Breastfeeding mom and baby weirdnessHello I am 34 year old female. My baby and I have been having some weird correlating game symptoms. I will do my best to list everything.
I am 34. 5’1. I weigh 103-105 lbs. It fluctuates. I was a sickly child. Allergies were my worst enemy. My head would stop up and copious amounts of green thick mucus would come out of my head. Strings of it. I would scream and cry from the head pain. It would also drain out my throat and cause me to develop pharyngitis. I had lots of antibiotics and am allergic to penicillin. I took Benadryl for years. My glands swell and my right one stays “puffy”. I was a shy child. Embarrassed easily. Perfectionist. Romantic feelings from a young age. Wanted everyone to like me and a people pleaser. Nose picker, and other OCD tendencies like picking skin of fingers and on left heel of foot, masturbation (without hands) scared of monsters. Scared of dentists. Very small I was 32 lbs in Kindergarten, and continued to be small until puberty. Period came around 13 and was regular. Used to have lot of cramping in teenage years. Was a secretive type for fear of disappointing those I love. When confronted heart would race, hands cold and clammy. I had a phobia of of driving and didn’t drive until age 28. I have always struggled with anxiety and bouts of depression. Was very pessimistic. Pregnant with first child many things changed. I changed my diet. Stopped eating lots of processed food. And reduced sugar. I became more outgoing, less drepressed, less anxiety. Skin picking had continued into adulthood and continued off and on. Stopped taking OTC meds. Didn’t get sick much except at age 29 had mild case of shingles left side. I have had 5 children now. Easy, quick births except my last was breech. I developed this weird crawling itching and numb sensation on right shoulder blade. Comes and goes sometimes for a long while. About two years ago I began having pain in my left and right sides into my back. Continued for 6 months and back then stayed for another year with just right side. Currently my left tonsil is somewhat swollen but not very painful. Mostly just a bit sore. Mostly in mornings. Sometimes it itches in that spot. I discovered tonsil stones. My mucus is thick and like egg whites. My right side of nose stuffs randomly and tip of nose will get cold. Sometimes it will run. But right nostril is smaller than left. This comes and goes. Cold air or getting up sometimes helps. Heat tends to worsen. My tongue on the right side feels a bit bigger and like it has a hair on it and cuts on the side. Underneath on right side it has a odd sensation like pepper. Sort of like throat. On the right of my neck and down to my thyroid I can feel “knots”. I also have a a fear of death and leaving my family. Fear of doctors. Nervous and can’t remember ailments when there. Throat sometimes on right side will feel cold. I also had a pain right below my ribs of the right side that would come and go with nausea. Sometimes no appetite. Usually at dinner. And evening time. I get agitated easily, and have been plagued with anxiety lately, specifically over death. When I get upset my throat burns and feels like a lump comes until I relax. I alternate between hot and chilly. Hands will be cold and feet cool despite socks on. Right hand colder than left. Feel like heat in face but cool to touch most of the time. Pulling in eyes when waking and going to bathroom, with Pulse increased. I had an epidural last March for my 5th child’s birth. Made my legs get super hot. Have been very hot since, sometimes having night sweats. July 2018 began to lose weight and lost 5 lbs after a terrible Mastitis infection. Right sided. Eyes even hurt. Head hurt excruciatingly. I have struggled with recurrent bouts of it since age 27. Lower teeth ache some and gum red a bit around tooth. Tooth broke partially after munching ice during 5th child labor. Hurts occasionally. No apparent infection. Petrified of dentists. Can’t make myself go. My tongue generally has a yellowish/white coating in back and little lines and indents towards the front half. Imprints of teeth on tongue. Grinds teeth at night. Drools if I lay on my side, particularly my right. Drool has a sour metallic smell. Have always suffered with sinus headaches.
My daughter, my 5th sweats a lot. Began 2.5-3 months. Her sweat smells a lot like my drool.She is a demanding baby. Angry a lot of times when I put her down alternating with lonesome cries. Will not take naps away from me. She is 10.5 months. Lay her down eyes fly open. Her moods alternate. When she nurses her head sweats on the side laying . Nose, forhead, sides and front top of hair soaked. Can see beads of sweat. Does not sweat during fever though. I find it so odd. She has blue eyes, brown hair. Fair skin. Had severe diaper rash . Cradle cap at month 2.5-5 months. Making milestones appropriate but isn’t much of a jabberer. She has said a few words like mama, uh oh, nana. But doesn’t say them often. Top front soft spot pulses quickly. Can see hair move if you stare. She isn’t chubby. 27 in long and about 15 lbs. she was 7.7 at birth. Gained well into month two but slowed a lot from them on. Month one and two gained two lbs. 90% breastfed and 10% table food currently. Likes most things. Loves ice cream. Has a piercing loud scream she uses often when upset. Likes to be carried and held. Her hair is unusual sometimes standing straight up down the middles other times lying almost flat. No matter of has or hasn’t had a bath. But hates baths and cries most of the time. Hates diaper changes.
I hope this is enough info. Please advise quickly. As my anxiety is high and fear death.
calimom on 2019-01-21
[Edited by Ibrahim3 on 2019-01-25 01:08:13]
♡ Ibrahim3 2 years ago
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