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Serious procrastination and selfesteem issues

Sir,
I'm 26 year old male. I have been having issues with procrastination, attention problems,decision making, obsessive thinking, thoughts hard to stop,fear of change,what others think about me, negativity, lack of clarity and goal, no control over my life, feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness it's getting very hard even to accomplish normal things in life. My childhood was not so good I stayed away from my parents.I was abused sexually by a man many times when I was 8.when I went back to my family i had a younger brother whom I never liked much, I never got much attention from my parents.i turned introvert. Many a times I was scapegoated and whenever I used to fight with my brother my father used to beat me up and sometimes he used to beat me up if he had a bad day at office. My parents both of them working used to fight often in front of me.i was bullied in school many times when I fought back it was always my fault. I did feel lack of support and trust by my parents in me. My mother always treated me and my brother differently he was given whatever he asked for but when I did the say she used to say money doesn't grow on trees. Sometimes I used to steal money. I was intelligent in studies but no matter how well I performed I was never appreciated. I lost interest in studies in 12th where I got less marks my parents wanted me to go for engineering and the were ready to get me in a good college for higher fees but I thought I never deserved to do that and thought of doing degree and took 5 years to complete 3 year course with backlogs I knew I could have completed that earlier but I never wanted to. I was addicted to smokin for last 10 years. I completed my masters last year but I never feel happy for accomplishing it. The thing is I am still not clear what I want to do with my life. And I donno what I am. Suppose if I find something appealing I just imagine being that think of goods and bads and never take a step towards achieving it. Lot of things will be going on in head but never take actions. A lot of time is wasted thinking and finally I get drained filled with negativity that whatever I do I will not be able to achieve that and I am not worth it. I can't focus on things I'm doing my mind will be somewhere else. Most of the work is half done or never completed I don't feel anything good about the things I completed. And there is no willpower to get things done no matter how hard I try and willing to do there is always inner conflict to which I give in. My friends are now working and settled to whom I compare and think I should be like them but never able to take action which makes me feel worthless and hopeless. And the thoughts in my head never stop. There is another thing that goes on inside my mind what others think about me I always present my best self to people kind of wearing a mask that I'm confident blah blah blahbut deep down there are feelings that m not really good.. I have hard time trusting people as I used to be people pleaser because I was a loner if I pleased people they'll be good to me and I'll have good friends but sometimes they used to take advantage of that for favors... And there is inferiority complex I underestimate myself all the time.. And self pity.. I am trying hard to get out of this stuff and achieve something in life but it's not that easy so please suggest..
 
  fixmeplz on 2014-12-10
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I can consider your case but you need to give many answers, copy the questions list in notepad,
write answers in same way with questions and then paste in post reply, NO SHORT answers explain MAXIMUM you can.


1. Age,sex,weight,body and face appearance, country, occupation.
ANS.

2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
ANS.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS.

3. History of diseases in family.
ANS.

4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
ANS.
b)Academic performance.
ANS.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS.

5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
ANS.

6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS.

7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS.

8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS.

9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
ANS.

10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
ANS.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
ANS.

11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS.
b)Duration of menses.
ANS.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS.

12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS.

13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS.

14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS.

15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
ANS.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
ANS.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
ANS.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
ANS.
l)Effect of consolation.
ANS.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS.
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS.
q)Are you destructive.
ANS.
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ANS.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS.
u)How does failure appear to you?
ANS.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS.

THANKS......
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
1. Age,sex,weight,body and face appearance, country, occupation.
ANS.26 m 63 average India internship

2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS.chest head
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS.shifting thoughts numbness in head contraction in chest, shivering hands
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS.negative thoughts feelings of left alone worthless hopeless low self esteem self conscious, afraid of going out of comfort zone,procrastination
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.long walk in open air,conversation with people when I express myself, standing
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.traffic, crowd
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
ANS.body gets stiff, neck, irregular breathing
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS.running continuous thoughts, contraction in chest,irregular breath, numbness in head region, heavy eyes
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS.EFT and hypnotherapy, feels better for a while but symptoms resurface after sometime

3. History of diseases in family.
ANS.none

4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
ANS.lack of attention,sexual abuse, physical abuse, scapegoating
b)Academic performance.
ANS.good to begin with average in degree
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS.wrong career choice, backlogs, breakup
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS.sex haven't had in a while, friends busy with their lives, family members demanding, company hard to trust, restrain and resist emotional connection

5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.smoking had been for 10 years, quit on nicotine pills for last 5 months
b)Masturbation and frequency.
ANS.yes 3-5 times a week

6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS.moderate, eating schedule irregular, thirst normal

7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.food spicy warm, meat(chicken), chocolates, sometimes fried
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS.traffic annoys, like staying indoors, hooked to Internet and games, interested in psychology metaphysics mindfulness topics

8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS.constipated, once or twice a day
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS.supress the urge to pass the bowel

9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS.3-4times
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
ANS.holdin it in bladder for long time till it turns into urgency

10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
ANS. none
b)Any other trouble in sex.
ANS. none

11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS.
b)Duration of menses.
ANS.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS.

12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS.sometimes quite, sometimes waking around 2am thinking about past and future events panicking, positions shifting left to right, need to be covered till neck, strained wrists embedded between knees, windows partially open

13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS.armpits some odour

14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS.dislikes cold weather and hot weather, moderate is good, likes fog wind and spring

15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS.supportive, avoids emotional connection except few,
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.low confidence and self esteem, lacks goal in life, absorbed in thoughts, daydreaming, imagining negative events, procrastination, trouble sticking to a task, fear of change,people please, self conscious
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.good memory, intelligent, trouble focusing, overthinking and analysing, can't control the thoughts
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
ANS.being alone, opinions of others
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS. future, how will my life be, inability to take decisions
f)Are you impatient.
ANS.most of the time
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS. about strangers
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
ANS. sometimes, feels bad that others hurt me
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
ANS. no
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS. about my current situation, inability to take decisions, wrong choices,
k)Do you like to share your problems.
ANS.sometimes
l)Effect of consolation.
ANS.feels better but not deep down
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS.no
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS.news, healing, philosophy, metaphysics, spirituality, psychology
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS. sometimes feels better
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS. no, when someone imposes something I get angry, shouting
q)Are you destructive.
ANS.no
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ANS.no I feel confused,
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS.i like company, kind of hard to fit in and wear a mask
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS. not much
u)How does failure appear to you?
ANS. depressing and deny the failure
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS. abusive parents, bullying,
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS.walking and music calms mind down
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS.yes moves me
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS. fear of being left alone, fear of failure and fear of change
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS.
Make my weaknesses into strengths and propel, make a good career and life
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
you have anxiety and fatigue and will take time in treatment, have confidence in yourself and faith in god,

take ARSENICUM ALBUM 200c liquid, 2 drops in a tablespoon water, only 2 dose not more than that, not daily, 1st dose before sleep and next dose next morning after wakeup,

dnt eat or drink anything 30 minutes before or after medicine,

{if buying pills then 3 pills as one dose, 2 times, 1st at night and 2nd after wakeup, chew it, dnt swallow with water}

report how you felt in fatigue, confidence, sleep, anxiety, and mental freshness after 20 days of stopping the course,

also do some exercises like SURYA NAMASKAR (google it or youtube) 10 TIMES DAILY for proper blood flow in whole body,

BHRAMARI PRANAYAM (google it or youtube) 10 TIMES DAILY for mental freshness and anxiety,

take these after 3 days of stopping other homeopathic medicines,

masturbation can be reduced to once a week which is normal, smoking can be cut down or left,

Thanks...

.....
[message edited by homeo.mzp on Thu, 11 Dec 2014 04:03:12 GMT]
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
Thanks a lot sir... Will keep you updated.. What about the chewable nicotine gum of 2mg I'm taking 1 a day should I continue along with this??
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
you can take it presently, then leaving it alternate day and so on,

that can be done after you report.
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
Sir..For how many days should I take the course... ? After 2 doses I need to stop?
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
yes after 2 doses, dnt take it, monitor your physical and mental changes,

report below after 20 days,

Improvement analysis
[write better, same, worse]

1- mental freshness=
2- energy level and confidence during day=
3- fatigue=
4- irregular breathing=
5- sleep=
6- enjoyment and affection with others=
7- freshness on waking up=
8- chest problem=
9- head problem=
10- fear of alone=
11- trembling hands=
12- stools satisfaction=

thanks...
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
1- mental freshness=good
2- energy level and confidence during day= tremendous out of control
3- fatigue= drained after bursts of energy
4- irregular breathing= depends on thoughts
5- sleep= good if i drain my enerfy or else waking up at 3-4 hours
6- enjoyment and affection with others=not socialising much
7- freshness on waking up=good
8- chest problem= no signs
9- head problem= thoughts filled
10- fear of alone= yes
11- trembling hands= moderate
12- stools satisfaction= cleared
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
theres has also been a serious problem... im also experiencing kundalini awakening symptoms...in all centres...feels like i am flying away from my body.. followed by tremendous energy which is not grounded easily... sometimes i walked 22km in a day without getting fatigued.... always feel some kind of energy like prana flowing through me...it also affects people sorrounding me.. based on the level of my energy..if its low they kind of dominate me... if its high it makes them uneasy... there have been events where people told me to shield myself because of my light body travelling to them in my sleep.. there were psychotic episode in which i feel i'm being attacked by entities entering my body and attack in neck and blocking of flow of energy this inturn manifested as something stuck in throat...i feel illusions like some aliens coming and operating on me...and i'm having some special powers i travelled to sun... and feels like i'm possessed sometimes...changes in personality like inter dimensional beng,,, and buddhist monk in past life... need immediate help... i'm going insane...
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
i'm not able to lead a normal life... because i am experiencig these symptoms all the time
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
dnt be underconfidence your symptoms are improving it will take time,

take ARSENICUM ALBUM 200c single dose early morning, not daily,

report changes after 10 days,

Improvement analysis
[write better, same, worse]

1- mental freshness=
2- energy level and confidence during day=
3- fatigue=
4- irregular breathing=
5- sleep=
6- enjoyment and affection with others=
7- freshness on waking up=
8- chest problem=
9- head problem=
10- fear of alone=
11- trembling hands=
12- stools satisfaction=

thanks...
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
ok... thank you but theres one thing... because of my fears and negatives expressing a delusions and illusions i cant go out to work... took holidays of a week...and travelled 800 kms to home illusions have stopped now... there were emotional events too where i released some baggage of past...but i can still feel excess prana flowing in my chakras... so i havent taken arsenicum album 200c the single dose yet.. there is some fear that these illusions will come back... please comment...
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
because i was acting out the illusions in real world my family thought i had gone insane... so i need to go back to work to different place and i stay alone over there... so if i take the single dose of arsenicum album 200 if the illusions and hallucinations appear i will be in problem... so kindly comment
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
ok means your illusions and mental freshness is good now as compared to before ???
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
Yes mental freshness is good.. Illusions hallucinations gone...emotional issues major ones removed., fears removed... Confidence good... Had spiritual experience and understood nature of reality.. Metaphysics..synchronicity There's kind of self acceptance and inner peace.. But I cant feel prana and reiki flow through my body... Even though they might be flowing That sensitivity has gone.. I kind of needed those
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
Now remains rapid thoughts in my head.. And can the sensitivity of reiki and prana in my body be restored sir?
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
ok so dnt repeat the remedy, everything will be restored bcoz it seems the remedy in controlling and proper channelising your prana energy, keep doing yoga i told,

click on my username and visit my website to do TONGUE DIAGNOSIS for 3 days early morning then report,

thanks.
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
1) slight white coating and couldnt taste mouth was kind of dry...
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
Sir... I'm feeling those increase in energies again.. Yesterday everything had gotten normal... I think it's kind of oscillating.. What should I do?
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
Will these kundalini symptoms go?? Will I become normal?
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
Illusions kind of subsided... Yesterday I was normal... Now it's feeling like I am going to fly away from the body and it increases with movement and travelling air and cold... Like vat imbalance... Also there is acidity in stomach vomiting sensation because of that..
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
dnt worry keep some patience, no magic for healing exits, everything takes time, you are on way to cure and body follows its own way not what you thing,

i will prescribe biochemic salts to you tonight.
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
are you having dry mouth problem mostly, i have asked you to do analysis for 3 days,
 
homeo.mzp 9 years ago
Sorry for the late reply sir... I was lost in illusions... Dint know what was going on with me... Even I dint know what I'm doing and why I'm doing those things... I have become sensitive... There is some energy moving in the spine all day.. Whenever there is negative things going on I kind of feel blocked... I use energy clearing process to clear blocked negative energies from my centres once a day... Feels better... But I think I need to do that every day.. Appetite has increased.. Kind of eating more frequently... And there is dry mouth often... And I met some person who told me badam pak I took it.. And two days back I came to my family there was festival I ate more and got acidity only on that day it was
Because of food , I drank water from copper vessel and maybe negativity from the group and all combined we had went there was kind of acid reflux in throat vomiting was not happening because of cold but indoors I had vomiting urge and I just took pan d tablet and acidity dint go so took some cloves in mouth and it helped a bit but lastly I read karma clearing and energy balancing verses from heart center i felt ok..
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago
I kind of feel slow in afternoon
 
fixmeplz 9 years ago

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