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Incredible fear and anxiety after sex

I had been dealing with severe clinical depression and seeing a homeopath for 4 years. My depression was also connected to my severe pms/pmdd symptoms, like extreme burning pain in my abdomen and swelling of legs snd feet, also incredible negative mood swings. Over 4 years many symptoms went away eventhough I didn't feel good or happy I just felt neutral about everything. Thinking I might be well enough, I tried to start a relationship and had sex for the first time. It has been a year now I get severe panick and anxiety every morning since then and the most incredible feeling of fear of everything. I wake up ever morning feeling great fear of everything, like everything is doomed. Also my brain tries to make it seem like I was violently raped or something to match the event with my emotions, when I was not raped or abused in any way my whole life. Is there any help for me?
 
  Quail Neer on 2017-08-09
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1. Age:
2. Sex:
3. Built up:obese/moderate/slim
4. Complexion: fair,dark
5. Occupation:
6. Single/married:
Children:
7. Country,state:
8. List out all your SYMPTOMS(NOT THE DIAGNOSIS OR DISEASE NAMES) with its “since how long,which part is affected,which side,what you feel during complaint etc”:in an order(which came first then which came next?
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a)Worsening factors for each complaint (eg:-by pressure,what time,heat,cold,season,food,eating,after
sleep,by sweat,,by stooping,after stool & urine,after bathing etc.?)
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b)When Its Better,for each complaint (eg: by pressure,what time,by heat, by cold, any season,any food, eating,after sleep,by sweat,after stool & urine ,after bathing etc.?)
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c) In your opinion, What is the expected cause for your problem?From injury,fall,cold exposure,sun exposure ,physical and mental exertion etc.?
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9. Mind:sensitive/angry/sad/weeping/fear of/anxiety/shy etc.,memory,desire company,grief,lewd etc.
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10. Thermal:which weather do you prefer hot or cold? Which one you can tolerate well?
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11. Do you have Frequent or occasional nausea,vomiting to any food,headache,mouth ulcer,,allergy sneezing,gas trouble,leucorrhea(white discharge-females) ,dandruff,hairfall etc.explain if any
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12. Stool:regular/quantity/frequent desire/satisfied/bleeding?
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13. Urine: regular/quantity/frequent desire/satisfied
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14. (For Females)Menses: regular?scanty or profuse?early or late?how many days?frequency of cycle?any complaints before or during menses( like pimples ,backache, white discharge, pain in abdomen,legs etc., irritability,constipation, diarrhea, nausea etc?)Your last two menses dates
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15. Sweat:profuse,scanty,offensive,stains
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16. Sleep:satisfied/disturbed?particular dreams?usual sleeping positon?
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17. Appetite: how often,quantity,satisfied?
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18. Thirst: how many glasses ?how often?
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19. Cravings:salt/sweet/sour /milk/egg/meat/veg/fruit/vinegar etc.
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20. Aversion: salt/sweet/sour /milk/egg/meat/veg/fruit/vinegar etc.
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21. Intolerant foods if any which might be your favorite or not.
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22. How is your sex life?no desire/premature ejaculation/no erection/painful sex?
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23. Do you have diabetes/BP/Cholestrol/thyroid(Hypo/Hyper) etc Done any surgey ?
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24. Do you have any skin complaints-itching, warts, rashes,moles discoloration etc.?
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25.Your skin type: oily or dry?
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26.Do you have any bad habits or addictions? coffee,masturbation, smoking,tobacco, alcohol etc.
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27.List out all medicines you have taken till now and its result after taking
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28.Any other things which you think it make you unique from others ..
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Please attach images of any relevant test reports if any

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drthoufeequebhms 6 years ago
1. Age: 29
2. Sex: female
3. Built up: moderate
4. Complexion: fair
5. Occupation: administrative clerk
6. Single/married: Single
Children: None
7. Country,state: Ontario, Canada
8. List out all your SYMPTOMS(NOT THE DIAGNOSIS OR DISEASE NAMES) with its “since how long,which part is affected,which side,what you feel during complaint etc”:in an order(which came first then which came next?
ANS: -Great Fear with nauseous feeling.
-Anxiety but no outward physical symptoms like shaking or sweating.
-Constriction in the throat and the head feels vivid, like I imagine one would if having a seizure.
- 2 weeks before menses, I feel stretchy pain in the abdomen and uterus area. with the pain I also feel complete depression or apathy in my mood.
-I have no energy, even though I feel fine physically, apart from weakness in head due to fear and anxiety.

a)Worsening factors for each complaint (eg:-by pressure,what time,heat,cold,season,food,eating,after
sleep,by sweat,,by stooping,after stool & urine,after bathing etc.?)
ANS: Fear and anxiety are the worst first thing in the morning.

b)When Its Better,for each complaint (eg: by pressure,what time,by heat, by cold, any season,any food, eating,after sleep,by sweat,after stool & urine ,after bathing etc.?)
ANS: the hormonal abdomen pain gets better when I poo or pee.

c) In your opinion, What is the expected cause for your problem?From injury,fall,cold exposure,sun exposure ,physical and mental exertion etc.?
ANS: It seems that I have a hidden psychological issue with a very sensitive disposition.


9. Mind:sensitive/angry/sad/weeping/fear of/anxiety/shy etc.,memory,desire company,grief,lewd etc.
ANS: I feel sensitive, alone, shy, and unable to cope but people always mistake me as outgoing.

10. Thermal:which weather do you prefer hot or cold? Which one you can tolerate well?
ANS: cool weather

11. Do you have Frequent or occasional nausea,vomiting to any food,headache,mouth ulcer,,allergy sneezing,gas trouble,leucorrhea(white discharge-females) ,dandruff,hairfall etc.explain if any
ANS: no.

12. Stool:regular/quantity/frequent desire/satisfied/bleeding?
ANS: regular stool usually, but a day or 2 delayed once the abdomen pain starts 2 weeks before.

13. Urine: regular/quantity/frequent desire/satisfied
ANS: Regular

14. (For Females)Menses: regular?scanty or profuse?early or late?how many days?frequency of cycle?any complaints before or during menses( like pimples ,backache, white discharge, pain in abdomen,legs etc., irritability,constipation, diarrhea, nausea etc?)Your last two menses dates
ANS: regular menses. last date July 23 and June 25.

15. Sweat:profuse,scanty,offensive,stains
ANS: Really little sweat but offensive smell.


16. Sleep:satisfied/disturbed?particular dreams?usual sleeping positon?
ANS: good sleep. regular dreams

17. Appetite: how often,quantity,satisfied?
ANS: regular 3 times a day. small portions but sometimes hard to eat breakfast depending on the feeling of fear n anxiety.

18. Thirst: how many glasses ?how often?
ANS: 2 glasses in morning and 2 more in the day

19. Cravings:salt/sweet/sour /milk/egg/meat/veg/fruit/vinegar etc.
ANS: no strong craving but i like to drink tea when feeling wired and like salt more than sugar.

20. Aversion: salt/sweet/sour /milk/egg/meat/veg/fruit/vinegar etc.
ANS: none

21. Intolerant foods if any which might be your favorite or not.
ANS: Food sensitivity to egg white, wheat, cow milk, peas, radish, plum, soybean, corn aloe vera, alga wakame

22. How is your sex life?no desire/premature ejaculation/no erection/painful sex?
ANS: na

23. Do you have diabetes/BP/Cholestrol/thyroid(Hypo/Hyper) etc Done any surgey ?
ANS: no

24. Do you have any skin complaints-itching, warts, rashes,moles discoloration etc.?
ANS: no

25.Your skin type: oily or dry?
ANS normal
26.Do you have any bad habits or addictions? coffee,masturbation, smoking,tobacco, alcohol etc.
ANS: no

27.List out all medicines you have taken till now and its result after taking
ANS: my homeopath has given me ignite, pulsatilla, calc carb in the past for mental symptoms that can cause uterus /abdomen pain. they have minimized my symptoms greatly over the years.
Recently I have taken Ambra G for adrenal Fatigued which worked.
Also for my fear symptoms I have taken Lachesis, Belladonna, Kali Phos, Aconite. they have helped as well but I still feel Fear anxiety and nausea as well as the abdomen pain 2 weeks before.



28.Any other things which you think it make you unique from others ..
ANS: not really

Please attach images of any relevant test reports if any
[Edited by Quail Neer on 2017-08-09 23:14:30]
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
can you describe more about hidden psychological issue?

i want to know the exact cause..why and how these mental troubles occured?
is there any past events which made you so?

desribe more to cure your problems completely and permanently

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[Edited by drthoufeequebhms on 2017-08-10 12:09:14]
 
drthoufeequebhms 6 years ago
I have 2 uncles with different kind of Schizophrenia on both sides of family.

I remember being fine or able to fight back any low moods till 23 years old and lead a normal life, but after that I started to feel stuck, lost, confused, depressed, and then anxious. I tried SSRis but felt they were only masking the main issue. I stoped taking the SSRIs and started to see a homeopath. It took about 2 years of working with the homeopath to remove all the mood and depressive symptoms and to see that the issue is that my mind is extremely sensitive to changes of sex hormones in the luteal phase or 2 weeks before period.

My mom is going thru menopause and she has the same symptoms as me. No trauma or bad event has ever happened to me apart from the general ups and down in life. It feels like my brain just won't translate my hormones positively.

At one point I use to feel severe burning pain in the lower abdomen which made me extremely fatigued for 30 days straight. but that has now come down to 15 days of the month.

I thought I had dealt with the bulk of the problem until I had sex, which was suppose to be a good thing as I was going to start a normal life with a partner. but the act brought up severe feelings of emotional trauma from the years of enduring the physical and emotional pain of the extreme PMS issues I had gone thru.

My emotional trauma comes from falling behind in life because of my illness, failures in career and education, family, and heartbreak. and all that now comes up every morning in the form of severe fear of everything.
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
In high school I use to love to travel, play sports, take part in social clubs, and use to love to dance. but for years now I have not wanted to do anything. I went from a very active and social person to someone who does nothing all day.
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
Observing
 
Zady101 6 years ago
I do not wish to interject but will like to share my views too. If you are okay it is fine. In case you can tell me also your problem very briefly I may also be able to help. tell me your age, sex, anything that happened to have caused this etc. We will go into more details if necessary.Address me by my name.
 
jawahar 6 years ago
TAKE PHOSPHORUS 200C 3PILLS OR ONE DROP IN HALF GLASS WATER ONLY ONCE FOR ONE DAY... NOT DAILY.

ALSO TAKE MAGNESIUM PHOS 6X 4TABLETS DISSOLVED IN HALF GLASS WARM WATER..WHEN YOU ARE IN PMS..FOR ALL PAINS..YOU CAN REPEAT THIS TILL PAIN SUBSIDES

ALSO TAKE 1 DROP EACH FROM FOLLOWING BACH FLOWER REMEDIES:- MIMULUS,ASPEN,STAR OF BETHLEHEM IN HALF GLASS WATER 4 TIMES DAILY

(GET HOLD OF SEPIA 200C,AND NATRUM MUR 200C FOR LATER USE.)



REPORT FEED BACK AFTER 1 WEEK

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drthoufeequebhms 6 years ago
If you need help later pls address to me by name.
 
jawahar 6 years ago
Hello Dr. Thoufeeque,

I took Phosphorus 200c one dose 2 days ago. And now take mag phos 6x in warm water once everyday (in pms).

I took all the back flower remedies today for the first time.

My question is that, are there suppose to be any aggravations after taking the bach remedies because I am feeling really warm and my whole head hurts?
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
U r aggravating. Don't take any med for sometime
 
Zady101 6 years ago
I feel that the aggravation only happens when I take the bach remedies and after 30 mins when I take mag phos 6x... i feel the these 2 remedies together r causing it ... is that possible?
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
It has been about a week so I wanted to report back.

I took phosphorus 200c and mag phos, as well as bach remedies but had to stop the bach remedies because of aggravation. I did notice a positive reaction the next day of taking the bach remedies so I will continue taking them after my menses. I actually have not felt the incredible fear upon waking in the morning for the past few days.

I got my menses 5 days early this month which I took as a good sign because usually the pain drags on and they start late but the cramps were excruciatingly severe and lasted the whole day with heart burn, something that I have not experienced before.

Emotionaly Iam very upset. I keep losing track of reality, if im watching a t.v show my feelings and emotions start to consider that as reality even if my mind knows that it is not my reality. I also have been crying alot thinking about my last breakup, it feels like it happened just yesterday, when it has been over a year. Im trying to live in a dream world to escape my emotional pain.
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
I do have Sepia and Nat Mur 200c.
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
I have started to take the Bach remedies again since yesterday and felt my incredible fear return. Its the second day today and the fear starts when I wake up and stays the whole day and every time I take a dose of Aspen, mimulus, and star of bethlehem I feel my fear and emotional trauma return. I don't know if this is a good sign but I will keep taking the remedies to see if this gets better.
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
It looks like no one is guiding you lately?

Dr thoufeeque has been timely in answering people-
Up to now.

Please scroll back, click his name and his email will show up- write to him to see if he is still going to respond to you on this forum.
 
simone717 6 years ago
Ok ... thank you Simone!
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
HELLO,,I AM SORRY FOR LATE REPLY


HAVE YOU TAKEN SEPIA AND NATRUM MUR? IF YES,WHAT WAS THE CHANGE AFTER TAKING IT?


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drthoufeequebhms 6 years ago
Hello Dr. Thoufeeque,

I have not yet taken sepia and nat mur because I was waiting for directions from you.

I took the Phosphorus dose about a week ago and because I was having PMS pain I took mag phos in warm water. But when I tried taking the Bach remedies I noticed my whole head started to hurt.

So I decided to start the Bach remedies just 2 days ago after my period started (one drop of aspen mimulus and star in water 4x) and noticed that my Fear symptom increased much much more and lasted the whole day instead of just morning. Today my body is hurting from feeling the Fear all day yesterday. Today I am also feeling sad, depressed, hopeless.
I have never taken bach remedies before so I dont know if this is a good sign or bad sign. Is it bringing out the Fear symptom to heal it or is this is a bad effect?

Some mental symptoms I have noticed, that I didn't have when I was well;
I have been feeling physically ugly, unclean even after a shower, or unpresentable for months which is making it difficult to leave the house. I get obsessed with researching my illness/medications/symptoms online, because it is the only thing that brings me peace of mind. I use to love going to work but I hate my job right now for no reason. I feel apathetic towards people I love the most. i use to love cleaning and organizing my room but I don't touch or do anything now.

Please let me know how long to keep taking the bach remedies and when to take sepia and natmur.


Thank you very much for your help!
[Edited by Quail Neer on 2017-08-27 22:44:10]
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
Dr. Thoufeeque... please reply soon.
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
TAKE SEPIA 200C 3PILLS OR ONE DROP IN HALF GLASS WATER ONLY ONCE ,NOT DAILY

ALSO TAKE BACH FLOWER REMEDIES:CHERRY PLUM AND ROCK ROSE 1DROP EACH IN HALF GLASS WATER THRICE DAILY

REPORT FEED BACK AFTER 10DAYS

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drthoufeequebhms 6 years ago
Dr. Thoufeeque.. thank you for replying.

I actually did take Sepia 200 one dose 5 days ago. And I am still taking the previous Bach remedies.

Since yesterday I have been feeling strong burning pain in the entire Uterus area (this is not Pms pain related pain) And there is great fear or terror with it. I feel like throwing up at the thought of anything emotionally upsetting. Feel like there is no way out of fear and doom, my head feels vivid like pain of fear, and back of the shoulders below neck keeps getting stiff.

Im very worried about this symptom its very strong. I wasn't sure if you were going to reply.

Please let me know what to do now!
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
TAKE ACONITE 200C 3PILLS OR ONE DROP ONCE NOW AND REPEAT IF NECESSARY IF FEAR RETURNS AFTER SINGLE DOSE


STOP ALL OTHER REMEDIES AND USE ONLY TWO BACH FLOWER REMEDIES:
CHERRYPLUM AND ROCK ROSE


REPORT FEED BACK AFTER 5 DAYS

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drthoufeequebhms 6 years ago
Thank you so so so much! I will do this right away!!!
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago
Dr. Thoufeeque,

It has been 5 days today... i have only been taking rockrose and cherry plum. That feeling of fear n terror has gone away completely as well as the burning pain around the uterus, even though I can still feel it from time to time. I have been feeling calm and am able to relax. Today when I woke up I didn't feel a panick attack or fear. But my energy and overall mood is still very low, i cant seem to do any mental work.

I also did a month long hormone test and the results are showing estrogen dominance and low progesterone. I have been recommended to make dietary changes. This could be the reason for feeling exaggerated fear emotion or the low moods.

Should i keep taking the bach remedies?
 
Quail Neer 6 years ago

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