No emotions, Feelingless, Male Impotency Erectile dysfunction, Premature Ejaculations

Dear Dr,
I'm 31 Male, Doing job with Masters Study,
Height 5,8 Weight 70Kg Body Moderate.

I recently got married. Since my First Night I have no emotions,
no feelings. When I try to become close to my wife even after a lot of foreplay, there is no erection, no movement in penis.
I just feel emotionless, fellingless/cold. When I try to intercourse, just touching with genitals I face erectile dysfuction /premature ejaculation. I'm badly depressed.

There are some family issues, disturbed financial matters, supressed desires,anger causing severe depression for me meanwhile I got married.

another issue is I like/Love my classfellow involuntarily ,
she also likes me & it also has disturbed my mind, I try to get rid of her but still she's in my mind. I think of my wife mostly she is so good & polite lady
I try to focus on her but still I'm confused disturbed, depressed, & now facing this issue. My family is going through severe financial crisis & at the same time I got married due to our family committments. My Wife's family supported us in financial matters for marriage, & I feel ashamed of it that I was not able to purchase good gifts for my wife even I'got loan for simple marriage from my in-laws.

2 weeks before our marrige We got some hot discussion & my wife got angry with me after that I abused her in anger & she blocked me after that since our marriage day she didn't talked to me. I feel ashamed & guilt feelings. It also added up into my depression.

Severe guilt feelings, already facing Depression due to financial matters of our joint family,& Unconsicous Like/Love feelings for another girl my classfellow. Im much disturbed. Unable to do my marriage duties.

After We got married & started new life with good thoughts but Now I'm unable to do my marriage duties I'm depressed ashamed, & now facing this issue I mentioned above. Please Advise / guide me.
[Edited by student77 on 2023-03-03 13:13:17]