fear and phobiaCan anyone help me please.i have extreme fear of insects.all flying insects and birds.i panic when i see them near me or in my room.
pinky mehta on 2015-02-19
♡ akshaymohl 5 years ago
I already tried bach flower for three months.many times tried rescue remedy also.
I didnt find it help
pinky mehta 5 years ago
Or any other remidies i need to have.
This is the answer to questions
1. Age,sex,weight,body and face appearance, country, occupation.
ANS. 30 yrs.female.80 kgs.round face.whitish pale.india.house wife
2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS. Main complaint is
i have chronic depression and anxiety since 10 yrs.i get severe depression and fear attacks around every six months.
I frequently get cold.i have sinus.
Restless legs at night and in morning.
Chronic muscle pains.shifting in different parts of my body.
I got genital herpis twice in a year.last year.
phobia of insects and birds .when they are near me.like in a room
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS. I feel fear of death.it feels i will die soon.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS. Doctor says its heriditery.i feel it is due to sudden changes in routine,improper lifestyle ,sleeping habits.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS. I feel better when i have company.people around me,i feel better in warm room.lying down.applying pressure on pain area.heat.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS. Walking or doing work increases.cold increases .i feel stiff with cold with a drop of water fallen on my legs.specially right side leg.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
ANS. Neck stiffness.it is mostly on right side extending towards sides of back .it happens on left also .but sometimes.
Chronic constipation.anal fissure detected in a scan.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS. First problem was severe depression and panic attack. Which was around 12 yrs back.before my marriage.
Then things were well.then again attacks after nearly 6months.things went on same way.
Later after my 2nd baby 5yrs back.with c section i started feeling sick allways.
Body pains,constipation started in pregnancy
Then frequent colds.cough,maleria,food poison.illness went on increasing day by day.i started feeling more depressed.because of inability to do daily work.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS. I was and i am on psyciatric medicine after every 6 months.Lamitor Dt,niterest,trytomer,dipran
And many more which keeps changing.as symptoms of fear changes everytime.
For chronic muscle pain i had many medicines like myoril,myospaz forte,ugesic.
All gave temerory relief.
3. History of diseases in family.
ANS. My dad had high bp.and Severe depression.his death was due to suicide.
My mom is also on antidepressants since then till now.
Diabetes in some family members .both maternal and peternal sides
4. Personal History.
ANS. As heard by my adults ,I was a very bold girl.makes friends easily,but shy with public speaking,was bossy with other childrens,very impatient nature.easily angried.i heard by my mom,that i had broken the tv glass and a centre table glass ,on 2different occasions when i was angry.
ANS. Average allways .
i was not much interested in studies later after 8th std i remember.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS.Major incident was my dads suicide.it was extremly unbearable.but settled as days passed.it didnt effect much on my living style,as i had a strong financial background, i feel.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS. Am happy with my sexual life,no issues.
No issues with any friends or family members.
I like social gatherings with cousins.i like compony.and i hate lonliness sometimes when i am depressed.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS. I am used to smokeless tobacco since 6 yrs.i had sleeping pills every night.but i stopped when i was pregnant one yr back.
Now no pills.i have a 5month baby boy.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS. My appetite is big.i feel.i mostly over eat.
Mostly i am never thirsty,i have water between meals.cant have meals without water.
Sometimes i feel very thirsty ,then i feel i having some cold drink.no colas or fizzy drinks.i like glucon.d or any other flavoured drink.
7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS. I like butter.cheeze.spicy.fish fried.fried items.pickles,but not very sour ones.chilled flavoured milk.rice and potato and maggie is my favorite.
I dont like tea.infact i never had tea in my life.i hate mutton.icecream.cakes.lemon drinks.anything sour make my teeth sensitive.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS. I hate untidy place.i feel everything should be in proper place.
I like to keep things organized.
8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS. It keeps changing every 3 to 4 days.its
Dry mostly.sometimes satisfying.mostly unsatisfied.2 to 3 bowels in a day.but constipated.needs force
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS. When i get very constipated ,if i dont pass stool one day.the next day,swollen haemorroids.pain and feels like cuts inside.with burning sensation.and sometimes blood.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS. 5 to 6 times a day.less volume. Pale yellow.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS. Before marriage it was not regular.i had pcod.but i am having contraceptive pills now.so its regular.
b)Duration of menses.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS. 1st day very scanty.2nd day heavy flow
3rd day heavy flow.4th day normal.5 th day scanty.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS.i sleep for 6 to 7hrs mostly.sometimes 4 hours.i am very active after 11 pm.anxiety of reading on net. Or i keep thinking something or the other.this keeps me awake.i sleep at 4 or 6 in the morning sometimes.
I am very sensitive to noice and night.i cover my legs and body full even ears my legs feel restless mostly with creepy feeling.this irritates my sleep.i cant cover my face..i feel cold.but i need ac on low.i wake up frequently ,Bcoz of my baby.i bottlefeed him.
I wake up properly at 11or 12 afternoon.
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS. Underarms i sweat sometimes.not daily.in summer i do sweat everyday.odour dont know.
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS. I hate cold weather.i feel irritated with sudden air from any window.i get a headache
Suddenly.if i dont wear my slippers for 10 mins .my legs starts paining.cramp like feeling.
I dont like going out in sun.
I am confortable in closed room.
15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS. I have a loving husband.no issues with my family life.we share all our feelings.
No jealousy with any family member.
I feel lack of energy suddenly.feel to do more but after little time i feel tired with headache.body pain and fever. This happens frequently
Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and otherstress in life.
ANS. My dads sudden death.which i said was accepted as time passed by.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/c
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
ANS. Being alone in day also.dark.ghosts.dead people.i feel that suddenly i will see someone who is already dead.fear of noice of my self at night.fear of flying insects.i feel very creepy if they touch me.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS. Anxious abt evreywork.if i want to buy something.i buy.i cant wait.if i want to do something then just do.cant wait.wants to do things fast.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS. Yes mostly
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
ANS. I am Hurt easily .i cry hiding myself, if someone close hurts me.and if its a outsider i feel like taking revenge.by throwing the persons things.or hiding.or do something which hurts the person.some times i take revenge and mostly i feel that i should let it go,god will take revenge on my behalf.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS. Yes i am .beacuse of my health problems.and my laziness.i feel i am not a good mother and wife .
k)Do you like to share your problems.
ANS. Yes sometimes
l)Effect of consolation.
ANS. If a adult says something.i feel it is right.i feel better.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS. Poor memory.forget phone numbers.or things to be done.Specially if i think that i will do this after what i am doing now. I forget, ,then i remember later in the day.from kitchen i come and forget that i was cooking something.
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS. No i dont weep easily.makes me feel better if i weep.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS. Yes easily irritated.anything which goes against me,makes me angry.if my kid doesnt listen to me at once.if maid doesnt do her work as said.
I express with words mostly,sometimes i slap my child.
q)Are you destructive.
ANS. Yes very very rarely destructive.
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ANS. Not too quick.i try to see the negative points firsts.then take decisions.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS. I prefer company usually.i cant stay alone in the house,in day also.i get scared of dead people.darness.ny slight noise.
But sometimes i like lonliness.so i can freely do whatever i like. Like reading or cleaning something, that is when i am busy.
)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS. I just hate uncleanness anywhere.
I feel like cleaning the lift of my building.its to such extent.i hate to see dust and dirt.
u)How does failure appear to you?
ANS. Failure to due daily house works due to illness and lazyness. .failure as a perfect wife and mother.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS.i dislike when i have to do something due to someones force.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS. I like reading.i like to get new knowledge.i keep changing my activities.i cant stay long on one.6months i like to read then i get bored.then sometimes i like arts and crafts.then bored.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS. I try my best to help someone in sorrow.i just cant forget thinking abt the person ,if someone is in sorrow.i allways help if i can.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS. Fear of insects present.
Fear of poverty in future.fear of losing my loved ones in future.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS. I wish a healthy illness free life.and happy family life .
pinky mehta 5 years ago
♡ telescope 5 years ago
I already have 200c.can u suggest the dosage .if not then plz reply
pinky mehta 5 years ago
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