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Dr. Sameer, please help my older daughter too

She is almost 6 years old.
-shy, not able to make friends at school where she has been going from last 2 years. At home she is fine if only 1 friend is invited, if more than one, she gets side tracked, and gets very frustrated, and keeps talking in mad tone to me.
- She plays with her best friend only if she is playing only with her. She can laugh with other friends by doing some silly stuff, making silly sounds but won't use much words.
-frustrated mostly, and puff's a lot when feeling frustrated.
- very hard to make her happy, if I can it doesn't last very long.
- good at math and reading, likes to challange herself, but doesn't like to sit for homework
- doesn't like to trace, or color within boundaries, she would rather draw/write on her own, does very good in that.
-when asked about her day at school, or any classes like swimming, dance - mostly one answer 'I forgot'
-not enough energy to hold pencil/spoon/toothbrush, things fall a lot from her hands
-negative thoughts, if she likes some toy and doesn't want to share, she asks me to keep it up high, she fears that it will get lost, or her sister or friends will not give it back to her if she shares.
-unable to sit properly on a chair, either keep pushing the chair, or stand, or lie, or just run around
-doesn't eat well, I still ahve to feed her, and keep calling her or telling her for almost every other bite.
- whenever we go out, within few minutes she starts saying I want to go back home, even on kids places, play areas, stores, nice scenic areas, just anywhere.
- very good at school in following instructions and rules, but not at home, doesn't follow the instructions unless warning given, even after warning instaed of taking it seriously, she starts laughing non-stop. I don't know if its me or her but I find it very annoying.
-no tolerance, weather is too cold or too hot for her, same with food, always complaining.
- very forgetful, like i can't find my eraser (she used it just a minute ago), can hardly remember where she put her shoes etc.. all her stuff very impatient & irritable to look around to find things
- can be easily bullied by other kids
-picks nose a lot
- slowest in her class, e.g when making a line for any activity, she will always be last in line, some kids even will go before her in line and she won't even tell them that she is in line, she will just move back quietly
-- plays with only 1-2 good friends, always complains that nobody was being nice to me, and they didn't let me play with them, she says i asked them nicely if she can join them but they always say no to me, but if some other girls comes and ask they say yes to her. During free play, she sticks more to her teacher instead of playing with kids.
- doesn't talk to her teacher in detail, if asked how was her weekend, her answer would be one word 'good'. No details about where she went etc. , if asked next question, what did you do - her next answer - 'I forgot'.
- she would like to sit quietly, and do her drawing, cutting, math & reading. she is compartively good at reading . gets frustrated when unable to do it.
- if i show her something while going on road, she would yell 'i saw that already', or 'i know that already'
- can't choose her own clothes to wear, unable to make decision. She says you pick it for me.
- her favorite word is 'underwear', she keeps saying that word to her younger sister & then keep laughing over it. She uses other bathroom words a lot too, like poopy, pee etc..
- fears thunderstorm, fear of people, blushes in crowd, or when out of home, she clings to me, makes new friends if its only one there, if there are 2 then she feels left-out.

Let me know if you ahve more questions.
Thanks a lot for your time.

Pooja
 
  to_be_cured on 2009-10-07
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Dear Dr. Sameer,

I forgot to mention about her stools, and passes small balls. She doesn't go everyday, and goes randomly like 4-5 times a week, no fix time or days.

Thanks.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Can you think of a reason as to why this happens 'At home she is fine if only 1 friend is invited, if more than one, she gets side tracked, ' ?

'She can laugh with other friends by doing some silly stuff, making silly sounds but won't use much words. '

What does she do here ? Mimicry ? Which sounds , sounds of animals ? What does she do ? Does silly things to make others laugh ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Thanks Sameer once again!!

>>Can you think of a reason as to why this happens 'At home she is fine if only 1 friend is invited, if more than one, she gets side tracked, ' ?

- e.g. if there are 3 girls, the other 2 will be more talkative and responsive, and will talk more sensibly. My daughter can not participate in a proper conversation. She stays quite, doesn't say many words, feels frustarted after a while and leaves the group. She tries in the beginning, manages for almost an hour, but i feel bad for her seeing that others don't seem to enjoy her company that much. She is nice to others, doesn't say anything to hurt them, and mostly shares all her stuff.


>>'She can laugh with other friends by doing some silly stuff, making silly sounds but won't use much words. '
What does she do here ? Mimicry ? Which sounds , sounds of animals ? What does she do ? Does silly things to make others laugh ?
- - mostly mimicry, she will just pick one word from some one's conversation, and say that in a funny tone, or she might say it another rhyming word with it, or sometimes just pick one new hindi word out of our conversations, or start using words like underpants, underwear etc.
She does that to make others laugh.

she cries a lot too, like if playing with her sister, if younger sister is not following rules and messing up the game, she will start crying instead of trying to explain the rules. On every little thing, if on bedtime if i say it got late today, so we have no time left for story. Instaed of asking me again, she will start crying.

Thanks again for your time.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Hi Pooja,

Please give her 3 doses of HYOSCYAMUS 6c equally spaced by 40 minutes.

1 pellet is to be in 250 ml, and 1 teaspoon from there is 1 dose.

Report in 5 days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Thanks Dr. Sameer. The local pharmacy didn't have this remedy, but they have taken my order and most likely will have it in a week. I'll give it to her once I have it.

Thanks again.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Dear Dr. Sameer,

I had given HYOSCYAMUS 6c to my daughter on oct 23rd, 9 days ago.
Mostly she has been sleeping in bed when she goes, earlier that used to be very tough, she used to come out every 5 mins.
She is making a weird sound almost all day, its like join your lips tight, and then do a loud poooo... sound, and sometimes she says it sounds like somebody farted.
She has been blowing bubbles with her spit a lot.
To her little sister, she has been bothering a lot by not sharing things, snatching things, calling her 'stupid' every time.
2-3 days she was sitting nicely and had her dinner herself.
Let me know if you have any questions.

Thanks
Pooja
With other people she is still not talking much.
 
to_be_cured last decade
Hi Pooja,

You can give her a single dose of HYOSCYAMUS 30c, dissolve 2 pellets in 250 ml spring water, and give her a teaspoon from there.

Report in 1 week.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Dr. Sameer,

I had given HYOSCYAMUS 30c last saturday, and here's the update after a week...

She is very quiet, with almost always one of her finger in her mouth. She is eating very few bites during whole day at school. Today in one of the activities she got hit by one girl's feet on her face. She stood there quietly, just didn't say anything. She moves very slowly when other kids are around her. When teacher calls all, she would just stand/sit almost at the end. She would let the other kids just pass her.
She has not been using the words 'underwear' much anymore. She is also not doing mimickery any more, and not laughing like before for no silly reason. Like when I tell her something seriously she would start laughing, that's not the case anymore. She has been telling me things in details that she likes to do at school.

When I tell her to eat her dinner, and she doesn't want to, she starts calling herself bad, says - I am bad, I know I am so bad, no body likes me... non-stop she would say that. In the morning she still complains about her tummy ache. After finishing milk she keeps burping as if she has nausea, and would almost vomit, but thankfully she doesn't vomit.
She doesn't have any friends at school, and she doesn't even try to make one. If somebody comes to play with her, she would just play quietly, and answers in one words.
She talks to her best friend a lot but only if she is the only one with her.
This week she had fever, and bad cough. I had given her motrin, and for cough I gave Boiron Chestal Honey.

Let me know if you have questions.

Thanks.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Who told you to give chestal honey ?

It is a homeopathic combination and will totally interfere with treatment. If some situation comes up, you have to talk to me and not start self prescribing and that too with combination homeopathic remedies.

The remedy must have brought out complaints to physical levels, and it needed to be tackled/waited out in the right way. This is particularly important as her mental symptoms started to improve during this period.

In future, please do not give any HOMEOPATHIC remedy without talking to me. In urgent situations you can use allopathy if needed.

Please procure Hyoscyamus 200c.

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Dr. Sameer,

I had doubts about interfering the homeopathy remedy, but her cough was so bad. Her cough and fever had started a day before I gave her Hyoscyamus30.
Would you suggest me to repeat 30c potency, or should I place an order for 200c? It takes 2 weeks for the pharmacy to get the order for me.

Thanks
Pooja.
 
to_be_cured last decade
Get 200c please. Order online, you should get it in 1 week.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
Here's the one week update after giving her Hyoscyamus200C.
Good changes -
She doesn't puff in anger or frustration anymore. she is not frustrated like before most of the times.
She is also not doing mimickery any more.
She is also not laughing anymore when I talk to her seriously.
Doing very good with reading books, and coloring.
She has been telling about her day in nice details, very rarely i get to hear 'I forgot' now.
No more complains of 'too hot' or 'too cold'.
Not using bathroom words anymore, and also not using words like underwear, underpants etc...

Concers -
Nose picking very little than before.
hitting her sister if she doesn't listen to her.
doesn't like to watch movies, gets very scared if something unpleasent is shown. Likes to see only normal looking stuff.
She has been talking a lot more to me, but if I miss to listen to her and ask her again what did you say that makes her frustrated, and also when younger sister doesn't do what she says, then she kicks her, or pinches her. If I tell her not to do it she starts saying that I(herself) am bad, I am bad.. yeah.. I know I am bad.
Has no interest in food. Whole day eating very little, 1-2 bites of lunch, 1-2 bites during snack. I feed dinner to her. Still doesn't like to sit for food.
If she has to talk in front of others, the answer will be very precise with left hand 1-2 fingers in her mouth.
she said she is afraid to talk to others. She doesn't talk to anybody in school.
It takes a lot of encouragement to make her try new stuff, and also to take to parties. For parties she says there will be many new people there that I don't know.
If her best friend is also there in party or weekend classes she is not talking to her also in front of others, but keeps touching her, like tickling her. Her best friend talks just non-stop anywhere to anybody. Like if someone asks both of them what they did for thanksgiving, her friend will tell her story, and then she will tell my daughter's story too. My daughter will just stand there with a finger in her mouth.

Thanks.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Excellent mental changes.

Please wait for 10 more days and report back.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer

She was mostly driven by my bad behavior last few days. I tried my best to control but couldn't do it when kids don't do the routine things at time. She wouldn't sit for food properly anytime, wouldn't brush her teeth until I yell at her.
Gets clingy to friends instead of talking to them. She will keep hugging her friends, climb over them, climb over my friends (aunts and uncles). She does it to such extent that I can see people are being annoyed.
She is again getting frustrated easily.
She says bad for everything, to people, and to us, to food, to their friends' things. If I tell her that its not the right thing to do, she says I am not telling the truth. From last one month she used to say 'I love you' a lot to me, but now she says I hate you but that's not true. I always tell her that I like her art work/ drawing etc... but she would reply that I know you don't like it, you hate it, I am so bad at it.

Regards,
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Hi Pooja,

Give her a single dose of LACHESIS 30, and report back after 1 week.

For the dose, dissolve 2 pellets or 2 drops in 250 ml spring water, and give a spoon.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

update after a week of Lachesis -

She is not clingy to everyone like before.
Everyone and everything around her is still bad, and 'stupid' is her favorite word to say for almost everything.
First 3 days I heard her again using bathroom words a little bit, and again jumping up-down on couch. She was also frustrated quickly, and was crying on every little thing, but that became fine after 3-4 days.
There has been improvement in her diet. Tomorrow her school opens again, I hope it continues the same way. Her stools have been big and hard, and won't flush.

Thanks & Regards,
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
She has also been saying some meaning less words, like if I ask what do you want for dinner, or what do you want to play, her first answer would be some meaningless like 'kuchitachapata'. I think she starts doing it more when I start teaching more Hindi to her.
 
to_be_cured last decade
Please wait for 1 more week.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,
few more things to add-
she got a crack on her middle toe of right foot, its on the bottom of the toe at the skin fold. She never had this before.
While talking she is rolling her eyes in weird ways, as if looking at her nose.
Today evening after school, she has been thrwoing pillows, blankets, balls etc.. on everyone in the family, and laughing when we told her not to do that.

Do you still think I should wait one more week?
I feel Lachesis isn't the right choice for her, and we should move on to something else.

Please share your opinion.
Thanks as always.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Please wait for 2-3 days. I am travelling.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

Do you have time to analyse this again?
She has been calling everything, and everyone at home, bad, stupid, gross etc...
At school she is very nice with her teacher and friends, but at home she is complete opposite.
She is hitting her sister if she doesn't do what she says.
She wants to be perfect in all the things she does, like drawing, reading, writing. She doesn't like to make mistakes.
She has been jumping around on sofa/bed. She also doesn't listen and do anything in time. She doesn't respond when told nicely, only when I start yelling, and then she starts calling me all the bad words.

Thanks.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
Please give her a single dose of HYOSCYAMUS 1M and report after 10 days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

Do we get 1m potencies in stores or do I need to order it online? I have never bought 1M before. Does it also come in pellets or will it be in liquid?
Do I need to make single does in water again?

Thanks
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
I meant 'single dose' in water.
I checked online it is avilable only in pellets.
Is there any other remedy I can order online for future use to save for shipping?
May be Pulsatilla 1M, and Thuja 200C.
I would appreciate your suggestions.

Thanks.
Pooja
 
to_be_cured last decade
You can order Hyos 1M, Thuja 200c and Puls 1M, all in pellets.

Yes, single dose in water for 1M.
 
sameervermani last decade

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