Trying to conceive, please help!Dear Doctor!
My husband and I recently started trying to conceive. I am 41 and he is 65. We have a son, who is 11 y.o.
We are in good health- no known problems. Ovulation tests on my side shows ovulation, except last month, the line was blurry.
My flows were never intense, even when was younger - maximum of 3 to 4 days. The latest years I am experiencing smaller and smaller flows, also it shortens - it flows about 2 to 3 days now. Like it is dissipating on me, but I never missed one (yet?).
I became vegetarian 8 month ago. We eat healthy diet, fresh milk and cheeses (we have a dairy cow), and I started taking shavatari root to enhance my hormone production. Also, fish oil.
None of us smokes and I do not consume any alcohol beverages, though my husband does time to time. He is taking Go-Tox drops and other supplements, Cal, Mag, Zinc.
Main sufferings: My hair are thin, they were thin all my life. Fluffy, but thin. Sometime i experience hair loss when hairs shed then it stops. Skin is dry, but I learned to moisten it with sesame oil which seem to works perfect. Sometime I get "pain" in the ovaries, either left or right, depending on the cycle. Most times it happens in the right ovary, though. "Pain" is not a big intense pain, but rather series of sharp "convulsions", and then it stops. My vision is nearsighted. I wore glasses from age 16 and about 8 months ago took them off, doing eye exercises and feel more clarity and strength in eyes, able to drive a car without glasses but its not 100 percent back.
my personality :
emotional, easy to scare, fearful, loving to please, hart to part with things, cry often ,get angry fast and also, chill out fast. Creative, easily excited, musician, stories teller, Ideas come fast and fast I may get keened with the idea. Lack of organizational skills, chaotical, do not know how to prioritize, but always finish what started, even if it takes years sometime. Nervous, asocial, forgetful follower and weepy hypochondriac. Too much imagination needs to be "leashed". :)
I like warmth, get cold rather easy, especially on the peripheries, and like warm to hot milk with spices like cardamom/ cloves/nutmeg. My craving is tahini, sesame seed paste.
My biggest fear that I am too old to be able to conceive. When everyone around is happy, everything seem going right, I am happy- HAPPY! But just one thing may go wrong and I am completely out of happy state, worried -WORRIED.
I like to be consoled what weepy. If not given any attention, I get angry.
4 years ago me and mother went to homeopathy practitioner, I was characterized as staphysagria by and my mother as aurum. Not sure if this might be helpful regarding the topic. At the time I was prescribed lycopodium, staphisagria and ignatia in 1,000 potency, which i took for approx 7 month. Lycopodium would make me very intellectual, sharp and quick on tongue and thought, but I could feel the qualities would last only for a couple of weeks, and then disintegrate. Then I would get nervous and insecure. Eventually i stopped taking remedies because there was no chance to see the practitioner again and correct the prescription. I didn't feel as sharp about other remedies. Also, i was proscribed graphites in 1M, which I took once and my mouth broke with stomatitis. And staphisagria in 16M, but except for a following couple of days desire to "bark" at everyone, again, i did not notice much of a change. (maybe i need to wear glasses) :)
Ambitions in life: wanted to become very good, famous musician. Which I did, I was quite well known in the field, then in my 30th - got married and started living quiet family life. I completely switched interests and leaving the stage behind did not bother a bit.
Recently got into book writing, first helping my son to complete though the books he writes. Then, it came natural to start writing myself.
The sex drive, it's a bit complicated to explain. Because of our beliefs, we don't practice sex to fulfill the desire. But to child conceiving purposes. But on average scale i think my sex drive would be somewhat average.
I know you will need more information. This is just to start.
Thank you for help!
Elli on 2016-01-16
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2. Male or Female or other
8. List of your complaints
9. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint
10. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
11. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Tongue and Taste
14. Current Blood Pressure (without medicine and with medicine)
15. One situation that had a
big effect on you?
16. Important Question.
Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
17. Educational Qualifications of the patient
18. Nature of work, what do you do for living?
19. Important Question.
Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry,
impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not, you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
20. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g
Pus, urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
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21. When is the period during the month approx. date?
Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems,
pain, any other discharges?
22. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues?
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