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Personality disorder treatment

Dear Sir/Madam,

I took an online personality disorder test and my results were as under:

Paranoid: Moderate
Schizoid: High
Schizotypal: Very high
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Low
Histrionic: Moderate
Narcissistic: Moderate
Avoidant: High
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive compulsive: High.

Is there remedy which could bring things back to a normal state?
 
  Rogintel on 2008-11-10
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
please describe your mental symptoms.
 
rishimba last decade
Thanks for replying Dr Rishimba.

Im basically a dreamer, and my mind tends to fantasize. I consider it good also in one sense, but on the other, it has its own negative aspects. For ex, in real situations, especially at work, demanding high morality and ethics, mind, at times, tends to fantasize, which is detrimental. Diverts attention.

And im also suffering from loss of short term memory.

I wish to correct these two things. In short, divertion of attention and memory.
 
Rogintel last decade
tell me.. what do you generally fantasize about..

what are the subjects of your day dreams.

can you give me some typical examples of your short term memory loss..

are you a hot or a cold person.

do you like company or want to stay aloof.

what ailments do you generally suffer from.
 
rishimba last decade
Hi Rishimba,

I am a Software Engineer, 35 male. It would be greate that you can help me to come out from below my disorders.

As same from online test of personality disorders i got below result -

Paranoid: Very High
Schizoid: Moderate
Schizotypal: High
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Moderate
Histrionic: Low
Narcissistic: High
Avoidant: Very High
Dependent: High
Obsessive-Compulsive: Low


and for your better understanding below are my symptomps -

What exactly happens?
Absent Mindness and Day dreamer:-
- I am very absent minded- Day dreamer personality.
- My mind has to struggle to keep it in presence.
- Very negative emotions and sensitivities.
- If I am trying to keep my mind in presence and think about the current things then will start to feel headache on back side and both sides above ears.
- Many times my mind is keep struggling in different thoughts and those are mainly with full of some frustrations. And that time suddenly I small whistle sound will start in my ears.
Uncontrolled anger: - In many cases its happening to me that I am becoming vey sensitive and start to show my anger emotions and arguments without thinking and finally people are starting to keep distance from me.
- In my angriness, I am forgetting where I am standing and who is watching me. Many times it’s happening that I can shout like anything and also start to use abuse words.
- I am not able to control my anger on my child too. On his small mistakes I will shout on him instead of guiding him in proper way.
Guilty and fear:-
- Most of cases I start to feel guilty in me and also a lot of fear. I will be not able to do any more arguments even I am right or I know the truth. Many times I can easily accept blames on me.
- I can not say “No” easily even if the work is difficult for me or I am not able to complete it.
Excessive shame and inferiority complex:-
- Many of my friends and family members are saying this that I am very shy person.
- Few are saying that you are shying like a girl.
Mental instability and escapism:-
- My mind is always in wavering condition to start or initiate any work.
- If I want to do some work or meet some important work then I always struggling how to start to what to say condition. Its true my mind will force me to avoid the work.
Laziness and dawdling:-
- Lot of thinking laziness for any work or things in which I need to occupy my mind.
- Will take a lot of time to complete any tasks from mind. Even my reading is also very slow.
- Lot of laziness and chronic lateness


When does it happen?
- If I need to think about some complex tasks of then my mind to struggle and try to avoid thinking. It’s like I am always feeling very lazy to think about anything and instead of that my mind start to dream about it or other imagination.
- If I am attending ant meeting then my mind will fall in other dream and imaginations.
- If I am doing any work in office and if have to give extra efforts with my mind to complete some complex tasks.
- If I am in any social gathering then will keep myself isolated and my mind will be engaged in unwanted thoughts or sexual thoughts.
- Due to my mind laziness I have poor academic records even my teachers were saying I am able to score good. While I was doing my study then many times its happened that I passed whole night in lot of other imaginations and without reading single page in my book.
- While from my age 0f 17 or 18 I have seen that when on exam day I was trying hard to remember things and my mind forcing me for other sexual thoughts. I keep to do masturbating for more than 6-7 times before go for exam.
- It’s always happening to me that people can convince me for anything. My impression in my family is that I am not able to take any leadership or not able to say my words in proper way. I don’t have nay guts to say anything or to do anything.
- When I have to do or start preparation for any important exam or test or interview then my mind start to imagine the success and other sexual thoughts.
- When anything happening which is not in my mind then it will frustrate me easily and also makes me very sad or anger.
- Many times it will happen to me that I will start to speak and will start to stammering too.

What makes it worse?
- If I want to start or think about particular tasks socially or professionally.
- If I have to do some communications professionally or socially.
- If I am going to engage in some social gathering.
- If any small argument happening and if I got anything negative comments then my mind will easily distract and I will become anger or sad easily.
- Any small things make me frustrate easily and also give me lot of fear.


What makes it better?
- If my mind starting dreaming, imagination about tasks…
- If I will start to imagination about sex and sex talk with anyone.
- If someone is taking my task or helping me to the complete tasks.

When did it start (what was happening in your life at the time)?
- Since long I am suffering with these disorders from my study level. We can say it is genetic behavior. MY father was also suffering with same disorders which I am realizing now.

Does anything trigger it?
- I am very sensitive and anything making me very negative and instantly in dreaming the things.
- In any conversation I am becoming negative easily and sometime even very abusing and high temper with others.
- Any little difficult or complex tasks.
- If I want to go for any conversation in meeting or socially or with senior persons.
- If any social gathering happenings then I will try to keep distance and my mind will be engaged in some kind of dreaming.
- I always feel easy in dreaming the things instead of achieve it physically or personally.

What symptoms occur just before it, at the same time, or immediately after? - These are known as 'modalities' - things that modify and characterize the symptom, and are necessary to be able to choose a medicine.
- I simply say my mind is always engaged in sum kind of thoughts and imagination of new achievements, current situations or sexual.
- If I am doing some work or tasks then I have to struggle to keep myself in presence, IF I will force my mind then will suffer from headache.
- A lot of pressure is required to keep myself in presence and complete or organizing things. I am very unorganized personas as saying by my colleagues and family members.
- If many times in very small mater I am easily becoming very angry and start to shout without thinking about what I am speaking or where I am standing. Even these things happenings when I am dealing with my kids too. Then later on after some times or days I will realize that I did wrong.


Hope this will help you to diagnose my mental health and give your best solutions for me.
Also, hope any medicine will not make me addictive with it and not even any side effects.


I have already asked such question and also got good response and suggestions for medicines from other doctors but still need more guidance.

Thanks,
Neelarc.
 
Neelarc last decade

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