prefer go out and hang around with friends. I love going for trekking.

5. Do you smoke/drink/drugs, if yes, details - I left smoking 8 months back. I smoked for 5 years, 4 to 5 cigarettes a day, no drink, no drugs. I drink coke

6. What is your main health problem & its symptoms - I suffer from Constipation, I got motion twice a week. I got ejaculated within a minute and it took an hour to get erection after ejaculation. My penis is normal in shape and size. When I talk to girls about some sexy stuff, I start getting pre cumming.

7. When did this main problem begin – Constipation since last 20 years. Premature ejaculation since last 5 years, but I had 6 moths very good with my GF. An year back when I was with my GF then I used to stay for 10 minutes. I used stop and wait technique but since last 7 month I am not with my GF and since last 5 months problem started again.

8. Can you relate any event which caused this problem – I think to much of masturbation is the cause.

9. What makes the main problem better – I had 'Bectam' which contain Paroxetine 20 mg for 2 months and it help me to sustain longer.

10. What makes it worse – Not sure, I think it is again masturbation that is causing it

11. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem – some time I feel very depressed about this, but I have hope that It can be cured as I had good time with my GF once I had medicine for couple of months.
12. What other health problems do you have – Just above one

13. What makes these other health problems better or worse - N/A

14. What animals or insects are you afraid of - Snake

15. What situations are you afraid of – Darkness and I feel scared when I am in dark Cave or dark basement.

16. What occupies your mind mostly – When I am alone 80% of time I think about Sex

17. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy - I feel glad and I response in the same way.

18. Do you want to stay alone or with people - I want to stay with my close friends with whom I am very much comfortable but most of the time I want to stay alone.

19. How is your sleep – Not good, I did not get deep sleep. I sleep a lot but not continuous. I keep getting awake or falling a sleep very late.

20. Do you have any recurring dreams – No, Not much dream

21. Is your complaint affected by weather, if so, which weather affect & how – I am not allergic to weather.

22. Do you normally feel hot or cold – I normally feel cold. I have running nose most of the time

23. What type of clothes you wear – I normally use Jeans (Not tight) and shirst, Some time I use round neck T shirts.

24. What foods you crave & love – I like non veg specially chicken and Beef. It could be in any form, spicy or non spicy, I like sweet dishes.

25. What foods you hate a lot – anything which contain chili. I dnt like burger and hot dogs.

26. What taste you love a lot (e.g. sweet, salty, sour, bitter) - I like sour and salty but Sweet is also my favourite.

27. What taste you hate – I hate bitter taste.

28. Do you like warm or cold food - I like warm food, but prefer cold when it is sweet

29. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, mud….) – No, I do not have that kind of taste.

30. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive) - less, I do not drink much water

31. Do you have dry lips or mouth or both – I have dry lips, but mouth not.

32. Do you have any coating on tongue first thing in the morning, if yes, details - No I don’t have that coating in the morning.

• Is coating thick – N/A

• Color of coating – N/A

• Where exactly – N/A

33. Any taste in your mouth first thing in the morning (e.g. bitter, sour) – I feel no test , just the saliva test.

34. How is your skin (dry, oily, rough, acne, pustules, boils, psoriasis etc), send me a picture of the skin problem - I have normal skin , not much oily or dry,

35. Please upload here or email me a picture of close up of your hand nails (without nail polish or any treatment done) – I will send you the picture. Please share your email Id

36. Details about your sweat – I am not sweating at all.

37. Any problems with eyes/vision – I wear specs. I have long site vision problem

38. Any problems with ears, nose, throat – I get sneezing when I woke up and then had running nose with thick (colorless like water) fluid .

39. How is your stool – Normally I have hard stool with smell. I normally get motion twice a week.

40. How is your urine (details of color, smell, any blood etc.) – It is white in color, but when I finished urinating and stand up then few drops come out in cloths. I always feel that some more drop will come out after urinate.

41. How is your sex desire – Very high desire, I think 80% of time about sex. I watch porn very much.
42. Are you satisfied with your sex life – I do not have sex as I don’t have partner, I do masturbation thrice or 4times a week to complete my desire.

43. Males genitals – I have no issue with erection or size and shape. It took time in re erection after ejaculation. Normally I get erection after an hour after ejaculation.

44. Females menses details (reply to all these points)

• Regularity (early, late, irregular, duration of cycle)

• Flow (low, moderate, high)

• Clots (none, some, a lot, huge clots, bright color, dark color)

• Any discharge (color, consistency, smell)

45. What illnesses are running in your family

• Mother’s side – No issue

• Father’s side - Constipation

• Siblings (brother/sister) - Constipation

46. Are you taking any medicines – Psyllium husk for constipation.

47. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details – No.

48. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological), if yes, give details (what, when, where, why, the list of medicines used) - No

49. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dosage, approx. time frame) – Nothing.
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
What do you mean 'I don't think much about myself'?

You said I skip lunch due to laziness & then say you are not lazy?

Why do you keep waking up during sleep.

Q-12 vs Q-22 vs Q-38: What is correct answer.

Q-35: click my username

Q-39: Give details of stool, how does it look like

Q-43: Search the internet for 'recuperation time men' and you will know how this works
 
fitness 8 years ago
39. How is your stool – Normally I have hard stool with smell. I normally get motion twice a week. Most of the time it is dark and hard. First few look like goat waste and rest is in normal shape. No loose motion at all.
22. Do you normally feel hot or cold – I normally feel cold. I have running nose most of the time
12. What other health problems do you have – I am allergic to dust and perfumes. I get sneezing when I woke up. Most of the time I have little running nose. Some time I feel nose blockage as well.
38. Any problems with ears, nose, throat – I get sneezing when I woke up and then had running nose with thick (colorless like water) fluid .
Why do you keep waking up during sleep – I do not know the reason, I am not getting deep sleep, I tried any ways like, sleep in dark, sleep on comfort bed, keep my room temperature normal, but it is not working. I am talking warm milk with dates as well.
You said I skip lunch due to laziness & then say you are not lazy? – When it comes to food I become lazy, I hate preparing food and that is why I skip lunch and ate some fruits or anything left in my fridge.
What do you mean 'I don't think much about myself'? – I always think about my family and give them priority. For example If any of my family member need something and I have that but it is just enough for me, in that case I will give them instead of my use.
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
What do you mean you are always in a hurry

Why did you stop smoking

Do you still desire to smoke

What makes constipation better & worse

Other than two days of the week, is there no urge/feeling to pass stool or you constantly feel there is stool but can't pass it

After passing stool, do you feel fully relieved

What do you mean your stool is like goat stool, explain
 
fitness 8 years ago
What do you mean you are always in a hurry – I am not in always hurry

Why did you stop smoking – I just quit because it was effecting my health.

Do you still desire to smoke – No, Now I have no desire to smoke.

What makes constipation better & worse – When I took psylliu husk then it make my stool soft and also help it to pass.

Other than two days of the week, is there no urge/feeling to pass stool or you constantly feel there is stool but can't pass it – I always feel I have to go for washroom however motion never passes. Whenever I feel for motion I go to washroom and sit for 5-10 minutes but 90% of the time motion didn’t pass.

After passing stool, do you feel fully relieved – I did not get the feeling of light stomach after motion. I never had complete motion, I always feel that there are some more stool but it didn’t come out.

What do you mean your stool is like goat stool, explain – When I am not having psyllium husk then first few of motion become very hard and it came out in very very tight and small pices like goat stool.
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
Why did you write you are always in a hurry in your original post.

What effect did you notice on your health.

What makes constipation worse.

Is the stool small, hard balls.
 
fitness 8 years ago
Why did you write you are always in a hurry in your original post. - I am sorry, that was wrong.

What effect did you notice on your health. - I have mention everything in my previous post

What makes constipation worse. - I think my food habit or my no excercice attitude

Is the stool small, hard balls. - yes it small and hard ball, some time it hurts while motion as well
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
What foods you eat normally, give examples
 
fitness 8 years ago
I normally eat non veg food like eggs, Beef, chicken, lots of rice. i also include milk, Vegetable (but less), fruits, Papaya, peas, Grapes, water mellon, pineapple, apple etc.
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
Your remedy is: Calcarea Carbonica 200c.

HOW TO TAKE THE REMEDY:
Please take two doses 12 hrs apart. Just two doses. Not daily.
Report back in 7 days with changes observed.

TIME OF DOSE:
First dose: At night before sleeping.
Second dose: 12 hrs after the first dose.
Don’t take any more dose or any other remedy unless I tell you.

PILLS/PELLETS:
If your remedy is in the form of pills:
One dose is one pill.
Dissolve the pill in mouth.

LIQUID REMEDY:
If your remedy is in liquid form:
Put one drop of the remedy in half glass of water, stir and take one tea spoon from it.
That’s one dose.
Use the same mixture for subsequent doses, if required.
Don’t refrigerate the mixture. Put it anywhere covered, away from direct sunlight.

PRECAUTIONS:
If there is significant worsening of symptoms (called homeopathic aggravation) after the first dose, then don’t take the second dose.
Don’t take any other homeopathic remedy during this treatment.
Give a break of at least 10 minutes before eating/drinking anything before or after taking the remedy.
During the treatment, don’t eat anything which you have never had all your life.

HOW TO GIVE FEEDBACK:
A good example of how to report your progress is by giving %age improvement for all your health problems e.g.
Headache: 30% better
Low energy level: 50% better
Anxiety: 40% better
Sadness: No change
Depression: Worse
And so on list all your complaints.

GENERAL INFO ABOUT HOMEOPATHIC PRESCRIBING:
If someone is giving several remedies, without waiting to see the effect of one remedy, then it is totally against the core principles of homeopathy. Such an approach is unlikely to give permanent cure, rather it may distort actual symptoms making subsequent cure even more difficult.

DIETARY GUIDELINES:
Homeopathy is not magic and it can only work when all other supportive strategies are also used. To make sure you are cured as fast as possible and stay that way please change your lifestyle to include the following:

1. Start eating half cup of low fat, plain, non-flavored yogurt with live cultures daily in the morning or with lunch. If you have homemade yogurt that’s the best.
2. Stop all processed foods e.g. white bread, white rice, white burgers etc.
3. Eat whole foods only i.e. whole grain bread, brown rice, brown burgers etc.
4. The bread should be high in bran content & the flour should be coarse ground.
5. Start eating a small bowl of salad at least once a day e.g. it should contain cucumber, carrots, salad leaves, tomato and any vegetable you like. Put a dressing of olive oil & raw apple cider vinegar and put some salt & black pepper to your liking.
6. Eat at least 1-2 fruits per day e.g. apple, orange etc.
7. Drink enough water so that your urine is clear. Yellow colored urine is a good indication that you are dehydrated.
8. Eat only when hungry and when eating, don’t overstuff yourself.
9. Focus on food only when you eat i.e. don’t divert your attention by watching tv etc.
10. Exercise:
• Aerobic activity e.g. Start walking at least 30 minutes a day for 5 days a week with your spouse/friend and achieve your target heart rate.
• Strength training e.g. Start weight training at least 20 minutes 3 days a week.
 
fitness 8 years ago
Thanks for your reply. But i googled about Calcarea Carbonica and found that it is not helpful in PME
 
sunny_ind 8 years ago
If you know so much about homeopathy why are you looking for answers here.

We are taking out precious time from our lives to help people in need, so have some respect for it.

I am done with your case.
 
fitness 8 years ago

Post ReplyTo post a reply, you must first LOG ON or Register

 

Important
Information given in this forum is given by way of exchange of views only, and those views are not necessarily those of ABC Homeopathy. It is not to be treated as a medical diagnosis or prescription, and should not be used as a substitute for a consultation with a qualified homeopath or physician. It is possible that advice given here may be dangerous, and you should make your own checks that it is safe. If symptoms persist, seek professional medical attention. Bear in mind that even minor symptoms can be a sign of a more serious underlying condition, and a timely diagnosis by your doctor could save your life.