Bacterial Vaginosis Misery

I'm almost always cold. My feet and hands are always cold. Years ago, a nurse practitioner told me I have Raynaud's Phenomenon (or maybe it was the other Raynaud's--to my understanding there are two types or classifications of Raynaud's-- one has an underlying cause for the arteries constricting, like Lupus or diabetes, and the other one doesn't, it just happens.) Anyway, after some testing, we found that there is Not an underlying cause for me.
It can be 70 degrees outside and I'm cold.
As for other symptoms:
discharge--which has become very thick and sticky lately-usually whitish colored-there's not really
an odor.
itching--has developed recently-I think I've got a yeast infection from the last round of antibiotics-which made my awfully nauseous and dizzy, so I didn't finish them.
prickly feeling--very low in the vaginal area, feels like it's just barely inside me
redness of the outer area--there would be a little early on but would go away with the antibiotics then come back. After about 4 months I got really red and it's just stayed that way. Anything that comes out of me, discharge or creams or whatever(with the exception of urine), just plain hurt me. I think it just irritates whats alreadly irritated. I haven't found anything that helps. I've tried Vagisil, Desitin (for the zinc oxide), Resinol, Femmesil which has silver oxide. Nothing helps. Now I have a couple little bumps or blisters close to the opening. I've alreadly been tested for hepes and syphillus. Both were negative. So was the hepatitis, hiv, chlamydia, & gonorrehea. Twice. A funny thing happened: when I finished the boric acid suppositories, I was still very red and having a discharge. So after a couple days, I tried the Femmesil with the silver oxide for a couple days, even putting it inside. Nothing. It just made more discharge which made me hurt more. So I tried the Desitin. it sort of burned. Used it for a couple nights and decided to stop. The last time I used it was a Friday night. The following Sunday, I noticed I wasn't as red. Then came Monday, the day of my follow up visit with my Gyno. I was almost a normal pink! And I felt good. Doc said it was normal pink (it wasn't quite) and took a swab, but I had started my period that morning and she said that would make it hard to tell. When she came back from looking at it, she said it was gone.
WELL 2 DAYS LATER THE REDNESS WAS BACK. (I did not have sex in that time.) AND WITHIN A WEEK SO WAS THE DISCHARGE back!!!!!!!

I had been using a diaphram and spermicide for a couple of weeks when all this started. I immidiately stoped using them. I don't use any form of hormonal birth control. I had my tubes tied a couple months ago. Not that I've been able to have sex.

For the most part I'm a healthy person. Rarely getting sick. I don't seem to pick up all the things that go around like some people do.

Is there anyting else you need to know?

Oh, i almost forgot, I've tried the desitin again. No help. I've tried the silver oxide ointment again along with taking colloidal silver. No help there either. I've started taking Femdophilus . . . but I really don't know what I'm doing.