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Get nervus and afraid of people

Hello Everyone,

I am new to this forum and need help.
I am 34 year old male.
My problem is that when I meet people I get nervous and I am afraid of facing people.
Due to such nervousness I cannot perform my routine work and all my life is disturb.
I have used Lycopodium 10M about 2 months ago and looking for professional guidance.
Waiting for reply
Regards
Faiz
 
  Faizgi on 2016-01-25
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I can consider your case but you need to give many answers, copy the questions list in notepad,
write answers in same way with questions and then paste in post reply, NO SHORT answers explain MAXIMUM you can.


1. Age,sex,weight,country,occupation.
ANS.

2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS.
d)Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
ANS.
f)Any other complaint any where in the body.
ANS.
g)Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS.

3. History of diseases in family.
ANS.

4. Personal History.
a)About childhood.
ANS.
b)Academic performance.
ANS.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS.

5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
ANS.

6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS.

7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS.
b)Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS.

8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS.

9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
ANS.

10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
ANS.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
ANS.

11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS.
b)Duration of menses.
ANS.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS.

12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS.

13. Sweat
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS.

14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS.

15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
ANS.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS.
f)Are you impatient.
ANS.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
ANS.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
ANS.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
ANS.
l)Effect of consolation.
ANS.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS.
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS.
q)Are you destructive.
ANS.
r)How good are you in making decisions.
ANS.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS.
u)How does failure appear to you?
ANS.
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS.
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS.
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS.
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS.
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS.

16.Describe your face and tongue by doing FACIAL AND TONGUE DIAGNOSIS by visiting homeomzp.blogspot.com
ANS.

17.For medical astrology tell your birth place,location,timing, date(dd/mm/yyyy format)
ANS.

NOTE-- if proper reporting will not be done by you, then i will close the case, you can take advice from others.

Regards,
antivirus
 
0antivirus0 6 years ago
Hello antivirus,

thank you for taking my case, I tried to give answers to all the questions as much as I remember. here are the answers:

1. Age,sex,weight,country,occupation.
ANS. 34, Male, 82kg, Pakistan, Website Development

2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
ANS. Trouble is with my mind/nerves, whenever I am alone I feel relax and everything is ok but as soon as I feel that someone is coming or expecting someone, my throat get watery, I feel nervous and upset. I have to hold my breath or take deep breath from nose and control my throat to swallow water because I feel that the other person will listen to my throat swallowing voice and he will feel that I am afraid of him. This thinking makes me more nervous but I cannot control it. And whenever I have to meet someone I prefer to meet in a noisy place like I meet people on the road or I switch on my TV or play songs etc and I cannot talk seriously, I have to laugh at regular intervals because I have to hide my throat voice which give gesture that I am very much afraid and nervous. I cannot keep eye to eye connection because when I try I get nervous and confused and sometimes my voice gets break.

b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
ANS. I feel mentally upset and perhaps feel a lot of burden in my head and eyes. My ears, forehead and eyebrows get stretched from behind. I tangle my fingers.

c) What are the factors that causes this trouble according to you.
ANS. I think most of the problems are due to my business and financial crises. I belong to a lower middle class and I am struggling for the last 7-8 years and still not successful in my aims. I lost my business thrice and still under a burden of loans. I use to hide from lenders, do not attend unknown phone calls and feel afraid whenever someone knocks at the door.

d) Condition under which the complaint is reduced or you feel better like, cold or hot application, cold or hot weather, position as standing, walking, rest etc.
ANS. I feel better walking in the open air or staying alone

e)Condition under which the complaint is increased like, cold or hot application, cold or hot weather, position as standing, walking, rest etc.
ANS. Condition gets worse staying/sitting in the calm environment (specially in close room) having someone with me and worst when the person is female (specially young)

f) Any other complaint anywhere in the body.
ANS. I get headache in my right or left side sometimes and not regularly. I feel pain in my right shoulder from childhood; perhaps it is swelling because of bad bowling techniques in cricket. One of my rib on the right side is outer than the others and I feel swelling or light pain on it, it is also from very childhood. My mind never takes rest, it just keeps thinking or doing something until my eyes get close. I itching problem especially on sex organs; near anus and testis or penis. In winter my nose gets close due to some fluid gathered in nostrils (in morning I put water in nostrils and try wash). Because of nose problem my lower nasal bone is oblique and not straight.
g) Onset time of troubles in detail, i.e which came first, after that what problem and so on.
ANS. First of all I feel burden in my throat, water comes in mouth whenever I feel someone is coming then I hold my breath and after a few seconds I swallow water and a sound produced. If someone talk to me then at first for a few seconds I talk normally but then I feel nervous and water swallowing keep started at regular intervals of a few seconds or 30-40 seconds. If conversation takes a few minutes then my ears, forehead and eyebrows get stretched from behind and I keep more and more nervous and I think my face turns red but not sure.
h)Treatment method adopted and its result.
ANS. Until now I found no solution for it, I just use to avoid people or I meet someone in open airy or noisy place where I can hide my swallowing sounds.

3. History of diseases in family.
ANS. I know my father and mother also have such problems. He use to avoid meeting people, he’s afraid of door knocks, he takes deep breaths twice or thrice. He has high blood pressure, stomach ulcer and itching problem. He eats fast and do everything in fast mode. My mother had TB, Piles and Dust Allergy. My mother sees spirits, angels and jins rarely not in routine.
4. Personal History.
a) About childhood.
ANS. I didn’t like to go to school, parent forcefully sends me to the school, I was good at study but liked playing, flying kites and wandering. One important thing, I was lustful from childhood. I use to tangle lips. In my teenage I had different kind of complexes like I cannot go out because my pant is folded and what will people think about it. In my dreams I tried to smoothen the things, when I walk in streets I see on the sides and keep feet at the cross lines of the doors, windows, bricks, gutters etc.. Even my fingers are a little curvy, I match them with a smooth surface or wall or any straight thing to balance it but at the same time I like very rough surfaces so I can balance it in my vision. I see my hair in shadow so I can set them. Once when I was a child I fell from a running wagon and hit my head on the road, when I came home I didn’t recognize anyone, short term memory lost then the next morning I was ok. My eyesight becomes weak at the age of about 12. I started masturbation at the age of 13-14. I am perfectionist.
b) Academic performance.
ANS. Academic performance is not good, I left school at ninth grade and then never go to school. I pass my metric, inter and graduation exams privately means I didn’t go to colleges, I just took tuition. I use to sit in the back of classroom or try to hide from the teacher.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
ANS. At the age of 18 my heart broke because of my girlfriend deceived me and it was the first ever shock of my life. Then there were many desires which couldn’t be fulfilled because my family was poor. Life remains smooth until I started my business in 2007 with a loan and shocks get started. Got loss in the first business then second, third, fourth and fifth. The second last and last were very heavy shocks because in the second last time I had to face some rascals who wanted to destroy my business and in the last one I got loss with a burden of heavy loans and there were many people who were asking or threatening for their funds. I lost everything, business, childhood friends, girlfriend, respect in family, money, self confidence and everything. Currently I paid 80% of my loans back but some phobias become permanent like fear of rich people, healthy people, serious people, fear of height, speed, fear of meeting people, fear of meeting girls, fear of door knocks, phone calls etc… I cannot shriek loud because I feel that someone will feel it ridiculous. After the loss of business fourth time I downloaded top 20 horror films and watch them in about a week, it made me scared all the times, I was so scare that I couldn’t stay alone anywhere even in bathroom. In 2005-2006 I suffered from piles and in 2012-2013 I suffered from Dust allergy. One very important thing is that I feel humans are dirty creature, I hate humans eating and excretory systems. I feel they shouldn’t be there in humans. I think about humans as an unhuman creature will think. I don’t like sympathy or care and sometimes become angry in reaction. My memory is low, if forget vocabulary or couldn’t remember something. I had acne problem until the age of 25, acne, black heads and lot of pimples on face and back.
d) How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
ANS. I just learnt to be thankful and patient to be satisfied in life, I had many best friends in different stages of life but currently I have nobody, I feel comfortable only with my mother and nobody else. I am running my company with loads of burden with a faith that one day I will be successful. I am unmarried and use to masturbate twice a week. I feel lucky to have my family as it is, my mother, father, sisters and brother are all very nice, they love me and I love them.

5. Habits/Addiction.
a)Smoking, Alcohol, Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
ANS. No addiction at all except masturbation
b) Masturbation and frequency.
ANS. I am unmarried and use to masturbate twice a week

6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
ANS. Appetite is normal but in summer there is lot of thirst and I drink 15 to 20 glass of water while in winter I drink only 1 to 3 glass of water.

7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
ANS. I like sweet very much, fried food, warm food and tea. Other things are ok
b) Anything else about like and dislike of any activity with you or surrounding.
ANS. I like to be happy but at any occasions/celebrations/events if feel very sad just like I am annoyed with it.

8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
ANS. Stool is normal, once in a day in morning. I have gas problem
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
ANS. It takes long in bathroom because stools comes with delays

9. Urine.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
ANS. Everything is normal but whenever I have to go out, eat, sleep or do some work I feel pressure in my bladder and have to go to bathroom. Urine smells like spinach.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
ANS. I squeeze urethra every time because I feel some urine is left

10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
ANS. I am a virgin. Until 30 years erection was very instant, good and I use to masturbate more than thrice a week, now it is weak.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
ANS. Theoretically I hate sex but practically I like to see sex and masturbate.

11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
ANS.
b)Duration of menses.
ANS.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
ANS.

12. Sleep.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
ANS. My sleep is very bad, I cannot sleep if I want to. I only sleep when I am tired, when I lay down my mind keeps thinking and during thinking I don’t know when I sleep. A few months ago my sleep was very restlessness I couldn’t lay down for long, I sit and keep my arms on the sofa and my head on arms. It felt good. Now there is no restlessness. Again until a few months befor I liked to sleep upside down and legs on air or on right side putting my right shoulder (with straight arm, it is difficult position and I think it causes pain in shoulder) under head but now I keep a cushion under my head and right side position with right arm under head. I cover all my body including face in blanket in winter while like to cover lover body with some cloth in summer. I like to open window for fresh air. Normally I don’t remember or have dreams but dreams are different and nothing common.
13. Sweat
a) How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
ANS. Excess amount of Sweat in summer, sour smell, in armpits, between legs and back. I think it is yellowish.

14. Weather
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
ANS. I do not like extreme weather. I scare from fast and cold air, my eyes do not fully open in sunlight, at the temperature of above 38 my breathes become fast and difficult to inhale, in winter my feet and knees get very cold. I only like the spring season. In closed areas I feel suffocation

15. Mental Status
a) The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
ANS. With all the problems I am very energetic and I work 14-16 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days a year. My relationship with friends and family is very good, I talk a lot with my friends but a little with family. As I told that I feel less nervousness with noise or talk.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
ANS. My business life is full of shocks and financial crises. I lost my love and all childhood friends, lot of stress of work all the time.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
ANS. My memory has become very week in the last 6-7 years. Difficulty in concentrate and comprehend.
d) Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places?
ANS. Yes, I am fearful of animals like dog, cow, horse, camel and big animals, I am fearful of people, darkness, death, robbers, thunder, storm and not fearful for being alone or disease
e) Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
ANS. I have lots of things to do which are not getting done and always remain anxious about them. I am anxious about my business, I want to see it stable. I want to construct my house, I want to buy car, I want to travel a lot, I want to help my family, friends and people and many other desires which I want to fulfill. But all depends on the success of my business, that is why I work day and night to get succeeded.
f) Are you impatient.
ANS. Yes, I am impatient of being successful.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
ANS. Not at all but sometimes I feel desperate
h) Are you hurt easily (emotionally) how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge?
ANS. Yes, I get hurt emotionally but I don’t feel hatred or revenge, I forgive but learn the lesson and don’t do it again which let others hurt me
i) Does your pride get hurt easily?
ANS. I am very emotional person but I think my pride don’t get hurt
j) Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
ANS. There was a time when I use to depress but now I don’t have time to be depressed
k) Do you like to share your problems.
ANS. Yes, I like to share my problems
l) Effect of consolation.
ANS. I react harshly
m) Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
ANS. I just thought when I was so tense because of loan burden and threats coming from all over but I never tried to suicide.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
ANS. Memory is poor for vocabulary, I don’t remember words, what to say or I forget or miss what items I came to buy etc…
o) Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
ANS. I weep very easily because of emotions, it makes me better
p) Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
ANS. I don’t like the wrong things, whenever I see wrong happening, I get angry and quarrel.
q) Are you destructive.
ANS. No
r) How good are you in making decisions.
ANS. It take long to take decision, I think a lot before making decision, sometimes I cannot take decisions.
s) Do you like company or like to remain alone.
ANS. I liked company but because of my nervousness I like to remain alone
t) How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
ANS. I feel upset at beginning but then I neglect
u) How does failure appear to you?
ANS. I think failure is a blessing, it increases your hunger to success
v) Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
ANS. Yes, there are some family matters that is dislike
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
ANS. I like developing my own website or do something for my own business and I feel good. I like to watch movies and songs sometimes.
x) Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
ANS. Yes, I am very affectionate and I feel sad when I see someone in problem or pitiable condition, I use to help poor people with money and feel very satisfactory
y)Any present fears in your life or future.
ANS. Fear or people, door knocks, phone calls, fear of death pain, cold water, fear of poverty again (currently I am earning decent amount)
z)Any present life or future life desires.
ANS. Establishment of business, construction of house, want to buy a car, want to be a very respectful and famous man, want to start an NGO for poor

16.Describe your face and tongue by doing FACIAL AND TONGUE DIAGNOSIS by visiting homeomzpblogspotcom
ANS. White coating or center coating of tongue. Greacy face, nose, forehead skin and yellow pimple, glassy or polished skin look mostly on forehead, discharging eruptions pimples on face, waxy appearance around eyes, cheeks and especially nose.

17.For medical astrology tell your birth place,location,timing, date(dd/mm/yyyy format)
ANS. Lahore, Pakistan, at home, at sun rise, 16/12/1981

Regards,
Faiz
 
Faizgi 6 years ago
it seems you are getting panic attacks and are suffering with anxiety disorder,

take SPONGIA TOSTA 200c liquid, 2 drops in a tablespoon water, only 2 dose not more than that, not daily, 1st dose before sleep and next dose next morning after wakeup,

{if buying pills then 3 pills as one dose, 2 times, 1st at night and 2nd after wakeup, chew it, do not swallow with water}

do not eat or drink anything 30 minutes before and after medicine,

REPORT FOLLOWING AFTER 20 DAYS

feeling calm=
good sleep=
proper energy level=
self control=
confidence level=
freshness on waking up=
love and affection with others=
mental freedom or freshness=
nervousness=
throat problem=
any other change you felt=

regards,
antivirus
 
0antivirus0 6 years ago
Hello,

Thank you so much. I will use the medicine and report after 20 days.

Please also advise if there are any precautions?

Regards
Faiz
 
Faizgi 6 years ago
no, just do some breathing excercises like brahmari, anulom vilom and kapalbhati each 5 minutes daily. You can google or youtube about these.
 
0antivirus0 6 years ago
Ok, Thank you
 
Faizgi 6 years ago

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