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Self control and concentration

Respected sir ,
I am 25 years old male
I am experiencing this issue since 2 years. My issue is this that when I talk to any female my focus automatically shifts at her breasts and thats very embarrassing although I don't have any sexual desire. I use to think in mind that I will try to focus at her eyes but I fail to see sudden my control loses and I see at breast.Therefore I m afraid to talk with every ladies . I have been escaping every gathering because of this fear that maybe I see again. But in case if I go confidentially there at any gathering or relative house and stop myself from this and maintain eye contact . But regrettably I again fail and I see at her breast or neck. My life has spoiled completely because of this.
 
  Sam22 on 2018-05-15
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Is there any other problems beside this?

And what do you mean by "My life has spoiled completely because of this"?
 
Tui 3 years ago
"My life has spoiled completely because of this " means that I have cut off from my relatives and I m very disturbed because of this problem of looking at their breasts unwantedly . I can't see and talk to any lady. I can't maintain eye contact with any female more than 3 secs automatically my eyes fall at their breasts . And rarely in male case during conversation my eyes fall at their lips and thats very embarrassing.

Moreover, as for as sleep is concerned , I sleep well. Digestion is perfect . No headache , and I am the only child of my parents . I don't have any brother or sister. We are only 3 family members mom dad and I .
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Please take Argentum nitricum 1 M, once a day for 3 days and report back in 14 days.

1 dose is 2 pills or drops.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Ok sir thank you very much, forums like abchomeopathy are just like light for helpless and hopeless people . I feel very glad from your cooperation. I will start your recommended medicine and will let you know after 14 days.
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Very respected sir,
I have completed my 14 days period of time under observations and took remedy recommended by you ( Argentum Nitricum 1M ) as per your doses adviced. But sorry to say , it couldn't fix my problem . Again my eyes drop at breasts of women unwantedly. I can't maintain eye contact more than 3 secs . And in Male case my eyes drop at their lips despite nakinm eye contact for long. This is very embarrassing for me!
[Edited by Sam22 on 2018-05-29 15:53:00]
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Sam22 said Very respected sir,
I have completed my 14 days period of time under observations and took remedy recommended by you ( Argentum Nitricum 1M ) as per your doses adviced. But sorry to say , it couldn't fix my problem . Again my eyes drop at breasts of women unwantedly. I can't maintain eye contact more than 3 secs . And in Male case my eyes drop at their lips despite making eye contact for long. This is very embarrassing for me!
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Picric acid 200c, once a week for 4 weeks.

1 dose is 2 pills / drops.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Ok thanks sir !

Moreover I want to also add something in my case that it is all happening unwantedly . I have no any sexual need over any female to which my I m seeing. This is all uncontrollable. I am sexually very normal person .
 
Sam22 3 years ago
And should I stop taking Argentum Nitricum 1M ? Because I am going to start your prescribed remedy Picric acid 200c ?
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Yes, stop Arg-nit for now and start with picric acid.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Very respecter sir ,
My Case: I cant make eye contact with any female more than 5 seconds. My eyes automatically drop at their breasts unwantedly. I get fear while looking at women because I think in mind if I will see again my eyes will drop at their breasts and that really happpens , my sight goes on their breasts unwantedly and thats very disgraceful and shameful.therefore I skip public gatherings or family functions.
So now :

I am back after a month . I was under treatment in your guidance , supervision and prescribed remedies. Until now , you have given me 2 remedies for my problem and their results are somehow productive. Now I am giving their effects on me percentage wise
1. Argintum nitricum 1M (8 to 10% out of 100) took it for 3 weeks
2. Picric acid 200c (15 to 18% out of 100)took it for a month :once a week.As you suggested and completed doses today punctually.

So , recent situation is that I can somehow able to maintain eye contact but not for very long time . Later after sometime , eyes frop at their breasts. But this time situation is little bit controlled after taking your last remedy Picric acid 200c but fear is still existing in corner of mind and sometimes eyes drops despite making eye contact and fear shoots up. So kindly now glance over my issue and suggest. I am very thankful to your efforts made for mankind.
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Talk about this fear?

What are you afraid of?

Just write it down here whatever comes to your mind without thinking too much.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Nature of my fear is like this that I use to think in my mind that if I will see on the eyes for conversation with any female then surely eyes will drop at their breasts, then in last it happens after 5 seconds that happens.then i hesitate ,shiver inside after looking at their breast because its very embrassing. Moreover, when I commit with myself in heart that now this time I will successful maintain eye contact then I pressurely focus on the eyes of women but after bit period of time eyes drops at their breasts. Then fear triggers and I don't dare to see any women again. This is all happening unwantedly. Although I don't have any sexual desire. In male's case, my eyes drops at their lips, for whom i think in mind before meeting new person or special person ,that if I see on his lips then what will happen ? What will he think of me ? Then in last it happens , my eyes drop at his lips.In this way , I try to skip meeting my male friends, most of the time especially new ones(to whom I feel uneasy that eyes will surely drop ) . My confidence level drops and I hesitate and give answers to his questions while looking here and there despite looking at his eyes while answering . This same situation at female case. I look here and there while answering by avoiding her face and eye contact.
But there are some people in my social life with them I m very very comfortable and relaxly talk with them while looking at their eyes especially mom and dad and some limited childhood friends then there I maintain eye contact and thinking like looking at breasts or lips do not come in mind.
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Please take Medorrhinum 1M, once a week for 4 weeks and report back.

1 dose is 2 pills or drops.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Ok thanks sir!I m starting this form today and will report back.
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Respected sir,
I got Medorrhinum 1m of schwabe Germany . Now how should I take them direct 2 drops on tongue or add them on small amount of water then take . And at what time will you suggest to take ? With Empty stomach or full?
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Take it anytime.

1 dose is 2 drops directly on a tongue.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Hello sir ,
I am back after a month . I was under your treatment and guidance of my issue. I am under you treatment since 3 months . Last remedy which you adviced was Medorrhinum 1m. I took it with your doses suggested ( 2 drops a week) I took it for a month. My problem has not resolved 100 percent. In male's case , I come over 60 percent . Whereas in female's case it is stopped improving more than 40%. My problem is jumping betweem 30% to 40%.( suddenly my eyes drops at their breasts that all happens unwantedly).
So very respected sir kindly put some light over my this long issue and suggest me.
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Please take Kali bromatum 12c daily for 4 - 6 weeks and report back any changes.

Take it anytime. 1 dose is 2 pills or drops.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Ok sir sure ! I will contact you frequently . If I felt change.
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Hello sir , I searched a lot this remedy which you suggested Kali bromatum 12c in my city but I couldn't find. I am easily getting here in homeopathic stores of same remedy of 30c(Kali Bromatum 30c). So should I buy Kali bromatum in 30c? If yes kindly suggest doses of Kali bromatum 30c.If no then kindly advise me something different
 
Sam22 3 years ago
Yes, take 30c once daily.

1 dose is 2 pills or drops.
 
Tui 3 years ago
Hello sir , I have questions , as currently I m suffering from high uric acid so can I continue my Kali bromatum remedy suggested by you ? Will it not impact on my uric acid levels?
 
Sam22 3 years ago
The remedy does not affect your uric acid level.
 
Tui 3 years ago

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