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Patient ID: depressed fighter
Sex: Female
Age: 40

Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?
I have an anxiety and depression problem.
I have too much anger, frustration, sadness, hatrad


2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Back pain, headache, head burning



3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
Sadness, anxiety


4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
Depressed, helpless. Head congestion and head ache.


5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
Since I was 20 years old. Took so many antidepressants and been under homeopathic treatment for 4 years.


6. Which time of the day you are worst?
Morning as soon as I wake up and evening

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
Emotional torture, satirical words and when someone says me or proves me wrong, these things aggravate my suffering.
When somebody says "yes I understand what you are feeling" makes me feel better.



8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
The biggest stimulation is my husband's stupid and irresponsible behavior. And failures.

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
I feel better in warm and dry weather.


10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am Moody, Arrogant,Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, yelling angry. Weepy

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
Nothing

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Yes

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
I hate loud noises.

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
Nothing

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
My husband is an idiot, irresponsible, miserable, selfish and proudy.
I love my child immensely. I can't imagine myself staying away from her.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
Death is my biggest fear. Fear of insanity fear of hearing death news of any closed ones.


12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I like salty food than sugary. No craving on any foods.


13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?


16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Normal but smells little bad.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
I go 2-3 times a day but stool is normal and little amount at a time.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
I don't fall asleep right away. I have toss and turns


19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
No. I don't have normal sexual desires. I do not have a partner. My husband is not with me. Its been 7 years that i have not had sex.

20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
I am soft hearted even if i sound rude. I do not talk much, i do talk to just few people. People may notice my strange quietness. People may think I am always on 9th cloud. Too much proud inside. They may think i am not worth talk to. But i am not bad at any ways.

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
I took some antidepressants for 6-7 years those didn't help me. I have been taking homeopathic remedies for 4-5 years now under the observation of a homeopath in abchomeopathy. Homeopathy has helped me to some extent.

22. What major diseases are running in your family?
Mental disease


23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
I am 40 but i look like i am 27-28. I am skinny, specially the top part of my body is skinnier than the bottom part.


24. (ONLY FOR FEMALES)

Please answer the following questions:
(Please give details of your past menstruation if you have attained menopause.)

- Are the periods early, regular or late in general? How long do they last?
Regular, scanty and last for 3-4 days

- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before, during or after the periods?
Irritated weepy and back pain before periods.

- Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?
Scanty.

- Is the blood thick bright red or pale watery?
Normal

- Do you notice any clots in the flow?
No clots.

My current situation is my husband wants a divorce now, i waited for him for 4 years now in the hope that he will come back to the USA and live with me and my daughter. But he said he doesn't wanna come back and if I want to live my life with him I will have to go back to my country and live with him. Life is better here than back home. My baby's future is bright here and not back home. One can have income in a better and in an easy way here than back home. But my husband is being rude and said he doesn't care about those things, he was just threatening us that if we don't go back he will divorce me and have my baby snatched from me. I am too much hurt, feeling like a fool, cheated by a fool.
He is a too much of a thinker. He thinks that I left him 4 years ago and he doesn't want to cone back here. But that is not the truth. I never left him. I didn't go far away from his life. I was very much angry with him and hurt by his behavior, so I went to "Maika" (to my brother's place) as almost 60% women do when they are upset with their husbands. I didn't say I am leaving you or divorcing you or we are separated now. I never meant that. He just thought that I left him so he went back home country leaving us here in the USA.
I don't want to have any feelings for him now, its too much to tolerate a 50 years old selfish man's tantrum. My head is burning and i am depressed. I am so much scared about loneliness. Because of my depression problem I feel like " Nobody will like me" Although I am smart, beautiful, hardworking, loving caring person I am not confident about finding a good person for myself, so I am hesitant to look for one.
I just want to focus on my child for now. Please help me get rid of this depressed feeling. I want to raise my child here in America not in Nepal, where there is always a political instability affecting people in every ways. Life is easier here.
Please help me overcome the feeling of loneliness.
 
  for kadwa1 on 2016-04-01
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for kadwa1 8 years ago
Could you please help me ?
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
Please take three doses of Anacardium 200 as follows and see how that affects over 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
 
kadwa 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
I took the 3dosages of pills as per your advice. Today is the fifth day. I was doing okay till the morning. But in the morning I got a news that my husband is planning to hurt me more. Its really sad to know that somebody whom you loved is trying to hurt you emotionally again and again. Giving you punishment again and again. I am so depressed again. It's so fearful that he is leaving me all alone without any faults? I know, I have to move on but those feelings are haunting me. My head is so congested and burning like hell. I am restless and don't feel like staying alone. I feel little tired too. I am depressed please help me. This sadness is not going away.
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
Please take Ignatia 200 twice a day for 3 days. If this doesn't help take Kali Brom 200 in the same way.
 
kadwa 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Thank you for the remedy suggestion. I ordered them online and have been waiting to receive them in one or two days now.
But I am felling little better than before now. Once I receive Ignatia 200 do you want me to take the dosage as suggested before or in the other way ?
Please suggest.

Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it.
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
There is no need to take remedy if you are feeling well. You may take these remedies if you feel same in future.
 
kadwa 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Thank you for your help. Today is the 15th day that I took 3 doses of Anacardium OR 200c. I had been feeling okay till yesterday. I have been feeling depression and mood swings off and on since yesterday. I couldn't figure out the actual reason for that. But I have been thinking so much about my life. How I was excited for the moment to see my husband and restart my life again happily here in the USA and how he deceived me saying he is not interested to come back here and get settled. That was a huge slap for me. I felt more cheated than hurt. I am so furious with pain and furious on his stupidity and childish behavior. I have stopped talking to him. He is the most ridiculous person in the world for me now. This depression is making me tired, I had a headache whole day today. As I wanted to move on now, I have been talking to a person over chat for the last couple of days and he seems to be not of my type. That is making me sad too thinking that I am not finding any eligible person, I will be lonely again. Just as a cure for my loneliness I was waiting for my husband to comeback, otherwise he is not worth waiting. Inside this loneliness, i feel like I am all alone in this whole world and i am too much scared and suffocated,wanted to scream and wanted to be secured in somebody's arm. Loneliness is the biggest fear for me. I need security and I don't have physical, mental and financial security.
I wanna live my life for my child, I want to focus on her.
Please help me get rid of this aweful disease. I have been taking homeopathic help for about 4 years now and I truly trust on homeopathy
Thank you doctor for your kind help.
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Should I take Ignatia as suggested before or something else. Please suggest
Thanking you.
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
Please take three doses of ignatia 200. If this doesn't help take falco p in the same way.
 
kadwa 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Thank you for the temedy suggestions.

I couldn't find the remedy Falco P anywhere, not in any stores here nor online. I took Ignatia for 3 days as suggested, few days ago though. Today is the 8th day. Lately I have been feeling 50-60 % okay but I miss my husband time to time, i just feel why is he behaving insane ? Why doesn't he realize the reality and responsibility towards his daughter ? Why can't he be changed ? Why did he treat me like that ? I am expecting him to be changed which is not happening and that is making me sad, disappointed, irritated, angry. He is making our lives complicated.
I wanted to buy Falco P just to be in the safer side if I need it in future, if you could suggest me where should i buy it from.
I bought Kali Bromatum 200 c as well as per your advice.
Thank you once again
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
Please help me I am in so much of stress as where to go now. I can't stay in this home anymore as this is my in laws home and I have to move out as I do not have any relation with them anymore and these people want me to move out too. I am not safe here either as the husband is having a different eye on me and is trying to be closer to me. I am too tensed as I can't tell this to anybody and I don't have any place to go yet.
I am kind of in trap now.
My head is congested and is burning. I am in so much of delima what to do next. Please help me.
 
for kadwa1 8 years ago
Please take Kali Brom 200 twice a day for a week.
 
kadwa 8 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
I took Kali Bromatum 200 c twice a day for a week.
I think I was okay till few days after I finshed the advised dosage. Today is the 8th day after the dosage.

I am having head burning, head congestion, tensed, stressed out in small matters. I fear of breakdown and insanity. I am missing my husband again and again but he keeps on torturing me saying so many hurtful words. I an having this punishment of loving him unconditionally.
I am so stressed out as I have to think and plan about future. Work, baby, household, apartment hunt, thinking about who's gonna take care of the baby when I go to work, how can I manage things, these all are making me tensed. I just wanna plan for these things with a calm mind and without being stressed out. Whatever happened I cannot change but I can plan for better future for myself and my daughter. But being tensed I am not able to do anything. My nerves are so jittery. I am so angrier and mad about small things.
I am just saying in my heart "why is he behaving like a child? Why can't his ego go away? Why doesn't he wanna make things better? "
I cannot find any solution. Please help me get rid of this stress.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
Dr Kadwa please help me i am too stressed out
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
I was too tensed the whole day today but I am little better now again.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
Please take Stramonium 200 in evening for 7 days.
 
kadwa 7 years ago
Hello dr Kadwa,
I took the full dosage of Stramonium 200c as per your advice.
The emotions I have been noticing after the dosage are increament of anger, feeling too much burden of responsibilities(specially when my daughter asks me to play with her or do something for her, i feel too much overwhelmed by too much of work by myself) I react so rudly to her. Poor my child is not understanding that mommy is going through so much. She is in vacation right now. I am missing her. I am all alone now and I am not able to sleep without anyone at home. I am feeling too gassy but the gas is not coming out and giving me hard time. I feel too much bothered by everything. I get irritated by small things and I react quickly by anger. I yell a lot on my poor child.
I can't tolerate when someone tries to control me or stops me from doing something which I wanna do. I feel restless when somebody tries to control me saying "do this do that. "
I dont like when somebody tries to be bossy with me. My husband is trying to be one right now. I feel like he does not have any rights to say or order me to do something because he is not helping me in anything and he doesn't want to know how I am managing things here all alone by myself.
I have too much hatred towards few people here with which I have been staying, because of my helplessness. I hate my husband for this.
My head is burning and I am so irritated all the time.
This loneliness is making me so tensed. When I am alone I feel like I am in a solitary confinement. There is nobody in the world except me. I feel like Nobody will respond when I call. Nobody is around just a silence. I hate that kind of silence.
I wanna be with loving and caring people, who will always be there for me. I hate them who creates dramas in life, i hate fakeness.
Too much inside my mind but I just remain too quiet. Anger has been accumulated because of all these emotions and thinkings.
I don't know when my head will be cleared and I will be happy forever.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
Please take Staphysagria 200 twice a day for 3 days.
 
kadwa 7 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
I took Staph 200 for 3 days as per your advice. Its been quite a few days since my last dose.
My anger has not been subsided.
I feel so much bugged by my daughter now. I feel I am too much overwhelmed with the responsibilities I am taking. I yell at her more now a days. I feel, why doesn't she understand my problem, why doesn't she feel what I am doing for her.
I am so frustrated and irritated all the time. I don't talk nicely with people now a days. My friends want to stay away from me. I feel every little thing is a burden for me now. I am too much stressed out. My poor baby is wondering why mommy is yelling at her all the timenow. She was saying I was too good before. She yells back to me and doesn't listen to me at all. I know she is copying me in this regard. I feel so sad and bad about this but I am not able to control my extreme anger, i yell. I do not have any patience to play with her, or make her understand the things. I just yell. I am a bad mom now.

I feel irritated when people don't understand in the first place, what I am saying.
I feel so miserable now. My head is heavy and hot.
Please help me.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
Please help me. I am too tensed.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
I am still too much irritated and angrier. However the anger has been subsided by 5-10. % only.
Still too much frustrated. Feel so frustrated that I am not able to handle my daughter's tantrum, I am not able to control her. Infact she tries to control me. I hate it when someone tries to control me, bind me with some tasks, or command me to do something remanding me that i cannot escape from that.
I am too much irritated and my head is too tight and hot.
Nowadays, The anger frustration and irritation in in peak. I am behaving so rude to almost everybody. I talk rude. I hurt others' emotions and I feel like I don't care. I don't wanna help anybody as nobody helped me in my bad days. I am struggling by myself all alone with a small kid.
But I feel bad when someone goes away from me(even if it is because of my rude behavior). I was not like this before. I have changed a lot. A lot of negativity is filled in my head.
I am not happy at all. I must thank to every nice people who is tolerating all my hyperness and rudeness.

Please help me Dr Kadwa, I don't want to lose my well wishers. I don't wanna be hated by my daughter.
please please help me.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
Please take Ignatia 200 in evening for 7 days.
 
kadwa 7 years ago
Hello Dr Kadwa,
How are you doing ?

I took Ignatia 200 for 7 evenings as per your advice.
My anger lowered gradually/slowly. I am 30-40% less angrier now. But still I get irritated and am frustrated. I am not able to manage things properly. I am stressed out. I was so dizzy this morning. It was hard for me to handle pressure. I was feeling too much pressure inside my brain. My head was tightened and was burnig.
But I was better around 12 and after. I usually feel sick after I wake up till 5-6 hours.
My head is still burning (acid burn feeling), heavy. I have so much of negativity in my mind. So much anger in my mind. For all the struggle and pain, I blame my careless husband. I am like, why doesn't he come back and help me out ? What is he waiting for? Why isn't he desperate to meet his daughter? Why is he so careless and carefree ?
My main problem at the moment is I always rush for things, I always think I don't have enough time to finish things. I am always like "hurry up". My daughter is so annoyed because Of my hurry nature. I always reach somewhere way ahead of time as I don't wanna get late and panic at the last moment. I am always " oh no, time is running out and there is still so much to do" Hurry Up !!!

Please help me. My head is giving me problem because of too much tension. I fear of insanity. My head is heavy.
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago
Please Dr Kadwa, help me, i am too tensed, as I have to move out from this place and start a new life at my own apartment with my daughter. My daughter doesn't want to go as she is so attached to this house and people here. I can't stay here any more as these people already told me to move out soon. I am too tensed thinking about my daughter, my new environment and fear of not being able to manage things etc.
its been a while now I took the last dose of Ignatia.
Please help me i am not able to not sleep properly tonight. My head is too heavy and some kind of fear of not being able to accomplish things is inside.
Please help. I have been tensed since yesterday.

Thanking you,
 
for kadwa1 7 years ago

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